I saw my cousin who I learnt is a medical doctor in France here on Facebook,he haven't been home for over 3decaded,so when I called him by our family name,he recognized the identity but demanded I keep that away from public,I asked why,he simply told me that he has picked a name for himself.

I asked if he is aware that his dad was dead and buried, he insisted I talk about myself and forget Dad who was my uncle, haba brother! what is it?
His response was "life happens" that man wanted to make me a Reverend father without my opinion to satisfy his ego.

When are you coming back to Nigeria I asked. "Nigeria shall remain a country in my map,here is my home,so when are you coming to France,he asked?

I don't have intention of coming to a nation that stole my blood,I responded.
He sent a laughing emoji.

I felt bad
What happened?
How deep was he offended that he could reject everything home?

Ok,take care bro,I left his inbox.
This morning I saw his message with pictures of his family,grown boys and 2girl.

And he added that he is surprised I didn't ask for money
I told him that i still carry on the family honour of not begging from strangers,the man called me and was mad at me that I referred to him as a stranger.

He will see this, but if there is anyway I am wrong please tell me..
I knew him as a boy but if I offended you by my response, I am sorry but that is exactly how I felt.


Iloduba A.



This is not only peculiar to the Igbo ,a lot of Africans ethnicity are loosing their best brains to Europe and the need for leadership in Africa to wake becomes more imperative and Africans must elect intelligent leaders


Please you can also share your experience of how some of your relatives have lost it to the Western Nations

Your Cousin would surely live long... He knows how to avoid trouble...

Mo3891:
Your Cousin would surely live long... He knows how to avoid trouble...

Irrelevant trash from you

So how exactly does ur Ill mannered, European wannabe cousin represent a whole tribe??
U mention igbo losing it .... A whole tribe of great men losing it bcoz of a road side cleaner in France??

It must run in ur family

The day he is giving George Floyd type treatment by some French hoodlums is the day he will remember he is a nobody but a son of black African and Nigerian for that matter.
I saw his kin burying his casket somewhere at Nnewi as Floyd supposed kin did at somewhere in Imo recently.

fykes:
So how exactly does ur Ill mannered, European wannabe cousin represent a whole tribe??
U mention igbo losing it .... A whole tribe of great men losing it bcoz of a road side cleaner in France??

It must run in ur family

But this is harsh nah. Weting e talk wey e reach this insult?

There is a charm for bringing lost relatives home, especially those abroad.....Visit your village dibia and watch magic unfold before your eyes

Obalatule:
There is a charm for bringing lost relatives home, especially those abroad.....Visit your village dibia and watch magic unfold before your eyes

My brethren, fear God nah.

Well good for him he is gone out of Nigeria insanity

Nyamuri flat.heads are known as prostitutes, drug dealers, fraudsters, rituals and scammers.. that is why ur cousin is avoiding ur tribe

alhassanyusuf29:
Nyamuri flat.heads are known as prostitutes, drug dealers, fraudsters, rituals and scammers.. that is why ur cousin is avoiding ur tribe

Guy have you not noticed the yorubas and igbos are no longer insulting themselves, that is to say you will soon be out of job

gawu1:
The day he is giving George Floyd type treatment by some French hoodlums is the day he will remember he is a nobody but a son of black African and Nigerian for that matter.
I saw his kin burying his casket somewhere at Nnewi as Floyd supposed kin did at somewhere in Imo recently.

As if George Floyd type of treatment doesn't exist here in Nigeria. I will do more than that if I happen to travel out of this useless country.

No place like home. I pledge to Nigeria my country.............

I have a relative who has been in US for past 50 years.
Didn't come home for parents burial but active among Nigerian communities there

He is a Shrink.

alhassanyusuf29:
Nyamuri flat.heads are known as prostitutes, drug dealers, fraudsters, rituals and scammers.. that is why ur cousin is avoiding ur tribe

Kaaaiii!!

Light1259:


As if George Floyd type of treatment doesn't exist here in Nigeria. I will do more than that if I happen to travel out of this useless country.

Useless country that gave your father a sense of belonging;
Useless country that gave your mother opportunity to give birth to you;
Useless country that you grew in and will die in;
Useless country harboring your ancestors' grave;
useless country that gave you opportunity to learn English and type in English;
If you like, substitute your father and mother with king and queen of England. Your tea!

gawu1:
The day he is giving George Floyd type treatment by some French hoodlums is the day he will remember he is a nobody but a son of black African and Nigerian for that matter.
I saw his kin burying his casket somewhere at Nnewi as Floyd supposed kin did at somewhere in Imo recently.

Everyday Nigerians are being given the Floyd treatment by the morons in the police after suffering other lack of basic amenities. If he's to be given that treatment, at least he'll enjoy his life first and give his kids quality education. And there would be an outcry if he's given that Floyd treatment in France, unlike Nigeria that it would be seen as normal.

BlackfireX:










Guy have you not noticed the yorubas and igbos are no longer insulting themselves, that is to say you will soon be out of job

Lol.. u mean say na the guy job be this?

gawu1:

Useless country that gave your father a sense of belonging;
Useless country that gave your mother opportunity to give birth to you;
Useless country that you grew in and will die in;
Useless country harboring your ancestors' grave;
useless country that gave you opportunity to learn English and type in English;
If you like, substitute your father and mother with king and queen of England. Your tea!

Which sense of belonging.
The condition I'm today is because of Nigeria. A dream killer, keep defending ur blood-sucking country until they come for you.

Light1259:


Which sense of belonging.
The condition I'm today is because of Nigeria. A dream killer, keep defending ur blood-sucking country until they come for you.

George Floyd and many of his likes were killed in Nigeria. An ungrateful soul, you can as well keep defending ur blood-sucking wannabe citizen country until you achieve that and they give you Floyd treatment.

I'm also thinking of going to France or Canada after my studies. It's better than practicing here in Nigeria.