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Keeping A Clean Heart... by Lukgaf(m): 7:49am On Oct 09, 2020
Harbouring malice, ill feelings and bad thoughts about another Muslim is a major sin.

To disagree, differ and, at times, experience discord with another person is normal and expected. However, a Muslim is prohibited from allowing these issues to cause him to sever his relationship with the next person.

Irrespective of the level of conflict or disagreement that may exist between two parties, it is prohibited for them to hate, spite or grudge each other or harbour ill feelings and hatred. Such an approach will be detrimental spiritually and can also affect one's physical health.

Harbouring enmity leads to distress, anxiety and restlessness. The one who holds grudges and gives vent to his anger tortures himself with the fire of jealousy and hatred. Such a person loses respect and self-esteem. The evil effect of these actions engulf his heart, causing him to become miserable and depressed.

In upholding relationships, the Qur'an advises us to take a higher moral ground,

"The good deed and the evil deed cannot be equal. Repel (the evil) with (an approach which is better) then verily (the one) with whom there was enmity, will become as though he was a close friend." (Fussilat: 34)

Thus Allah orders the faithful believers to be patient and tolerant at the time of anger, and to take to pardon those who treat you badly.

Hazrat Anas (R) narrates that Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said to me, 'O My Beloved son! If you are able to pass the morning and the evening in such a condition where there are no ill-feelings in your heart for anyone, then do so.'

Then Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said, 'O My Beloved son! That is from my Sunnah. Whoever loves my Sunnah loves me. Whoever loves me will be with me in Jannah.' (Tirmizi)

We should develop ourselves to be tolerant with others, and overlook the weaknesses of others by displaying good character.
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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by motayoayinde: 8:09am On Oct 09, 2020
MAY ALLAH CLEANSE OUR HEARTS OF BITTERNESS, JEALOUSY, AND HATRED.

JAZAKALLAH.

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by Rashduct4luv(m): 10:31am On Oct 09, 2020
Aameen. Harboring evil thoughts against our Muslim brothers and sisters is to be shunned.

May Allah grant us the best in both worlds.

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by Kabir5643(m): 12:53pm On Oct 09, 2020
Happy Jumat

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by marvin906(m): 12:56pm On Oct 09, 2020
a clean heart to shout Allah Akbar...
and blowing your self up

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by saheedbadmus(m): 12:59pm On Oct 09, 2020
Barika jumah

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by AbLegend: 1:05pm On Oct 09, 2020
Jazakallah khairan

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by donjazet(m): 1:10pm On Oct 09, 2020
Rules that are only made for the poor to keep them suppressed while the rich enjoy life as they please.

This religion is a danger to mental health.
It needs total reform.

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by Predator1: 1:34pm On Oct 09, 2020
Nice write up. Keep it up
Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by advocatejare(m): 1:55pm On Oct 09, 2020
But Muhammad kept malice with his wives for one month na and he was angry with them for one month.

Don't you Muslims always claim that Muhammad was the best of mankind worthy of emulation?

So because Muhammad was caught having an illegal sex with Hafsa's slave on Hafsa's bed and expectedly Hafsa reported to Aisha, Muhammad decided to keep malice with them for a month and remained angry for that one month


"...The Prophet did not go to his wives because of the secret which Hafsa had disclosed to 'Aisha, and he said that he would not go to his wives for one month as he was angry with them when Allah admonished him (for his oath that he would not approach Maria)...."
-Sahih Bukhari 3:43:648

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by womenareapes: 2:02pm On Oct 09, 2020
Lukgaf:

https://www.darulihsan.com/index.php/social-etiquette/item/8556-keep-a-clean-heart
keeping a clean heart but why are you people killing Christian for Allah sake!

is killing and suicide bombing a form of keeping a clean heart!

what of that Kano man that will soon be kill for blasphemy?

why are you Muslim folding hands but not protesting against killing of that man?

why is your muric leader keeping quiet.

is like you people loves blood more than anything

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by fatymore(f): 2:06pm On Oct 09, 2020
May Allah cleanse our hearts from all hatred

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by Abusadiq01(m): 2:58pm On Oct 09, 2020
advocatejare:
But Muhammad kept malice with his wives for one month na and he was angry with them for one month.

Don't you Muslims always claim that Muhammad was the best of mankind worthy of emulation?

So because Muhammad was caught having an illegal sex with Hafsa's slave on Hafsa's bed and expectedly Hafsa reported to Aisha, Muhammad decided to keep malice with them for a month and remained angry for that one month


"...The Prophet did not go to his wives because of the secret which Hafsa had disclosed to 'Aisha, and he said that he would not go to his wives for one month as he was angry with them when Allah admonished him (for his oath that he would not approach Maria)...."
-Sahih Bukhari 3:43:648

Did u see ur doctor this week at all ?

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by Bimpe29: 4:34pm On Oct 09, 2020
Well said.
Aameen.
Jumu'a Mubarak!
Rashduct4luv:
Aameen. Harboring evil thoughts against our Muslim brothers and sisters is to be shunned.

May Allah grant us the best in both worlds.

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by Nobody: 4:55pm On Oct 09, 2020
May Allah rid our hearts from all form of evil vices.

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by Amoto94(m): 5:16pm On Oct 09, 2020
[quote author=donjazet post=94764881]Rules that are only made for the poor to keep them suppressed while the rich enjoy life as they please.

This religion is a danger to mental health.
It needs total reform.[/quote
]Rules are not meant for the poor only that we have politicians nowadays who choose to implement whatever part of the law favours their personal ambition doesn't make it a law/rule for the poor. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said the nation before us were destroyed because they indulged in selective justice that is if the poor and weak amongst them did something he/she will be punished but the reverse is the case for the strong and powerful, then he swore that if his daughter stole something he'll caught of her hand. This is Islam

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Re: Keeping A Clean Heart... by sulasa07(m): 6:13pm On Oct 09, 2020
donjazet:
Rules that are only made for the poor to keep them suppressed while the rich enjoy life as they please.

This religion is a danger to mental health.
It needs total reform.
That's why it's said that it will be very easy for a camel to pass through a needle than for a rich person to enter paradise

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