rastaLivity:
Broke up with my girl last Tuesday, she told me she was gonna commit suicide that night, that I should get ready to hear about her death the next day. Girls eeh.....

lol...mine said she going to drink poison and kill her self...

but today, if we mistakenly come across each other, she wont even look at me for up to 3 nano-seconds she go jst troway face like say i dnt exist

gunners160:
Na thunder go fire u. U had such a loving gf yet you broke her heart. You thought she can't live without you but shame catch u she survived and acted like u never existed. Whoa, Mr Indispensable hope u don win award

You made a good point.......but invoking thunder was uncalled for.......we all make mistakes and need to be shown the right way when we realise ourselves.

the introvert one or the one who loves and invest most in the relationship

Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

Bros,,, if u love her, contact her,, know how life is going with her... Precise when u left her, u went for another Lady.

See eh, my brother this question is not for ardent arsenal fans. I mean Arsenal fans like me that was with them right from when kanu scored that hat trick against Chelsea. If you are such, you won't even think of or feel any heartbreak by any girl. Do you want to know what heartbreak is? Heartbreak is Arsenal vs Barcelona champions league final 2006. Heartbreak is Arsenal vs Birmingham carling cup final. I still have not forgiven Obafemi Martins for that.
And you're here talking about girl, heartbreak, moving on. You never see anything my guy.

Guy you are a cold blooded beast, your write up shows that you do not even trust yourself; must your relationship be defined by money 100%. I know two love birds who went apart because of a little difference. Local man was always comparing her to other girls, I had to tell my guy to pick up the phone and call her that was after two years they went apart. Today, they are married just pick up the phone and call you never can tell.

Babanlagenius:


Not so. I only wanted to give her a better life by indirectly allowing someone else to come in cause mine was difficult.

Things have changed now.
You can correct someone without abusing the person.

guy,i understnd where u are coming from.u felt so bad dat u couldn't provide her needs.the mistake is that u should have told her about ur condition,it is for her to decide whether to stay or not.BUt dnt blame urself.move on.never attempt to get back to her just close the chapter

Sweettea9:
Hard to believe
But girls do, I have many reasons to back up my claim!
People assume men cheat more often.. which sometimes is true, especially if the couple already has children, the mother usually has to look after the kids while the man can have a secret mistress or affair. But women also cheat, and one of the reasons why is probably because it's easier for a woman to find any man to have an affair with but for a man, it takes a bit more work depending on several factors (if you don't beleive me, log into a dating app as a woman, you will get bombarded with messages from men).

U have a point

It depends on many factors such as who initiates the breakup, who is hurt most, who invests more in the relationship, who easily finds new partner and so on. This is because we have seen both men and women committing suicide after breakups

Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

She is moving on because talking further with you brings more hurt. She didn't forget you but would always welcome you back if you wish but wouldn't stand talking with someone who broke her. I have had my fair share of this experience. Had some pill of this hurt on last week Sunday. This guy still want to be engaging me on video calls every night, day and morning but I can't stand such betrayal. Let him engage some other person. It must not be me because it hurts a lot.

tayooluwole:
The biggest mistakes any guy can make is to ever think any lady can not do without them... You see ladies ehn, once they move on,,,they dust their past behind them and never looked back in most cases. Lady is only attached to a guy for just the moment it last and not beyond,,,all other things being equal

but that doesnot deny the fact that Okafor can still come to play between them right?

Babanlagenius:


Not so. I only wanted to give her a better life by indirectly allowing someone else to come in cause mine was difficult.

Things have changed now.
You can correct someone without abusing the person.

You bleeped up bro, you just missed out on a few good girls around. I just don't know why most guys throwaway good things on a platter. She never complained or anything, she even begged you to reconsider but you felt you owed her a better life when she hasn't even said anything about. I mean she should be the one breaking up with you and not the other way round. You think at 26 she doesn't know what she wants? This is life bro, you can't have it all!

I got a girl, i love her but shes broke too

It depends and is debatable!

