pocohantas:
It is funny when some NL guys claim marriage doesn’t benefit men, yet they won’t stop shaming single ladies with “go and marry”.

One would think they’l love single ladies and encourage them, but the reverse is the case. I honestly don’t know how that works.

If you parents and the people around you are having troubled marriages- that is on them. After all, marriage is the coming together of 2 (maybe more) people. It is what you put into it, that it gives you back. GIGO...

Men don't give a bleep about unmarried women in reality. But married women segregate and discriminate on single women.. they see marriage as some sort of elevation that makes them superior to their unmarried friends.
Worry about this

JONSYN7154:
The truth is that if you can endure women's repugnant character you won't regret your marriage.

Marriage is all about enduring each other's character.

if you have tough enduring skin you'll have a PERFECT marriage.

For how long, please?

Enduring shitz instead of enjoying one another most of the time..

Why would a man subject himself to bullshiiit all in the name of living with a live hole that won't allow him to even fvck her any time he wants to fvck..

Cos, most men marry for sex while most females marry to secure their retirement plan, financially.

I respect married people sha.. As for me, that plantation is scary..

Marriage was instituted by GOD ,follow his laid down guideline you will never regret it. Shalom

ALL MAN MUST MARRY.......No Man deserves to go unpunished!!!!

PS: if you don’t have money for marriage, call me I will sponsor you.

You have to really shine your brain, while looking for a wife

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

I plan to get married sometime next year.

If you can be patient enough until then, I will certainly tell everything you want to know from my own experience.

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days, than being married. and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option. if she sees that man, that's her everyday crush ..she wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

Where is this coming from if I may ask you?
I remember a similar question was being asked on Facebook some months back. You just needed to see how married people were saying that they regretted getting married to their partners. That was a forum with faces where people needed to pretend and lie, they didn't. Why would people now lie on Nairaland which is a faceless forum?
If people here say they are happy, it means that they actually are.

No no no not at all,I love my wife so much.

For failed marriage team,I pray almighty God bless he or she your real partner.





N.B: Although no perfect marriage ooo.but learn how to manage your partner.that is just the code

Midas01:
So you mean cheating is bad? Wow! Never knew.

Or is it just only bad when women do it?

Cheating in the African contest is used to refer to women only.
Men by virtue of our customs are allowed to marry as much as they can cater for..
Can African women do the same?

Nigerian Woman has nothing to offer

adejumobi1451:
My people dint regret So I won't too Tho I'm about settling with a white lady

Give your boy tha link bro

Most people that regret getting married to their partner is because they married for the wrong reason. For the guys, it's either she was pregnant and family insists you marry or because you need children.
For the ladies, it's because time is no longer on their side, they're tired of being asked when ARE YOU GETTING MARRIED
So if you don't want to regret marrying someone, marry for the right reasons.
Peace

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days, than being married. and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option. if she sees that man, that's her everyday crush ..she wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own
I know some people won't like this.. the truth is always bitter though ..

have you seen women supporting their husbands at their lowest point. I have seen not 1 not 2 but several.

Check am na, expecting a tranquil marriage with the daughter of a yahoo-man, criminal kingpin or a drug baron is hifalutinly ridiculous

hashtagged:
I told you guys marriage was scam but una nor listen.
Every woman that walks the face of this Earth is a either a LovePeddler/cheat or nagging bitch or a devil or will soon become such so it's better to stay single or adopt/get a baby mama if you need kids never marry i repeat never if you want to enjoy life

I believe you know your mom is a woman. Are you saying she is all this too? You enjoyed family, why deprive your kids same?

One by all those shouting marriage is scam will come here to post pre-wedding shots.


Yẹyẹ dey smell. Some kids needs to grow up.
Except they are gay, or maybe they masturbates with gay porn.

emerged01:
No! I count it as Favour from God getting married to a right person. The peace of mind I enjoy in this marriage is awesome even when we both practice different religion. It is just Favour to have a right partner.

If I may ask,, Which is ur religion which and which is hers?
What religion will u guys train ur kids?

Some have already worked on themselves before marraige, Some before and during, Others just started when married.

