Diligentnigga:


Lol iam, shes not a wayward lady, infact i brought her out of her shell and she lost her virginity to me

Diligentnigga:


Alright this is it,, we were having a discussion on how to break the news to her parents on the pregnancy cos we both have plans of keeping the pregnancy,her phone was with me, and during the discussion she got angry when i said if she cant bear the shame and pass through all dis when the baby bump hasnt show,please how will she cope when we start facing tough tough issues later on and i immediately said and if she cant cope with it we cn go for abortion then and all this nags and insults will stop

Then she got angry immediately stood up and told me to give her back her phone i refused saying we need to really discuss this and she shouldn't be getting angered at everything and we shouldnt run away from this discussion as she has always been trying not to discuss the pregnancy thing

Before you know it she started shouting give me my phone and i refused infact the shouts was just too much but i refused cos i was having an important discussion with her and shes trying to walk away

Haba who does that

Diligentnigga:


Yes sir..
That's just her only bad side

Anger

Am running she did see a psychiatrist instead she a narcissist

eni4real:
Even Sigmund Freud will not be able to solve anger problems in some ladies!!
Don't try to medicalize this trait in her...

All she need is someone crazier than her . Someone that can send shiver down her spine with more craze..
That is the type of guy that should marry her ...


You are not that guy OP..

Japa, Japa.....

Jim99:


God bless you for this.

Diligentnigga:


Trust me bro, am not stupid alot of crazy feminist women are out there,she will beg and do all manners, kneel down cry that she will change but me i know it wont change,,i already told her to get in touch with a counsellor concerning her anger.. She wasnt like this during the start of the relationship so if i had seen red flags i would have leave the relationship a long time

I have plans of leaving her but the ish is the pregnancy is tieing me down now

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Davash222:
No be every woman wey get belle for man dem marry.
Never marry such woman!
She's carrying your child, no doubt, but please don't marry that girl out of pity.
She'll be kind, caring and loving to you from now henceforth, but, please don't fall for all these gimmicks.
If you truly value your life, don't marry that girl!

Ardar:


Uncle you're the problem here, you don't tell a girl who is going through so much cuz of a pregnancy you're responsible for to just suck it up and bear the shame.

Like it or not people will talk and it won't be you they'll be pointing accusing fingers at.

Diligentnigga:


Even before the pregnancy she has been ruthless and anger driven

I know anger of pregnancy from anger of stupidity don't defend her can u advise ur brother to marry a lady that insults ur parent and inflct bite wounds and slap u cos shes preggy

Ardar:


I should not defend her but I should defend you? When they say use protection while fvcking, una no go hear. Abort now, no. Now you've been caged with pregnancy and looking for who will defend you.

Diligentnigga:


I dont need your defense

I only need solution to her anger issues and how to go about dealing with an anger driven woman that is pregnant

Diligentnigga:


I dont need your defense

I only need solution to her anger issues and how to go about dealing with an anger driven woman that is pregnant

Ardar:


Stop aggravating her, sometimes you need to compromise knowing fully well that she's volatile.

Endure o, after all you saw the signs earlier.

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Victoronah1:
young man go and make money. Look at how you confidently come online and post that you're unemployed and about to have a baby. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Diligentnigga:


Yeah and shes very caring too she can go through hell and stress herself to make sure am fine

But bro she knows alot of ladies are into me and its keeping her on her toes.. Plus shes riding on the luck that my parents like her thereby using it to misbehave.. The anger started may last year and since then it has been getting worst...
What broke the carmels back was her stoning me out of anger,,

Maybe she needs a psychiatrist or a therapist

eni4real:
You are making money for girls

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders i will make this as short as possible and please dont mind my punctuation as iam typing this in a rush

Iam a graduate though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend i have been dating for almlst two years now, we both love eachother but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn anger driven person that insult my parents, infact hit me sometimes and say all manner of words at me,of recent, i find out she's pregnant this February now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October,but we had plans of not doing abortion but shes so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and i have told her i will stay by her through everything i informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy,they were angry but they were like its fine sha since shes loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insult my parents at every small argument
3 shes anger driven,, yes am anger driven to an extent also but i have never use my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has slapped locked my shirt and punch me
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me though i dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to lets leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos shes pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as its toxic,, what about the unborn child.
6 Iam currently unemployed and infact am still at home not yet balance up well enough,but she has use nags to kill me,,saying all manners at me


All insults are welcomed please iam in die need of advise thank you

eni4real:
What does he expect the mum to do??
The mum knows that her daughter has a problem of hot temperament...
She will continue to plead with op until the OP make the mistake of marrying the lady!!!

One day, hot water will happen

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together