I'm a young guy in my late 30s.I recently meet a lady and I told her plain that I like her and would love if we can Date, see how far it goes and get Married some day. She said it's OK but explained the following to me.
1.She is a type of person that CAN NOT stop some of the things she has been doing rather she limits them.

2.She loves Partying SO MUCH, can't stop it but rather limits it.
3. She has Male Friends,MANY OF THEM. she WONT STOP COMMINCATION with them RATHER SHE will limit it.
4. She also said, she can never Discard or Break her Sim card to get another one after Marriage.

The summary of the whole Write up from my own Point of view is that, this Babe might not be submissive at all.
So as a Husband to be, I won't just Tell my wife to stop what I'm not comfortable with you.

Wetin pain me na THE LITTLE CASH I SPENT ON HER.

My Advice to Men with Good wife or Good Girlfriend: Cherish her, shower her with Gift and love.

The hardest thing I have encountered as a young man trying to get married is FINDING A GOOD WOMAN.
It's easy to met a lady today Bleep her Today(Am 100% good in this) But finding a good women is too hard and NEVER EASY.

When you see a lady in her late 30 or 40 not yet Married, don't blame her village people.
Many of them Wants a man wey Richer than Dangote to come for them.
90% of them are into RUNS, 2% ARE READY BUT HARD TO FIND, 8%are 35 or 45 and very DESPRATE as time is going against them.


This life no balance at all!!!

Las las everybody go dey alright. Sogbor?

Cocoyamu:
Las las everybody go dey alright. Sogbor?

Sure!!!

E no easy to be single and ready for Marriage. Only then will you find out that 90% of the ladies are into Runs, 8% are way above 45 to 47 and very Desperate to Marry while the 2% of the good women are VERY HARD TO FIND.

If you Marry a good woman Please:Shower her with love, gifts and Respect!!!!

I have always been lucky with ladies, maybe that's why I don't understand something's about the bad one's, but @ op, the places where you meet a lady sometimes may have an impact on her personality, like did you meet the said babe in a club, bar? just asking.

"She also said, she can never Discard or Break her Sim card to get another one after Marriage" what is the meaning of this?

freethesheeple:
I'm a young guy in my late 30s.I recently meet a lady and I told her plain that I like her and would love if we can Date, see how far it goes and get Married some day. She said it's OK but explained the following to me.
1.She is a type of person that CAN NOT stop some of the things she has been doing rather she limits them.

2.She loves Partying SO MUCH, can't stop it but rather limits it.
3. She has Male Friends,MANY OF THEM. she WONT STOP COMMINCATION with them RATHER SHE will limit it.
4. She also said, she can never Discard or Break her Sim card to get another one after Marriage.

The summary of the whole Write up from my own Point of view is that, this Babe might not be submissive at all.
So as a Husband to be, I won't just Tell my wife to stop what I'm not comfortable with you.

Wetin pain me na THE LITTLE CASH I SPENT ON HER.

My Advice to Men with Good wife or Good Girlfriend: Cherish her, shower her with Gift and love.

The hardest thing I have encountered as a young man trying to get married is FINDING A GOOD WOMAN.
It's easy to met a lady today Bleep her Today(Am 100% good in this) But finding a good women is too hard and NEVER EASY.

When you see a lady in her late 30 or 40 not yet Married, don't blame her village people.
Many of them Wants a man wey Richer than Dangote to come for them.
90% of them are into RUNS, 2% ARE READY BUT HARD TO FIND, 8%are 35 or 45 and very DESPRATE as time is going against them.


This life no balance at all!!!

Everything depend on trust, relationships depend on trust too. Some girls are into runs etc but there are girls that are genuine and loyal. Same goes with guys too Some guys are into crime eg yahoo but we still have guys out there grafting working hard with no trait of crime.
It is better you count your loss and move on.
Going forward into a new relationship don't try to control a lady reason with her, listen to her when she is telling u something also akways try to be on her side even though she is wrong lol yes backed her in public is what i mean

AwesomeStormy00:


Everything depend on trust, relationships depend on trust too. Some girls are into runs etc but there are girls that are genuine and loyal. Same goes with guys too Some guys are into crime eg yahoo but we still have guys out there grafting working hard with no trait of crime.
It is better you count your loss and move on.
Going forward into a new relationship don't try to control a lady reason with her, listen to her when she is telling u something also akways try to be on her side even though she is wrong lol yes backed her in public is what i mean

To be single and have no worries better oo

LMAO!

