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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by gold360(m): 11:47am On Jan 04, 2021
Help!!!

A simp is being manipulated.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mattfeuter(m): 12:10pm On Jan 04, 2021
luminouz:


And you will live forever I guess? Clown


Just take ya scam and con to another thread. It's not that hard to do biko

Bro seriously?

I thought we all agreed to ignore the “foreigners” on this thread? If someone acts as such, please treat them in that way.

Lil Duval told us “never to go back and forth with ‘em n-words”

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2021
ubunja:
I'm only loyal to the game. That's how I do. I keep screwing my Exes as long as they still offer.
Ubunja what if ur ex happens to b ur best friends wife, in dis case are u still gonna screw her if she offers grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 12:15pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


Bro seriously?

I thought we all agreed to ignore the “foreigners” on this thread? If someone acts as such, please treat them in that way.

Lil Duval told us “never to go back and forth with ‘em n-words”
You are very right.
I have stopped engaging him.

I was trying to help his hustle, at least by telling him to go to the right thread to put his advert

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mattfeuter(m): 12:20pm On Jan 04, 2021
Saviolamemphix:
Ubunja what if ur ex happens to b ur best friends wife, in dis case are u still gonna screw her if she offers grin grin

I don’t know what Ubunja smoked before passing that comment.

As for me, nothing concerns me and my ex.

Like how do you even have sex with your ex? Fcukk opportunities, when one door closes, another opens.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jan 04, 2021
Solutionway1111:


Your generation is useless.....
I pity you, I just checked now your family has already eaten you up. you are just dead among the living. February 17th that is the day they assigned for you to die.
Fool

A nairalander with Ryuk eyes cool grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 1:19pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


I don’t know what Ubunja smoked before passing that comment.

As for me, nothing concerns me and my ex.

Like how do you even have sex with your ex? Fcukk opportunities, when one door closes, another opens.
who says doors have to close

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by gold360(m): 1:22pm On Jan 04, 2021
ubunja:
who says doors have to close
why waste your time?
He wont understand

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 1:32pm On Jan 04, 2021
gold360:
why waste your time? He wont understand
True.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 1:39pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


I don’t know what Ubunja smoked before passing that comment.

As for me, nothing concerns me and my ex.

Like how do you even have sex with your ex? Fcukk opportunities, when one door closes, another opens.
Exactly sometimes we need to set boundaries in life.. I still have some of my exes on Sm but we no de chat cus me and u have nothing in common again. If u chat me first ah no go snub u bt i ansa dem very coldly.. undecided undecided

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by geedot: 1:54pm On Jan 04, 2021
This is an ex of mine, started dating 2012 when she was preparing for her waec. We broke up and made up times without number before we separated fully in 2016 or 2017 thereabout. Now she's graduated from Covenant Uni, currently working on the island.

Been calling her to meet for quite some time, she always came up with the excuses of being busy. So I told her around October I'd never request she meet me again, and I stopped chatting or calling her.

God's been good, man has been making some dough and busy with life in general, so she's been viewing my statuses and never commented and I view hers too once in a while.

So this year I posted Reno's quote on twitter about not spending dime on any lady because they'd still be the one to broke shame you. So she quoted me[as seen in the first pic below] and wanted to meet up.

We planned on meeting yesterday which is Sunday, she didn't call to talk about it, and I didn't bother to call her too to ask if she was still going to come.

Already forgot about her, was at a bar last night when I saw her call, the place was too loud that I couldn't hear what she was saying. So she texted me on WhatsApp [as seen in the second pic below].

Well, today's Monday, she's supposed to be at work, she called them she wouldn't be able to come that she'd work from home instead, she's currently working from hotel and will be leaving tomorrow [that's the third pic taken few mins ago].

If you still have a long way to go, women should be the least of any sensible man's ambition.

She'd probably have people that wanted to meet her, same way I was begging to meet her then, but she turned them/me down and she was meeting others that didn't even bother meeting her.

She said she was really eager to meet me cos I was always bragging on my statuses, I asked how. She couldn't explain. Probably she felt I could do without her, and a man who could do without a woman is the man they want. How ironic!

