gaius01:
A very funny massive, aunty if the guy that's excetly what I will do. if you truly love him more than your boyfriend break up. if am dating you it's not a favour it's our will to stay together. I don't know why must Nigerians girls in molested relationship do stay because of a favour the guy has done. don't qoute me and not referring to you. mine was a game we are too play immediately I asked her about her relationship status, ,she's dating I lose interest cut any form of Chat with her I don't like sharing a person. if she truly love me then she can trade her relationship for me if not I won't talk to her, higest once in a while reason because my first intention was to date her and she's dating, well bye bye. unless I start a talk with her for friendship purpose.

The bolded is what any sane being with self respect will do.

Quick question though: Will you ever trust and love a lady who broke up with her boyfriend to date you geninuely? Note: there was never any complaints of abuse or unfaithful on her boyfriend's part. She only did because she likes and thinks you are better.

merieam16:
Fake story. i kno is a guy under dat moniker

Which fake story? That's how majority of ladies behave. They are hoes. They will never be satisfied with one guy.

You see why I won't blame guys that say fvck hoes and marry virgins?

Nothing will prevent that type of girl from cheating. Will you say Omotola doesn't see other men she feels are attractive more than her husband on a daily basis? Or Mercy Johnson doesn't come across other men she feels look better than her husband in looks on a daily basis?

It is all about having self control. But no, 80% of ladies are hoes who just can't remain committed to one man. They will always allow their emotions to fool them into believing that the new guy they meet is better than the one they are with which is typically false.

A girl that always fall for handsome looks is a hoe and I don't blame bad boys who use and dump them like tissue papers and when marriage time comes, bad boys will always go for the available virgins.

Girls need to start thinking with their God's given mind instead of thinking with their pussies. If not, a time will come when ladies won't see men to marry due to their promiscuous lifestyles of not being contented with one dick.

The wise ones should take note.

This one is confused

You are a confused lady.There will always be a better guy.
The new guy is very wise.If you want to know why this new guy does not want to have anything with you is because he knows you act like a baby.
You see a better guy than your first boyfriend,you want him and if you see another guy with more potentials than this new guy,you want him too.Learn to be focused.
The guy have sense.He does not want to be a backup guy,a plan B or a side guy.He is a gentleman that why he does not want to be the cause of your break up with your boyfriend that have not offended or done anything wrong to you.
I pity another man you may marry in the future because when you meet someone better than your husband,you start comparing and maybe sleeping with the other man outside and that what HOES do.
Always remember,there is always a better guy.

DaddyRochie1642:
This is as a result of "SEE FINISH"

She don see her boyfriend Finish, that's why she wants a new Challenge

Always avoid "SEE FINISH"

Correct word SEE finish ...

Naso ashawo work take start tomorrow you will see another guy. Rubbish next

Nothing is left, just do freedom for the first guy jejeli b4 it turns out more messy, stick to the second guy.

We will be here to hear what happens 6 months after, keep us posted.

Life sef na risk

donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!

Dman you nailed it.

The Op is just a typical confused Nigerian lady. Such a woman cannot be contented staying with one man because she will always feel there is someone better than him elsewhere. She continues searching for that perfect man and in the process of jumping from one man to another she becomes a public toilet.

I will advise you to stay with you guy ooo.... instead of the new guy....but is your choice .

dukeprince50:
So what do u want us do?
Create visa for u? Or give u transport?

haha

The grass is greener on the other side; that's what I thought before I took the ride...

Op, why put us through the stress of reading this your story, just summarize that the new guy is richer than your boyfriend, we will understand. Qualities kee u there

Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

And you decided to bring our matter to Nairaland.... Anyways I've seen it all

Lalasticlala seun mynd44 Dominique, this one said she no understand how body deh do her wit the new bobo o

Just imagine.well I pity boys who actually go into relationship though.if you are a boy you better forget about relationships and focus on your life.
In her boyfriend's mind he is into a relationship.rubbish.

Palema007:
The bolded is what any sane being with self respect will do.

Quick question though: Will you ever trust and love a lady who broke up with her boyfriend to date you geninuely? Note: there was never any complaints of abuse or unfaithful on her boyfriend's part. She only did because she likes and thinks you are better.

well I understand your point let's talk this talk out of the basket. like you said no signs of abuse neither unfaithfulness. Do you know a girl could break up with you because of lack care, incompatibility, too boring and lots more. from what I can deduce her boyfriend ain't giving her the vibes the other was giving her can you imagine the qualities she listed. dam look at it again, and Las Las her boo is not cheating neither does he abuse her. when I was dating I never allow my chatting vibes to be low, I read alot of wide range so that when we start chatting men she won't have time texting those boys because I know if I don't occupy her with vibes others will

one problem with we Nigerians is that when our Bea is cheating, look at your self, take a deep scan through, ask your self, What makes that guy different from me not getting angry or shouting at her every body want a lively boo no one boring, faithful dude. learn new ways to be Romantic, learn her phycology so that you can inflict it for your sef. if she love your vibes trust me she woñt look out albeit you been faithful.

Anty tell urself the truth.....e be like say ur boyfriend money don dey finish you wan follow the next available flight.

Women and already made stuffs be like 5 and 6

Una no wan struggle but una wan chop.

Well,na ur life Sha...cheers

Dump his broke arse joor.

jayboy007:
Op, why put us through the stress of reading this your story, just summarize that the new guy is richer than your boyfriend, we will understand. Qualities kee u there

My brother...e shock me too o

PureGoldh:
Anty tell urself the truth.....e be like say ur boyfriend money don dey finish you wan follow the next available flight.

Women and already made stuffs be like 5 and 6

Una no wan struggle but una wan chop.

Well,na ur life Sha...cheers

Nothing wrong in that breh.

When you said you love your boyfriend of 6 months, what do you mean by that?

Why do some of we women do this?? If he does same to u , u will say men are scum...and that men are cheats

OK, na to be the guy with the best quality be plan now

Salah highness

Stop dating and falling In love with small girls they are not yet emotionally mature making them the most unstable beings alive, una go gree, see am..

We don’t f**king care. Date all of them and let them continue f**king you

for u to have labelled ur love for ur boyfriend in past tense " was still in love wit him" it is finished already na u sabi shall.

wahala ooo after singing your dicey song ,can you possibly stop been delusional and face reality because I can see you live in a world of fantasy island.ordinary 3 months I can't even imagine the heartbreak that your new Boy got you offer you . you can safe the 6 months boy the stress by breaking up and vamoose rather than been causing harms to the innocent man.

The devil you know ! May it not end in tears though... You dnt really knw how silly or unbearable someone is until you date them. You only see what you want to see! All isn't always as it seems.

Damn! Too many qoutes. Just pick one qoute and apply

Favour2323:


Please don't dissuade those that want to offer their opinions.

This is my story and it's not fake.

I would have said you go after the new one but truth is he will dump you faster than you dump the new guy should you initiate a relationship with him.
The old guy still remains the best option for you for the time being as nobody has full package in life, what you will eventually find in the new guy tomorrow will definitely shock you.
Besides, I have this feeling the new guy wanted to just fire you and leave because if he really was into you, he would have stayed so he left so that you wouldn't solely rely on his relationship.

donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!

I concur, it's obvious this wayward Op is no more a virgin, obo e a ti fé


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