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No 8 is so on point

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

When your village pepo want you to remain single, they can come as friends to advice you.

You for talk say make them marry Jesus or Buddha

No man on earth can do all you have said, no body is perfect. My advice to men and women is marry the imperfect man/ woman you can live with.

I rest my case

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

Can we call a Marriage that end up in Divorce, 'settling'?

How many ladies are matured enough to stay married for a long time??

Imperfect girs looking for perfect guys..

Scam

11, Make sure you wait for second coming of Jesus

asatemple:
permit me to say, marriage have no format. In any one you find your self, just try and adapt and put in your best

a real lady.

Sha na people write this thing. And it was not given by God

Dupalmer:
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.

Is it the ex's that are been use by the younger damsels,joining them to their chains of boy friends

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow.
And our mothers times is today times ba.

Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

Which lady takes the greater loss,ogbeni when you marry don't join hand and build your home.be claiming alpha male .and see where it will end you.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

Stop deceiving your self,remarrying numerous times is far worst for a man,do you think the kids will bond with you or their mum,especially a man with such a record,don't end up lonely at 60 cause of cheap ego.

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.

Leave the ladies alone and work on your character,they are informed.

Arsenate:
Nairaland guys sure do rile you up. They are doing one thing right at least

And she is equal to the task.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

that is why you have dated closed to 20 guys, and you are still single .

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

All this talk is banza when you factor in the reality of life as experienced my many married women..that people change from awesome loving angel to unrepentant demon and something else due to see finish and other factors...Remember that.
Go to Joro page on Ig and see tales of married women lamenting how what I have said is true.

phr0nesis:
So what made you leave them

cool quote.

Dupalmer:
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.

Gbamsolutely

Una don start again

You keep misleading innocent ladies

Getting married no be beans. It requires commitment.

Pussywar:
Yes. Men rape women, abuse women, harass women and beg women to leave their lovers to be with them, yet women are their greatest enemies when they look out for each other. You father did a great job in raising you

Women betray each other hanty incase u don't know....I've had conversations with women..
Yes men rape women nd d rest as u mentioned above.
But truth be said...women are also rapists, harassers, there are women hu sometimes beg men to leave their wives, some others force themselves.
D only reason men don't mention it is because of pride and some men love sex extremely and at such dey won't talk about it.
U women always seek pity if not you'll not b showing all emotions.
Let me stop here...mind u I don't hate every aspect of feminism.

You wrote trash. Most times I don’t understand who your mentors are. Some use their marital misunderstandings as a yardstick for all to take. If you are not ready to be guided by your head, you can’t be a queen. Less settler. I wonder how such gained front page if not because of the traffic that it would generate through adverts.

donbachi:
She should make sure,to understand sey,no be everytime money dey dey with man....and also make sure to hold her rubberband mouth,2 of dem no be mate.

lmao!

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

Continue to date and count

Geminita1:
African men are embarrassing. While their mates are gaining grounds in science and technology, all they do is blame the govt and blame us. They never take responsibility for anything. I shudder at the thought of marrying one,bunch of sad misogynists, tueh.

Bla bla bla

What stops you African women from gaining grounds in technology? You're educated just like the males so what is your excuse?

Keep shuddering at the thought of settling with an African, it's not like men of high value from other races are queueing to wife you up.

You have never said anything if you failed to let her know that her marriage partner is also a destiny helper to the heavenly race. Or is that one not a factor to consider?

Remember your spouse must not be the one to stop you from entering into the kingdom of GOD.

Dear LADY, Make sure you settle for a GOD FEARING MAN.

Na my own be dat

pansophist:
Lol, but Jesus no get money na, he is not man-enough

Jesus get evri evri

PrinxArthur1:
Gerarahia with Una unrealistic ideals.......mtchew

Feminist walking upandan

First of all, shey nah ladies dey marry? Wen the man is ready he wld put the ring...if u like date him for 10 yrs wen he is ready den u marry..all this make sure make sure...

simplepee:
Make sure you settle for a man who doesn't cum in 20 seconds----very important something.


Make sure you settle for a man who is not always broke-----‐It's 'importanter'.

Don't settle for a man who will calculate and drag change with you for the money he gave for pot of soup.

Don't settle for a man who will be asking for his share from the money they gifted you.

