Ardar:


Are you a female or a male?

I've noticed that in every male vs female thread you keep on licking the azzez of men why?

When you have the capacity to engage intelliently, quote me.

If boring gist makes you sound unintelligent that you result in typing k like someone who has K-leg, it is on you and not the guy.

Worse case if he is so boring, stop chatting with him.

EOD

Na na na...I'm not going anywhere. You do the running along shrimp

Ardar:


You are so predictable run along kid

bukatyne:


When you have the capacity to engage intelliently, quote me.

If boring gist makes you sound unintelligent that you result in typing k like someone who has K-leg, it is on you and not the guy.

Worse case if he is so boring, stop chatting with him.

EOD

This one is saying something else.

*Signs* Aunty pls goan sleep, it's night.

realokopi:
Na na na...I'm not going anywhere. You do the running along shrimp

Ok, then come back and continue being a clown

This girl you will do great to be displayed in a circuit. I strongly believe that cos you're obviously the biggest clown here. . Don't put your talent to waste.

Ardar:


Ok, then come back and continue being a clown

Alot of hate in here and everywhere.. nairaland a place to lay down ur frustration. U guys are cursing way too much and it's becoming childish

AfroKnight:
Bro, once a girl starts to chat with you like she’s doing you a favour, just pull the damn plug. You should not be involved with entitled dumbass girls like this one.

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They go about with an air of self importance, and that attracts you cos they appear confident and men find that attractive, but they are really just shiny baubles. When you scratch the surface, you’d discover the unimpressive core.

What’s worse, they defend this shît, thinking the classy women they hope to emulate are unintelligent bores too. They couldn’t be any further from the truth. They want us to accept them with their bullshît, saying it’s reality. Thats just simplistic nonsense.

It’s a let down, but some guys need to wade through tons of garbage to get to gold.

Don’t settle for less man. Cheers.

You no dey gree

All i just see here's ignorance, either ways blame both parties.

Don't believe every shit you read online cause that shit will give you anxiety ^{you could cook a mans dinner with electricity, and you can also cook the man with the same electricity} information is good, but then learn not to comprehend all.

too much relationship complaints nowadays and it's from the so called men, the truth is complaining never solved any problem it only makes things worst.

I'm a guy in a beautiful relationship, we fight, we misunderstand, miscommunicate sometimes but then we grow, we learn, we love.

y'all Guys need to grow up.

i won't be surprise if guys here get married, and start creating thread about how they should handle their kids or maybe complaining about their attitude too.

too much noise in this section, i hate that i read them so much honestly.

kecee99:
If you truly claim to like women, You should not see them as sex objects whom you can easily maneuver for your own satisfaction and pleasure. That aren't like but an avid lust.

...Bro was wrong with u ? U don't like sexx with women? U have sexx wit objects? How long u been gay for & wot hàppen to u?

AfroKnight:
Bro, once a girl starts to chat with you like she’s doing you a favour, just pull the damn plug. You should not be involved with entitled dumbass girls like this one.

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They go about with an air of self importance, and that attracts you cos they appear confident and men find that attractive, but they are really just shiny baubles. When you scratch the surface, you’d discover the unimpressive core.

What’s worse, they defend this shît, thinking the classy women they hope to emulate are unintelligent bores too. They couldn’t be any further from the truth. They want us to accept them with their bullshît, saying it’s reality. Thats just simplistic nonsense.

It’s a let down, but some guys need to wade through tons of garbage to get to gold.

Don’t settle for less man. Cheers.

Bitter man. You must have been ignored a lot. Try not chatting like a dumb Bleep. Or at least chat with someone who's into you. Cheers.

bukatyne:


What happened to you bringing interesting topics?

If you keep starting interesting topics, the guy would naturally up his ante and be mentally prepared when chatting with you.

My dear, I have brought up so many interesting topics, To be honest it's dead on arrival. The only good thing after that is ok ok ok and every other thing will go To the cold room. Am a victim my sis. The only thing that will ginger her is when she see credit alart. That's when she'll start asking questions

Ardar:


Are you a female or a male?

I've noticed that in every male vs female thread you keep on licking the azzez of men why?

