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Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Prolificdeman: 12:02am On Feb 19, 2021
I'm currently very close a lady that's much older than. She's a good friend to me, and have been so helpful in my business. I haven't asked her out yet nor demanded sex from her. But she has told me so much about her and both her sexuality. From my observation she talks so much about marriage. But I'm not even ready in the next 3yrs. If you're in my situation, can you date her. I don't want to break anybody's heart, cos she's really a good lady and a wife material from the past 6 months now I have known her.

Let me learn from you all in the comment section. Both insults.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Abimbola007(m): 12:08am On Feb 19, 2021
If you're a type that doesn't like going against his parents or family members, I will advise you to stylishly ask them how they feel about you having an older lady as a wife. If you love her, go for her.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 12:14am On Feb 19, 2021
For Friendship Cool But For Marriage is a No for Me...Cool Because they can be Independent,No Because they can Push force you to do things against your will.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 12:32am On Feb 19, 2021
I learn from the mistakes of others mbok...
To me oo,,
1. I cannot marry an older lady
2. I cannot marry a lady whose income is more than mine
3. I cannot encourage you to emulate me


4. Wetyn you wan hear again? undecided

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by osamz007: 12:56am On Feb 19, 2021
kingemi:
I learn from the mistakes of others mbok... To me oo,, 1. I cannot marry an older lady 2. I cannot marry a lady whose income is more than mine 3. I cannot encourage you to emulate me

4. Wetyn you wan hear again? undecided

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Polynek(m): 12:59am On Feb 19, 2021
Opinion is like a nose everybody get His own

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by ShackWes(f): 1:27am On Feb 19, 2021
She wan use sex styles kill the rookie wey I be den, but nah shagging level oo, to hell with dates

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Randy100: 5:15am On Feb 19, 2021
I always go for something tighter.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by femi4: 5:33am On Feb 19, 2021
Don't go there

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by mosdii(m): 6:43am On Feb 19, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Kobicove(m): 6:49am On Feb 19, 2021
Prolificdeman:
I'm currently very close a lady that's much older than. She's a good friend to me, and have been so helpful in my business. I haven't asked her out yet nor demanded sex from her. But she has told me so much about her and both her sexuality. From my observation she talks so much about marriage. But I'm not even ready in the next 3yrs. If you're in my situation, can you date her. I don't want to break anybody's heart, cos she's really a good lady and a wife material from the past 6 months now I have known her.

Let me learn from you all in the comment section. Both insults.

If she is up to 35 and you're sure you have no intention of getting married in the next 3 years it's best you find a way to tell her now so she doesn't waste precious time undecided

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 6:52am On Feb 19, 2021
Abimbola007:
If you're a type that doesn't like going against his parents or family members, I will advise you to stylishly ask them how they feel about you having an older lady as a wife. If you love her, go for her.
how will they know if you didn't tell them she is older?

I won't want to marry an older woman, but I believe one should not consider his family opinion when choosing a mate. family could be selfish

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by TheUndercover: 6:58am On Feb 19, 2021
She wants to use the chameleon way to trap you. You think she's doing all those for free.? Think again. Look into her past and tread safely using your head.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by grim33(m): 8:01am On Feb 19, 2021
You don’t wanna go down there....
mgtow guys mgtow

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by maureensylvia(f): 8:14am On Feb 19, 2021
She's good for business and not for marriage akwa ya?

Leave the poor woman sooner if you know you are not going to marry her... obviously the lady is already seeing you as her dream man undecided

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by successtutor(m): 8:23am On Feb 19, 2021
Don't fall in the trap nigga, once you settle like this , you'll wish you can roll back the hands of the clock.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by gulfer: 8:39am On Feb 19, 2021
If she's as good as you're saying, why's she on the market then angry angry angry angry

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Bennysam: 8:46am On Feb 19, 2021
Prolificdeman:
I'm currently very close a lady that's much older than. She's a good friend to me, and have been so helpful in my business. I haven't asked her out yet nor demanded sex from her. But she has told me so much about her and both her sexuality. From my observation she talks so much about marriage. But I'm not even ready in the next 3yrs. If you're in my situation, can you date her. I don't want to break anybody's heart, cos she's really a good lady and a wife material from the past 6 months now I have known her.

Let me learn from you all in the comment section. Both insults.
Oga she's not a wife material , she is just smarter than you and she hid all her demons

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Bennysam: 8:48am On Feb 19, 2021
justosee:

how will they know if you didn't tell them she is older?