Moral of the story: Leave women alone and get busy with your life... Been learning a foreign language, programming and been making some money too. Still no girlfriend, but I have those who thinks we're dating.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 1:58pm On Jan 04, 2021
The Truth is that some of you don't understand what redpill is all about.

Redpill is not about ignoring or getting bitter with your ex or women in general, it is simply understanding there nature and how they operate.

F*cking your ex does not make you a simp or beta, but falling for her manipulation is.

As for me if my ex offer me a free pussi, who are mine not to fuq the hell out of her, infact it makes me more alpha, if I should get sex from her without falling for her manipulation.

Conclusion: f*ck her but don't fall for her manipulative nature.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 1:58pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


I don’t know what Ubunja smoked before passing that comment.

As for me, nothing concerns me and my ex.

Like how do you even have sex with your ex? Fcukk opportunities, when one door closes, another opens.

mattfeuter, we will always have our ways of viewing certain things based on our experiences, nurture background.

It is why I try to blend in the moral or amoral in my comments because in the end, we pick what suits our judgement.

Your idea of setting boundaries/cutting off an ex or refusing to sleep with an ex that is giving you green lights is the moral/decent thing to do but life in itself tilts towards the immoral. Female hypergamy is immoral but even the most religious girl won't care to leave a broke boyfriend for a richer one (except in environments where women's hypergamic instincts are under firm control). It is just life. Ubunja's opinion is amoral but you have to respect it. That you won't sleep with a married ex (respecting another man's territory), doesn't mean the man won't sleep with your wife/girlfriend, if she lets him. It is not rape. Players know the risk of what they are doing and still do it anyway. Women know that paternity fraud is risky but they still do it anyway (The general panic of women during the DNA discussion on social media should tell you a lot about Nigerian women).

I have been faced with temptations not even from No-Strings-Attached exes alone but wives of fellow friends. In relationship with me, quite a lot of these male friends are decent moral people who do not appear to be guys who could cheat but that didn't stop their wives from giving me choosing signals. It's crazy.

Use everything she brings to your advantage because she (the ex) is trying to use you. If you are decent and you feel it is moral to be distant from her, please do it.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Joker09(m): 2:02pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


I don’t know what Ubunja smoked before passing that comment.

As for me, nothing concerns me and my ex.

Like how do you even have sex with your ex? Fcukk opportunities, when one door closes, another opens.

Abi oh grin. E weak me too. Sex and food from ex is 'NO'. That doesn't mean one is keeping malice with them. There isn't any reason for a friendship with an ex. So she can tell me the new guys she's sleeping with or what? grin, that's why men should try to have good rapports with their fellow males, then you may not really need an help from an ex. Bros before Hos. Some ppl never even have good rapports with their fellow redpillers or guys that like their works here finish, na from ex them dey expect help grin

Eventhough not all breakups lead to heartbreak. Some breakups are mutual, I even intiated most of the breakups with my exes yet that doesn't still mean you have to let them in to your lives like that. There is a limit to everything you do with an ex.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mattfeuter(m): 2:05pm On Jan 04, 2021
Skepticus:


mattfeuter, we will always have our ways of viewing certain things based on our experiences, nurture background.

It is why I try to blend in the moral or amoral in my comments because in the end, we pick what suits our judgement.

Your idea of setting boundaries/cutting off an ex or refusing to sleep with an ex that is giving you green lights is the moral/decent thing to do but life in itself tilts towards the immoral. Female hypergamy is immoral but even the most religious girl won't care to leave a broke boyfriend for a richer one (except in environments where women's hypergamic instincts are under firm control). It is just life. Ubunja's opinion is amoral but you have to respect it. That you won't sleep with a married ex (respecting another man's territory), doesn't mean the man won't sleep with your wife/girlfriend, if she lets him. It is not rape. Players know the risk of what they are doing and still do it anyway. Women know that paternity fraud is risky but they still do it anyway (The general panic of women during the DNA discussion on social media should tell you a lot about Nigerian women).


I guess this is the exception but personally, I wouldn’t do it.

Where I come from, when you say goodnight, it’s defo goodnight IRENE.