Lmfao. You're supposed to know when its a nigga behind the account. How else will they get attention or make women look stupid with their nonsense opinions?

passionate87:
Lol!!!!I can't stop laughing, truely 90% of Naija gals are very dumb,sorry to say but they are, and they can't strike a convo.Recently,I took over a chat convo one of my guy was having with a lady and the convo suddenly changed because i applied funny and sensual chatting techniques.I just wanted to show him that his chatting techniques was quite boring.guy leave it or take it ilegend get the Koko gals response change when ur chatting is interesting.I have hang my dating boots and deleted my chats.I would have showed you that even with the so called spirikoko,their responses can be striking.

With the wrong use of punctuations, wrong spellings and all, you sound like those; "your eyes is like the morning stars, let's meet" kinda niggas. You're over hyping yourself. First check if the girl was interested in your friend before you dey prove nonsense. If 90% of girls are dumb, all of you need to get your brains checked. Awon scientists. 90%. Pfft

realokopi:
If i'm chatting with a girl and she replies me with "k" or "yeah" we're done. I normally starts ignoring them from then on. I have countless numbers of white girls as friends and they never chat like that. Not just white girls, even girls from other African countries are much more lively than Nigerian girls.

That was my chat with a white friend. Look at the way she flows. Not some dumb kind of chat with most Nigeria girls.

Compare your replies to hers and tell me who is carrying that conversation. In your mind, you are a good conversationalist. You expect Nigerian girls to have patience with your boring self. Stick to the whites if we're too dumb. Oluku.

That attitude is not particular to any gender , it may comes to play as a result of laziness , not into you , busy with work , busy chatting with others, hence the little attention for you , but the truth is whoever such persons prioritize will get their best attention because there is always that one person , but the funniest thing is that person may not even have time for them as well.

However, the reason is still yours to figure.

Skseries:
list of worries u say? That is even the greatest of worry. A partner that can't make conversation? That u can't joke with? U are my gf I try to make exciting conversation with u tell u abt how amazing my day was and here u tell me abt URS and all I get is, fine, yes, ok, yes.

Lol someone I wanna spend the rest of my life with, what is the bed rock of a good and lasting relationship? Friendship, communication and trust. Love is the least of them all..

Lol flimsy she calls it. Try dating a guy who can't make u smile or laff

you have said it all jare. But I noticed that, some of them that doesn't know how to chat, can talk for long when u encounter them physically.

Ardar:
Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like,
" did you eat today"
"What did you eat this afternoon"
"How was your night"
"I hope you dreamt good dreams"

The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.

Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.

Modified

If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.

So what questions do you want us to ask
If we guys are to bring vital topics you ladies cant flow in because you spend most of the time learning how to slay so we guys chat with you all like dumb ass bitches.....

Married

Young guys dont av any intelligent things to talk about too, try to be free with them and see them take u for granted. Imagine a guy asking u wht re u putting on? Like is that one part of intelligent convo? Not asking her wht she is putting on at work o, wht she is putting on around 8:30pm, pls do u want to help her to wash it? awon sex addict weyrey.

ericsmith:




Bro its not about these gurls been dumb, i would av say maybe the gurl wants you off her back but since you insist she loves you then there can only two issues here;
1. You lack wittyness and ability to lay out an interesting conversation, not necessary jokes.
solution : find her interest n share it, e.g if she likes music wen you are lost of words dive into music topics,alway be updated n show it, if she loves you she wil also show interest in what u like as a way of compensating you.

2. Most naija gurls will give yu attitude when they knw dey stand to gain nothing from you other than talk!! talk .. gurls av so much needs, so naturally gurls think money 24/7 ... gurls are moved by what they see, if you personally av an interesting fun filled life gurls wil drop there attitude n alway want to knw whatsup wit you. just work on yourself,be beta than you are last yr

Dr.Ericsmith... Gender and Relationship studies Phd. Oxford University. Well done

iammee:
Married

Young guys dont av any intelligent things to talk about too, try to be free with them and see them take u for granted. Imagine a guy asking u wht re u putting on? Like is that one part of intelligent convo? Not asking her wht she is putting on at work o, wht she is putting on around 8:30pm, pls do u want to help her to wash it? awon sex addict weyrey.

