Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

The so-called religious organizations don't have the power to build or change society. ISRAEL must return to their identity as the people of YAH and keep the Commandments.

The spirit of YAH can quicken his people who are called by his name to obey.

The world has changed.

So don't expect things to remain thesame. Kids are now smarter and there is easy access to information.

There is also contraceptive and birth control which is easily available so you can have sex without getting pregnant.

lalastic.lala don't you think this is enlightening

Fabulouzjoseph:
The world has changed. So don't expect things to remain thesame. Kids are now smarter and they is easy access to information. They is also contraceptive and birth control which is easily available so you can have sex without getting pregnant.

The answer is all here. Birth control has made the difference.....before, during and even after sex

Fabulouzjoseph:
The world has changed. So don't expect things to remain thesame. Kids are now smarter and they is easy access to information. They is also contraceptive and birth control which is easily available so you can have sex without getting pregnant.

You on point Joseph. The world has changed and will keep changing, but many are not awake to that truth.

Whatever happened in the past should stay there.

So does sex automatically and suddenly become something sacred/accepted because of marriage (which is itself, merely a certificate with two names and signatures, and few people invited to a feast)?,

The idea of premarital sex was to reduce the rate of unwanted pregnancies and to guilt trip people into getting married before having sex. Unwanted pregnancies can be abolished by using contraceptives and adequate sexual education. And marriage in all sincerity has outlived it's usefulness.

So "premarital sex" doesn't command much fear as it used to. And this may not change soon. Sorry.

Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.
Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.
Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?
What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

Nothing went wrong with society at all. Everything ended up as it was always going to. Lies and Guilt have never been great motivators, so what you assume to be failure is nothing of the such.

karo93:


The answer is all here. Birth control has made the difference.....before, during and even after sex

How many people in Nigeria, for instance, use birth control?

edoairways:
lalasticlala don't you think this is enlightening

You have ran away from the phone section
Why?

TrollKiller:

You have ran away from the phone section
Why?

Am still there waiting for the appropriate time to strike

evolution. people are becoming wiser. premarital sex was rare because people get married as teenagers before. Now we have singles in thirties, premarital sex must happen

tobechi20:
evolution. people are becoming wiser. premarital sex was rare because people get married as teenagers before. Now we have singles in thirties, premarital sex must happen

Wiser? According to a report I read not too long ago, wisdom is something we have not gotten more of in the last 150 years. People aren't wiser..

This life is too short. There is no gain in dying a virgin.
You need to be fvcked atleast once!!!

Because konji catalysts has increased geometrically!
Everywhere you look, sex & nudity!!
Music, movies, SM, road, ads, comedy skits, even inside church..

Let me answer the op here.

1.The truth is that Iniquity abounds.

2. The fear of God is far from men.
3. Technology and the media have escalated it.
4. Poverty and poor parenting
5. Internet (free porn sites to view)
Just to mention a few

watch ur comments on this topic bcs Jesus is on this platform and whatever u say will stand against u on the judgement day.#nosayinowarnu

TrollKiller:

You [b]have ran [/b]away from the phone section
Why?

...have run...

The world is changing but God's standard never change.

Mostly Trust issue

Who still debates about premarital sex in 2020?
15 year Olds these days totally understand their bodies and are already in charge of it. They have greater concerns like how they can use STEM in addressing global issues like global warming, over population, poverty, pandemics etc.
Serious nations have progressed beyond this level of reasoning...
They are now thinking of settling down families in Mars.

To me, a chunk of the blame goes to religious organizations another goes to social media exposure.

These days, in a bid to garner members and make more money, pastors/priest hardly preach against sexual immoralities. Church members involve in sex openly these days, funny thing is, even head of groups in churches are fully aware, but no one condemns it.

Then on the other hand, exposure to internet have given young people information that they won't be privy to at that young age. This info have exposed and corrupted their mind right from an early age.

These days, if you are above 25 and you are still a virgin, people look at you awkwardly as if you are not a human being.

I still advocate for people to remain a virgin till marriage.

Because men has choosen to go after their own "gods"!

The world has changed, so do we.
30% of the internet is porn, yet almost everybody has access to internet nowadays.
There is no way you will surf online in a day and you wont come across something related to porn.
7 years old kids nowadays know there ways around the internet, seeing these things will definitely piqued their interest and the urge to explore it starts.
Moreover, anything sex is like a forbidden topic to discuss yet what most of us don't understand is that the forbidden is what entices human beings the most

Too many sharamuta ass niggas

Bb

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Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

1.It was always there mind you. People did not talk much about it back then, but it was there.

2.Delay in getting married and long life. In the good old days, a child went straight to adulthood. Nothing like adolescence (even in Europe up to the 1950's children left school between 14-16 and started working. University was for the very intelligent minority, and was not a must). And also, a while ago, you could be dead by the time you were 50. So, you got married when a teenager, and libido was satisfied.

3.Until the 1950's in my opinion, most Nigerians lived in small villages. Everyone knew everyone's business. You sleep around, you got easily shamed. Now, many of us live in urban areas. You sleep around, no one is going to come and shame you. For what? Do your aged parents living in the village know what you are up to every day??