luminouz:


Not for me...for the guy I advised.

I wish I had a soft emotional spot babe...Insults dont affect me at all. Its best if you dont try the reverse psychology stuff.

I'm rarely emotional to be manipulated like that. Any girl who says that to me will get a healthy dose of laughter.

Some people have the uncanny ability of picking up everything about a person, including their insecurities etc. Maybe you've not met such a person
Anyway, people better know who they're dealing with before they take things there lol.

Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...

Wow...that's a real sob story...

I don't know why I don't get emotional when harsh words are been thrown at me...maybe I've been used to it so much that it doesn't hit me again...

But if I were you ...this is what I'd do

I'd go back to the school... Grab her tits by the nipple and squeeze so hard till the milk turns red ...then spit in her face and tell her Bleep YOU BITCH!!!!

I'm telling you...you'd feel fly

No no no

I said No

You are not my type


Lines drawn because of background laid on money.

Lamanii22:
My mom once said I wasn't useful to her"... That statement hit different... But she apologized later sha...

Damn!

Sacrosanct12:
sorry to say,but I might never have the heart to forgive.

Word

[/color] My personal guy told me to my face that i'm a 'nobody' that i cannot make it life without him (he's yahoo boy now),
Another one, my dad called me that i have the brain of a chicken, third one, my younger brother say that i'm an attention seeker (i can off behave like a guy with gay tendencies) due to my parents never caring about me for once in their lives, they only give me money, no emotional support, i have passed through hell in life, with lecturers, students, even coursemates making a mockery of me, fourth one, i had a crush on a girl back in secondary school she insulted me i promised myself that i will have nothing to do with women again, i'm the first son, my mum has being asking me when i will marry, i told her i'm not interested in such nonsense. [color=#990000] My personal guy told me to my face that i'm a 'nobody' that i cannot make it life without him (he's yahoo boy now),
Another one, my dad called me that i have the brain of a chicken, third one, my youn

Baby i dont love you anymore

Lamanii22:
My mom once said I wasn't useful to her"... That statement hit different... But she apologized later sha...

Na wayward girl you be na, that apology is unmerited, mother hardly use such word on their daughter that's very obedient and loyal

You are useless....

Still battling with that sentence till date

Your Dick is small.

My brother, I didn't eat for 2 days.

One day, I was up and doing my barbing apprenticeship.

So, these girls (SS2 and ilks) came in, like two of them were to barb while others came for unmm, barbing support...
The camaraderie among friends became manifest and they got talking.

One said jocosely, " Your lips have been getting reddish oo"

The other who was sitting beside her responded belligerently..
"
Don't talk about it, is it not that Agric teacher? The first time she came to class, she insults me, telling me how dark my lips are, she compares and likened me to a smoker. Whenever it's her period, she uses me as an example and make mockery of me in front of the whole class"

"... Since then, I started rubbing cream on my lips to make it light..." She continued.


Pheeew, that's one of the most terrifying thing I've heard in a while.


It only took the teacher an encounter to shatter the girl's world. Now, she will never feel complete.

Hmmmm, mehn it was when I was in school.. I one go buy foodstuff from one alaja like that . People plenty there oo and I waited for all of dem to go.. naso I look for a pick up line and ask alaja to sell rice half Derica and ingredients say I go give am Money the next day .. naso the woman phone ring inside shop, I don dey happy say e don set.. Las Las she come meet me outside dey shout say ," shey u no get mama ni? Na me send you come school? Mehn I one cry, and na dat time guys dey come from football viewing center oo.. I just man up , go dey cry for my room




.

The second one was the day my elder brother told me I was useless
The third and the most painful was the day a guy broke shame in front of ETF say I dress like aboki.. mehn , I one die that day...

The next one was the day I enter yemisi room to steal indomie, naso the girl dey curse , I later tell am say na me and the girl almost kill me with curse.


The next one was when I had no money to pay for house rent, and I dey run from baba landlord, as I was about to enter the bq, I never knew the man was behind me, naso he locked me from back and dragged me outside, shout on top of his voice say i be ONIJIBITI( is like a thief).. naso him wife dey beg am on my behalf...

All these happened like 2 years ago except my brother own..
I pay the baba landlord when I begin dey pick and I dey send him tips time to time self.. so the day I went to the area, naso the baba see me come dey hail me , you would not believe this man later gave me the key to his room to crash that day till I left the second day ... money is good..
.


Another one was when one guy collext my crush, hahahah, I never game that time and the guy fresh pass me, naso the girl tell me say " double your husle"
I have many stories jare.. but the one wey pain me pass na dat ETF own.. I thank God atleast I dey ok SMALL now

luminouz:


Lmaoooo....I've heard of such too and I wonder why calabar gehs love huge dicks.

U may be a grower you know or did she see you fully erect? Surely the dick is 6 inches and above?


Women are not physical but emotional fighters. What they said is designed to wound u psychologically. Here is how to handle such comments next time.

1. Direct attack: can you blame me? Every dick is small to a borehole pussy na. As you fine reach and young too,see the kind bottomless hole you get between your legs.

