OboOlora:
Drop in jamb registration but a spike in skull mining, pant stealing, internet fraud etc
I pity whoever is still in that country sha!

Dedicate my 1st to comment to my intelligent friend Techcapon and my runaway BF Martin0

kaziblake:
Mine was when I told my dad that my grandma was a witch and that she initiated me into it so I have extraordinary power .My dad believed it and ran away same with my siblings,I said it because then my grandma was very wicked, she beat me and tell my mum awful things about me..I later confessed that it was a lie and that day I saw hell, everyone was beating me that I caused confusion at home.

sconp:


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veneza:

How can she even think Nigeria at all,madam big up and look ahead,gain international experience and grow. She will regret 100k salary in Nigeria as far you are not the company owner. If you are not ok with the job over there,it's two ways, with experience in your job is either you look for a higher paying job or you save up and move to a more convenient country. If you just return you might never be able to escape this mess of a country.

sconp:



Pls Sir, stop spamming the thread.

Hephziebah:
Hi everyone, I will be sharing my story whilst trying not to repeat points already shared by others.

PHCN frustrated me out of Nigeria earlier than I planned so I was quite scattered on the day I was leaving. I flew Emirates and the flight left as scheduled with me being one of the last to check in due to my 'overload syndrome'(I just found it extremely difficult fitting my entire existence into 2 suitcases!). For people like me that can pack for Africa, 23kg is very small so you are better off focusing on things you might not get here. For the ladies, it might be useful to bring black hair products and hair extensions (though they sell expression here but its so tiny and does not come out as nice as the Naija one). Hair cream and relaxers are important as there only two places I know in the whole of Sydney that sell black hair products and one might not have the luxury of time to go there always.

Stopover at Dubai was good as IOM arranged for someone to meet and usher me to the boarding gate for the connecting flight. I was very happy and impressed because I thought they had done me enough favour already by making the ticket available at half price

We also had another stopover in Thailand which I did not like, because the ticket read DXB-SYD. This stopover was however not long (just about an hour and a half) so I finally got to Sydney after about a day of travel. I found Sydney to be a lot like the UK in many areas so things did not feel very strange afterall.

I stayed with a friend for a few days and got my own accommodation a few days later. However, I had to move out of the house after just a month because I was not comfortable. Like others have said, it is very important to ask about all the conditions before moving into any house. Do not allow any landlord to fool you by saying they will send the documentation later(after you move in), it is most likely a trap because at this point, you would have paid and will most likely be bound to fulfill the minimum lease period.

I chose to live in Sydney and the major factor that informed my choice was the availability of jobs in my field. This, and other factors like ease of travel with the public transport system (as I did not intend to drive immediately) helped me decide. In fact, I had a spreadsheet when I was still in Nigeria where I was doing a comparison between Sydney and Melbourne based on the factors I considered important to me.

As I do not drive, I use public transport and spend about $60 per week on travel. The trains are more reliable than the buses so when renting, be sure to ensure that you get a place close to the train station if not driving. You really don't want to have a lot to do with the buses because they can really test your patience.

I shared my job search strategy in an earlier post on the other thread.

I will be back to share more of my experience as time goes on.

segzyndpep:


Good afternoon sir,I am willing to relocate to Australia this year if its possible,i just got married january and me andbmy wife think its better we start our life in australia afresh.we both have BSC industrial chemistry,I am an interior design and have been working for 5years now,i register my own company 3yeas.she is a makeup artist and own a boutique.
presently i do not really understabd the process even after reading some of the thread.I want to also know if all permanent visa applicant needs to write the English test.even if you are not applying for school.Please how best can we go about it to fast track it.Or is there is any agent you can recommend

segzyndpep:


Good afternoon sir,I am willing to relocate to Australia this year if its possible,i just got married january and me andbmy wife think its better we start our life in australia afresh.we both have BSC industrial chemistry,I am an interior design and have been working for 5years now,i register my own company 3yeas.she is a makeup artist and own a boutique.
presently i do not really understabd the process even after reading some of the thread.I want to also know if all permanent visa applicant needs to write the English test.even if you are not applying for school.Please how best can we go about it to fast track it.Or is there is any agent you can recommend

Alphadoor:


ahahahahahahaahahah

GoodMemory:
Hi buddies,
This is to my naija bro and sis who are working outside of Nigeria for the first time.

