Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

From your story , the guy likes you and he's still single. Just shoot a single shot and he's yours already

school love,rubbish love.

CONFUSED HUMAN BEING!!!

So na relationship be our youths biggest problem nowadays

decatalyst:
This writing is childish!

Then write something matured

AdaoraJoy:
From your story , the guy likes you and he's still single. Just shoot a single shot and he's yours already

I don't want to look cheap

You've a problem.
Stay away. He doesn't need the extra baggage.

[quote author=ethicallyright post=93226079]
This will definitely be of help. Thanks

SageMK:
You've a problem.
Stay away. He doesn't need the extra baggage.

What's the problem?

I wish he is taken, so that you can learn your lesson... All this while you never care about his feelings. You were only concern about yourself ...Forming hard to get

Tra6ix:
This will definitely be of help. Thanks

I've modified the post. What University do you attend btw?

ethicallyright:


I've modified the post. What University do you attend btw?

Ahmadu Bello University Zaria

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.

lol

ethicallyright:
He loves you and will always do.

He sees a future with you.

He may be your husband , only if, he makes it early in life .

Things don't always go as planned but he is intelligent and will give everything to make it work.


You have no problem here.

I give you my blessings , young woman.

Thank you sir/ma

Zzor:
school love,rubbish love.

You!

When he was giving you green light you were forming fine gal nw the guy don go see another person were the gv am attention nw u don jealous.

This vaginal pipu and their wahala

Tra6ix:

What's the problem?

Not only are you manipulative, Its also obvious you're too low for his standards because it's you who don't have a plan for the future. Focus on your boyfriend and leave him alone, ahbeg.

ethicallyright:


If you are a final year student in ABU Zaria , fair , tall , with dimples and a member of the Student Union who comforted a girl during the lockdown period, come and carry this girl now .

SageMK:


Not only are you manipulative, Its also obvious you're too low for his standards because it's you who don't have a plan for the future. Focus on your boyfriend and leave him alone, ahbeg.

You don't really know what I am passing through

He has played his part...play yours.

udoekere:
When he was giving you green light you were forming fine gal nw the guy don go see another person were the gv am attention nw u don jealous.

This vaginal pipu and their wahala

She played hard to get until she becomes hard to take

.

You have a long way to go. However all hope is lost.

ethicallyright:
He loves you and will always do.

He sees a future with you.

He may be your husband , only if, he makes it early in life .

Things don't always go as planned but he is intelligent and will give everything to make it work.


You have no problem here.

I give you my blessings , young woman.

Naso Pastor Adeboye

AdaoraJoy:
From your story , the guy likes you and he's still single. Just shoot a single shot and he's yours already

Hi,joy come.lets relate together, give me a dm on Facebook on Denzel Martin

You are regretting over a boyfriend you accepted and yet do not want to look cheap to someone that has been after you since 300level days.. you need brain reset

something is fishy about this post.. the post is fake

if at all it is true, the guy is better off without you.

Tra6ix:

I don't want to look cheap

Yawns, boring long story