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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Starz825(m): 10:17pm On Feb 05, 2020
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me
Learn two lessons today.....1. don't show a woman you love her ...don't try it.... except you have been dating officially...don't throw urself to her...u will fall flat to the ground... because by doing that u are only fueling her pride....just keep calm...go as a friend and pretend as if u don't have anything in mind...with time she will get to Kno u like her and by then she already likes u too....because a woman must love you first before u start ur loving in most cases..
Lesson2. When u are dating its like your courting...so don't be blind to her weaknesses(everyone gat one though)...check it very well so u can know and be able to decide the ones you can bear as a person....don't ever say to yourself love will conquer when u sure know u can't bear her flaws ....don't forget love is transient.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 10:26pm On Feb 05, 2020
Starz825:

Learn two lessons today.....1. don't show a woman you love her ...don't try it.... except you have been dating officially...don't throw urself to her...u will fall flat to the ground... because by doing that u are only fueling her pride....just keep calm...go as a friend and pretend as if u don't have anything in mind...with time she will get to Kno u like her and by then she already likes u too....because a woman must love you first before u start ur loving in most cases..
Lesson2. When u are dating its like your courting...so don't be blind to her weaknesses(everyone gat one though)...check it very well so u can know and be able to decide the ones you can bear as a person....don't ever say to yourself love will conquer when u sure know u can't bear her flaws ....don't forget love is transient.

Oh mehn,Bro you're a real fvvking gee,infact you're a professor in women affairs, see the way you broke everything down little by little
I so fvvking appreciate this words from you as a matter of fact,it didn't work out between me and that girl I talked about in this thread, we don't talk anymore, I fvvked up on my part but just like they say
Experience is the best teacher but I have sure learnt one thing from you today,never throw myself to any girl even when my mind dey her side I go pretend like say my Mind no dey,until she go soji,then me and her Go run the M I C

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Churchill6767: 10:29pm On Feb 05, 2020
Mood11:

Not everyone has been as unfortunate as you have been with women.

Not all women are for money/recharge cards or fake lashes.

Story.

Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by heartofcity12: 11:54pm On Feb 05, 2020
What most of the guys are saying are all true, in fact I know more about all they have said but unfortunately we are in Nigeria where love&romance is dying everyday. Greed, Scam& Prostitution has eaten so deep into our girls, no matter their age or class of institution. All those advices will only work with foreign girls or some few Naija girls wey never too open eye which are the very good girls, which are rare.
REALITY: What most of these girls know now is “MONEY”. They want to go out on a date where you come pick her with your nice car , chilled AC and you looking all fresh like today bread and showering money on them like a fraudster..Only then will they consider you worthy of dating and giving you a fake love which is based on money.. I hope this your girl hasn’t been following sugar daddies, more well to do guys or yahoo boys. If she has, forget the girl..
Unfortunately most of them are like this nowadays.. Gold diggers everywhere.
There are still very few decent girls. I hope she’s among them. Best of luck.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Omar09(m): 4:31pm On Mar 12, 2020
hazard7:

How do I put this, mixed signals is part of a seduction ploy to get a woman confused and excited. It is also called push and pull. I can't explain it cause its long but I will post about it soon.

Is it like, you like a girl so much you can pull the whole world for her, but she don't mean the whole world to you?
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by hazard7(m): 5:56pm On Mar 12, 2020
Omar09:


Is it like, you like a girl so much you can pull the whole world for her, but she don't mean the whole world to you?
Its mostly used for 10s to break their social defense mechanism and then build it up again with your personified configuration
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Omar09(m): 5:57pm On Mar 12, 2020
hazard7:

Its mostly used for 10s to break their social defense mechanism and then build it up again with your personified configuration

How quick can you write it, I wanna learn that.
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by hazard7(m): 6:02pm On Mar 12, 2020
Omar09:


How quick can you write it, I wanna learn that.
I think its basically things you know like negs,push and pull and my favorite reverse shit testing.
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Omar09(m): 6:07pm On Mar 12, 2020
hazard7:

I think its basically things you know like negs,push and pull and my favorite reverse shit testing.

Pls hit my memory box up... Give me a clue...
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Omar09(m): 6:08pm On Mar 12, 2020
hazard7:

I think its basically things you know like negs,push and pull and my favorite reverse shit testing.
Pls hit my memory box up... Give me a clue...

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