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JourneytoEL:
Call her privately and advise her or if you are too shy use morning devotion and generalize the issue, don't speak specifically about her, but preach on how pornography is a sinful weapon that can enslave Christians and how God hates it. Teach her the importance of keeping her eyes clean because the eyes is the window to her soul

Thank you.

Vision202:
There is nothing to be more concerned about why she approached me. You didn't understand what I wrote. She wanted to give me a movie but she has forgotten she has porn too on her phone or probably didn't occur to her the whole files will open on the laptop. That's why she wasn't feeling comfortable... Image123 got the point.

We relates well or lemme say normally as her sister's husband and she respects me.

We still relates as before... So nothing of such of what you were thinking and asking.

ok. My mistake for not comprehending the message contained.

Yes, you took a great decision by keeping mute. Your preaching won't have no effect. And I will give you 3 reasons why your preaching will be useless in this kind of case.

1. Porn imitate life. What do I mean? It is like telling her not to watch films where a guy and a lady goes on a date. She can't escape from it. It's everywhere around her.
2. It calms especially during period you are Hot. There are periods you feel like having sex even as a virgin. There are alot of things that triggers it.
3. It teaches her not to settle for less. Most men only thinks of their satisfaction. With porn she gets to know there is more to banging.

And she will keep piling secrets that may plunge her into amoral abyss. You think that's the best for her? The lady in question needs councel, age does not measure maturity..

Maximus69:
How old is she?
Because if she's 18+ nobody has the right to intervene into her private life!
True Christians (Jehovah's Witnesses) must assist her by directing her to the elders of the Christian congregation, but if she's not a baptized JW nobody has the right to intimidate her.
Even her church pastor dare not talk about it otherwise she'll leave that church for the church that will keep her secrets secret

Vision202:
I would like to seek opinion of others on what to do about this issue.


Thanks as I await your response.

Don't be surprised. Porn is a very big issue in the church and with most Christians.

Only very few Christians have disciplined themselves to stop watching porn totally, majority in the church haven't. I guess it's because we are sexual beings by God's creation and often try to use porn as an outlet to release sexual tension and pressure.

Porn and masturbation has terrible consequences, mostly spiritual. Poverty, stagnation, regression, incubus and Succubus oppression, etc.

Warn her about the dangers of porn but don't force her. She's an adult, Let her decide what's best for her.

judedwriter:
Don't be surprised. Porn is a very big issue in the church and with most Christians.

Only very few Christians have disciplined themselves to stop watching porn totally, majority in the church haven't. I guess it's because we are sexual beings by God's creation and often try to use porn as an outlet to release sexual tension and pressure.

Porn and masturbation has terrible consequences, mostly spiritual. Poverty, stagnation, regression, incubus and Succubus oppression, etc.

Warn her about the dangers of porn but don't force her. She's an adult, Let her decide what's best for her.

Okay.
Thank you.