ubunja:
and you were meeting her for the first time? What the hell?

She's used to simps giving her something. Death to simps

And you're right. Giving her money IS NOT A GUARANTEE for sex. Guys have lost a lot on the promise of sex. No more. Good for you my guy.

She's so used to simps. It couldn't have happened if you didn't do a great job here on nairaland and me stumbling on it.

THANKS MATE

Omar09:


She's so used to simps. It couldn't have happened if you didn't do a great job here on nairaland and me stumbling on it.

THANKS MATE

Simps are sluts. They're the biggest hoes.

A man who gives his money to a woman who doesnt even love him is the same as a woman who gives her pussy to a man who doesn't love her. Both are sluts and hoes.

Petyprincess:
I love how every guy on this thread is forming but in reality na dem dey woo lady for 5 years

Lol, we go beat you ooh,

Most peeps who seriously frowns against it, have
Learnt the hard way same here i could be so ruthless wen i do it even me go dey pity d lady,

But babe make we mingle i love your shape lemme take you off nairaland to the blues if you dont mind, i nor like shakara woman but for you i nor mind,

Duly noted!

Stargurl20:
It's truly high time we stopped it. Fine! We may play it for a while, but it mustn't be for too long. It's so...heart wrenching for me seeing someone I love with someone else . I pray this pains leave soon.... Because it's painful and I need my sanity.

# if you love someone as a lady and you can sense that the feeling is mutual, please stop the hard to get charade.

In this era, play hard to get at your own risk. It's a Naija girl thing anyway

Michelle55:
Duly noted!

I bet you played hard to get too and was burnt by the guy hahhahahahaha.

ThePussiologist:
I bet you played hard to get too and was burnt by the guy hahhahahahaha.

What's funny with the write up? Learn not to assume.

I still wonder why a guy will chase a girl for months/years, haba unless the guy is jobless.
A girl weh no feel you no feel you, someone like me I don't even like stress, the moment am not seeing any greenlight, I go japa oo, no time to waste , when las las some of the girls no get any meaningful to offer self, apart from the usual.

I think it's a only a girl that is clueless to what she wants that will be playing hard to get.

Petyprincess:
I love how every guy on this thread is forming but in reality na dem dey woo lady for 5 years

no mind them. most of them here dey pursue woman for 5years non stop.

Omar09:


She was expecting me to drop with her the little change I have. Leaving her with that little change is not a problem, but the problem is that the minute I do that, I will become her ATM and I might not get her pussy. So it's better I don't get her pussy and I still get to keep my money.

Even she also complained about her phone that it had issues and wanted me to either repair or change it for her

girls can sight a simp ooo asap, I tell you. if you yield to her request asap, she will just take you dey shine ooo.

Masonkaycares:
There's this girl that I only blame myself for falling for her.

Preview (How I Fell For Her)

Am not the type that looks at girls or even talk to them.(I think am a physco)But this girl really got me (lemme call her Lisa) . I went to play football in the evening with my buddies on my way I saw Lisa , dunno where she was coming from cos her house's way behind where I met her. Prior to that day she'd greet me and I'll ignore so most of the time I are her from a distance I start singing my favourite song (Mockingbird by Eminem) . So I did my normal routine as I walked past her but she held my hand and I was like wtf are you doing, she greeted me and asked me to answer her ( I reluctantly did) after that she struck a conversation with me that lasted as long as I don't know (but I was on the subs bench for the match)

She questioned me alot for snubbing and I was looking at her like a sheep(I wanted to slap her but I just kept smiling like that Man on the cabin biscuits pack)

3 months later we were very good friends (I lied to her that I don't like her albeit on the phone) But everything took a rapid spin when she stopped picking my calls till few minutes ago when she called me to say she was busy that's why she couldn't pick my calls. I acted normal but deep inside I had fallen for her . As I am typing this she called twice but I'll Never Love Again

.

No need to play "hard to get"; whatever that means to the diffusely confused creatures. Simply ignore the irrelevancies. Godless wannabe gods.

J111333:
Mean is playing with the heart of an innocent man who did nothing wrong but fall in love with you.

Mean is making more fool of a man who already behaves foolishly while following you up and down, doing everything to please you.

My dear, I have other meanings of mean but time is not my friend at the moment.

I understand where you're coming from but it isn't right to laugh at someone's pain.

Masonkaycares:
There's this girl that I only blame myself for falling for her.