Most importantly, don't settle down with a lazy Nigerian youth or a yahoo boy.

And pleeeeaaasse make sure you settle for a MAN not a BOY...

Question is, do you deserve such a man?
Are you prepared for such a man?
Can you manage the finances of such a man?
Can you add to his wealth or just drill a hole in it?
Can you build with him?
If you can build, what skill do you have apart from sex?
Do you even have a soul to love him with?

If you do, then, you can have the guts to ask for such a perfect man. Else, make perfect the man that you'll get with your imperfect self.

Nobody holy pass.

Xavfra:
Women betray each other hanty incase u don't know....I've had conversations with women..
Yes men rape women nd d rest as u mentioned above.
But truth be said...women are also rapists, harassers, there are women hu sometimes beg men to leave their wives, some others force themselves.
D only reason men don't mention it is because of pride and some men love sex extremely and at such dey won't talk about it.
U women always seek pity if not you'll not b showing all emotions.
Let me stop here...mind u I don't hate every aspect of feminism.

You're so dumb, you don't realise it. So its men who don't betray each other? And in which world is betrayal worst that rape? And you want to compare the number of men that rape/ harass to the number of women who do same?? Mind you I don't give a fok whether you like feminism or not. The fok

Geminita1:
African men are embarrassing. While their mates are gaining grounds in science and technology, all they do is blame the govt and blame us. They never take responsibility for anything. I shudder at the thought of marrying one,bunch of sad misogynists, tueh.

Feminists, you have no need for a man. Feminists are low-key lesbians.
Just go and get yourself a perfect woman and date if men disgusts you so much.

If you see God now, you go dey run. And you're claiming perfect.

Nonsense and feminists.

May we never end up with a feminist.
I'll treat my woman right to the best of my abilities.
But may we never treat a feminist right. They deserve the worst.

Geminita1:
African men are embarrassing. While their mates are gaining grounds in science and technology, all they do is blame the govt and blame us. They never take responsibility for anything. I shudder at the thought of marrying one,bunch of sad misogynists, tueh.

Africa women too general lemme b specific Nigerian women are embarrassing too similar lemme use pathetic. While their mates are gaining grounds in science and technology, business, politics, I.T e.t.c all they do is dress up, make up and slay up...oloshos. I shudder at the thought of marrying one,bunch of sad, bitter, bloody hoes... This one is better nw correct urs..

Pussywar:
You're so dumb, you don't realise it. So its men who don't betray each other? And in which world is betrayal worst that rape? And you want to compare the number of men that rape/ harass to the number of women who do same?? Mind you I don't give a fok whether you like feminism or not. The fok

Madam, don't be so bitter. This guy is not a rapist so don't talk to him like one.
You don't have respect self.

So because some useless men rape women, every man you see now is a rapist?

Aren't you like a psychopath? Who kills men because a man raped her.

I'll advise you to seek help. I don't know who hurt you but you're bleeped up if you think other men who are not rapist will pay for the sin of a rapist.

No law supports your madness.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

And u didn't end up with any of them?

simplepee:
Make sure you settle for a man who doesn't cum in 20 seconds----very important something.


Make sure you settle for a man who is not always broke-----‐It's 'importanter'.

Don't settle for a man who will calculate and drag change with you for the money he gave for pot of soup.

Don't settle for a man who will be asking for his share from the money they gifted you.

Most importantly, don't settle down with a lazy Nigerian youth or a yahoo boy.

And pleeeeaaasse make sure you settle for a MAN not a BOY...

Go and create your own man...this one matter na money...money kee you there

Lonelyloner:
Madam, don't be so bitter. This guy is not a rapist so don't talk to him like one.
You don't have respect self.

So because some useless men rape women, every man you see now is a rapist?

Aren't you like a psychopath? Who kills men because a man raped her.

I'll advise you to seek help. I don't know who hurt you but you're bleeped up if you think other men who are not rapist will pay for the sin of a rapist.

No law supports your madness.

I wasn't talking to you, slowpoke. You made no sense. Idiot

wany:
Leave the ladies alone and work on your character,they are informed.

It's you and the other ladies that have serious work to do on your attitude and character. It's a man's world. Men have nothing. Absolutely nothing to lose. One girl leaves a younger and finer one comes in.