Mikkymilli:
See eh, my brother this question is not for ardent arsenal fans. I mean Arsenal fans like me that was with them right from when kanu scored that hat trick against Chelsea. If you are such, you won't even think of or feel any heartbreak by any girl. Do you want to know what heartbreak is? Heartbreak is Arsenal vs Barcelona champions league final 2006. Heartbreak is Arsenal vs Birmingham carling cup final. I still have not forgiven Obafemi Martins for that.
And you're here talking about girl, heartbreak, moving on. You never see anything my guy.

lol this cracked me up full time!
you for still add Man United vs Arsenal 8-1

Whoever is not in love

Babanlagenius:


Not so. I only wanted to give her a better life by indirectly allowing someone else to come in cause mine was difficult.

Things have changed now.
You can correct someone without abusing the person.

And if things get bad for you again divorce? And when it gets better reconcile. Repeat x10?

Better to have built together....

flyingpig:
Very Very true. Guys feel better in the immediate shirt term of break up and very horrible in the long term. Reverse is the case for women.

Sorry oo but have u been both genders? ;DI mean have u been a man and also a woman to know its VERY true

Ariza:
Not only are you selfish, you are so disrespectful too. Just imagine the way you describe your woman and your worries. Please stay your lane ,she deserves better.

I noticed that statement too. Imagine that!

holatin:
the introvert one or the one who loves and invest most in the relationship

101% correct

it's not true that they forget completely. they only learn to be strong over time to live with it. they will not call or come around since you don't want them again. but if you go beg it would be easier for them to open up how they miss you. but it wouldn't be like before.

Well, for both sides, there is no such thing as moving on easily from an amazing and fulfilling relationship, except it was never a great relationship.

Forget speed of entering another relationship, the extra baggage remains.

SmellingAnus:
don't you think he did the right thing since he was very broke as at then? Just being inquisitive

It is not his place to make such a decision. Had it been she told him she can't cope, that she wants to marry and he knows his finances are nowhere near ready, then that's different.
He just presumed that's what she wanted and shattered her heart. A weak man.

SeanBeezy:
lol this cracked me up full time!
you for still add Man United vs Arsenal 8-1

8-2 actually bros. No deny us our goal.
This one follow too but na normal league match. i de talk of final wey person dn de anticipate for long only to be heartbroken.

SeanBeezy:
You bleeped up bro, you just missed out on a few good girls around. I just don't know why most guys throwaway good things on a platter. She never complained or anything, she even begged you to reconsider but you felt you owed her a better life when she hasn't even said anything about. I mean she should be the one breaking up with you and not the other way round. You think at 26 she doesn't know what she wants? This is life bro, you can't have it all!

Aswear. The sad thing is that the man coming after him might suffer for his sins.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
The thing is women are emotionally traumatized at the beginning of every break up but after some time na we real niggarrrs dey suffer am

At first we real niggarrrs go dey feel like a boss

And the woman go dey cry

But in a couple of months ehnnnnn..... those ladies will be emotionally strong

you are emotionally wrong, bro.

totally and emotionally wrong and you know it.



don't deceive the ladies.

you deceive them in real life, still want deceive dem on NL?

Naija ladies walking around with spear tyres since 1960. In case, the real G fuckup, the guy on suspense[On Bench] will just swim in .

flyingpig:
Very Very true. Guys feel better in the immediate shirt term of break up and very horrible in the long term. Reverse is the case for women.

Because it is easier for women generally to meet new partners than for most men to succeed in getting new partners.

Sweettea9:
Hard to believe
But girls do, I have many reasons to back up my claim!
People assume men cheat more often.. which sometimes is true, especially if the couple already has children, the mother usually has to look after the kids while the man can have a secret mistress or affair. But women also cheat, and one of the reasons why is probably because it's easier for a woman to find any man to have an affair with but for a man, it takes a bit more work depending on several factors (if you don't beleive me, log into a dating app as a woman, you will get bombarded with messages from men).

Very much on point

flyingpig:

Same position I am in with my current gf. Exactly how your ex is, no difference in anyway. Extremely beautiful, loves me billion times than I love her. Do all those things your did. But very expectant of marriage whereas I'm not even close to financially stable and I'm thinking of moving her on. So i can settle my little brothers, establish myself before getting a wife.

Don't know if I'll regret moving her on for someone more ready for marriage.

Pls beg her to be patient for u. I don't wanna clean tears later

that's true to some extent tho

I wan follow chop kiss o

sherylbakky:
May God bless you....chop kiss

Mikkymilli:

8-2 actually bros. No deny us our goal.
This one follow too but na normal league match. i de talk of final wey person dn de anticipate for long only to be heartbroken.

bro you funny die!