If I am in a serious relationship with you and you still talk or chat with your Ex and male friends. Just forget it, I can never marry you. You've just got to choose anyone among them. Only simps will let their GF keep contact with her Ex's nor have male friends.

AwesomeStormy00:


Everything depend on trust, relationships depend on trust too. Some girls are into runs etc but there are girls that are genuine and loyal. Same goes with guys too Some guys are into crime eg yahoo but we still have guys out there grafting working hard with no trait of crime.
It is better you count your loss and move on.
Going forward into a new relationship don't try to control a lady reason with her, listen to her when she is telling u something also akways try to be on her side even though she is wrong lol yes backed her in public is what i mean

A man must maintain frame in his relationship and he must be the dominant gender

she was just sincere and matured to you

Freestainworld:
I have always been lucky with ladies, maybe that's why I don't understand something's about the bad one's, but @ op, the places where you meet a lady sometimes may have an impact on her personality, like did you meet the said babe in a club, bar? just asking.

It's a lie bro, you're lucky does not mean others are

I quite agree with you OP, I severally made a boast that finding a girl to marry can never be an issue cos i had them stalking me and I also look good, this was way back in my mid 20s, now in my 30s and ready to settle down, I now realise it's easier to get admitted into Harvard MSc programs with 3rd class than to get a wife. I congratulate all those men who got married like 10yrs back, you're so lucky.

Ladies are numerous but good ones are rare.

Uniquekriss:
I quite agree with you OP, I severally made a boast that finding a girl to marry can never be an issue cos i had them stalking me and I also look good, this was way back in my mid 20s, now in my 30s and ready to settle down, I now realise it's easier to get admitted into Harvard MSc programs with 3rd class than to get a wife. I congratulate all those men who got married like 10yrs back, you're so lucky.

We are talking about wife materials. Girls Bleep around alot these days. Don't go marry a runs girl and be happy you have arrived. That's what potential guys need to be wary of.

Too many girls are into runs in this part of the world. Runs runs runs. They are not good for marriage.

Those that are not into runs are stucked with bad habits and past exes.

If you need a good girl, the best places are not clubs or parties.

If you want a good girl, go to serminars, group discussions, get togethers and other reputable public gatherings, jobs seminars and the like.

I think that's where one will see ladies with like minds who are doing well for themselves and ready to build life with any potential man. Not slay Queens that go to club and get bleeped every now and then.

cc: freethesheeple

freethesheeple:


Sure!!!

E no easy to be single and ready for Marriage. Only then will you find out that 90% of the ladies are into Runs, 8% are way above 45 to 47 and very Desperate to Marry while the 2% of the good women are VERY HARD TO FIND.

If you Marry a good woman Please:Shower her with love, gifts and Respect!!!!

this life no balance at al..naso my ex was telling me I'm too good dat m pretending.. Imagine o, e lost a rare gem nd I'm so happy � he left, dat guy na hell I'm certain dat no lady can spend a year with under dsm roof..

Mcslize:


We are talking about wife materials. Girls Bleep around alot these days. Don't go marry a runs girl and be happy you have arrived. That's what potential guys need to be wary of.

Too many girls are into runs in this part of the world. Runs runs runs. They are not good for marriage.

Those that are not into runs are stucked with bad habits and past exes.

If you need a good girl, the best places are not clubs or parties.

If you want a good girl, go to serminars, group discussions, get togethers and other reputable public gatherings, jobs seminars and the like.

I think that's where one will see ladies with like minds who are doing well for themselves and ready to build life with any potential man. Not slay Queens that go to club and get bleeped every now and then.

cc: freethesheeple

You just nailed it.

Equally I will add that @freethesheeple

You who want a good lady, are you a good man, do you understand what it takes to accommodate the personality of a lady, accept her past, partner to eliminate her weaknesses and partner to amplify her strengths?

Bkos for me, I look at the mirror first and make an honest assessment of my strengths and weaknesses, and strife to be better.

Bkos I believe when a man works on himself so well, he will know how to see and spot good ladies or ladies with potential who are sincere but living wrongly.

But even more importantly is that the guy and said lady must be willing to have a plan and set goals to become better in the relationship, bkos a relationship is platform for growth, if that is not present then wahala is close by, maybe that's why so many people don't enjoy marriage, no strategic plan to grow in any area of limitations and find answers to lingering questions on why the relationship is not moving the way it should, the two parties must be willing to work at it for God sake, anything that works is being worked at.

Am not so particular about a girl's past but is she willing to strife and commit to a better life?


This my take sincerely.

Ur last wordings says it all.

