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Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 12:16am On Feb 07, 2020
Sex is no joke and sex without committment is akin to sowing seeds of pain and sorrow for the future. What may be pleasurable today may be the arrows that pierce your heart tomorrow. There is nothing like free sex, everything has a price tag.The consequences of illicit sex are too numerous too mention.

-Broken hearts
-Wasted fetuses
-Sexual disease ( some leading to death )
-Desensitized love making in marriage
-Broken chidren
-Broken families

Let us talk about one of the greatest consequences of illicit sex. ABORTION. ABORTION can be defined as LOVE UNFULFILLED. Multiple ABORTIONS can be equated to a life devoid of LOVE and lived FRIVOULOUSLY with no respect for nature and the creator. Why have sex if you are not ready for that baby or that disease or that consequence or that letter from the lawyer asking for child support. Many great men have suffered because of illicit sex. Do not emulate their mistakes.

I talk to the younger ones. STOP ILLICIT SEX, if you are pressed MARRY or RELEASE ( :-) through some other method.

For those who are guilty, there is forgiveness with God. Do not persist. Do not cheapen yourselves.

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by 1Sharon(f): 3:10am On Feb 07, 2020
If you use condoms will you have any of those problems? undecided

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by LordReed2nd(m): 5:22am On Feb 07, 2020
Some these things are just your personal disgust and are way too general to be useful. The only illicit sex is sex sex procured by violating the rights and well being of another. If any two consenting adults agree to have sex then it is not your business. Consequences of their actions will be theirs to bear not for to use to judge them or look down on them. Are there no people who do not do what you call illicit sex and yet suffer these same things? How does it now condemn them?

You think married men do not request their properly married wives to carry out abortions? Are you living under a rock?

While I agree that abortion seems like a too readily accessible and attractive option, I'd rather a person abort a baby than give birth to it and dump it in some gutter or abandon it to suffer a living hell. Human dignity is more precious than moral outrage.

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by 1Sharon(f): 9:09am On Feb 07, 2020
LordReed2nd:
Some these things are just your personal disgust and are way too general to be useful. The only illicit sex is sex sex procured by violating the rights and well being of another. If any two consenting adults agree to have sex then it is not your business. Consequences of their actions will be theirs to bear not for to use to judge them or look down on them. Are there no people who do not do what you call illicit sex and yet suffer these same things? How does it now condemn them?

You think married men do not request their properly married wives to carry out abortions? Are you living under a rock?

While I agree that abortion seems like a too readily accessible and attractive option, I'd rather a person abort a baby than give birth to it and dump it in some gutter or abandon it to suffer a living hell. Human dignity is more precious than moral outrage.
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by CAPSLOCKED: 10:41am On Feb 07, 2020
1Sharon:
If you use condoms will you have any of those problems? undecided

AS IF THERE ARE NO CONTRACEPTIVES.
IMAGINE HOW AN INTELLIGENT PERSON SOUNDS LIKE AN ILLITERATE JUST TO PUSH HIS OWN PERSONAL AGENDAS.

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 07, 2020
Interesting points of view !!

Mind you, I am not talking from a Christian point of view since I am no longer a follower of Jesus ( whatever that means ). My points are based on feedback from others and some experience over the years.

I will consider your points and respond later on, thanks for your contribution.

smiley

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by An2elect2(f): 12:00pm On Feb 07, 2020
You are no longer a follower of Jesus but these are all the things the scriptures uphold. The scriptures which are about Jesus and His infinite wisdom. May God have mercy on you.

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by 1Sharon(f): 2:35pm On Feb 07, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


AS IF THERE ARE NO CONTRACEPTIVES.
IMAGINE HOW AN INTELLIGENT PERSON SOUNDS LIKE AN ILLITERATE JUST TO PUSH HIS OWN PERSONAL AGENDAS.

Lol I don't know what's happening to Frosbel, these days he's sounding like the average close-minded christian.

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 2:49pm On Feb 07, 2020
1Sharon:


Lol I don't know what's happening to Frosbel, these days he's sounding like the average close-minded christian.

Christian ? Me ?

GOD FORBID !!

smiley

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 2:51pm On Feb 07, 2020
An2elect2:
You are no longer a follower of Jesus but these are all the things the scriptures uphold. The scriptures which are about Jesus and His infinite wisdom. May God have mercy on you.

