futurism:


My brother, you sound someone that is too calculative in everything you do. But the downside of such is that you can end up making up things that doesn't exist.

See you were thinking u won't have or make money when you ended it but here you are with an improvement.

I used be like that but I found out that over thinking things can be detrimental to our lives more than we realize it.

Don't over think it. Just do it. Don't go with your friends yet. Call or chat her up and indirectly or playfully ask the questions to find out if she is getting married soon but if you don't know how do that such that it won't be obvious, then find another way to do it.

Or better still meet her one on one, at a private place and trash everything like a man.

luminouz:


Lol...pele mai dear..


Use chrome na

vickydevoka:

U suppose know as en de be na.
Opera de give free 50mb everyday

holatin:
the introvert one

luminouz:


Very simple...he wants to hurt her too for the hurt he got when she broke up...revenge things

He is weak. His so called love is toxic.

Sixfeetbelle:




We're telling you that it's not always the case. No be all the guys dey move on faster

luminouz:


No mind OP.

He is an impulsive creature. This made him break up with that fine geh and he is still being impulsive by saying he will go to her house with his friends... Like wtf!!!

So if she is already married or engaged nko? Naso you go visit her with your friends and her guy go package better beating for you.

He sounds like a Gemini to me. Very undecided and prone to mood swings

Razzman1:
I got a girl, i love her but shes broke too

Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

mariahAngel:


"I know book"

Zoie:

It is not his place to make such a decision. Had it been she told him she can't cope, that she wants to marry and he knows his finances are nowhere near ready, then that's different.
He just presumed that's what she wanted and shattered her heart. A weak man.

bond77:

I completely agree with you. some ladies can be very very deceptive. The same way a lady hides her feeling after break up is the same they hide their feelings when a guy starts wooing them from the onset. some ladies would be acting like rebecah, waiting for you to serve them for years like Issac before they acknowledge your feelings. but deep down, they are desperately longing for the guy .some ladies can be very insecure Sha.

Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

Aileexa1:

If you mean that introverts don't move on easily then you are wrong...I am an introvert and I had been in a relationship with a guy for over a year...Loved him like I had never loved anyone...he broke up because he said I wasn't the right girl for him, that I was too into my shell....Fast forward to three months, after the crying and repeated listening to Adele's songs, I was at least over him to the point that when I saw him, I didn't feel rush of sadness... Just seven months after the break up, after I had moved on and I was already considering another relationship, there he was, in my dms, saying he still loved me and he was sorry and stuff...I just simply ignored his messages. The feelings were already dead....

Sweettea9:
Hard to believe
But girls do, I have many reasons to back up my claim!
People assume men cheat more often.. which sometimes is true, especially if the couple already has children, the mother usually has to look after the kids while the man can have a secret mistress or affair. But women also cheat, and one of the reasons why is probably because it's easier for a woman to find any man to have an affair with but for a man, it takes a bit more work depending on several factors (if you don't beleive me, log into a dating app as a woman, you will get bombarded with messages from men).

tayooluwole:
The biggest mistakes any guy can make is to ever think any lady can not do without them... You see ladies ehn, once they move on,,,they dust their past behind them and never looked back in most cases. Lady is only attached to a guy for just the moment it last and not beyond,,,all other things being equal

Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

tayooluwole:
The biggest mistakes any guy can make is to ever think any lady can not do without them... You see ladies ehn, once they move on,,,they dust their past behind them and never looked back in most cases. Lady is only attached to a guy for just the moment it last and not beyond,,,all other things being equal

teejaymiquel:
lemme be reading comment

Happy sunday bro
FTC for d first time

I dedicate this opportunity to my new crush

#teamNengi

Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently [b]digging that hol[/b]e and probably about to get married as well.

holatin:
that 3 month u are sad, someone else has moved on....that seven month u said u are considering been in another relationship...someone has already has two more failed relationship.....moving on means different thing to us....it's either forgetting that person existence (not having a string of sadness from the breakup) or being in another relationship at the moment. no real introvert jump into another relationship after a failed one....we coil back into our shell, enjoying forceful solitude devoid of any chance of heart get hammered again and soon.....maybe we are different Sha !

luminouz:


I get you sis.

vickydevoka:

I be man

dom80:
moving on is hard for both gender especially the one that is more committed in the relationship. some guys or girls may move on to the next person and the person may not possess the attribute their exs got.

my ex gf who broke up with me 3yrs ago and got married 2yrs later decided to ring my number some days ago. I was surprise because she was the least person I expected to call me. she told me she miss me and that she still has feelings for me...

most time, nobody move on.. the feelings is all there.

luminouz:


No mind OP.

He is an impulsive creature. This made him break up with that fine geh and he is still being impulsive by saying he will go to her house with his friends... Like wtf!!!

So if she is already married or engaged nko? Naso you go visit her with your friends and her guy go package better beating for you.

He sounds like a Gemini to me. Very undecided and prone to mood swings