davillian:


The thing is to strike a balance don't be too nice to ladies and dont be too good....

dis is all abt me. U talk wetin dey my mind. Am ;DOut of diz thread straight

AfroKnight:
Bro haven’t you heard? Good guys finish last.

Most babes reserve a spot in their hearts for good guys. They treat such guys as a fall-back plan in case the cocky bastàrds they want, leave them broken. This is so they can carry their broken selves to the good guy to patch up and marry.

If they’re lucky, the bad boy sticks with them and they endure a tumultuous marriage. If not, it’s mr nice guy they’d be buzzing on Whatsapp after 5 years incommunicado.

Don’t be the nice guy. Don’t be the last option on the list of an unstable untrustworthy woman.

I have learned to stay away from them. Many of them are now willing lol. Me wey get another babe now.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4QeDhuUEDo4?tsjwr69rls3

Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.

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sassysure:
So who is loving all the good guys or are they single?

Mtcheeew.

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

Puting this up here alone shows that u can never be a man! U are too soft and considerate! To thinking about how a woman would feel at all time is an error cozz u may die as a 'raw dust trying to please a tripple filtered dust'.
Gods plan is simply for us to love them!
Behave raw/real, always make sure the pu%%y snaps at any contact, love and provide for her then leave the rest for nature!
Even the female @ftc will not even know when she grows old attempting to correct a crazy guy on daily basis!

Plus they feel safer with u being tough; infact call me for further lectures on how to become a real man

I see

SOME BOSSES WONT LET GO OF THEIR STAFF, WHILE THE BOSSES ARE OBSERVING SOCIAL DISTANCING, GREED NI O. THERE IS GOD O.

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Some girls simply like tough guys. They just love it rough. Honestly, I met this girl who said she love it more once her guy beat her up & make love to her. Imagine such mental wish I never forget. She doesn't like it simple at all.

Only a trashy women would love a guy who treats her like trash. A classy woman would expect to be treated with class. If she isn't, she walks.

No one should come here and speak about alpha or beta or gamma male "bull-poo" (apologies to Nairaland textbot).

How can you be thinking of being a bad person just to treat a girl bad? Remember you will give account of your life one day. Live right my brother



[qquote author=Kekereekun123 post=87699026]Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.[/quote]

ibkkk:


Reset

yeah you are right, thanks

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

Ladies love bad guys.

It is just the way they are.
8 out of every 10 bad guys were once good but were taken for granted by ladies.

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Really. So you are iron lady?

square7:


Don't you think you are the one going bunker in/with your brain rather than thinking you are resetting another's brain?

No my dear, I know what am talking about, if not so, why will a lady love a dude that treat her like an animal and then hate one that treat her like a queen?

I think some of these ladies thinks they can actually tame the beast in the presume bad guys and change them to be good, in general they want the trophy of changing a bad guy to good, but at the end they will discover that leopards does not change their spots

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Are u sure if love is involve ur heart will sink.

Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.

I love this woman.

Why Not Ask For My Own, So That You Can Tell Me What To Do.

Vinex4uba:
Learning a new approach today, I don't talk much making everything to be unpredictable, I can hurt and abandon you through my silence nature�

See my type of person

Exactly my point of view. 70% of a trait a child will show or have tendency to show later in life is been gathered from home. The rest is from the societal influence and peer pressure. Whatever a child sees or hear at the age of 0-10 sticks their brain. It only take the power of God to cleanse that away. This will definitely metamorphosis to what they become in future.
This attitude as well always result to broken homes after the wife can no longer endure the intimidations 7 033. 0655. 67

Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.

The reason is that most of these ladies prefer who can Bleep them like fire than cool headed one coz they like dick weller

viyon02:
All women my dear

Not all

DaddyRochie1642:






Am glad you have received sense,

Now, there is a guy here in Nairaland that you really need to read his posts so that you'll understand women completely, ... His name is Ubunja.

Search "Ubunja" on Nairaland and read all his highly educative write-ups and I can swear with my Masculine Balls, you will not regret it

yes o, i received it in a thousand fold.

I will heed to ur advice, thanks a lot for your information.

stanliwise:
Dont let her beg for too long if you still love her, Go back. The treating women as worthless and less value has a grey area. It only works if you need to attract a stubborn partner or a partner like yours.
But the moment they start acting properly and treat them as much as how they treat you, please follow what we call the MIRROR STRATEGY. As a guy take the lead in doing something but ensure she somehow complement your effort in doing something else also meaning she somehow mirror your good gesture. If not then you can punish the behavior by using the law of attraction. But when a pattern complement your effort or when a partner is being real and truthful to you. NEVER PLAY GAMES THEM.

Deep. I love this.
You know that law of attraction works sometimes. I got trying to talk to this girl but she is doing somehow. I thought after she agrees to date me I will start following this strategy of not giving her much attention so as to get her hook to me but she is even making the toasting hard. Imagine I called this girl, she will pick without talking wasting my fvcking credit. So I gave up on her. Guess who called me on the 3rd day? You guessed right. I wasn't even expecting her call anymore.

Yoighaman:


I love this.

yeah bro.it wasn't really easy for me but the truth is I can never put myself in such a tight situation again.

STOCKHOLM SYNDROME.....When the abuse victims bond with their abusers...It's just a pyschological thing.

stanliwise:
Dont let her beg for too long if you still love her, Go back. The treating women as worthless and less value has a grey area. It only works if you need to attract a stubborn partner or a partner like yours.
But the moment they start acting properly and treat them as much as how they treat you, please follow what we call the MIRROR STRATEGY. As a guy take the lead in doing something but ensure she somehow complement your effort in doing something else also meaning she somehow mirror your good gesture. If not then you can punish the behavior by using the law of attraction. But when a pattern complement your effort or when a partner is being real and truthful to you. NEVER PLAY GAMES THEM.

thanks,I do still love her but I don't think I can go back to the relationship,she really abused me emotionally despite the fact that I was nice to her,a whole of stuff she did that I didn't state in my write up.

I just want to start afresh and let her know the world does not revolve around her, she is beautiful and probably will get a new guy soon if I don't go back but I'm not jealous anymore.

J111333:
They don't love bad guys, they are simply loyal to them.
Just like dogs remain loyal and obedient to tough owners even when they are not fed but attack kind owners for not feeding them on time.

Women love good guys and that's why they hurt them. They believe they can get away with it.

too much wisdom no go kill you guy. You just stated the fact here bro

I like the word "some"