Lol.

Pussywar:

Bitter man. You must have been ignored a lot. Try not chatting like a dumb Bleep. Or at least chat with someone who's into you. Cheers.

OP, You see what I mean by dumbass women? No sense at all. She probably hopes I’m involved with her fellow dumbass girls. I don’t bother with babes who are not into me, that’s why I am advising this brother to do likewise.

How could you not get that? That was literally my first paragraph. You can read, right? So why are you this simple-minded? Miss me with that unintelligent nonsense next time.

Of course she's the one carrying it and we're flowing very well. Who asking for the patience of an oversized monkey like you? Are you that sensitive and brainlessly dumb?? Now take a chill water and the pain you're wallowing will stop. I can see you're frustrated and undeniably bitter. Stupid disgruntled ugly evening newspaper. Now run away from my mention and stop displaying your undiluted foolishness.
What a swine you are. Oloriburuku. Jatijati.
Now look at these conversations and tell if we both of us aren't working together to make the chat fun.
But I bet you won't see that cos any chat that's not about money is boring to you. Worthless piece of sh*t

Pussywar:

Compare your replies to hers and tell me who is carrying that conversation. In your mind, you are a good conversationalist. You expect Nigerian girls to have patience with your boring self. Stick to the whites if we're too dumb. Oluku.

Mobi47:
you have said it all jare. But I noticed that, some of them that doesn't know how to chat, can talk for long when u encounter them physically.

Wait let them have small problem then you'll realise how awesome they are in chatting

kollinzgee:
Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

I agree with you... I personally don't like somebody replying me with "k"... I regret the times I used it though.. Although I still use " lol" a lot..

MrCork:



...Bro was wrong with u ? U don't like sexx with women? U have sexx wit objects? How long u been gay for & wot hàppen to u?

What's up with you and sex sef, na food

Ardar:


Come who are these girls that you guys keep chatting with? Which one is requesting for bank account?

Uncle if a girl request for money tell her there and then that YOU DON'T HAVE OR THAT YOU'RE NOT GIVING abi is it that difficult? I taught you men were intelligent while women were dumb bi.tches with fish brain, so what's the issue here?

After dashing ladies free money, you all will come here to rant about how Nigerian women are materialistic, always asking for money. SMH

me i cant even even give girls free money because girls will not give u freely

iammee:
Married

Young guys dont av any intelligent things to talk about too, try to be free with them and see them take u for granted. Imagine a guy asking u wht re u putting on? Like is that one part of intelligent convo? Not asking her wht she is putting on at work o, wht she is putting on around 8:30pm, pls do u want to help her to wash it? awon sex addict weyrey.

dear what are you putting on?

realokopi:
Of course she's the one carrying it and we're flowing very well. Who asking for the patience of an oversized monkey like you? Are you that sensitive and brainlessly dumb?? Now take a chill water and the pain you're wallowing will stop. I can see you're frustrated and undeniably bitter. Stupid disgruntled ugly evening newspaper. Now run away from my mention and stop displaying your undiluted foolishness.
What a swine you are. Oloriburuku. Jatijati.
Now look at these conversations and tell if we both of us aren't working together to make the chat fun.
But I bet you won't see that cos any chat that's not about money is boring to you. Worthless piece of sh*t

It's seems your chat buddy is not a Nigerian, pray tell. Which country is she from?

She's not bro. She's a Mexican-American. She's in California.

Notasaints:
It's seems your chat buddy is not a Nigerian, pray tell. Which country is she from?

realokopi:
She's not bro. She's a Mexican-American. She's in California.

Lucky you.

Ardar:
Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like,
" did you eat today"
"What did you eat this afternoon"
"How was your night"
"I hope you dreamt good dreams"

The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.

Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.

Modified

If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.

.its a conversation not an interrogation.. you could bring up something that interests you to talk during the chat. it's not rocket science.

Ardar:
Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like,
" did you eat today"
"What did you eat this afternoon"
"How was your night"
"I hope you dreamt good dreams"

The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.

Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.

Modified

If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.

..but when females ask this same question, is it regarded as boring question?? ..