Its really pathetic...i also Masturbate, since my secondary school days,but not constantly, there was a time i dont last long on girls..my babe was complaining.So during this lockdown i took a break, i started working and reduce the rate...i used garlic and ginger with some fruits...my sex life change i can go upto 3rounds i enjoy sex...
But i also find out that anytime i masturbate through out the week i feel weak and guilty of myself...my Penis will just be weak and it will prevent me from having sexual thoughts...
I am also praying to stop it, i dont like it, but when i am alone the urge always come....I have stayed upto a month without it but i am still feeling the Urge!!

8years

Emeritus in the vasline ministry have been on for 28 years now of active service

Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

Ok.

Oga, you are not addicted. Perriodttt

iLUCID:



It’s like quitting alcohol, you’re fighting a losing battle

am a chronic virtual betgja player for almost four years whose almost ruin me guess what last year September I stop it today made it one year since I last stop playing it

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Masturbating is good....it is not a bad thing....

First of all....you need to stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing son.....
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....

I used to think that masturbating is morally gross and unhealthy but after going through the process of male fertility testing my perception changed.

If only you know the number of troubles, diseases and debit alerts it has saved you, you won't be here writing this shit.


Masturbation is a safer sex as well as the use of condoms.

It's a much safer alternative to raw sex.

So, no one introduce Jesus Christ as the final solution and everlasting cure to the seeker..?

May we not be ashame of Him that saved us openly, while waiting for us to come to Him willingly to be saved.. Seek Him with a total privacy and starvation and prayers.

Blackurglyboi:

I'm desperate to get out of this soon ....I believe I would have to open up to my parents and let them know what I have been going through . cause this is getting me so depressed a lot , I'm still in my teenage age , I'm just 23 and I'm still young to face a this , is better I out a stop to it since I have come to realization.

I wish there's something more I could say to you to help you out of this mess..... but all I can say is that.."you can do this". Believe that you can do it and you will.... it's only a tree that knows that it's gonna be cut down and still stands... humans take cover when they see danger, so if you've come to the realization that this is hurting you and you need a change...then do this for yourself. Good luck

Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiSLm5aSIzo&feature=share

Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked ...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it , tell me what worked out for you please

Stop promising God, promise yourself and concentrate your mind on something more productive, you shall soon forget whats masturbation, the only time you may remember it is probably whenever you are feeling down or depressed, but you can always get so.ething tk keep your mind busy, and thought positive

Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked ...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it , tell me what worked out for you please

Go marry ur exact spec, i prefer young ones with high libido. Bro by the time you fuxk 5 times a day and she still tell you she want more, you no go remember waiting be masturbation again. However make sure ur source of income no shake otherwise, you will understand the real meaning of 4+4

madampresident:
The only reason you're struggling with masturbation is because you see it as a very big deal. You masturbate and the devil sells you guilt.

This is not God now. Take away the guilt. Enjoy your masturbation and watch yourself lose memory to masturbation.

Yeah.... I feel he over thinks it.
Attach something special to it.
See it as ordinary and it will fade.

oluwasegun007:
8years

Emeritus in the vasline ministry have been on for 28 years now of active service

guy u have a big problem 28 what I have been on it for 9 years I stop 2 months ago

Keep it up please...It is better than raping or simping..Meanwhile ,have you seen the news about Otedola and his daughters??!!!

Get busy and channel your free time to books or activities that will add value to your life.

Everything starts and ends in your mind. Put your mind and efforts to stop masturbation and you'd stop.

Abouwaza:
26 years here bro

Wow!!!

abilyaminu896@gmail.com That's my mail I'm a therapist but you have to pay me. If you really want to quit Masturbation. DM me Asap let talk

Hello people,

You are all welcome to the masturbators thread. Just identify yourself

mariahAngel:
First of all, don't listen to those who will come to tell you masturbation is not a problem.

How is it a problem? . Just because op is addicted to it doesn't make it one. A lot of adults have masturbated at some point in their lives, the Truth is it only becomes problematic if its getting in the way of ones life as in the op but otherwise it's a perfectly healthy act. Please prove me otherwise with good evidences

kenzysmith:
am a chronic virtual betgja player for almost four years whose almost ruin me guess what last year September I stop it today made it one year since I last stop playing it

Great to know bruh, stay steadfast. Best wishes.

I wish you strength against relapsing.

Only God can help on such situations..so therefore, I believe you need God..

Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked ...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it , tell me what worked out for you please

I
It's not easy but it's doable,I was able to stop after some years but to be very sincere to you what help me stop is Jesus. When I became born again,I started talking to God about it,I wont say that it happened over night but little by little it's started going,even when I accidentally bomb into pornography materials it still doesn't make me do it.if you're born again talk to your Father to help you from a sincere heart and He'll show you mercy.if not also call on Him to help that you're helpless without Him.thank you brother.

One of the greatest thing I hate in my life is masturbation....it disgust me seriously

Your solution starts with deleting all the porn sites, images and videos on ur phone. Keep them far from u! When you have done this and resolved not to visit them anymore, then we move to step two.

UDUJ:


I hope you know you are a man and not a woman?

Do you know what that anti-testosterone drug is for? It's to reduce your testosterone levels. Reducing your testosterone levels is bad for a man, you start having side effects like developing man boobs, your semen production and male fertility is adversely affected etc.

Please don't take any drug not prescribed by a medical professional.

Exactly please don't.
At this point, draw near to God.
Do you go to church? Or mosque?
You have to come clean before someone?
You need someone with knowledge to guide you on this journey to ditching masturbation forever.
Maybe a parent, a pastor, an imam.
A psychologist.
Someone older, more mature
Someone you can be accountable to.

Prayer will be of massive help.

lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.

That is like chemical castration

Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

Look for a bible believing church and become a regular member, there are articles on breaking addiction to masturbation online (YouTube) check them all out. Get closer to God and give your life to Christ. That's the solution. Jesus loves u and you are free in Jesus name. Amen

But white people,young and old,male and female, masturbate, and it does not affect them in anyway.

Most white girls from 16 years old are already on pregnancy prevention pills and fucckkk like dogs and yet still go on to live productive and fulfilled lives.

Why is it only in africa that things like these have consequences?