Hi

Well, you should try getting involved in Church activities like ushering. Start off from there.

By the way what's your area of expertise since you work from home

i can boldly say all you posted here made no meaning...is someone with me

Well, l think with your kind of job, you do need all the time to concentrate.

But l understand the fact, 'no man is an lsland'.

You need person(s) that will understand the demands of your job as some might find it digusting; no frequent hanging out, visitation etc.
Now, if you're of age, consider getting involve with someone who will not only keep you company but can also be a source of fun around your work space.

Compatibility is the key factor here.

Godada:



Well, you should try getting involved in Church activities like ushering. Start off from there.

By the way what's your area of expertise since you work from home

Ushering..
Thanks for your input

Sunnymatey:
Well, l think with your kind of job, you do need all the time to concentrate.

But l understand the fact, 'no man is an lsland'.

You need person(s) that will understand the demands of your job as some might find it digusting; no frequent hanging out, visitation etc.
Now, if you're of age, consider getting involve with someone who will not only keep you company but can also be a source of fun around your work space.

Compatibility is the key factor here.

Glad to know you understand. Some find it annoying.
Compatibility it is! Thanks

i guess you perfectly... living like this isn't too good.
U honestly need few friends around because of loneliness which isn't good for a lady....my advice is just try and engage in any social club in church or non governmental agencies...it will help alot.

HalpyBee:
Hi friends, I need your suggestions and advice.
So this is my story.

I'm Olayemi(not real name) and I'm in my mid-twenties. While growing up, I wasn't the type that had so many friends, though I wish I had but due to my upbringing and personality, I couldnt.

While in the Uni, I made an handful of friends but after we were done, we couldn't keep up with the friendship as before due to many reasons.. choice(some kept their distance) and physical distance. Just a Hi-Hello conversations once in a while.

Straight to the point. Now I work from home and I don't have the opportunity to go out and interact with people because most time, I work till evening. Sometimes, the only time I step out of my house is on Sundays, when I go to Church.
On Saturdays, it's either I go visiting a friend, mall, market or I stay back at home doing chores and relaxing.

I'm bored with this lifestyle, sometimes, I crave for human interaction. You know that feeling when you've been on the pc for hours and you just need to clear your head.
I strongly believe in interacting with people and building great relationships.

I know gym is an option but...for now, I can't keep up with gym.

Online… tried initiating conversations with new people but not that encouraging…
Some are just disinterested… I don't blame them, we all have our choices and preferences.
I have a lot to talk about but let me stop here.
If you are or once in my shoes, how did/do you cope?
How do you meet people to interact with?

Thanks for your contributions.

i can relate to this because am practically walking into your shoes. Mine is worse. I don't even come out most Sundays. Most of my friends have labeled me a snub. But am not. Am a very friendly and accommodating person. Am even a talkative.

I think the best solution is to come out. For me (a guy) am thinking of joining a football team. From there I'll make new friends. I'll create time and probably party with them. Work is important, but work shouldn't be everything. A balanced life is better

Godoverevery:
i guess you perfectly... living like this isn't too good.
U honestly need few friends around because of loneliness which isn't good for a lady....my advice is just try and engage in any social club in church or non governmental agencies...it will help alot.

I've realized it's not good. Boredom and all. Social club/governmental agencies are good ideas.

HalpyBee:

I've realized it's not good. Boredom and all. Social club/governmental agencies are good ideas.

You are in which state??

Ikennablue:
i can relate to this because am practically walking into your shoes. Mine is worse. I don't even come out most Sundays. Most of my friends have labeled me a snub. But am not. Am a very friendly and accommodating person. Am even a talkative.

I think the best solution is to come out. For me (a guy) am thinking of joining a football team. From there I'll make new friends. I'll create time and probably party with them. Work is important, but work shouldn't be everything. A balanced life is better

Finally found someone who can relate. I can understand the part where friends think you are intentionally snubbing them.
I agree with you. A balanced life is very important. You should know how to separate work from your normal life although it's not easy when you work from home.
Technically, your home is your workplace.

HalpyBee:
Hi friends, I need your suggestions and advice.
So this is my story.

