Sure, talking to a girl can be scary, especially if you don't have a lot of practice. But if you build up your confidence and know how to make a girl comfortable, then you'll be on your way to getting any girl you want, without worrying about what you look like. If you want to know how to catch a girl's eye and to keep her interest, see Step 1 to get started.

1. Be approachable. If you want to get a girl's attention, then you have to make it look like you actually want her to come up to you. This may seem obvious, but you'll be surprised by how unapproachable you may look just because you're nervous about talking to the girl. If you want her to like you, then you can't act like you're too busy, too cool, or too distracted to talk to the girl. If she comes up to you, put away your phone, stop looking around, and give her your attention. Here are some other ways to be approachable:
Smile at the girl if she walks over to you or passes you.
Use open body posturing; don't stand around with your arms crossed.
Be aware of your resting facial expressions; don't scowl or glare at her or anyone else.
Don't fidget or look down at the floor.

2. Exude confidence. If you're worried about approaching a girl no matter what you look like, then you may lack some confidence when it comes to your looks. That's okay: most guys doubt their appearance now and again. However, if you want to get the girl, you don't have to be the most handsome guy in the room, but you should act like you're happy with how you look.

3.Be yourself. If you're trying to be someone else, your love interest will never have a chance to like you because she will never know who you really are. Though you can work on self-improvement and on being more appealing to girls, you shouldn't have to change your entire personality to get a girl's attention

4.Learn to communicate effectively. Communication is important in all areas of life, not just talking to your potential future girlfriend, so you should work on improving your communication skills.[2] A lot of guys, especially if they are in high school younger, have a hard time really communicating with girls, or even with other guys, and if you're comfortable enough to have a meaningful conversation with the girl, then you will stand out to her. Here are some ways to communicate effectively:

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