My dear, we do not need your so called Jesus to have morals. Morals existed millenia before your white masters introduced their white Jesus bullshit and decimated your cultures and messed up your country. With all the Jesus minions we have in Nigeria, it is worse than HELL. Fact.

So please keep your WHITE JESUS SLAVE MASTER to yourself.

smiley

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 4:53pm On Feb 07, 2020
A timely son about abortion - Whitney Houston


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZAdi3LIW898

Don't ever throw away your miracle
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by 1Sharon(f): 2:40am On Feb 08, 2020
frosbel2:


Christian ? Me ?

GOD FORBID !!

smiley

Well you're sounding like them.

"Illicit sex"?

"God and sins"?

There's nothing illicit about 2 consenting adults having sex. You sound close-minded.
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by LordReed(m): 6:39am On Feb 08, 2020
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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 11:59am On Feb 08, 2020
1Sharon:


Well you're sounding like them.

"Illicit sex"?

"God and sins"?

There's nothing illicit about 2 consenting adults having sex. You sound close-minded.

In an established committed relationship, YES.

Jumping from man to man or woman to woman ? NO. It's just common decency.
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by 1Sharon(f): 12:56pm On Feb 08, 2020
frosbel2:


In an established committed relationship, YES.

Jumping from man to man or woman to woman ? NO. It's just common decency.

Adultury is still not a crime, although morally questionable.

As long as they use protection, singles can jump around as much as they like
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 1:08pm On Feb 08, 2020
1Sharon:


Adultury is still not a crime, although morally questionable.

As long as they use protection, singles can jump around as much as they like

Wow, just wow.

Oh yeah, jump around , break hearts, deceived, gratify selfish desires, rejected unwanted babies, abort unwanted babies, get some aids or HIV or syphilis or even oral cancer ( now proven to be caused by MouthAction ).

Sorry , I dont agree with you ONE BIT. Its a dangeous approach towards sex.
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by 1Sharon(f): 1:12pm On Feb 08, 2020
frosbel2:


Wow, just wow.

Oh yeah, jump around , break hearts, deceived, gratify selfish desires, rejected unwanted babies, abort unwanted babies, get some aids or HIV or syphilis or even oral cancer ( now proven to be caused by MouthAction ).

Sorry , I dont agree with you ONE BIT. Its a dangeous approach towards sex.

Did you read what I said? I said if they're SINGLE they can sleep with whoever.

If they PROTECT themselves sexually those STDs and unwanted babies will be avoided.

Why do you insist on repeating the same thing, despite what ppl have said in this thread??
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by sonmvayina(m): 1:19pm On Feb 08, 2020
An2elect2:
You are no longer a follower of Jesus but these are all the things the scriptures uphold. The scriptures which are about Jesus and His infinite wisdom. May God have mercy on you.

So God impregnating another man's wife to sire his son is wise in your book...?.. Please go and play siwe if you don't have something else to do..

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Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 5:08pm On Feb 08, 2020
1Sharon:


Did you read what I said? I said if they're SINGLE they can sleep with whoever.

If they PROTECT themselves sexually those STDs and unwanted babies will be avoided.

Why do you insist on repeating the same thing, despite what ppl have said in this thread??


Quoting You ;

"Adultury is still not a crime, although morally questionable."
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 5:28pm On Feb 08, 2020
frosbel2:
Interesting points of view !!
[s]Mind you, I am not talking from a Christian point of view since I am no longer a follower of Jesus[/s] ( whatever that means ). My points are based on feedback from others and some experience over the years.
I will consider your points and respond later on, thanks for your contribution.

smiley

Whether they chose to live long or they chose to die young it's their cup of tea! cheesy

After all you are NO MORE A BELIEVER, so whatever anyone chose to do with their life shouldn't be your problem. Note that people always love adventures most especially when it involves fun!

Your coming out to demonize FREE THINKERS is the evidence of God that you're always looking for, if you're not their God and they have freedom to do whatever pleases them, then your effort to change their thoughts on what they want is tantamount to MIND CONTROLLING, and that is against the norms of ATHEISM the group you're advocating for now! wink
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by 1Sharon(f): 5:29pm On Feb 08, 2020
frosbel2:



Quoting You ;

"Adultury is still not a crime, although morally questionable."