I'm Olayemi(not real name) and I'm in my mid-twenties. While growing up, I wasn't the type that had so many friends, though I wish I had but due to my upbringing and personality, I couldnt.
Thanks for your contributions.

Are you sure you are really friendly and open? Some of you work-at-home come off as snubs. I have some of them I have ignored!

It's not that difficult. Start with your friends. Organise outings more. It can even be in your place, where you'll cook and invite them over. Be willing to sponsor, you'll surely see your friends agree to it.

You mentioned church. There's a lot of potential there. I'm guessing you are the type that runs home immediately after service. After service wait behind, talk and get to know the person(s) you sat beside during service. Collect numbers. It's not only guys that collect numbers Chat them up or call them. Church is one sure place to get human interaction.
Do this and let's know how it goes.

By the way, what state are you in ?

HalpyBee:
Hi friends, I need your suggestions and advice.
So this is my story.

I'm Olayemi(not real name) and I'm in my mid-twenties. While growing up, I wasn't the type that had so many friends, though I wish I had but due to my upbringing and personality, I couldnt.

While in the Uni, I made an handful of friends but after we were done, we couldn't keep up with the friendship as before due to many reasons.. choice(some kept their distance) and physical distance. Just a Hi-Hello conversations once in a while.

Straight to the point. Now I work from home and I don't have the opportunity to go out and interact with people because most time, I work till evening. Sometimes, the only time I step out of my house is on Sundays, when I go to Church.
On Saturdays, it's either I go visiting a friend, mall, market or I stay back at home doing chores and relaxing.

I'm bored with this lifestyle, sometimes, I crave for human interaction. You know that feeling when you've been on the pc for hours and you just need to clear your head.
I strongly believe in interacting with people and building great relationships.

I know gym is an option but...for now, I can't keep up with gym.

Online… tried initiating conversations with new people but not that encouraging…
Some are just disinterested… I don't blame them, we all have our choices and preferences.
I have a lot to talk about but let me stop here.
If you are or once in my shoes, how did/do you cope?
How do you meet people to interact with?

Thanks for your contributions.

send me a pm.. will ya?

HalpyBee:

Ushering..... I might consider that.
Web content strategist. Thanks for your input

Register for training for a professional course...It will give you an opportunity to meet new people

Whatta guan man!


OP, if you want someone that will keep you company(online) with no strings attached, I'm here for you... Just PM.

Your shoe is the best size. Keep it and don't lose it. I won't say much.

drop ur number to chat with you during your free time to ease loneliness

HalpyBee:
Hi friends, I need your suggestions and advice.
So this is my story.


Thanks for your contributions.

send a DM, make we talk, I no fit dey chat with you.... But calling (audio or video),I can do that .....


make I even meet someone from this nairaland sef

HalpyBee:
Hi friends, I need your suggestions and advice.
So this is my story.

I'm Olayemi(not real name) and I'm in my mid-twenties. While growing up, I wasn't the type that had so many friends, though I wish I had but due to my upbringing and personality, I couldnt.

While in the Uni, I made an handful of friends but after we were done, we couldn't keep up with the friendship as before due to many reasons.. choice(some kept their distance) and physical distance. Just a Hi-Hello conversations once in a while.

Straight to the point. Now I work from home and I don't have the opportunity to go out and interact with people because most time, I work till evening. Sometimes, the only time I step out of my house is on Sundays, when I go to Church.
On Saturdays, it's either I go visiting a friend, mall, market or I stay back at home doing chores and relaxing.

I'm bored with this lifestyle, sometimes, I crave for human interaction. You know that feeling when you've been on the pc for hours and you just need to clear your head.
I strongly believe in interacting with people and building great relationships.

I know gym is an option but...for now, I can't keep up with gym.

Online… tried initiating conversations with new people but not that encouraging…
Some are just disinterested… I don't blame them, we all have our choices and preferences.
I have a lot to talk about but let me stop here.
If you are or once in my shoes, how did/do you cope?
How do you meet people to interact with?

Thanks for your contributions.

Don't stress your self my dm is open o jare... [

Nukubib:

Are you sure you are really friendly and open? Some of you work-at-home come off as snubs. I have some of them I have ignored!

