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Everyone talks about how men should avoid married women so as to safeguard their destiny. I am yet to see where ladies are advised about destiny on this issue (married men). Is it that the females don't have destiny? is it only Men that suffer spiritually for sleeping with married women?

delugadou:
Matured contributions are solicited here.
Everyone talks about how men should avoid married women so as to safeguard their destiny. I am yet to see where ladies are advised about destiny on this issue (married men). Is it that the females don't have destiny? is it only Men that suffer spiritually for sleeping with married women?

What do you mean by safeguarding your destiny? Where do you get that inane idea from to begin with?
The person wey tell you that one, him don live him full destiny for him to conclude that there is indeed such a thing?
Take whatever you hear people say, especially within the religious circle, with a grain of salt. If it does not directly connect to the basis of what you already know and have in fact validated mentally, it is likely a lie that you need to get away from.

delugadou:
Matured contributions are solicited here.
Everyone talks about how men should avoid married women so as to safeguard their destiny. I am yet to see where ladies are advised about destiny on this issue (married men). Is it that the females don't have destiny? is it only Men that suffer spiritually for sleeping with married women?

You are a guy o why are you concerned about what women discuss?

Pls sir your thinking is needlessly wayward and wrong. Are you a woman? Are you in exclusive women groups and forums? Do you know what they are taught to avoid or you are just here unable to sleep and being concerned about issues that are not going to move your life forward in anyway.

Late Pastor Bimbo Odukoya of Fountain of life church taught it several times that women should not have illicit affairs especially with married men and she showed scriptures for it....

Pastor Mrs Funke Adejumo also is doing the same thing.... BUT MOST OF HER MEETING ARE FOR ONLY WOMEN. Check some on youtube... Pastor Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo too have sound teachings on these issues..... Pls go and research before you come here to be raising a needless topic.

So why is this matter the one you carried on your head, despite all the enormous things happening in 2020? Why?

Pls focus on what is profitable for your life. Leave women and their teachings alone.

This is a new month and you are carrying info that is not even helpful for you one your head.

Kobojunkie:

What do you mean by safeguarding your destiny?
The person wey tell you that one, him don live him full destiny for him to conclude that there is indeed such a thing?
Take whatever you hear people say, especially within the religious circle, with a grain of salt.

bro, my pal told me that after sleeping with a married woman, he started receiving beatings in the dream. I thought about it and opened the topic. on my own I'm celibate. just need to know what is going on

delugadou:
bro, my pal told me that after sleeping with a married woman, he started receiving beatings in the dream. I thought about it and opened the topic. on my own I'm celibate. just need to know what is going on

ROFLMAO!!


OK. So your friend started having bad dreams after his encounter.. What has that to do with destiny though?

Sin has consequences. I am not entirely convinced the dreams can be considered a consequence of sleeping with a married women as far as your friend is concerned. He might simply be dealing with the mental consequences of living a stressed existence.

Kobojunkie:

I am not entirely convinced the dreams can be considered a consequence of sleeping with a married women

have you tried it before?

delugadou:
have you tried it before?

Nope, but I do know many men and women who engage in it, and are not running around helter skelter as a result believing the world has ended for them as a consequence ... Heck many of the ones I know are serial offenders self, but that is not to say that they won't one day get their comeuppance.

Kobojunkie:
But, I but I know many men and women who engage in it and are not running around helter skelter thinking the world has ended for them afterwards... Heck the ones I know are serial offenders self, but that is not to say that they won't one day get their comeuppance.

okay

delugadou:
okay

Sexual sin is sin, and every sin has its set of consequences. Anyone who sins is destined to live with regrets at some level.. that is no secret. Anyone who suggests you can 'safeguard' your destiny by somehow avoiding sexual sin does not seem to know or understand much about sin, let alone what it means to be human.