Okay, so you see this girl for the first time and you're wondering how you will keep tabs and take it a step further!

This could be a lady you are meeting for the first time, someone that stays in your vicinity or one that you know but is just an acquaintance.

There are silly things guys do to get women to tell them their digits.

Yes, this is not something we are proud of and i will be telling you these things and why they don't work.

I know this because i have done some in the past, and regret them till today!


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1. GOING THROUGH HER FRIEND, TO DO YOUR WORK

Yes, the truth must come out. This is an old and childish way to get a lady's number.

Why?

Because her friend is not who you are interested in, and you skipped the step of getting to know the lady first!

At most, her friend will talk about you (if she's nice) and the main lady will be shocked about your proposal - because it came from nowhere.

Don't let this move be your first, in fact don't do this at all.

Using her friend as a sort of bait will only show how unserious you are about the whole thing.

2. COLLECTING HER NUMBER FOR AN INNOCENT/DECEPTIVE REASON

If this lady is someone that may be in the same setting as you - say workplace, school or rented apartment.

It is better to make your intentions clear, rather than telling her you want to flash a number with her phone - when you want something else.

Even if you get her number, how she responds to you may not change - especially if you are an acquaintance

3. ASKING SOMEONE RELATED TO HER FOR HER NUMBER

This might be the most common. Many guys do this, I'm guilty as well.

Ladies value privacy, and if you collect a woman's number from someone else or lift it from somewhere - she will either block you or not fully respond to your message (if she's nice)

Very bad first move!

Just show her this and she'll give you the number herself

Is her number money?

This won't work

NnamdiN:
Just show her this and she'll give you the number herself

No

This post does not imply that, money or not - if you want to set the foundation for a relationship with a lady you're not very close to

At some point, you will have to ask for her number or way to follow up

chinchonglee:
Is her number money?

The way all you blockheads worship pússy these days eh!

4. ASKING BEFORE GETTING TO KNOW HER

Probably the most important point here, disbelief whatever jargons you may have seen in movies.

Not every woman just hands you her number on your first 'ask'.

Many are usually startled, shocked or surprised when approached and asked for their digits - in some settings, this may be considered rude.

It is easier when there is some form of familiarity at the beginning.

This is a healthy relationship post.

Bachelors waiting to settle down will have to walk through the hurdle of getting a means of contact with whoever they plan to date or court.

Not everybody is looking for a one night stand.

benzene00:
The way all you blockheads worship pússy these days eh!

5. TRYING TO BUY HER PHONE NUMBER

You know what I'm talking about!

Trying to spray money on a woman just because you want to get her contact is as cheesy as it gets.

It sets the wrong impression, especially if you're not looking for a sex worker.

If she gives you her number after you've splashed her with a lot of goodies - there is a good chance she did so, because she just wants more and nothing else

That is all i can pour out from my head at the moment.

I am guilty of most of the points i highlighted and learnt with time.

If you're a guy, focus on getting to know her - this applies to anybody.

Stressing on getting a phone number or knowing where she lives are secondary.

I have a code that I used to get number instantly from girls. I will only reveal that code to my male children when they are ready to be dating girls

If it's in line with the things i highlighted - it won't work for every woman.

There is no code or shortcut, especially if her number is your lead to a serious relationship.

Curious about the code though

cerpvad:
I have a code that I used to get number instantly from girls. I will only reveal that code to my male children when they are ready to be dating girls

nwaezeemmanuel:
This won't work

works for me all the time plus I fine die

The redpillers and alpha goats are coming for you Op

I'm quite handsome as well, and i will say this

It doesn't work for every woman, don't bank on it.

NnamdiN:
works for me all the time plus I fine die

Lol, I'm not worried

Many 'ALPHA' males are posers and don't know a lot about relationships.

Preshieben:
The redpillers and alpha goats are coming for you Op

Hmm.
How about after toasting her finish.
Me: i am going to a baba ijebu shop, but i dont have any number.
How about give a lucky number like your street number or your phone number and i promise if i win, i will buy u a bottle of drink and if i dont win, u will give me,a foot massage and spoil me with gifts like a baby.... . .

Op to nairaland men all what you typed is trash, all they will say is money money money as if money is everything, BLOCK HEADS.

virginprincess:
Op to nairaland men all what you typed is trash, all they will say is money money money as if money is everything, BLOCK HEADS.

They think all a woman wants is money. Money will be caring, loving and focused on her. If a girl acts out, they think it is money. Projecting their insecurities on others.

THEY think it is money. They are very bad at loving and affection.

nwaezeemmanuel:
4. ASKING BEFORE GETTING TO KNOW HER

Probably the most important point here, disbelief whatever jargons you may have seen in movies.

Not every woman just hands you her number on your first 'ask'.

Many are usually startled, shocked or surprised when approached and asked for their digits - in some settings, this may be considered rude.

It is easier when there is some form of familiarity at the beginning.

I disagree with this I just collected a lady phone number some few minutes ago - just saw her, approached her, then chip in one two things and later request her number, she give me instantly without wasting my time. And I've done this many times.

So, please spare us this sermons. The earlier you understand that humans are diverse and complex and that when it comes to relationships there is no one-size-fits-all tips or strategies on how to get your desired girl the better for you.

All this lectures just because of getting phone number

virginprincess:
Op to nairaland men all what you typed is trash, all they will say is money money money as if money is everything, BLOCK HEADS.

. Make ur heart desires known dz girl.

Op. Make a thread on what females go to do nd nt do to get a guy's num. Only then would all dz make sense

nwaezeemmanuel:
No

This post does not imply that, money or not - if you want to set the foundation for a relationship with a lady you're not very close to

At some point, you will have to ask for her number or way to follow up

At this age, i only think money and more money!

Hmmmm op,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

You must be a learner,,,,,,,,,

All what you type isn't necessary at all,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Men don't worship women anymore.
This is 2020, pussy cost around 5-10k

Lol

Lol... All these things just to get number??
As in ,
Me: " Would you mind giving me your number so that we could communicate more"

Simple yes or no from her. Finish. And yes, most times she'll give you
Naim you dey type genesis to revelation for us.

O wrong nao

me i have other things to do than to be chasing and hunting after women's phone number upandan
and i guess its guys who have too much time on their hands or who dont have anything tangible doing at the moment that will be hunting for female numbers
true though..using that old tactics of i saw one paper on the ground and i picked it and saw this number scribbled and i called it or i just formed the number in my head and called it..etc might not work all the time.Nothing wrong if u see a girl u like then approach her and let ur intentions known..u wont die if she refuses to listen to u .But again after having said this i still insist its mostly dudes who are idle that have that time to be calling phone numbers of girls.And i might not blame such girls when they block them .

purples25:


They think all a woman wants is money. Money will be caring, loving and focused on her. If a girl acts out, they think it is money. Projecting their insecurities on others.

THEY think it is money. They are very bad at loving and affection.

Hmmm.