Marraige is like Gold ore, Both of you have to pass through the fire to be refined and Shine

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days, than being married. and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option. if she sees that man, that's her everyday crush ..she wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own
I know some people won't like this.. the truth is always bitter though ..

why dont you people want to learn from things that are working..
why not learn from oyedepo and adeboye weeding..why is it not crasing..??are they from the moon??
if you marry for beauty..not a godly girl...
you marry from club..party...you dont even know her well before marriage. ..just cuz money pushed you..

well my advice. ..get this book
making your marriage work by faith oyedepo. .learn what strong marriage. .how they are doing it

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

I'm happy in my marriage, no regret at all. We've been supportive to each other because that's what marriage is all about.
Communication is important in marriage.

Marriage sweet with the right partner.


Na to discover the Correct one.

Married for 8 years now...

We've had our issues but no regret.

However, I agree marriage is overrated....

hashtagged:
I told you guys marriage was scam but una nor listen.
Every woman that walks the face of this Earth is a either a LovePeddler/cheat or nagging bitch or a devil or will soon become such so it's better to stay single or adopt/get a baby mama if you need kids never marry i repeat never if you want to enjoy life

Does that include your mother and sisters??

No

cooltola:
Marriage is sweet when u marry the right person. Marry a trusted friend
Not all marriage will end in divorce. Loving a spouse is more than a feeling. Loving a spouse is an action. When the foundation is not strong, the marriage is not meant to last.
Signs of a shaking foundation
1.lack of trust.
2. A cheating spouse
3. Addictions of any kind
4. Money problems
5. Disrespect
6. Lies and secrets
7. An abusive spouse
8. Lack of intimacy
9. Anger problem
10. In laws wahala.
11. Not praying to God
12. Unforgiveness

GOING BY YOUR 12 POINTS OF SHAKY FOUNDATION NOT A SINGLE HUMAN IN THE WORLD IS ON SOLID FOUNDATION IN THEIR MARRIAGE

InvertedHammer:
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For men...

Being married is good.

Staying single is better.

Happiness is free. Don't tie it someone else.

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Lmao

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

Above all else, make sure to marry your friend. As in someone who genuinely enjoys the fact that you exist on this planet. Not merely someone who is enamoured with you, or someone who is in love with you, but someone who actually likes you. Someone who even if you weren't romantically linked would enjoy spending their time with you because they find your company pleasant. Someone who likes you, not what you are, how you look, or how you make them feel. Someone who likes you. If you find such a person, never let them go. Ignore whether the sex is great or not, or what kinks and flaws they have. If you marry your friend, half of your future life problems have been solved.

Telling you this from bitter experience.

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

as a guy. The only thing you will be feeling is; once you get married, you will start seeing prettier, hotter, classier ladies everywhere you go, making you feel like you acted too fast.


You will even feel like having more ladies because you will be finding it difficult to believe you have been tied to one lady for life no matter how she changes physically and start to look unattractive and all that.


That's why you must cool down and marry a virtuous lady with good character who also helps you grow financially, materially and spiritually so that when the time comes and she starts changing physically and stop looking hot like the single ladies you will be seeing everyday, you will have something to hold on to and find solace in that.



If you marry a lady whose only value or contribution or qualities is physical beauty, you will definitely regret after some years because after childbirth her body will change so bad.....no matter the surgeries and enhancements, she won't look as attractive and sexually appealing like when single. Big tummy, pussy wide, weakened skin and more will make you feel you should have married another lady but all na the same

Wish I never married, the joy I get comes from my kids, marriage ma scam, after 11 years found out my husband has a 17 years old child, and that's the least of the matter, marriage can be liken to a gift, its full of surprises, some are great, some are bad news.

SenorFax:
One by all those shouting marriage is scam will come here to post pre-wedding shots.


Yẹyẹ dey smell. Some kids needs to grow up

Marriage issa scam madam.. na baby mama sure pass

blinking001:
Most married men feel deep regrets after getting married. It's an Esoteric truth actually. Most women are full of shit.

not all women..if you are godly yourself. .you will find a godly girl..learn from marriage that work..like oyedepo and adeboye. ..
get this book.. making marriage work by faith oyedepo. .thank me later