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While you, just observe every great personalities around you and feel inferior. You never feel good about yourself.You always feel weaker than others. You just feel like isolating from the whole world. This happens due to the following reasons-

Somewhere you know that you lack something but you hardly do anything about it.
You know the truth but still you do nothing to change it.
That truth of yours always makes you feel bad about yourself.
You just feel like going with the flow but somewhere you want to change it. Although you start, you stop continuing the moment you suck.You feel like you are not meant for it and move on.
You have never made it a habit to work hard,take challenges and learn something new. The problem I have seen with most of my peers in college is that they never come out of their comfort zones to learn something new. They believe in going with the flow and do not have the will to learn something. Which means you lack the willingness to learn something new.
You never learnt to face the problem. Our generation has been provided with all the possible facilities that have fulfilled all our needs and wants. We never took the pain to discover something new as everything is available so easily.
You stop and this ill feeling keeps irritating you right from your head to toe.
Its high-time that you start taking actions. Just start working upon what makes you feel inferior.

If you feel like you score average marks,then start studying and score good marks.
If you feel like you study in an average college,make sure you work well in all the spheres which helps you to secure a good job.
If you feel like you cannot afford to buy branded clothes or you cannot pay your own hospital bills or you cannot afford to dine in a decent restaurant, work harder to earn more money and you fulfill all your needs.
If you feel like you don’t work at the right job and you are still miles away from cracking your dream job,work harder than yesterday and gain some more skills necessary to land that dream job. Work upon all those skills and gain knowledge that will make you a potential employee and you stand out of the crowd.
If you feel like you are not confident in speaking a foreign language and that is becoming a hindrance in your success,learn that language and keep learning it.
If you are single and everyone rejects you because you lack some traits,then start working upon some qualities of yours and project yourself as a potential partner. Instead of chasing anyone,work and gain the qualities of a potential partner.(Here, I don’t mean good looks)
If you feel unhealthy and you have a pot belly,then start exercising and eat healthy food. This will increase your inner confidence.
It is also necessary to take challenges and get out of your bed to learn something new. Conquer the new territories.
Think about all the challenges(in terms of your character and personality development) that you had to face previously and ask yourself ,”What did I do to overcome these challenges?” They can be any physical or emotional challenges that you have faced till now.

We all lack the personality we dream for and the personality we want to project to ourselves and to the world.The moment you start capitalizing your insecurities, you will start working upon yourself. Note down all those things that make you feel inferior about yourself and make a list of how to start.

We all feel bad about what we lack and not about what we have.

We all have to settle one day and everyone does that. But you should have thousands of options to live your life.Make sure you do not settle with what life gave you because you never worked upon anything.

Make sure you have a life where you have the opportunity to make or break everything. Please let make healthy contribution so others can learn from it. Hope we can have non bashing free day.

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Jaubdu:
While you, just observe every great personalities around you and feel inferior. You never feel good about yourself.You always feel weaker than others. You just feel like isolating from the whole world. This happens due to the following reasons-

Somewhere you know that you lack something but you hardly do anything about it.
You know the truth but still you do nothing to change it.
That truth of yours always makes you feel bad about yourself.
You just feel like going with the flow but somewhere you want to change it. Although you start, you stop continuing the moment you suck.You feel like you are not meant for it and move on.
You have never made it a habit to work hard,take challenges and learn something new. The problem I have seen with most of my peers in college is that they never come out of their comfort zones to learn something new. They believe in going with the flow and do not have the will to learn something. Which means you lack the willingness to learn something new.
You never learnt to face the problem. Our generation has been provided with all the possible facilities that have fulfilled all our needs and wants. We never took the pain to discover something new as everything is available so easily.
You stop and this ill feeling keeps irritating you right from your head to toe.
Its high-time that you start taking actions. Just start working upon what makes you feel inferior.

If you feel like you score average marks,then start studying and score good marks.
If you feel like you study in an average college,make sure you work well in all the spheres which helps you to secure a good job.
If you feel like you cannot afford to buy branded clothes or you cannot pay your own hospital bills or you cannot afford to dine in a decent restaurant, work harder to earn more money and you fulfill all your needs.
If you feel like you don’t work at the right job and you are still miles away from cracking your dream job,work harder than yesterday and gain some more skills necessary to land that dream job. Work upon all those skills and gain knowledge that will make you a potential employee and you stand out of the crowd.
If you feel like you are not confident in speaking a foreign language and that is becoming a hindrance in your success,learn that language and keep learning it.
If you are single and everyone rejects you because you lack some traits,then start working upon some qualities of yours and project yourself as a potential partner. Instead of chasing anyone,work and gain the qualities of a potential partner.(Here, I don’t mean good looks)
If you feel unhealthy and you have a pot belly,then start exercising and eat healthy food. This will increase your inner confidence.
It is also necessary to take challenges and get out of your bed to learn something new. Conquer the new territories.
Think about all the challenges(in terms of your character and personality development) that you had to face previously and ask yourself ,”What did I do to overcome these challenges?” They can be any physical or emotional challenges that you have faced till now.

We all lack the personality we dream for and the personality we want to project to ourselves and to the world.The moment you start capitalizing your insecurities, you will start working upon yourself. Note down all those things that make you feel inferior about yourself and make a list of how to start.

We all feel bad about what we lack and not about what we have.

We all have to settle one day and everyone does that. But you should have thousands of options to live your life.Make sure you do not settle with what life gave you because you never worked upon anything.

Make sure you have a life where you have the opportunity to make or break everything. Please let make healthy contribution so others can learn from it. Hope we can have non bashing free day.

Your first problem is your slave mentality that you are black.
Check skin colour well, ARE YOU BLACK?

Go and search for videos of Archbishop Benson Idahosa addressing the whites, you will never remain the same again.

OsuMustGo:
Your first problem is your slave mentality that you are black.
Check skin colour well, ARE YOU BLACK?

. Slave mentality? In all official document,it is either you are dark (black) or fair in complexion (white). I think it mostly has to do with attitudinal behavior complexity.

Anybody that feels there's something making him to be less a man will definitely feel inferior. Check yourself.

Justbehave:
Anybody that feels there's something making him to be less a man will definitely feel inferior. Check yourself.

Justbehave, don't derail thread. Above write up is for everyone who desire to raise above his peer. It like tip or nuggets. Try to have a bit comprehension skill.

Jaubdu:
Justbehave, don't derail thread. Above write up is for everyone who desire to raise above his peer. It like tip or nuggets. Try to have a bit comprehension skill.

Funny you.You should atleast try to understand my point first before fighting me by telling me to have a bit of comprehension. Lol. Like I said and concur with your post,We should all check ourselves and make the necessary amends. You sef you too dey vex.

Justbehave:
Funny you.You should atleast try to understand my point first before fighting me by telling me to have a bit of comprehension. Lol. Like I said and concur with your post,We should all check ourselves and make the necessary amends. You sef you too dey vex.

. Let there be peace. We can build each other through our God given talents. Have a great day

Jaubdu:
. Let there be peace. We can build each other through our God given talents. Have a great day

Peace bro.No vex.I'm very sorry about the other incident. Nice thread .

Justbehave:
Peace bro.No vex.I'm very sorry about the other incident. Nice thread .

. I look forward for greater things between us.Thanks.