Dew04:
Intelligent comments so far. Some bigots would later come and spoil this thread
It's true. Educated women find it very hard to tolerate bullshit.
They're enlightened enough to know that marriage isn't the pinnacle of a woman's success. It's no longer a 'do or die' affair.
Years ago, females were taught that their purpose in life is to be a wife and mother, nothing else. So there wasn't a choice of leaving the marriage. It didn't matter whether the man was abusive or he had a dozen other wives.

Oracleforce:



So, are you happy with the rate of broken homes in the country...there is always a solution to any marital issues...

Or maybe ladies want to be paying the groom price instead of guys paying the bride price...and ladies want to be carrying the herculean responsibility of the family and the guys taking back seat...

Babaalajo:
When you divorce your husband in the name of education won't you want to remarry ? And when you marry another man and he did wrong too then what else ? Divorce again? Marriage is more than one been educated or not, its like having your own world, you have to be able to forgive and tolerate some things you don't used to if you want to stay in marriage with peace of mind..some are lucky in marriage so they don't do much for their marriage to be a successful one but some are not lucky like that and they have to work hard for their own to be a successful one....if you are married then you will understand more

I call it indoctrination.. Not education

Dew04:
Intelligent comments so far. Some bigots would later come and spoil this thread
It's true. Educated women find it very hard to tolerate bullshit.
They're enlightened enough to know that marriage isn't the pinnacle of a woman's success. It's no longer a 'do or die' affair.
Years ago, females were taught that their purpose in life is to be a wife and mother, nothing else. So there wasn't a choice of leaving the marriage. It didn't matter whether the man was abusive or he had a dozen other wives.

Newguyhere:
I call it indoctrination.. Not education

Dew04:
some marital issues have nothing to do with finances. Did you get the points I highlighted in my previous post?
There was a time a woman had to tolerate being physically abused. She had to put up with a cheating partner or a drunk and gambler.
Nowadays, females are taught not settle for less all in the name of marriage. It's not a 'do or die' affair.
Being single gives some women peace of mind, more so than being married.

Oracleforce:



So, are you happy with the rate of broken homes in the country...there is always a solution to any marital issues...

Or maybe ladies want to be paying the groom price instead of guys paying the bride price...and ladies want to be carrying the herculean responsibility of the family and the guys taking back seat...

chiddyok:

So to avoid broken marriages women and men should remain in unhappy marriages? Paying the groom price will not be a problem the day men can go through labor pains. I’ll personally pay for a sexy, dark-skinned, tall dick to cook, clean, and give me children.

Oracleforce:



When does carrying a pregnant become a herculean task?.. Is it not just to hide a baby in my stomach for 9 months or less and release it for people to see after D-Day....if you are complaining about labor pain, what should surrogate women do? ... Abeg....! There are now alternative for man to avoid nagging and ungrateful women....surrogate woman will do the magic

chiddyok:

Surrogate WOMEN. Not surrogate MEN. And I’m yet to meet the Nigerian man who thinks it’s okay to have a surrogate when his wife is perfectly healthy and enough for pregnancy. You that is saying there’s nothing in pregnancy, please repeat it to the hearing of your mother. I’m sorry for you in advance.