Good morning bro/sis.


Please I just want to make this brief. I have this girl I have been dating for 2years now. She is black bold and endowed behind.

But lately she has been getting fat excessively and I'm planning to wife her. But right now I'm scared she might get worst when she start having kids for me.

I don't want to offend her. Please how do I tell her to loose some fat without hurting her?

She is the type that manipulate things and I don't want it to seems like I'm getting tired of her of trying to quit or body shaming her.

Please your advice is needed.

Thank you.

Una no dey sleep


Well my advice. Calm her or sir her down buy Her a favourite meal and be like honey you are black bold and beautiful and you are physically endowed with a good sense of humour but do you know I want us to work on your fat.

Please smile when you talk to her and don't be too serious about it. Thank me later.

Bluethong1:
Good morning bro/sis.


Please I just want to make this brief. I have this girl I have been dating for 2years now. She is black bold and endowed behind.

But lately she has been getting fat excessively and I'm planning to wife her. But right now I'm scared she might get worst when she start having kids for me.

I don't want to offend her. Please how do I tell her to loose some fat without hurting her?

She is the type that manipulate things and I don't want it to seems like I'm getting tired of her of trying to quit or body shaming her.

Please your advice is needed.

Thank you.

take her jogging with u

Scared of who you wanna wife? Interesting indeed

Bluethong1:
Good morning bro/sis.


Please I just want to make this brief. I have this girl I have been dating for 2years now. She is black bold and endowed behind.

But lately she has been getting fat excessively and I'm planning to wife her. But right now I'm scared she might get worst when she start having kids for me.

I don't want to offend her. Please how do I tell her to loose some fat without hurting her?

She is the type that manipulate things and I don't want it to seems like I'm getting tired of her of trying to quit or body shaming her.

Please your advice is needed.

Thank you.

Pls tell her... I cant marry a fat wife, so I wunt advise u to marry 1...

Tell her to stop getting fat

ProfDview1:



Pls tell her... I cant marry a fat wife, so I wunt advise u to marry 1...

Tell her to stop getting fat

Haha! You are funny but that would be somehow rude to say and she would feel uncomfortable around him. He needs to tell her in a cool way.

Anneka101:




Haha! You are funny but that would be somehow rude to say and she would feel uncomfortable around him. He needs to tell her in a cool way.

Okay.. But thank God sha.. The first time I talk abt liking a lady, I tell her that I like in her... Yes I tell her.. Babe I love the way u look so slim..

Yes I love it when a lady is slim or averagely okay with correct boobs n ass...

Yes correct boobs n ass.. But dt stature is a compulsory stuff ooo...

Bluethong1:
Good morning bro/sis.


Please I just want to make this brief. I have this girl I have been dating for 2years now. She is black bold and endowed behind.

But lately she has been getting fat excessively and I'm planning to wife her. But right now I'm scared she might get worst when she start having kids for me.

I don't want to offend her. Please how do I tell her to loose some fat without hurting her?

She is the type that manipulate things and I don't want it to seems like I'm getting tired of her of trying to quit or body shaming her.

Please your advice is needed.

Thank you.

Tread carefully, for landmines are ahead.

That said, haven't you been enjoying that endowed behind? How do you think she has been maintaining it?

As for adding weight because of pregnancy, it's almost inevitable.

I think there's a deeper issue though. This one that you are scared to express yourself because of her manipulative behavior indicates serious problems ahead. You better have an honest, straightforward talk with her before you do for better for worse.

Emotional blackmail can lead to resentment and later hatred. Think twice, think well.

Finally, there used to be an advice given in the days of yore.
If you want to know what your wife will look like after many years, go and look at her mama.

come up with a scary lie about obesity. U will c

It will end in tears if you don't brave up now.

Bluethong1

I don't quite understand your post or maybe it just sounds dumb to me.

If I get you correctly, you're asking us to advice you on how to talk to a girl you've dated for 2 years, right? 2 fudging years?

You lack communication skills from the look of things and you don't yet have a handle on your girl yet. Work on these before you wife her.

A man in control would know how best to address issues with his girl. Your relationship is mature enough. Whatever specific advice you get here may not apply to your situation.

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Tell her that ogogro cures coronavirus.

Join a gym house, ask her to just escort you there for few a times and then encourage her to join the gym.
This is the latest trick.

