Homeboiy:




Which one u come be?

Delta

Slimdada:
In as much as you decide who you want to be your friend and talk to,but When you care for someone more than they deserve, you get hurt more than you deserve." I don’t like forced conversations, forced friendships, forced interactions. I simply do not force things. If we do not vibe, we don’t vibe
No matter how much money u make
Loneliness can be boring,

I need a girl I will call my own,somebody that I will call
And she will pick up and tell me
Hey papi I'm home alone
Where Re u?
hurry up and come back home���‍♀️

Go and make money and you will be running away from the comment I put on bold because you will have more than enough super chicks hustling to be with you, your challenge will become safety and good health

Divay22:
Delta

Cool

But u didn't share your own story here o

Chi59:

I've been reading a lot of comments. It's sad to say that a lot of people aren't emotionally mature to handle relationships and bow out at the slightest turbulence..
I mean, look at this one who broke up with his gf because her parents dont allow her come out. Just that. The most painful thing is that these people end up breaking the hearts of innocent people who in turn, will further punish the next person who dares to fall in love with them.

People always tend to believe that there's something better out there. Sometimes, it's just an illusion, so, they are never contented or satisfied, they continue to move from one relationship to the other, some say it's the thrill of the chase.

A story is told of a General who took his troops to a battle, after crossing the bridge that led to the enemy's camp, he cut it off. He told his troops that there's no going back and they have to fight to stay alive.

If people adopt this mentality especially in good relationships we will have less of this philandering.

Lest I forget, anyone who thinks that there exists a perfect individual especially in character is self delusional. They key is to manage self and the other hence the need for emotional intelligence.

There's no Eldorado anywhere, it's an utopia, but we can create one ourselves especially with love as described in 1st Corinthians 13.

Anything other than this, people will continue to chase peace and love and it will elude them till their bones is laid in the dust.

YEs

CsRockefeller:


People always tend to believe that there's something better out there. Sometimes, it's just an illusion, so, they are never contented or satisfied, they continue to move from one relationship to the other, some say it's the thrill of the chase.

A story is told of a General who took his troops to a battle, after crossing the bridge that led to the enemy's camp, he cut it off. He told his troops that there's no going back and they have to fight to stay alive.

If people adopt this mentality especially in good relationships we will have less of this philandering.

Lest I forget, anyone who thinks that there exists a perfect individual especially in character is self delusional. They key is to manage self and the other hence the need for emotional intelligence.

There's no Eldorado anywhere, it's an utopia, but we can create one ourselves especially with love as described in 1st Corinthians 13.

Anything other than this, people will continue to chase peace and love and it will elude them till their bones is laid in the dust.

Gbam. You have sense.

Monkeyprick:



Do you understand the magnitude of what it means to remain chaste until marriage? Refraining and denying yourself this youthful exuberance and not giving in to the pressure ?
Unless you're battling character deficiency, you're a very special woman. You should be proud of yourself.
I met my wife of 5 years as a virgin, a 28yr old at that time . The joy it gives each time i remember i am her first knows no bound and i made a promise to myself and my God never to lay any other woman aside my wife till my daughter lay me down to meet my maker.
May God forgive me, i don teach her bad bad bedroom skills though

bad guy, she don learn from carpenter, carri go. Na ur own

keenn:



You know what my phobia is, rats!

Those cute mammals give me goose pimples, i feel so uncomfortable around them and that in no way make me less of a human and he too. I cant imagine a possible mate will on that short fall call it a quit on a relationship.

Except if you never liked him and only tagged alöng because for his paidjob, but again, u know what you want and this is not selfishness, everyone wants something

We all have fears or get scared sometimes. How you deal with those fears is more important to me than the fear itself.

Let me share with you a funny...or not so funny story. Back when I was in high school. I believe I was in grade 9. Anyway, this one girl in our class was bullying my friend. My friend was the type that didn't stand up for herself, which made things worse. I didn't get involved in the beginning, but after watching it happen almost daily, I finally stood up for her. These girls were a clique. 4 mean girls who engaged in "after school fights". I'm sure you know the type well lol. Standing up for my friend now made me their target & their leader told me that I must meet her after school, to fight. I was scared, I won't lie I've never fought anyone in my life. Geez. But you know what I did? When the final bell rang, I was there at the gate waiting for her! I was feeling a rush of adrenalin, pumped up by both fear & the fact that, in my head, I was planning my moves lol. They approach us (my friend was standing next to me), saw us standing there & they just went past. I breathed a sigh of relief. The moral of the story is, never show people you're scared. I didn't know the guy very well, but seeing him act like that made me to lose respect for him. I just do not find that attractive at all. Maybe it's my personality or whatever, but I admire people who hold themselves together even when they're falling apart. I have restraint (for the most part), so I sort of expect people to be able to hold their own. Feel whatever, but keep your composure.

Nooil:


Lol, so you expected me to tell her if I found someone else. Like seriously, won't that sound pathetic?

Fear, about what exactly? You think I just saw a beautiful relationship and felt like throwing it away? The funny thing is when you read write ups of people with 'logic', they sound like bitter people with mental issues. Like your friend up there.

Answer sincerely, are you always 100 percent sure of your decisions? Of course not. It is one of the reasons they say faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

The Bible also said if you know what you're doing is wrong and you keep doing it, it is a sin unto you. You folks just claim Christianity without knowing anything about it.

You guys are trying to get more insight into my life. But sorry, I'm not that open. The little I've shared, be content with it.

This is the issue here I believe, you gave a story and didn't shed more light on it this, leaving everyone to guessing and hypothesis.

Another communication gap is when you said he gave you peace of mind and at the same time insinuating that he was/could lead you to sin.

Alas! I saw my answer in your third paragraph.