There are way too many women in the universe.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 2:06pm On Jan 04, 2021
The Truth is that some of you don't understand what redpill is all about.

Redpill is not about ignoring or getting bitter with your ex or women in general, it is simply understanding there nature and how they operate.

F*cking your ex does not make you a simp or beta, but falling for her manipulation is.

As for me if my ex offer me a free pussi, who are mine not to fuq the hell out of her, infact it makes me more alpha, if I should get sex from her without falling for her manipulation.

Conclusion: f*ck her but don't fall for her manipulative nature.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mattfeuter(m): 2:11pm On Jan 04, 2021
softguy1:
The Truth is that some of you don't understand what redpill is all about.

Redpill is not about ignoring or getting bitter with your ex or women in general, it is simply understanding there nature and how they operate.

F*cking your ex does not make you a simp or beta, but falling for her manipulation is.

As for me if my ex offer me a free pussi, who are mine not to fuq the hell out of her, infact it makes me more alpha, if I should get sex from her without falling for her manipulation.

Conclusion: f*ck her but don't fall for her manipulative nature.

No one talked about being bitter.

It’s about your personal self.

Like I said, it all boils down to preference but for me, there’s no love lost/found with an ex.

Free pussiii? I laugh in Swahili, there are over 5 billion ladies in the world and you’re excited about free puss from an ex?

It is what it is. Has been/always will.

When you cross me ONCE(as a lady) , it’s F you for life.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jan 04, 2021
maak400:
[s]
Jerking off to porn is very bad for men because it has a way of negatively affecting self esteem and productivity.

Semen is the most powerful and essential fluid in your body because it has the ability to produce a life, a child.
Wasting of semen through masturbation reduces male power, spiritual energy, life force, and virility.
Porn messes up with the brain and gives one a false reality of sexual intimacy. Porn and masturbation ends up causing premature ejaculation, sexual weakness, loss of confidence and a whole host of psychological issues.[/s]
Truck load of recycled bullshit.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Motunomori: 2:28pm On Jan 04, 2021
Rayinde84@gmail.com
GLYCOLYSISS:

Ok bro,I got it in my archive,those having similar interest in it should drop there email,I will sent it to you.
So,drop your email,I will sent it to you.
I will prefer you mention me on another thread for these,to avoid derailing the thread.

Best regards.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Joker09(m): 2:41pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


I guess this is the exception but personally, I wouldn’t do it.

Where I come from, when you say goodnight, it’s defo goodnight IRENE.

There are way too many women in the universe.

Abi now. Thank you. Most of these guys shouldn't just have problems with it if their wives/gfs is still keeping in touch with their exes and sleeping with him without them knowing... since it is what they encourage.. let's not be hypocritical, what is wrong is wrong, especially if this ex is with another. Eventho hypergamy is immoral, should we also stoop so low?.. We can defeat the female cruel nature in more classy and sane ways the redpill has addressed.. I'm sure all they're saying concerning sex, food and other favors from exes is not part of the redpill tho. We are preaching 'redpill' here, not 'how to get an ex back or how to sleep with an ex or get favors from an ex'.

Men should rather have good rapports with each other and help lift each other up instead of expecting anything from some exes.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 3:30pm On Jan 04, 2021
Joker09:


Abi now. Thank you. Most of these guys shouldn't just have problems with it if their wives/gfs is still keeping in touch with their exes and sleeping with him without them knowing... since it is what they encourage.. let's not be hypocritical, what is wrong is wrong, especially if this ex is with another. Eventho hypergamy is immoral, should we also stoop so low?.. We can defeat the female cruel nature in more classy and sane ways the redpill has addressed.. I'm sure all they're saying concerning sex, food and other favors from exes is not part of the redpill tho. We are preaching 'redpill' here, not 'how to get an ex back or how to sleep with an ex or get favors from an ex'.

Men should rather have good rapports with each other and help lift each other up instead of expecting anything from some exes.
She's an Ex for a reason. Me and my ex can never b friends again. Like what's d friendship for, so u can turn me to ur besty or what lmfao. No room for BS dis year undecided undecided

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by samuelpeters(m): 3:54pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


No one talked about being bitter.

It’s about your personal self.

