chinchonglee:
He is useless..
Please update us wen oga comes back

Yes boss

chinchonglee:

U no get mind be that!

I tried to be civil as much as I can....what I told her will burn her more than any slap or punch....
words cut deeper more...

thesicilian:
You're proud, rude, and not ready for life. If you don't re-examine your character, you might find yourself begging for this same job in future.

Whether the job is demeaning or not is not the issue here, the main focus is how you handled the situation. Why would you insult your boss's wife because she sent you a message you don't feel comfortable with? As a final year student, one would think you should be more polished than that.

You’re stupid and worthless my friend, try to know you value at any given time

Bennysam:

You’re stupid and worthless my friend, try to know you value at any given time

Exactly....tell him oh.....know your value as a person....

:Wahala for who no wash madam pant. sho gbadun bayi

NiRfreak:


She has ulterior motive for including her pant and bra..trust me. I think shes up to something but acting otherwise so you won't suspect... The pant and bra stuff is a big test and sign that she's inching closer to her real plan.
If you like the family and a bit humble since you know that being a gateman or security will open u up to some ridiculous shit, you should have stayed a bit longer to understand the woman's plan.
If I was in your shoes...I will wash the cloth, since u already started doing normal cleaning...I will wash the cloth cos of the pant and bra..lol..But I will return the pant and bra to see her reaction: I will tell her that, excuse me Ma....I have a reservation about washing or touching My Madam's pant and bra'.. lol....If she says why:. I would have said 'i don't want to risk imagining what I shouldn't" ..lol...she will definitely collect the pant and feel impressed that you are mature and smart..but she will try another tactics..

The woman wants you to get familiarise with the house..so that she can start seducing you and maybe later fvvck u, especially since her hubby is not always around

lol...But you are too reactive to see the plan. You fvvck up for losing your job to that cheap tactics

you are not making any sense, stop imagining things. you are not supposed to wash someone else's undies, especially someone's wife.

most of these people try calculating the amount of bullshit someone can take,


it started from gate man, she then decided to try to see if he can clean the house without complaint, and her plan worked, she then tried to see if the dude can wash her undies...

who knows, next she would order the guy around even infront of strangers and all or maybe even ask him to wipe her ass because she'd feel the guys esteem gas been defeated
eventually, she might need a massage for her lazy ass one day and guess what?!. Now that's a SUPER STORY!

I always tell people, stop some bad attitude from someone towards you when it starts, else they may feel it's normal and continue to do more harm. it's human nature though, only few realise.
to the op,
for me, if the job pays well, keep it but have limits! na correct you correct her, u no kill person. I no say make u stubborn. I have my own way of telling someone promptly whilst joking

You made mistake bro, As a university student, you should have calmly explained to her or give her reasons why you are not comfortable with washing her p**ts and bras,Instead of insulting her.

thesicilian:
You're proud, rude, and not ready for life. If you don't re-examine your character, you might find yourself begging for this same job in future.

Whether the job is demeaning or not is not the issue here, the main focus is how you handled the situation. Why would you insult your boss's wife because she sent you a message you don't feel comfortable with? As a final year student, one would think you shouldc be more polished than that.

oga shut up jor, he was hired as security not watchman or cleaner.. Na ur type deh spoil 9ja. Mumu man

michjunior:




you feel I would have enjoyed washing her daughter pants? is that how low you can stoop because of vagina?

no mind dat stoopiid girl jare..

thesicilian:
You're proud, rude, and not ready for life. If you don't re-examine your character, you might find yourself begging for this same job in future.

Whether the job is demeaning or not is not the issue here, the main focus is how you handled the situation. Why would you insult your boss's wife because she sent you a message you don't feel comfortable with? As a final year student, one would think you should be more polished than that.

bros you might even do worse than the Op if you were in his shoes.how would she ask him to wash her clothes and undies,must he do that to show loyality or what?

gfon:
bros you might even do worse than the Op if you were in his shoes.how would she ask him to wash her clothes and undies,must he do that to show loyality or what?

There's a matured way to handle such issues. One example would be to calmly discuss it with her husband, his employer, who would then caution his wife. But to insult her so brazenly, is uncalled for.

Op, u did the right thing

Why will a married woman be giving a young man her pant to wash. What message is she passing.

It is good as u immediately dealt with the situation to avoid had I known

thesicilian:
You're proud, rude, and not ready for life. If you don't re-examine your character, you might find yourself begging for this same job in future.

Whether the job is demeaning or not is not the issue here, the main focus is how you handled the situation. Why would you insult your boss's wife because she sent you a message you don't feel comfortable with? As a final year student, one would think you should be more polished than that.

Your idiocy has rendered me speechless.
Akuya!

I seriously don't understand why ladies pile up their undies. Growing up, my mama ensures we wash our undies as we are having our bath! I had three younger sisters, if not for pains atimes, I never know when they are having their monthly flow... Morality is gone to the dogs! These days, I see people put out undies with torn panty lines to dry on the drying line outside! And they feel cool about it!

You sound like you been dey vex well well for the woman low-key before now used this chance pour out everything at once.

As someone suggested you for sha just rephrase your rejection in a less biting way. With the same anger thou but a little less insulting. But then only you was there to access the situation.

Like maybe she was already treating and talking to you without respect as a houseboy before now.. you have the better context here. But never say the words "I'm sorry" no matter what comes.

You can say "I didn't mean to sound harsh" or something but never say "I am sorry" and don't give excuses for your action.

Enter boldly. Leave boldly