It's well, the goal is to be happy inside God's will. I wish you the best.

Ekehwinz:
My babe said that I'm a distraction to her spiritual life. She called off our relationship of 3years.

Ah...she played the spiritual card on you. I bet you found out she resumed cockk riding soon after.

Chi59:

Gbam. You have sense.

Lol. Thanks.

Austineva:
ndivela kwa-Asaba, Delta state, Nigeria. Ingaba ungumfundi?

Oh, okay. Hayi.

franchasng:
hmmm, I love big protruding bombom oh with flat tummy and averagely standing boobs, fine face no concern me

Lol. It all about the high horse bumbum for you
Ehn, I'll just look elsewhere

CsRockefeller:


This is the issue here I believe, you gave a story and didn't shed more light on it, leaving everyone to guessing and hypothesis.

Another communication gap is when you said he gave you peace of mind and at the same time insinuating that he was/could lead you to sin.

Alas! I saw my answer in your third paragraph.

It's well, the goal is to be happy inside God's will. I wish you the best.

Well, the topic asked have you ever had to break up with an amazing partner and why. The poster didn't say we should write our life history.

Also, when I wrote peace up there, I explained the type of peace I was talking about- he didn't cheat. I didn't say he was giving me peace of God. So I don't know what's confusing there.

Your funny friend was doing her best to get more from me. I was just laughing at my end.

Homeboiy:



Cool


But u didn't share your own story here o

I'll rather just read

biggy26:

Sometimes, aggressive people act out of fear, so don't be deceived by all that aggressiveness.
From what you just said, you sound more Zulu to me, or maybe you plan on marrying a Zulu man. But guess what, there is no race or personality on this planet a naija man can't handle.

Zulu guys find Xhosa girls hard to handle. They say we're difficult & stubborn lol. Typically, they prefer not to deal with us. Anyway, there was a thing called Mfecane, where Shaka Zulu & his warriors went on a rampage, killing people & taking over other tribes. The Eastern Cape shares a border with KZN, we're literally on each other's doorstep. But he never came to the Eastern Cape because we may not be as aggressive as the Zulu, but we never back down or bow down to anyone. I actually read somewhere that he didn't particularly like the Xhosa. He thought they were arrogant, stubborn etc. Xhosa are very friendly & accommodating people (not a single xenophobic attack in the Eastern Cape), just don't overstep your boundaries with us because we will fight to the bitter end.

Divay22:

Lol. It all about the high horse bumbum for you
Ehn, I'll just look elsewhere

yes oh, very important than any other quality


Big bombom and killer shape over brains, who woman brain help

XhosaNostra:


I believe her home language is Sepedi, but speaks Tswana because it's the most spoken language in Pretoria. She actually writes in the kind of Tswana only spoken in Pretoria which is why you may be having a hard time translating some things. It's full of slangs.

Yeah, ka mixa because that's how we do it here kganti why is oga so interested in learning our languages?

Nooil:


Well, the topic asked have you ever had to break up with an amazing partner and why. They didn't say we should write our life history.

Also, when i wrote peace up there, I explained the type of peace i was talking about- he didn't cheat. I didn't say he was giving me peace of God. So i don't know what's confusing there.

Your funny friend was doing her best to get more from me. I was just laughing from my end.

It's fine. No p.

soilsista:

Yeah, ka mixa because that's how we do it here kganti why is oga so interested in learning our languages?

Wa go nyaka. LOL! Ke motho wa Tshwane myself, so I know how things are done over here. We speak salad

All because she's super jealous and couldn't help it and turn a good one

XhosaNostra:


Wa go nyaka. LOL! Ke motho wa Tshwane myself, so I know how things are done over here. We speak salad

LMAO! If that's the case then uthanda uk'thanda. Nna ke sharp, andizi!

I remember you did say you're from Pretoria but o tshaba batho *rolls eyes*

Coolcalmcollect:
yea had to leave a girl when she said no sex before marriage, but came to me in tears about her incomplete school fees....that she needed 80k to complete it....and i told her to take 200 airtime and call her dad/mom.

why do I keep having the feelings that you talking abt my girlfriend? She is also currently in the same issues now nd the same amount.

soilsista:

LMAO! If that's the case then uthanda uk'thanda. Nna ke sharp, andizi!

I remember you did say you're from Pretoria but o tshaba batho *rolls eyes*

Loooooool. Uthi ugrand ngabo? O dula Mamz or Sosha akere? One of these days I may surprise you with a visit. Don't completely write me off Hanyane, hanyane. Btw, my spelling se jwang?

Nooil:


You got the second paragraph all wrong. But I don't want to go into details.

Ok.

Divay22:
I'll rather just read

And mine got you interesting

franchasng:
yes oh, very important than any other quality


Big bombom and killer shape over brains, who woman brain help

Long i heard a nigga choose a girl's shape over her brains
But still get a brainy one thou, boobs and bumbum doesn't solve everything.

Homeboiy:



And mine got you interesting

Yeah.
Most especially when i saw that you once talked about your Esan babe. Reason why i quoted you at first.

Divay22:

Yeah.
Most especially when i saw that you once talked about your Esan babe. Reason why i quoted you at first.

She's a broke girl and me de find already made girl

Divay22:


Long i heard a nigga choose a girl's shape over her brains
But still get a brainy one thou, boobs and bumbum doesn't solve everything.

Mba oh.......firm breast and big clapping buttocks over brains, who woman brain help I ask again oh

franchasng:
Mba oh.......firm breast and big clapping buttocks over brains, who woman brain help I ask again oh

Women brain helps

Homeboiy:




She's a broke girl and me de find already made girl

Lol
Broke kwa na only broke they fit identify broke sha