Like I said, it all boils down to preference but for me, there’s no love lost/found with an ex.

Free pussiii? I laugh in Swahili, there are over 5 billion ladies in the world and you’re excited about free puss from an ex?

It is what it is. Has been/always will.

When you cross me ONCE(as a lady) , it’s F you for life.
Hehehehe!
It's all preference like you said.
We all have our principle. How we want to treat our Exs etal.

Personally, I will accept gifts and other good things including sex except she's not single. I have had plenty from secondary school up to last year. You don't expect me to F them for life.
Maybe you broke up with them in the worst kind of way.

I got admission into my dream course from an Ex. Till I graduated, there was a company I usually work when on holidays. It was one of my Ex's relative that owns it.

Since they all left me for better men, I do leverage on that to get more favours.
I no fit shout! cheesy

So it's about choices.

©️2021.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 4:08pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


No one talked about being bitter.

It’s about your personal self.

Like I said, it all boils down to preference but for me, there’s no love lost/found with an ex.

Free pussiii? I laugh in Swahili, there are over 5 billion ladies in the world and you’re excited about free puss from an ex?

It is what it is. Has been/always will.

When you cross me ONCE(as a lady) , it’s F you for life.

This is my personal opinion too.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 4:15pm On Jan 04, 2021
Alright, let's make an illustration
When a woman tells me she still talk with her ex, my first thought would be ,why is the guy still keeping the contact, doesn't he have better things to do, and that's true, why isn't he man enough to forget who is in the past .. let them forget eachother biko,
And for those saying their ex did this and that after they broke up, I understand that nobody tells the whole truth so don't worry because, I am not trying that shit, reason is simple, we done? then we done.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Joker09(m): 4:54pm On Jan 04, 2021
Saviolamemphix:
She's an Ex for a reason. Me and my ex can never b friends again. Like what's d friendship for, so u can turn me to ur besty or what lmfao. No room for BS dis year undecided undecided

Loud it. smiley

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 5:25pm On Jan 04, 2021
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 5:35pm On Jan 04, 2021
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 5:36pm On Jan 04, 2021
if you wanna fvck your ex,no problem
If you don't wanna fvck your ex,no problem.

Make una no use unending argument drag this thread abeg

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mattfeuter(m): 5:36pm On Jan 04, 2021
softguy1:
Many of you are getting this EX of a thing very wrong. Nobody said u should be friends or bestie with your ex (including me I can't do that shit).

But in a situation where by your EX offers you a Gift or pussi, why won't you take it from her? Try and get this right.

I know that in many situation where by your EX offers you a free gift or pussi, it either she wants to get something in return from you or she wants you both to come back together as before.

As an Alpha or redpiller you don't have to give her that ATTENTION, TIME, MONEY OR EVEN THE NEW RELATIONSHIP SHE IS CRAVING FOR.. if you do give her those things that makes you a beta simp.


ILLUSTRATION: maybe let's take in a situation where by your EX is in a position to give you a job to work in Central Bank of Nigeria, or she wants to offer you 12million naira Gift, then you will simply reject the offers because she is your EX....
Any person that does that is simply a Stupid Beta Simp that wants to remain in abject poverty.

The above is also applicable to her offering you a small gift or pussi, but you falling for her manipulation and giving her that attention, money, or new relationship she is craving for is what makes you a simp.


Get the above right, I am not debating about this again..




Ubunja is very right when he says he will not reject any offer from her ex.

Are we doing hypotheticals now?

The central bank and 12m analogy isn’t the standard.

How many guys have their exes offered them such ? Lol

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 5:57pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


Are we doing hypotheticals now?

The central bank and 12m analogy isn’t the standard.

How many guys have their exes offered them such ? Lol

I used the above bolded so you could understand better what the gifts implies

Bros every gift na gift, no matter how small it is.
For the fact that you are not the one offering her that gift, but the one benefiting from it. You have to accept it.


I know you guys won't get this right. So i rest my case. Peace

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 6:14pm On Jan 04, 2021
Noticed most of y'all be afraid of about this ex thing. It receiving shii from them is jazz..won't blame y'all the Nigerian system has bleeped our mentality so hard..

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