Not being able to speak freely and honestly to your partner is a major red flag especially as it concerns marriage.

You might want to pause and reconsider your plans of marrying such a woman or better, work on your communication.

This is a disaster waiting to happen. Don’t get railroaded into marriage just to assuage your partner. If you’re not on the same page in terms of communication I’d advise you to discard marriage plans. How you go get wife still dey fear to follow an talk truth. Na wa for guys these days sef.

Anneka101:
Una no dey sleep


Well my advice. Calm her or sir her down buy Her a favourite meal and be like honey you are black bold and beautiful and you are physically endowed with a good sense of humour but do you know I want us to work on your fat.

Please smile when you talk to her and don't be too serious about it. Thank me later.

Buy someone her favorite mean because you want to tell her to watch her weight? Where do you people come? Are we so bleeped that everything has to watered down because it's to harsh; including the truth?




Dude tell that girl straight up that she needs to watch her weight.



What type of this is this

Start building up yourself physically with different forms of exercise, tell her you want to look fit on and before your wedding ceremony. When she notices the change in you, she will adjust.

Also make her feel jealous by talking more about popular female models and their nice physique during any discussion with her. This one is a fast process because no woman wants to lose a nice catch(man) to another woman.

Be persistent about this routine because women respond to feelings and not mere words.

Thanks.

God bless.

Anneka101:
Una no dey sleep


Well my advice. Calm her or sir her down buy Her a favourite meal and be like honey you are black bold and beautiful and you are physically endowed with a good sense of humour but do you know I want us to work on your fat.

Please smile when you talk to her and don't be too serious about it. Thank me later.

Take for instance, you are the babe in question, he toll this your lines and how sure it's gonna work....some women are crazily wired ...it's a 50-50 thang.

CaveAdullam:
Start building up yourself physically with different forms of exercise, tell her you want to look fit on and before your wedding ceremony. When she notices the change in you, she will adjust.

Also make her feel jealous by talking more about popular female models and their nice physique during any discussion with her. This one is a fast process because no woman wants to lose a nice catch(man) to another woman.

Be persistent about this routine because women respond to feelings and not mere words.

Thanks.

God bless.

Gbam....this is it but he should not use the latter to the extreme.....she will become extremely jealous and it might lead to insecurity.

Hmm, you say she has a fat a** , but do you love her? Do you know that if she goes on eating without exercising she will definitely turn into a whale in the near future.

You need to man up and act fast so you don’t lose that ass or worse still spoil it for everybody. See op, don’t act the sissy at times like this.

Wake up at 2am one very good morning and go sit on your chair in the parlor. Switch on the lights and sit comfortably but purposefully (tv must be off), grab your measuring tape or a long thin rope on your way.

Call her out of bed to you, command her to stand and face sideways in front of you then spank her a** once forcefully with your right hand (to clear the sleep out of her eyes)

Then with your left hand take the measuring tape and from the tip of her titts drop it straight down to the ground. There should be a small gap from the point where the tape touches the ground to the tip of her feet (if the tape dropped directly on her feet as you placed it then I really pity you already)

This space is measurable and totally dependent on how busty your woman is, MEASURE THIS SPACE IN FRONT OF HER.

You see that space ... the exact length of that space is called THE POINT OF NO RETURN.

Spank her a** again, draw her right ear and tell her these exact words below;

Iya record this measurement. Because any day your belle protrude cross this line na time for my new wife to enter this house too.

Then stand up, switch off the lights and go back up to bed and continue sleeping. I swear that woman will know there is fire on the mountain and act accordingly.

Skmoda:

Gbam....this is it but he should not use the latter to the extreme.....she will become extremely jealous and it might lead to insecurity.

Of course! Everything must be done with caution in order to maintain balance.

Well done.

Bluethong1:
Good morning bro/sis.


Please I just want to make this brief. I have this girl I have been dating for 2years now. She is black bold and endowed behind.

But lately she has been getting fat excessively and I'm planning to wife her. But right now I'm scared she might get worst when she start having kids for me.

I don't want to offend her. Please how do I tell her to loose some fat without hurting her?

She is the type that manipulate things and I don't want it to seems like I'm getting tired of her of trying to quit or body shaming her.