OR

You get body,mouth and pussy odour. My dick hates odours...I know body odour can't be cured,but at least go to a lab to fix the pussy odour naaaa...my dick shrank because of it.

This approach is a mudafvcker!!! Most girls can dish out but never take in. Trust me,you'll hit her harder than she hits you.

2. Indirect attack: I have been with other women and they never complained,are you sure you don't mess around or why is it that you think my dick can't satisfy you? Are u cheating on me?

This will cause her to rethink her assessment of you,that is if she cares about you. If she doesn't, this method won't work because she already doesn't have a conscience

3. Indifference: Look at her fixedly for a moment and burst out laughing. Nothing flummoxes a girl more than a guy who laughs her insults off.
The only way you can pull this off is if you laugh heartily,not forced laugh. I can't teach you this. Just know that the thing pain the babe die and if you can pull off a hearty laugh,you don win hands down.



N.B: I need to really do a calabar gurl and find out why the obsession with horse prick.


#luminouznuggets#

You are a graduate in reverse psychology and I am a big fan of you... On intimidating levels..

Barney001:


Wow...that's a real sob story...

I don't know why I don't get emotional when harsh words are been thrown at me...maybe I've been used to it so much that it doesn't hit me again...

But if I were you ...this is what I'd do

I'd go back to the school... Grab her tits by the nipple and squeeze so hard till the milk turns red ...then spit in her face and tell her Bleep YOU BITCH!!!!

I'm telling you...you'd feel fly

crazy dude

XhosaNostra:



Some people have the uncanny ability of picking up everything about a person, including their insecurities etc. Maybe you've not met such a person
Anyway, people better know who they're dealing with before they take things there lol.

Lmaoooo....maybe you have such an ability and of course it would be something to see, coming from a man who sees ghosts. Little surprises me these days.

Agaz25:
I approached this girl, told her to spare me some minutes with her.. She agreed I was like (Waw this wan Don enter) I was talking, doing the talking alone; so I asked, why aren't you responding and she was like, I should carry on, so I continued.
After some time, she asked me "you done talk finish"
Me(smilling and full of confidence) = yeah
Nah so the girl start for public = "woooooo, you no dey shame woooh, first time Wey you see person you kun dey toast am, Nah so you dey toast you mama mate.
Brothers and sisters, you need to see the crowd; I look like someone that was accused of stealing iPhone o, to the point that I was looking for the person the lady was shouting at, And asking her what is wrong

Ever since then, I no dey try public wooing again or road side stuffs... That was the most embarrassing day of my life

After two days, I went to see a friend - only to hear two children whispering - "SEE THAT BROTHER WEY DEM DEY TELL YOU NO DEY SHAME"

I beg, no kill me with laughter fah

[quote author=Maryjane001 post=87623479]It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home.

whil'st reading on, i silenty prayed u beat that teacher up.

Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...

That was very bad of her. A teacher shouldn't talk like that. She must be a fool

Playboy3030:
Back then in Secondary school d

My uncle told me that if I continued to perform poorly theoretically in my exams while in technical school days, that I will end up living from wall to wall, I was 17 when he said that to me, I cried to my mom giving her details, my mom comforted me n gave me assurance to never give in, assuring me that he is not my God, I am terrible with maths, chemistry, but not with skills and flairs,

Before I graduated, I was the best building drawing student in FSTC Otukpo benue state, best fine artist in the school, and among the 2 top 2 best electrician in my department and fstc that year, as well a creative designers back then,

presently I am doing better financially than those who have A1 during my school days, may his soul rest in peace, I was crying bitterly when he passed away by terrible car crash, my pain is, he didn't leave long enough to see that his disappointment in me is my appointment by God, who makes my bank account go green.

I am sharing this with you guys to inspire you not miss a shot at both sides, if you are not good in theories and conjectures, be a practical wizard, Edison or Robert Bosch,

The second I was toasting a girl, after much, she flows with me like we are on the same page, i asked for her number, and she said when i come next time, i changed the music and flow with her to the point that she is now on the same page with me, yet again i asked for her number n this time there is another girl with us, her friend, she repeat, when you cone next time, I smile then gave her two weeks, while coming back, I was with my s8, s7 edge and s7 active,
Girls are quite to spot expensive gadgets, I asked her to get me card of 3k make me a transfer of 50k into another account,
but never asked her of her number,
next time, she saw me with my car to make cash deposits, of 100k and went away without asking for her number, the othrr time, she caught me in a high lander SUV Tinted, and this time she is doing the chasing, I am doing the running,

The poor thing about girls is, they are too quick to show off thier ego to humiliate guys, but if you can turn that table against her, she will get hurted pretty bad than you felt and will start pushing for reconciliation but don't..
Even if you want to, I recommend just use her like twice then dump her for another.

Corona is in Nigeria

Me- borrow me 2k, its a matter of urgency please
Elder Sis- Go and work and stop asking me for money

I almost share tears that day. Thank God for where I am today. Never gonna see myself in such tight corner again

seanwilliam:
Hmmmm, mehn it was when I was in school.. I one go buy foodstuff from one alaja like that . People plenty there oo and I waited for all of dem to go.. naso I look for a pick up line and ask alaja to sell rice half Derica and ingredients say I go give am Money the next day .. naso the woman phone ring inside shop, I don dey happy say e don set.. Las Las she come meet me outside dey shout say ," shey u no get mama ni? Na me send you come school? Mehn I one cry, and na dat time guys dey come from football viewing center oo.. I just man up , go dey cry for my room




.

