Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

.....

Wahala!

Both of you should have talked about this before tying the knot na. How can this be? Was there some sort of unusual occurrence that led to the marriage? This is just too shocking to believe.

You no know Before

Humanoid01:
Wahala!

Both of you should have talked about this before tying the knot na.

She didn't tell me she spending a week until after wedding

What happened when you guys were courting?

You didn't look out for these signs?
It's either you talk it out with her or find her a better paying job.
BTW, what job in Unilag keeps one for a week!
Courtship failures are marriage failures.

raphretle:
You no know Before

That what?

chatinent:
What happened when you guys were courting?


You didn't look out for these signs?

It's either you talk it out with her or find her a better paying job.

BTW, what job in Unilag keeps one for a week!

Courtship failures are marriage failures.

She is senior porter at unilag

If you think what I am thinking please raise your hand.

onyidon22:
I'm speechless �
This is one of those issues both of you ought to have sorted out before getting wedded.

Well, you have to sit her down and let her know that you can't tolerate that

I have told her but she still insisted

Get another job for her. Or rent another accommodation closer to her place of work for you two.

askings:


She didn't tell me she spending a week until after wedding

She didn't have to. You should have discussed this with her beforehand since it was so obvious her workplace isn't close to your home. It's either you get her another job or you find a way to sort out the transportation issues, with the latter highly unlikely. This is a serious matter.

Humanoid01:

She didn't have to. You should have discussed this with her beforehand since it was so obvious her workplace isn't close to your home.

Her reason is transportation fair

askings:
Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

What yeye drastic action?......


You knew before marriage, this was her pattern of work.......

Your only solution if you still want to remain married.......... Get her something else to do...... Put your money, where your mouth is....... Let your pocket talk, not your mouth........

This is unbelievable

askings:
Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

My guy.. looks like u have entered one chance....


how will i go and work for 6days, come back nd u will say u want to have sex ...u want to kill me..


It’s not good to jump into conclusions but this one has another man outside that is kpanshing her steady...99% sure, the remaining one percent is for the benefit of doubt.....’U are just the guy that offered marriage first...and she ddnt want to miss the opportunity

Bro.... Some newly married ladies still think they are single until... They get pregnant and give birth...
Offer to give her the transportation fare every week

Stories like this only happens when you've been living within her frame throughout your courtship. You've been allowing that woman to call the shots in your relationship and now this is happening due to your weak ass.
You need to set things right by being a man.
Solutions
Get a pen and paper, make your calculations how much you think her transportation for a month would look like, if it's on the high side then you'll have to assist but ensure she pays the most from her own pocket.
Ensure you put it straight to her that if she doesnt work from home you were going to end the marriage. This will put her back into your frame.
If she's still indifferent about the whole thing then play the dread game with her. This will surely bring her to her senses. If it doesnt work get ready for a divorce. Always be willing to walk out from people who disrespect you and what you stand for.
Deep down you know your wife might already be cheating on you.

askings:

She is senior porter at unilag

Female porter in male hostel.


I rest my case.


I pray God should give you the fortitude to bear this prospective tragedy.

Sometimes you guys bring marriage issues here that are disturbing to the singles. Imagine a newly married couple who are supposed to be in honey moon mood is already complaining of marriage palava. How can you not discussed in totality the nature of your works and other essential things before marriage? Marriage seems to be the hardest contract to make since it involved the two parties to be 50/50 in agreement.

Lexusgs430:



What yeye drastic action?......


You knew before marriage, this was her pattern of work.......

Your only solution if you still want to remain married.......... Get her something else to do...... Put your money, where your mouth is....... Let your pocket talk, not your mouth........

Point of correction, this is not porter pattern of work. And all I know is night shift!! But staying a week is not part of our discussion.

Kriss216:

Female porter in male’s hostel.


I rest my case.


I pray God should give you the fortitude to bear this.

So female hostel no dey for unilag? ode!

Get an accommodation close to to her work place.

konji na bastard

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv



Either you made up this story or you are daft..
Moreover from you post you are immature, childish and without spine..
She should deal with you Weakling.. if the story is true..

askings:
Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

Where do you guys stay? Let’s examine the distance in fairness before we give advice

askings:
Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

If your residence is very far from Unilag, then I think you guys should consider moving closer to her workplace

blinking001:
Stories like this only happens when you've been living within her frame throughout your courtship. You've been allowing that woman to call the shots in your relationship and now this is happening due to your weak ass.
You need to set things right by being a man.
Solutions
Get a pen and paper, make your calculations how much you think her transportation for a month would look like, if it's on the high side then you'll have to assist but ensure she pays the most from her own pocket.
Ensure you put it straight to her that if she doesnt work from home you were going to end the marriage. This will put her back into your frame.
If she's still indifferent about the whole thing then play the dread game with her. This will surely bring her to her senses. If it doesnt work get ready for a divorce. Always be willing to walk out from people who disrespect you and what you stand for.
Deep down you know your wife might already be cheating on you.

Bro no waste better advice for were this Weakling of a Boy dey..
If you tell them to be in charge as a man Dem go talk say na misogyny abi na patriarchy.. now this weak Ass beta male cannot handle his affair and is already crying like a kid that had his candy taken away from him..
It would definitely end in premium tears for him..

askings:
Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

Try find out if she's really at where she's saying she's at.
Take it from there.
If was me newly married to my hubby I'd wanna be with him every day

Kobicove:


If your residence is very far from Unilag, then I think you guys should consider moving closer to her workplace

Did u consider the man's job ?
Let her stop the job with immediate effect till u get her another comfortable work , unless she is the bread winner for now