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Sommycherish:
I have a boyfriend, I really do love him and we agree on no sex,then we weren't in same state and everything went smoothly. Along the line he started complaining and we mutually broke up.
Currently,we came back to our base, I visited him and there is no connection.....I still love him and want him
Will giving him the sex bide us together

Lol... Are you are a virgin?

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How old are you

Sommycherish:


Yea....I am
He has approached me for 2years..... getting to the third year, I accepted

Then keep it...

SmellingAnus:
Then keep it...

It hasn't been easy.....it not easy anymore
My life is damn boring

Sommycherish:

It hasn't been easy.....it not easy anymore
My life is damn boring

are you in Lagos?

Sommycherish:

It hasn't been easy.....it not easy anymore
My life is damn boring

sure... Keeping it is never going to be easy... You sound like you want to lose it and you think it's best you lose it to him?

SarutobiEky:
are you in Lagos?

No

SmellingAnus:
sure... Keeping it is never going to be easy... You sound like you want to lose it and you think it's best you lose it to him?

Not really.....just feeling lonely,wants someone I can always talk to
All my spec of guys won't accept sexless relationship

You are considering putting your hand in hot oil, but you wonder if it would burn you. Don’t taste what you don’t want to eat. If he wants sex but you don’t, then you guys have no business being together in a relationship. If you agree to what you really do not want, you will regret it.

Be certain what you want.

Sommycherish:

Not really.....just feeling lonely,wants someone I can always talk to
All my spec of guys won't accept sexless relationship

how old are you?

SmellingAnus:
how old are you?

21

Sommycherish:


21

how old is he?

SmellingAnus:
how old is he?

Just 23....

Sommycherish:


21

You have succeeded in keeping your virginity till this age. Why do you want to loose it over something as trivial as this.
Don't you see how most of the young men on this forum value virgins. It's a reflection of Nigeria at large.
Don't loose your virginity to a guy who isn't interested in taking you to the altar. Don't even give it up , until the moment you've said I do.

Sommycherish:

Just 23....

you actually need direction/guidance.... Nothing legally wrong in giving away your virginity to him or another person as long as it's not through rape but let me advise you as a younger sister...
You need to use one stone to kill two birds...
I will explain the above maybe another day or on another thread to you...

SmellingAnus:
you actually need direction/guidance.... Nothing legally wrong in giving away your virginity to him or another person as long as it's not through rape but let me advise you as a younger sister...
You need to use one stone to kill two birds...
I will explain the above off nairaland... You can quote me on another thread and drop your WhatsApp number if you are interested in hearing from me...

Sent a msg to your email......let's connect from there please

The first responders have given you enough advice.
You are still so young to even know what you want in a relationship. Do not let loneliness and desperation push you into what you would regret for the rest of your life.
Keep your virginity till you get married.
I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years. She said no sex from the onset. I respect her decision and I won't violate it until we get married.

Sommycherish:

Not really.....just feeling lonely,wants someone I can always talk to
All my spec of guys won't accept sexless relationship

We can talk, no worthless convo - online only.

gaius01:


We can talk, no worthless convo - online only.

Really....... alright

Sommycherish:



Really....... alright

Absolutely
Can we talk via mail, or WhatsApp!?

gaius01:


Absolutely
Can we talk via mail, or WhatsApp!?

Mail

Sommycherish:


Mail

Alright, right away.

What's the ish about wanting to go private with the lady... Are you gonna use pictures to explain to her or what?!!

:Lol... Are you are a aye....I amHe has approached me for 2months..... getting to the three month, I accepted

No.
In lieu, sex will destroy the relationship.

chatinent:
No.

In lieu, sex will destroy the relationship.

you sound like a virgin atimes but other times you sound like you've done nasty things,where do you belong?

Zzor:
you sound like a virgin atimes but other times you sound like you've done nasty things,where do you belong?

I belong to whatever is right and of serious concern.

Advice committee has been created via wattsup and email make una continue

AfroKnight:
You are considering putting your hand in hot oil, but you wonder if it would burn you. Don’t taste what you don’t want to eat. If he wants sex but you don’t, then you guys have no business being together in a relationship. If you agree to what you really do not want, you will regret it.

Be certain what you want.

This is the perfect advice. If it's not what you want, you're surely being coerced and there's no guarantee here. To avoid regretting it, keep it.