Kellzzyy:

What do you mean a divorce is not advisable? Are you okay at all??
OP do not listen to this charlatan and do not accept any pm from him.
Divorce is the only way out for you right now.
It is the hard way and also the only true way.
Any other thing apart from that is just you beating around the hush and the chicken will definitely come home to roost one day

I seriously had to look at your profile very well before coming into conclusion the kind of reply to give you for your name calling as I never quoted nor talk to you.
One thing I realized is if as at May 2021 you were still talking about girlfriend and not interested in relationships, isn't it awkward for you to put your mouth in issues like this cos it goes beyond your comprehension.

royalpearl80:


It's actually the bitter truth, only issue is not yet caught red handed

@Barca2Wenger, the reality is actually staring at you right in front of you.....There are certainly some options in front of you based on how strong emotionally you are

One is to talk to your wife and discuss this issue with her since you still love her, bare out all your mind on how you feel and what her reaction would have been if the table turn around. The truth is that you should be ready for denial and she becoming more careful going forward with her chats and all thereby you will not see any traces again.

Secondly you can decide to ignore like nothing happened, focus your energy on the kids and pay less attention to the chats for now pending when you will get the hard fact. Continue to play your role as the hubby while also processing your traveling for now.

Thirdly, it's a dicey situation and practically impossible to say after traveling you want to take only the kids alone and leave their mother here. You rather face the reality of taking your wife and the kids then face the consequence of whatever happened afterwards or leave all of them here in naija. Except you want a divorce which is not advisable.

Fourthly, based on the present situation, leaving her all alone here while you travel abroad is also a bit of dilemma too cos as you said, you don't know what will happen. This bring me to earlier assertion that based on how emotionally strong you are, if possible for you to ignore and accept the reality of anything happening.

Would love to talk to you more & share experience with you. The other advise I can give you this particular moment is that you should make your peace of mind paramount.

I sent you a PM tho

Acidosis:


Your wife is already cheating on you. That's the truth.

It's actually the bitter truth, only issue is not yet caught red handed

royalpearl80:
I'm urgently in need of a room & parlor for rent in Abuja. Budget is 700k for rent. Area in sight includes Life Camp, kado Estate, jahi & environs. Anybody with available one should please PM me

This is still been requested as a matter of urgency

pedrilo:
There is a two bedroom Bungalow for dat price in Dutse obasanjo way, if interested let me know so I can refer u to d owner of d building.
Gated compound, prepaid meter, water, pop, tiled etc.

Thanks bro, Dutse is too far for me

I'm urgently in need of a room & parlor for rent in Abuja. Budget is 700k for rent. Area in sight includes Life Camp, kado Estate, jahi & environs. Anybody with available one should please PM me

tosyne2much:
So were you people able to bleep when he left again?

For where? the urge disappeared from me instantly even tho he tryna talk to me but told him am going

This happened some years ago

i followed this my guy to his friends house this particular day, it was suppose to be a casual visit not until he received an impromptu call and left me and my guy in his self contain room, he asked if we will wait for him and my guy responded that we are not in a rush.
The distance he told us will take nothing less than 1hr to and fro no matter how fast he is. Not up to 10mins he left, quickly we started doing this thing from smooching to being totally unclad (Nothing on us at all). I was laughing sheepishly showing my guy some kind of sexy moves to the music we were playing and suddenly the door opened, he came back to pick something at home.
i was seriously embarrased, me that used to form that i was the finest and most classy out of all his friends babes (used to say it to their face and my guy always use me proud in front of them too).....
I quickly ran to the toilet, my guy knocked at the door like 5mins later saying he has left but the urge already disappeared. Told my guy i was going and couldn't argue with me....i couldn't stand face to face with the guy again after that incident.

The most annoying thing was that the guy started asking me out after like a year i broke up with my guy

succipowei:

Without make up face--beautiful and approachable.
Make up face- Hmmm beautiful, but not quit as approachable , cold feet.!!

Thanks

frankcris:


late november...you wanna watch it together?

y not if am invited

Moz22:
even u!!!

wetyn i do nah

xxxangel:
mature advice please what should I do.........

i go vex 4u oooo @op, are u a dullapo?.....fvck d hell out of her now, @least e no dey read metre

When is d part 2 of this movie coming out?

4ubootyman:



D question is how often do you tell him u r tayad? Or you don't want to. That's if u guys are even married yet

not yet married.....just saying 4 d future

@op please thread softly oooo......i believe my man will never have a reason to think of something like this talkless of even attempting it

ponpin234:
I am a young guy....who is looking for a very Rich GirlFriend(Friends With Benefits)...Am very good looking...Tall and Chocolate in complexion and have all the loving and romanca benefits.....If Intrested you can e-mail me....Thanks a lot

so, the only tyn u can offer is dat tiny thing in between ur leg? Mtcheeeeew

OYO is ur name....

francizy:


I think this should be tagged "no eyebrow you" rather than "no make up you"...

Noted...initial post edited

PrimeMinisterr:

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you murdered your eyebrows! have a heart ma'am.

i wont do that again sire, pls forgive me

Rextayne:
I'm just imagining this succulent lips sucking my jt...

Thx God its imagination

viclawz:
looking good

Thanks sir

#nomakeupme