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Goodmorning guys. Pls what do you think is the best thing to do to sustain your marriage when your spouse finds more joy in somebody else than in you.

samworthyever:
Goodmorning guys. Pls what do you think is the best thing to do to sustain your marriage when your spouse finds more joy in somebody else than in you.

Communicate it with her and do what she really wants, their is a reason she finds solace in the other person, you are likely lacking in that aspect.

Find interest in somebody else also until she get jealous

find out what d other person is doing to draw d attention of ur spouse.then do double of it

samworthyever:
Goodmorning guys. Pls what do you think is the best thing to do to sustain your marriage when your spouse finds more joy in somebody else than in you.

The more you try to impress, the more she drift away, theres something we call space, give her space , try to change your negative attitude she complain about if both have kids, give 100% attention to your kids and stop eating at home but perform your responsibility. Do not nag or fight her.

Most ladies try to use the gentility of men for foolery esp. when you try to please them to the core.
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That is why even if you are so crazy about a lady, you should show just 3% of such love or it will get into her head and she'll be searching for a hard-to-get man, thereby playing you her husband hard-to-get.
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Try one out of these options:
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1. Play cheating by receiving (fake) calls in odd hours of the day. Act less interested in her. Do everything so she'll start feeling you no longer notice her.
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In fact, create an Adaeze figure and discuss her to your wife how you newly met her and how she helped you bla bla. Play coming home drunk for a while (don't actually drink).
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But you could make it real. Reject her meals with the option that you are okay. Don't wear a frown or solemn face; in fact smile.
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Still provide money for the family as usual but blur the husband figure there (not the fatherly figure, if you have kids).
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The idea is to make her jealous. She'll also start feeling you are seeing sb else, and get jealous. She'll start trying to kindle the relationship, but play cheating for a longer while (say a week more) even after she retraces her wrongs. If she's back to her senses, make the curtains close.

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2. Give rules. Do remember her that on any ground of sexual immorality, there will be an unforgiveable divorce.