Please your advice is needed.

Thank you.

You'll be surprised she's aware of it too. So just mention it in your next talk. Blame her recent weight gain on the lockdown.lol

It’s obvious that she’s going to be a fat person weather she loses weight or not
It’s better you drop this ‘‘how do i tell her’’
before you come back here to ask us ‘’how do i kill my wife’’

Samueleriamiatoe:
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Bluethong1:
Good morning bro/sis.


Please I just want to make this brief. I have this girl I have been dating for 2years now. She is black bold and endowed behind.

But lately she has been getting fat excessively and I'm planning to wife her. But right now I'm scared she might get worst when she start having kids for me.

I don't want to offend her. Please how do I tell her to loose some fat without hurting her?

She is the type that manipulate things and I don't want it to seems like I'm getting tired of her of trying to quit or body shaming her.

Please your advice is needed.

Thank you.

Next time you want to take her from the back tell her that your dick is not entering because she has added some weight there

I believe you saw her before going for her. And you'll have noticed she has the tendency to become fat but still went ahead. Why are you now complaining?

See, it simple.... If someone is not your spec, don't go near them. If for any reason you decide to consider them in spite of your specifications, then learn to accept and love them the way they are.

I had a similar experience where I gave specifics on the height I wanted in my man but along the line, I chose and fell in love with someone not up to the required height I wanted and I never for once regretted chosing him because I learned to love and accept him the way he is. And not complain or try to take him to "stretching machine" to make him taller.

If you can't cope, let her be. Stop putting some body through a stress you cannot undergo for others.
Stop body shaming. An important personality almost died yesterday from surgery, trying to reduce fat.

Why not start workout programs together, talk to her about the benefits that's init not just the weight loss... Be friendly about it... This lockdown is even in most people's favour for exercising....

All shades of wrong. Seems na she dey feed you this one you are scared and want to marry a manipulator.

GOOD DAY...
BELIEVE ME, IF YOU CAN'T FREELY TELL YOUR WOMAN STUFFS LIKE THAT WITHOUT HER GETTING OFFENDED, THEN YOU ARE IN FOR A DIP SH*T ALONG THE LINE. I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG IN YOU TELLING YOUR WOMAN TO WORK ON HERSELF. SHE OUGHT TO BE HAPPY AND APPRECIATIVE THAT YOU ARE SINCERE WITH HER, UNLESS SHE'VE GOT INFERIORITY COMPLEX ISSUE...
WHEN I WAS DATING MY HUBBY, HE CALLS ME SCAR FACE (GOT THE SCARE DUE TO ACCIDENT) AND I CALL HIM K-LEG OR BROKEN TEETH, THAT'S THE REAL FUN IN THE RELATIONSHIP....
IF YOU REALLY HAVE TO THINK IT BEFORE TELLING HER TO WORK ON HERSELF, THEN SHE MIGHT KEEP MANIPULATING YOU EVEN IN THE MARRIAGE... PLEASE WORK ON YOUR COMMUNICATION BEFORE WIFING HER, TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH...

Cindy95:
GOOD DAY...
BELIEVE ME, IF YOU CAN'T FREELY TELL YOUR WOMAN STUFFS LIKE THAT WITHOUT HER GETTING OFFENDED, THEN YOU ARE IN FOR A DIP SH*T ALONG THE LINE. I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG IN YOU TELLING YOUR WOMAN TO WORK ON HERSELF. SHE OUGHT TO BE HAPPY AND APPRECIATIVE THAT YOU ARE SINCERE WITH HER, UNLESS SHE'VE GOT INFERIORITY COMPLEX ISSUE...
WHEN I WAS DATING MY HUBBY, HE CALLS ME SCAR FACE (GOT THE SCARE DUE TO ACCIDENT) AND I CALL HIM K-LEG OR BROKEN TEETH, THAT'S THE REAL FUN IN THE RELATIONSHIP....
IF YOU REALLY HAVE TO THINK IT BEFORE TELLING HER TO WORK ON HERSELF, THEN SHE MIGHT KEEP MANIPULATING YOU EVEN IN THE MARRIAGE... PLEASE WORK ON YOUR COMMUNICATION BEFORE WIFING HER, TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH...

You made a very brilliant point.... But aunty, why are you shouting in Capital letters?