Preview (How I Fell For Her)

Am not the type that looks at girls or even talk to them.(I think am a physco)But this girl really got me (lemme call her Lisa) . I went to play football in the evening with my buddies on my way I saw Lisa , dunno where she was coming from cos her house's way behind where I met her. Prior to that day she'd greet me and I'll ignore so most of the time I are her from a distance I start singing my favourite song (Mockingbird by Eminem) . So I did my normal routine as I walked past her but she held my hand and I was like wtf are you doing, she greeted me and asked me to answer her ( I reluctantly did) after that she struck a conversation with me that lasted as long as I don't know (but I was on the subs bench for the match)

She questioned me alot for snubbing and I was looking at her like a sheep(I wanted to slap her but I just kept smiling like that Man on the cabin biscuits pack)

3 months later we were very good friends (I lied to her that I don't like her albeit on the phone) But everything took a rapid spin when she stopped picking my calls till few minutes ago when she called me to say she was busy that's why she couldn't pick my calls. I acted normal but deep inside I had fallen for her . As I am typing this she called twice but I'll Never Love Again

You were forming hard guy when she obviously liked you. You even told her you didn't like her, so what did you expect? You only have yourself to blame, not for falling but for playing hard to get.

What shall it profit a girl in forming hard 2 get

Leave that thing. Too much hypotheses, no results.

ubunja:
serves you right

In any case you women don't have a clue about how to properly play hard to get. You can have a man pursue you for years if you know how. You can even get married and still have a guy wait around for your divorce eager for his chance. If you know how. Go read about Erica Badu and her game.

The good thing is for every girl forming hard to get, there is an easy catch somewhere waiting to be snapped. If you like continue forming hard to get. Whats my own. Its yourself you are doing

The longest I've chased a girl is 2 days max.
The first day was she saying she'd think about it, the second day was to think about it.

No time mehn

RioCarputo:

girls can sight a simp ooo asap, I tell you. if you yield to her request asap, she will just take you dey shine ooo.

Sharp sharp I told her to pocket her number.

DAVE1010:

You're a Stan, bruvh.

As in Eminem Stan

dmk23:
Op I have learnt my lessons. I once had a guy who was on my neck since 2011 then I had a lot on my mind so I told him when we see in school, because we did one remedia stuff. Year 2012, 2013, 2014 we still talked, and he was still disturbing me I decided to give him chance. We now started it wasn't long before oga said he doesn't have any interest in me any more, he started cheating and what have you then he was treating me so badly. Me I was now so in love with him. One day he told me "I am sure you came back to me after you have had other men" Then we broke up Sha, people were calling our relationship one side love. Since then, any guy I like I will let him know if he asks me out I will say yes immediately. But if the guy too is playing hard to get I loose interest and focus on another guy.

2011 chaii.... U don old

I can't even remember the last time i chased any girl...We replace not chase

Masonkaycares:
As in Eminem Stan

Yeah.

DAVE1010:

Yeah.

I didn't tie her up neither did I slid her throat

ubunja:
serves you right

In any case you women don't have a clue about how to properly play hard to get. You can have a man pursue you for years if you know how. You can even get married and still have a guy wait around for your divorce eager for his chance. If you know how. Go read about Erica Badu and her game.

This will only work on a simp.

I have a girl like that who try to play hard to get. And I have perceived the strategy you mention above is what she is using.

@ubunja I must acknowledge your abundance knowledge in gaming. Its shows you are broad minded person and versatile in relationship in general, I do appreciate people like you.

The girl am talking about truly understands relationship games. She has tried a lot of tricks on me to keep chasing her to know avail.

When ever I stopped showing interest. She would call me and trigger my emotion towards liking her and even make it seems as if we could have sex in no time. Whenever I start showing interest she would be playing hard to get.

I believed she must have learnt about feminism which is the true power of woman. Nevertheless, she is dealing with a strong redpiller who knows the game very well.

Am a guy who don't believe I can get laid by all the ladies I want to bleep but no one can manipulate me. Nevertheless, if I want to get laid by her I would need to restrategize my game very well.

For those who think they can't be manipulated by girl playing hard to get. GIRLS ARE IN DIFFERENT CATEGORIES. Stay woke.

Petyprincess:
I love how every guy on this thread is forming but in reality na dem dey woo lady for 5 years

y is it paining u then..if they choose to lie , does it affect u in anyway?

E be like you don Dey old for house abi

Stargurl20:
It's truly high time we stopped it. Fine! We may play it for a while, but it mustn't be for too long. It's so...heart wrenching for me seeing someone I love with someone else . I pray this pains leave soon.... Because it's painful and I need my sanity.

# if you love someone as a lady and you can sense that the feeling is mutual, please stop the hard to get charade.

Why would I chase a girl that I will still end up spending my money for,
Shey u dey whine me ni