Dx life no balance at all

AwesomeStormy00:


Everything depend on trust, relationships depend on trust too. Some girls are into runs etc but there are girls that are genuine and loyal. Same goes with guys too Some guys are into crime eg yahoo but we still have guys out there grafting working hard with no trait of crime.
It is better you count your loss and move on.
Going forward into a new relationship don't try to control a lady reason with her, listen to her when she is telling u something also akways try to be on her side even though she is wrong lol yes backed her in public is what i mean

Lol.. what trust are u talking about? The one that makes married women fvck their husband's friend? Or be fvcking her ex? I know some friends who are doing very well n taking good care of their homes but they're too trusting. Couple of weeks one saw a message of an arrangement for threesom with his very beautiful wife n mother of his kids, best friend and another girl. Trust will get u killed faster than any bullet.. What guys do now is put special devices in their wives cars and phones so they're not caught off guard.. Most of these women of this generation seem possessed. Fvck trust guy no let them use that word fvck u up. FVCK TRUST!!!

dairykidd:

Lol.. what trust are u talking about? The one that makes married women fvck their husband's friend? Or be fvcking her ex? I know some friends who are doing very well n taking good care of their homes but they're too trusting. Couple of weeks one saw a message of an arrangement for threesom with his very beautiful wife n mother of his kids, best friend and another girl. Trust will get u killed faster than any bullet.. What guys do now is put special devices in their wives cars and phones so they're not caught off guard.. Most of these women of this generation seem possessed. Fvck trust guy no let them use that word fvck u up. FVCK TRUST!!!

Enlighten me.
Some married men don't sleep with other women??

Mcslize:

If you want a good girl, go to serminars, group discussions, get togethers and other reputable public gatherings, jobs seminars and the like.

I think that's where one will see ladies with like minds who are doing well for themselves and ready to build life with any potential man. Not slay Queens that go to club and get bleeped every now and then.

cc: freethes
heeple

lol thank God u did not mention church among the places to get a good girl

symplymona:

Enlighten me.
Some married men don't sleep with other women??

I'm not debating on who is better or worse at cheating in marriages.. I just want u to know trust is an overrated shiitty word and because men sleep around with other women doesn't make it right for a married woman who is properly cared for to fvck indiscriminately.

lefulefu:
lol thank God u did not mention church among the places to get a good girl

Lol, I excluded church cuz I know lots of pretenders are there.

A girl who has wasted her youthful age away frolicking in her early years and realised there is no time on her side can immediately turn to a regular church goer and attending all the services just to portray herself as a good girl.

Some naive men normally fall for such girls. When they see them attending all service, dressing like deeper life, a man who doesn't know much about ladies antics will surely fall for such a pretense and foolishly ask her hands in marriage. Unknown to him, she is a retired love peddler.

Mcslize:


Lol, I excluded church cuz I know lots of pretenders are there.

A girl who has wasted her youthful age away frolicking in her early years and realised there is no time on her side can immediately turn to a regular church goer and attending all the services just to portray herself as a good girl.

Some naive men normally fall for such girls. When they see them attending all service, dressing like deeper life, a man who doesn't know much about ladies antics will surely fall for such a pretense and foolishly ask her hands in marriage. Unknown to him, she is a retired love peddler.

hahhahaha u know the works
most ladies u see in church who dont wear makeup and wearing long flowing gowns and be forming speaking in tongues in most cases are pretenders looking to ensnare any naive man who believes thats what it takes to be a good girl
as soon as they get married married to the man they show their true colour and go back to their wild ways
some even have affairs with their pastors or high ranking officials in the church
though most guys have wise up to the game but very few foolish ones still fall for the format

lefulefu:
hahhahaha u know the works
most ladies u see in church who dont wear makeup and wearing long flowing gowns and be forming speaking in tongues in most cases are pretenders looking to ensnare any naive man who believes thats what it takes to be a good girl
as soon as they get married married to the man they show their true colour and go back to their wild ways
some even have affairs with their pastors or high ranking officials in the church
though most guys have wise up to the game but very few foolish ones still fall for the format

Exactly. That's why I won't advice anyone who is searching for a life partner to make church the first spot to find a wife.

Church shouldn't be the number spot to find wife.

dairykidd:

Lol.. what trust are u talking about? The one that makes married women fvck their husband's friend? Or be fvcking her ex? I know some friends who are doing very well n taking good care of their homes but they're too trusting. Couple of weeks one saw a message of an arrangement for threesom with his very beautiful wife n mother of his kids, best friend and another girl. Trust will get u killed faster than any bullet.. What guys do now is put special devices in their wives cars and phones so they're not caught off guard.. Most of these women of this generation seem possessed. Fvck trust guy no let them use that word fvck u up. FVCK TRUST!!!

