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| My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Stanweezy(m): 6:02am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Good morning house, please don't mind my gramma, I believed the information will be understood by all. There is something I observed where I went yesterday to install DSTv, Immediately I'm done with the installation the man asked me if he can subscribe it I said yes, I was hoping for him to subscribe by himself or give me money so that I will subscribe for him. I observed he went inside room to meet the wife who was busy pressing her phone all the while I was running the installation and asked her to subscribe though he asked me how much I told him. Can you imagine the wife charged him for the subscription including the bank charge, Infact they almost quarrel bkus of the bank charge bkus the man insist that I told him the exact money and why is the wife adding extra money to it, I told the man your wife included the bank charges that's why she is asking u extra money. I kept asking myself why can't this woman run the subscription without asking the man for momey bkus this man comes back home from work everyday late and it's this woman and kids that enjoy the subscription. Another one I observed that same yesterday a guy asked his babe or his wife (they are not as old like the man I mentioned earlier) to tranfer #500 to his friends account and the babe insist on seeing the #500 cash b4 she transfer the money. I was like is this what marriage is all about this days, men are spending while the woman account is untouchable not even to spend kobo on what them are enjoying in the house. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Bola146(f): 6:02am On Feb 21, 2021 |
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| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by TANID(m): 6:20am On Feb 21, 2021 |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Angelacruz: 6:23am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Entitlement mentality |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by SanctifiedSista(f): 6:27am On Feb 21, 2021 |
This is a sign of idleness Am sure if you indulge in more profitable ventures, u won't have time to think problems and failures in your future marraige. I invite u and all NLers to the Living Faith church cananland cananland OTA. Time is 11:45am. Papa Oyedepo will be anointing the sick and they will be free. I suggest u come and be anointed . David was anointed and it turned him into another man and the Spirit of God rested on him from dat day..same will happen for u as u make ur way there. Ur own case is different Beloved 4 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Nobody: 6:29am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Shey na dish you go install ni abi na gbeborun you go do 4 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Chummynoni(m): 7:04am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Nawa |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Karleb(m): 7:13am On Feb 21, 2021 |
SanctifiedSista: You no get sense! 8 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Acidosis(m): 7:14am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Tadeknkeepcalm:  Nice question@OP, what you referred to as "almost quarrel" might be a joke or small banter. If you hear such conversations and you carry am for head like alaaru , na you go use paracetamol o. A lot of men drive cars paid for by their "lazy wives". That the man drives the car or leaves home every morning doesn't mean he's the source.9 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Skyfornia(m): 7:35am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Most Nigerian girls are tertiary consumers...they are in this world to consume |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by mosdii(m): 7:41am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 5 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Oluromantic: 8:21am On Feb 21, 2021 |
SanctifiedSista:You don't portray good Christian disposition let alone inviting people to church 2 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Oluromantic: 8:21am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Well it's not wise to rush into conclusion. The things happening in their homes might be beyond that. It's just what you saw, you are concluding about. However, a lot of men are facing such bully and abuse in their homes. Infact research has it that the level of abuse men go through these days is increasing by the day. They just don't come out to talk. Women are experts in doing to men, what they can't accept. Sometimes it's not about just doing or saying things but how those things are said and done. The familiarity that has been existing between the two of them was what reflected in her response that you saw, it's beyond bank charges. |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by SanctifiedSista(f): 8:27am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Oluromantic:thank u sir, I am not looking to impress anyone with my intellect or eloquence. I am only looking to show people solutions that can help better their lives  |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Oluromantic: 8:29am On Feb 21, 2021 |
SanctifiedSista:Is this about eloquence? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Nobody: 11:06am On Feb 21, 2021 |
Two instances ------> Conclusion = HASTY GENERALIZATION Times are a-changing. These days, millennial men are the gold-diggers. 1 Like |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Klass99(f): 1:51pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
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| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by sheDD(m): 2:21pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
You lots criticizing the scenarios where the op got his observations are not fit to be engage in well-meaning conversation. The op is just trying to protray an issue in modern relationship garnered from fieldwork . Other than than saying sth meaningful or contributing you are attacking the op 3 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Danhumprey: 8:25pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Nobody: 8:54pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Acidosis:Right. Many women today are not only looking after the bills in the home but taking care of their men financially to boot. We just hardly hear about these stories because women don't like sharing them for the sake of being a good wife, and to avoid bruising the man's ego or embarrassing him. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:57pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Oga there are many sides to this. Don't let somebody's gbese be your headache. BBL |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Nobody: 8:58pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Skyfornia:Obiageli |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Acidosis(m): 7:30am On Feb 22, 2021 |
aroundtheearth: Facts. 1 Like |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Prussian: 7:49am On Feb 22, 2021 |
SanctifiedSista: Is Papa Oyedepo also praying for the foolish and curing their foolishness? You urgently need such prayers. 1 Like |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by SanctifiedSista(f): 8:14am On Feb 22, 2021 |
Prussian:  alleluia..it turned out great so bring in more insults |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Prussian: 8:17am On Feb 22, 2021 |
SanctifiedSista: It is not an insult, I only gave you the advice you gave to someone else. If you find it insulting, serves you right. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Worries And Concern About Family Life by Mikester: 9:02am On Feb 22, 2021 |
One or two families doesn't define all families. Quit generalising. |
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