The second one was the day my elder brother told me I was useless
The third and the most painful was the day a guy broke shame in front of ETF say I dress like aboki.. mehn , I one die that day...

The next one was the day I enter yemisi room to steal indomie, naso the girl dey curse , I later tell am say na me and the girl almost kill me with curse.


The next one was when I had no money to pay for house rent, and I dey run from baba landlord, as I was about to enter the bq, I never knew the man was behind me, naso he locked me from back and dragged me outside, shout on top of his voice say i be ONIJIBITI( is like a thief).. naso him wife dey beg am on my behalf...

All these happened like 2 years ago except my brother own..
I pay the baba landlord when I begin dey pick and I dey send him tips time to time self.. so the day I went to the area, naso the baba see me come dey hail me , you would not believe this man later gave me the key to his room to crash that day till I left the second day ... money is good..
.


Another one was when one guy collext my crush, hahahah, I never game that time and the guy fresh pass me, naso the girl tell me say " double your husle"
I have many stories jare.. but the one wey pain me pass na dat ETF own.. I thank God atleast I dey ok SMALL now

Ahan..na only you

geezynoni:


Ahan..na only you

abi na. But when I enta year 2, i don dey pick small small and I fhuck shior for dem girls body

Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...

The biggest mistake you can make as an individual is to let the opinions or beliefs that other people have about you affects you. Me as a person I stopped giving a Bleep about what people think about me. I use to be like....Alaye na ur problem deal wit it...I m not ready to change anyone's belief about me.My advice to u is to stop caring about whatever shit anyone is saying about u...focus on making the best out of ya life.... sorry for d long epistle tho...

It has to be when Blessing told me that my eyes look like that of a wife beater. I was really hurt because I'm one of the most gentle beings on the face of this earth

Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...

Same story but mine is am not too good at math
And you know what back then in primary 3 I can remember vividly this wicked teacher told the whole class to beat me we are not much in my school then
But I could remember how they all gather round to beat me first time as a child I saw my left hand swell up
That day was my first attempt of killing myself imagine a primary 3 school boy couldn't tell my mom
Because I know her to be very strict with children that are not very sound,am close to 30yrs now and I still don't understand that's maths
So what did I want to say the guy that beat me the most back then I saw him around early last year
Immediately I saw him I remember that scene and I was like should I injure him because I know myself he can never resist one bang from me
But I thought if I bang him and he fall flat to the ground and die what will I tell people,so I left him that day
Although he greeted me as Bobo but to be sincere I didn't give him a response

Mine is bad oo
This girl was giving me greenlight .........
Fastforward to yesterday sha
I saw her in the morning
I told her yo can we meet in the evening
Omo she use me collect star ....she said she dont know ....
I felt like she want me to be chasing her but I no too get time and I'm too introverted
So no hope

My boss told me I was smiling like a cat because of a client that was chyking me.
Lol...

Lamanii22:
My mom once said I wasn't useful to her"... That statement hit different... But she apologized later sha...

Are you Nigerian??

African parents never apologize

Agaz25:
I approached this girl, told her to spare me some minutes with her.. She agreed I was like (Waw this wan Don enter) I was talking, doing the talking alone; so I asked, why aren't you responding and she was like, I should carry on, so I continued.
After some time, she asked me "you done talk finish"
Me(smilling and full of confidence) = yeah
Nah so the girl start for public = "woooooo, you no dey shame woooh, first time Wey you see person you kun dey toast am, Nah so you dey toast you mama mate.
Brothers and sisters, you need to see the crowd; I look like someone that was accused of stealing iPhone o, to the point that I was looking for the person the lady was shouting at, And asking her what is wrong

Ever since then, I no dey try public wooing again or road side stuffs... That was the most embarrassing day of my life

After two days, I went to see a friend - only to hear two children whispering - "SEE THAT BROTHER WEY DEM DEY TELL YOU NO DEY SHAME"

see that broda...shame no dey catch him!

Rhymer2020:
chaii! as you fine, huge reach na dis small prick you com get?? was Soo embarrassed that it took me up to a month to get over it.



fear Calabar girls, the love horse type of prick

I can Swear with my Balls an Ashawo told you this ... I laugh in Spanish

butterfly777:


Bro, let help you with the truth.

She might have said some things that hurt, but, she is not responsible for your confidence. It largely comes from within. Pick YOURSELF up bro.
Also, if you think you are too introverted, work on it, but don't push too hard. Introverts who also lack self confidence too often think the introvertion is the problem. Wisen up. The two are not the same. Their are many introverts who are full of confidence and you will see it all over them; the way they carry themselves, talk, look you in the eyes, maintain boundaries, etc.

You need your confidence. You're the one to help yourself.

This your Response shows that their are Indeed "Knowledge Filled Men" Walking This Planet Earth.

You Have My Respect