Yes!
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 08, 2020
Maximus69:


Your coming out to demonize FREE THINKERS )

How can a free thinker demonise a free thinker ? smiley
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 6:24pm On Feb 08, 2020
frosbel2:



Quoting You ;

"Adultury is still not a crime, although morally questionable."

Well adultery is a crime! Exodus 20:17, Jeremiah 5:8, Ezekiel 33:26

What most religionists taught is that God only gives rules regarding morality, whereas Godly principles are solely based on things that could harm us but due to the limitation of our intellect we can't easily see it.

Adultery is when two adults (each married to someone else) agrees to have sex!

The CRIME~ Note that sex is sweet and it leaves lasting impression on the thought of it's participant most especially if the other person is sexual agile.
Secondly once you're involved you don't have the power to rebuke the other person from making advances at you some other times, you may strive to leave it behind and continue with your life but what about the other person, can you erase the memory from their brains?

When you've satisfied the other person perhaps due to your agility, size of your organ or touches, the other person may find it extremely difficult to let go of the memory. Then you endanger the life of your innocent spouse who knew nothing more than what both of you share!

In most cases people do go at length to get rid of the person serving as an obstacle to the continuity of enjoyment, {2 Samuel 11:2-27
That's how those who initiated such a thing becomes CRIMINALS in the sight of the one who sees further than the present events and gives warning ahead of it! Isaiah 55:8-9

You're free to discard all of these since you're not a believer, but then you have no authority to make rules for people when human laws permits them to enjoy themselves!
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 6:31pm On Feb 08, 2020
frosbel2:


How can a free thinker demonise a free thinker ? smiley

You do so when you're trying to play God over them by setting standards and labelling those who ignore your man made rules as "being illicit"!

That's why deeper thinking ATHEISTS are telling you that you're already going out of your boundary! cheesy
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 7:26pm On Feb 15, 2020
Maximus69:


You do so when you're trying to play God over them by setting standards and labelling those who ignore your man made rules as "being illicit"!

That's why deeper thinking ATHEISTS are telling you that you're already going out of your boundary! cheesy

Playing God ? Lol

Have you heard of the term COMMON DECENCY ?
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 15, 2020
frosbel2:


Playing God ? Lol

Have you heard of the term COMMON DECENCY ?

That is impossible without "GOD"

There can never be anything COMMON in the society when each person is advocating for ABSOLUTE FREEDOM!

We are talking about intelligent creatures having different hobbies, interests, challenges and circumstances.

Even Britain that's claiming COMMON WEALTH know that they're deceiving themselves because they're not having things in COMMON! wink
Re: Illicit Sex Is No Joke - Do Not Be Deceived by Reality11: 9:49am On Feb 16, 2020
frosbel2:
[s]Sex is no joke and sex without committment is akin to sowing seeds of pain and sorrow for the future. What may be pleasurable today may be the arrows that pierce your heart tomorrow. There is nothing like free sex, everything has a price tag.The consequences of illicit sex are too numerous too mention.

-Broken hearts
-Wasted fetuses
-Sexual disease ( some leading to death )
-Desensitized love making in marriage
-Broken chidren
-Broken families

Let us talk about one of the greatest consequences of illicit sex. ABORTION. ABORTION can be defined as LOVE UNFULFILLED. Multiple ABORTIONS can be equated to a life devoid of LOVE and lived FRIVOULOUSLY with no respect for nature and the creator. Why have sex if you are not ready for that baby or that disease or that consequence or that letter from the lawyer asking for child support. Many great men have suffered because of illicit sex. Do not emulate their mistakes.

I talk to the younger ones. STOP ILLICIT SEX, if you are pressed MARRY or RELEASE ( :-) through some other method.

For those who are guilty, there is forgiveness with God. Do not persist. Do not cheapen yourselves[/s].

Have sex if you want, just get a condom, it safeguard you from all these troubles.
-It prevents pregnancy
-transmission of STD's etc.
frosbel2:
Interesting points of view !!

Mind you, I am not talking from a Christian point of view since I am no longer a follower of Jesus ( whatever that means ). My points are based on feedback from others and some experience over the years.

I will consider your points and respond later on, thanks for your contribution.

smiley

And your writeup say otherwise. So you have resort to lying to promote your imaginary friend ideas abi?

I checked your profile, all your post and threads indicates you are a Yahweh worshipper.

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