Bros calm down everything depend on trust guys cheat too doesn't mean all guys cheat. I had a girlfriend years ago she wanted me to go to club with her but because i was going into work for overtime on Saturday i said no we can go Saturday night. She went behind my back the rest is history cuz my best mate saw her in the club and when i confronted her she denied it so i left her for good.

Why because i can't trust her ever again. So bros relationship is build on trust guys that cheat on their mrs or girlfriend always think their girlfriend or Mrs is cheating.

It is not new that married couple messed about too it is everywhere.

Yusufisraelj:


You just nailed it.

Equally I will add that @freethesheeple

You who want a good lady, are you a good man, do you understand what it takes to accommodate the personality of a lady, accept her past, partner to eliminate her weaknesses and partner to amplify her strengths?

Bkos for me, I look at the mirror first and make an honest assessment of my strengths and weaknesses, and strife to be better.

Bkos I believe when a man works on himself so well, he will know how to see and spot good ladies or ladies with potential who are sincere but living wrongly.

But even more importantly is that the guy and said lady must be willing to have a plan and set goals to become better in the relationship, bkos a relationship is platform for growth, if that is not present then wahala is close by, maybe that's why so many people don't enjoy marriage, no strategic plan to grow in any area of limitations and find answers to lingering questions on why the relationship is not moving the way it should, the two parties must be willing to work at it for God sake, anything that works is being worked at.

Am not so particular about a girl's past but is she willing to strife and commit to a better life?


This my take sincerely.

@Yusufisraelj good to read comments like yours on here shows we have men that reason rationally here. I agree with your coment men cheat too ladles cheat people cheat but that is not disputing that we don't have honest men anymore or honest ladies

AwesomeStormy00:



@Yusufisraelj good to read comments like yours on here shows we have men that reason rationally here. I agree with your coment men cheat too ladles cheat people cheat but that is not disputing that we don't have honest men anymore or honest ladies

Thank you, simply the truth 100%, good people still exist.

Mcslize:


Exactly. That's why I won't advice anyone who is searching for a life partner to make church the first spot to find a wife.

Church shouldn't be the number spot to find wife.

I no blame you same here i have a female friend like adopted sister to me (no sexual feeling) she is a choir member in this new generation church in lagos, that makes her a worker and she sleeps around she has 3 boyfriends how i know is because we talk about everything some guys are the same too

AwesomeStormy00:


Bros calm down everything depend on trust guys cheat too doesn't mean all guys cheat. I had a girlfriend years ago she wanted me to go to club with her but because i was going into work for overtime on Saturday i said no we can go Saturday night. She went behind my back the rest is history cuz my best mate saw her in the club and when i confronted her she denied it so i left her for good.

Why because i can't trust her ever again. So bros relationship is build on trust guys that cheat on their mrs or girlfriend always think their girlfriend or Mrs is cheating.

It is not new that married couple messed about too it is everywhere.

I'm calm bro.. just that i cut my left thumb very deep while cooking so i can't even roll my smoke
Believe what works for u bro. But if i trust it should be earned and not given freely. Even at that my hidden eyes will be wide open

dairykidd:

I'm calm bro.. just that i cut my left thumb very deep while cooking so i can't even roll my smoke
Believe what works for u bro. But if i trust it should be earned and not given freely. Even at that my hidden eyes will be wide open

Yeah spot on trust should be earned.

Sorry that you cut your thumb while in kitchen.... look after yourself and enjoy rest of your weekend sir.

dairykidd:

I'm not debating on who is better or worse at cheating in marriages.. I just want u to know trust is an overrated shiitty word and because men sleep around with other women doesn't make it right for a married woman who is properly cared for to fvck indiscriminately.

It should be both sides dude
Doesn't also make it right for a married man who is also properly loved and cared for to sleep around whatsoever.
I ain't saying it's right,you emphasizing on women alone is absurd
"... and because men sleep around with women ..." who says such??

AwesomeStormy00:


Everything depend on trust, relationships depend on trust too. Some girls are into runs etc but there are girls that are genuine and loyal. Same goes with guys too Some guys are into crime eg yahoo but we still have guys out there grafting working hard with no trait of crime.
It is better you count your loss and move on.
Going forward into a new relationship don't try to control a lady reason with her, listen to her when she is telling u something also akways try to be on her side even though she is wrong lol yes backed her in public is what i mean

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