I won't want to marry an older woman, but I believe one should not consider his family opinion when choosing a mate. family could be selfish
You have to consider your family to avoid war that will not end in near future

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Bennysam: 8:50am On Feb 19, 2021
gulfer:
If she's as good as you're saying, why's she on the market then angry angry angry angry
Why she not married since

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by 11thGoldTREE: 8:57am On Feb 19, 2021
Sure but I wasn't proud of it

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 9:16am On Feb 19, 2021
if she be better gal as you've said she for don marry since..
op don't go there

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 9:31am On Feb 19, 2021
mosdii come and tell them O !

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 9:53am On Feb 19, 2021
Nobody still answered the op's question, no any valid reason. Please mods should help ,wider opinions are needed

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 9:54am On Feb 19, 2021
kingemi:
I learn from the mistakes of others mbok...
To me oo,,
1. I cannot marry an older lady
2. I cannot marry a lady whose income is more than mine
3. I cannot encourage you to emulate me


4. Wetyn you wan hear again? undecided

But please why?

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 9:57am On Feb 19, 2021
See weaklings everywhere. Anyways, it's a poor mentality we all have that an older woman is not good enough to be wifed for the lame reasons some have given up there.

Now who says the age of a woman determines a successful and peaceful marriage? Mind you, we've had most cases of girls who stabbed and cheated on their man stemming from the younger generation girls. So? And sorry to say, the most promiscous ones are from the younger generation due the non-involvement of the parents in the upbringing of these girls. Unlike what we had back then where most mothers were full time house wives and were fully involved in nurturing the girl child to become respectful and responsible wife materials.

Again, all I see in all these is immaturity in most guys who don't understand what marriage is really all about otherwise you wont see a good wife material and still come here chasing shadows by asking if you can date her. No, don't date her, go and date those small rotten girls who are your age mates that will not allow you to say one before they say ten due to "feminist" bushit. Misplaced priorities.

Ndi Uchu.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 10:16am On Feb 19, 2021
CalliDora1:
See weaklings everywhere. Anyways, it's a poor mentality we all have that an older woman is not good enough to be wifed for the lame reasons some have given up there.

Now who says the age of a woman determines a successful and peaceful marriage? Mind you, we've had most cases of girls who stabbed and cheated on their man stemming from the younger generation girls. So? And sorry to say, the most promiscous ones are from the younger generation due the non-involvement of the parents in the upbringing of these girls. Unlike what we had back then where most mothers were full time house wives and were fully involved in nurturing the girl child to become respectful and responsible wife materials.

Again, all I see in all these is immaturity in most guys who don't understand what marriage is really all about otherwise you wont see a good wife material and still come here chasing shadows by asking if you can date her. No, don't date her, go and date those small rotten girls who are your age mates that will not allow you to say one before they say ten due to "feminist" bushit. Misplaced priorities.

Ndi Uchu.

Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong in marrying any woman older than me. I will only check her background and history to make sure she didn't go wild or hoe'd when she was young.

If to say she is like in her early to mid thirties, this ones are even more matured and most of the times are self dependent, all the unnecessary spendings that these younger girls need/money entitlement, you won't bother yourself with them, more over they are the ones that most of the times spend on you.

Plus: She knows how difficult it is to get a partner especially as young as you are, she will handle you with special care, which is an added advantage.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by JayCynic(m): 10:17am On Feb 19, 2021
CalliDora1:
See weaklings everywhere. Anyways, it's a poor mentality we all have that an older woman is not good enough to be wifed for the lame reasons some have given up there.

Now who says the age of a woman determines a successful and peaceful marriage? Mind you, we've had most cases of girls who stabbed and cheated on their man stemming from the younger generation girls. So? And sorry to say, the most promiscous ones are from the younger generation due the non-involvement of the parents in the upbringing of these girls. Unlike what we had back then where most mothers were full time house wives and were fully involved in nurturing the girl child to become respectful and responsible wife materials.

Again, all I see in all these is immaturity in most guys who don't understand what marriage is really all about otherwise you wont see a good wife material and still come here chasing shadows by asking if you can date her. No, don't date her, go and date those small rotten girls who are your age mates that will not allow you to say one before they say ten due to "feminist" bushit. Misplaced priorities.

Ndi Uchu.

Hypocrite

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Nobody: 10:20am On Feb 19, 2021
JayCynic:


Hypocrite

No calling names please, just counter what she says with a valid reason abeg.

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Re: Have You Dated An Older Lady Before, How Was Your Experience? by Silentgroper(m): 10:20am On Feb 19, 2021
One aunty up there has taken it personal.
is she trying to tell us that young girls cannot possess the good qualities d op's lady has, kikikiki.

d question here is if she has been like dz since her youthful age, y is she not married?

Our sister in d lord came to campaign for older women, kikikiki grin

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