It's not that difficult. Start with your friends. Organise outings more. It can even be in your place, where you'll cook and invite them over. Be willing to sponsor, you'll surely see your friends agree to it.

You mentioned church. There's a lot of potential there. I'm guessing you are the type that runs home immediately after service. After service wait behind, talk and get to know the person(s) you sat beside during service. Collect numbers. It's not only guys that collect numbers Chat them up or call them. Church is one sure place to get human interaction.
Do this and let's know how it goes.

By the way, what state are you in ?

I'm really open and friendly. Hahaha. I don't run home after service; rather people that sit close to me do that.
Thanks for your suggestion.

iLegendd:
Your shoe is the best size. Keep it and don't lose it. I won't say much.

Uhm....

Work from home has it's pros and cons. Similar situation a friend of mine is in.
@Op, you might consider a co-working space if you can afford it.

Godada:



Well, you should try getting involved in Church activities like ushering. Start off from there.

By the way what's your area of expertise since you work from home

depending on the size of the church na choir sure pass!

boise dig choir girls!

HalpyBee:
Hi friends, I need your suggestions and advice.
So this is my story.

I'm Olayemi(not real name) and I'm in my mid-twenties. While growing up, I wasn't the type that had so many friends, though I wish I had but due to my upbringing and personality, I couldnt.

While in the Uni, I made an handful of friends but after we were done, we couldn't keep up with the friendship as before due to many reasons.. choice(some kept their distance) and physical distance. Just a Hi-Hello conversations once in a while.

Straight to the point. Now I work from home and I don't have the opportunity to go out and interact with people because most time, I work till evening. Sometimes, the only time I step out of my house is on Sundays, when I go to Church.
On Saturdays, it's either I go visiting a friend, mall, market or I stay back at home doing chores and relaxing.

I'm bored with this lifestyle, sometimes, I crave for human interaction. You know that feeling when you've been on the pc for hours and you just need to clear your head.
I strongly believe in interacting with people and building great relationships.

I know gym is an option but...for now, I can't keep up with gym.

Online… tried initiating conversations with new people but not that encouraging…
Some are just disinterested… I don't blame them, we all have our choices and preferences.
I have a lot to talk about but let me stop here.
If you are or once in my shoes, how did/do you cope?
How do you meet people to interact with?

Thanks for your contributions.

I can relate as a softwares developer working from home, what I do is I try to hangout with friends I meet online, some days are no work day, and I have a me time (Even if you want to give me 1bill..... ) I go play, I love traveling just to ease burnout. You can contact me if you are in Lagos, we could go hangout sometime.
Chat me up on Telegram @TheHonored

talk2hb1:

I can relate as a softwares developer working from home, what I do is I try to hangout with friends I meet online, some days are no work day, and I have a me time (Even if you want to give me 1bill..... ) I go play, I love traveling just to ease burnout. You can contact me if you are in Lagos, we could go hangout sometime.
Chat me up on Telegram @TheHonored

It's nice that you have a "me" time; at least you can hangout and have fun.
Aw.... I'm not in Lagos

EazyJ:
Work from home has it's pros and cons. Similar situation a friend of mine is in.
@Op, you might consider a co-working space if you can afford it.

Co-working space. I think it's high time I looked into it.

baralatie:

depending on the size of the church na choir sure pass!

boise dig choir girls!

The problem is from the way you wai brought up.

The did has been done sis,

Just make sure you dont bring up your children, the way your parents brought you up.

Theere is no cure for your sickness,just manage it.

Women like you will enjoy loads of sex in marriage,at least thats something.


Nigerian parents are the number destroyers of their children's happiness.

.

LikeAking:
The problem is from the way you wai brought up.

The did has been done sis,

Just make sure you dont bring up your children, the way your parents brought you up.

Theere is no cure for your sickness,just manage it.

Women like you will enjoy loads of sex in marriage,at least thats something.


Nigerian parents are the number destroyers of their children's happiness.

Guy, this is so out of point that I don't know where to start with you.

She is not sick. Happiness has nothing to do with fun outdoors or meeting people. Atleast happiness is not limited to engaging in such activities.