Before I start, let me state that your rights at work are fully protected and everybody behaves in a manner consistent with the code of conduct of their organization, so people are rarely ever rude. If anyone is rude, you may escalate the matter and trust me, you will get justice.

A lot has been said on getting a job but there is an area which landed seniors haven't discussed that much. It is dealing with co-workers, your life at work, and relationship with superiors and subordinates. You have worked very hard to get the job, deservedly so, now the next thing is retaining the job and consolidating your position at work.

I have noticed there are stages of relationship which you will experience at work here. Firstly, when you show up at work the first day, there might be a few heads turning. Don't let that bother you. Just keep calm and raise your head high.

Next stage; some people might be skeptical of your ability. There are instances when you say things in meetings and they will be like.. "Hmmm.....ok". Australians are very courteous at work. If they disagree, they might not say it verbally. That same idea you proposed but was rejected would receive an applause if it was proposed by another person they trust more. Again, do not let that bother you. You will need a great dose of emotional intelligence to be able to work successfully with Australians. There are moments I feel like beating the living daylight out of some colleagues. In such instances, I hold myself back, smile and assertively handle them differently. Some of them will intentionally make you angry. The key is NEVER show emotions. Imagine this scenarios; look at two people arguing afar, which of them would you describe as the aggressor? Definitely the one whose voice is louder. So as much as possible never allow your relationship between any of your colleagues to degenerate to that level. If you were right, but choose to handle it by being aggressively confrontational, you might be perceive as a threat. If the matter gets to HR, you might be blamed and referred for anger management etc.

The last stage is what I would describe as "Stage of Trust". You are now in charge. You have earned their trust and confidence. They will entrust you with more responsibilities and every minute of your 8 hours would be fun!

teacherbim:
We Christian need to be very careful with these men of God that we look up to. If I should write about what is going on in my former church heen, a very popular man of God in Onipanu with army uniform. Hmmmm

ayando:

Hmmm...I know the Church. After traffic bus stop;Adegboyega bus stop precisely. What about it? A very good man or am I missing something?

oglalasioux:
Women with gap tooth; the most insecure but very submissive and obedient. Just let them Bleep any man that admires them and they'll give you, as their husbands, anything under the sun to 'make you happy'.

walegees:
Not all prostitute dress provocatively, however, our (both gender)mode of dressings say a lot about our feelings.
What if you succeed in changing are dressing pattern but the intention remained unchanged?
Look beyond the dressing or pretend to be a bad guy that doesn't care.... the land is wide and fatile, stop giving yourself headache because you want to own a woman.

Empressabbie:

I'm sure you are one of the control freaks she's talking about. No one has the right to tell an adult how to dress. She loves what she wears, so what is the op's problem. If you can't deal with it, then leave her. It's her life

A woman doesn't need any advertisement to get a man. Her mode of dressing does not mean she is doing it for another man. You people should grow up!

andyanders:
Op, having gone through your post and also some comments herein, I can only deduce that most ladies or those not married here have expressed their own view over your post because of who they are. Some good and some bad.

No responsible woman would wanna start showing of negative behavior against your own wish having not shown those attitude at the early stage of your relationship.

Two things are involved here. Either she is having affairs outside, to impress someone out there, or she has a very close bad friend that is misleading her. Check her friends that are very close to her to know where the fault is coming from. Something is definitely wrong and if her mother doesn't resolve the issue and she is not willing to change, take a walk. I advise you not to go back to look for her in order to resolve the issue since you have done that before and it never worked. If you keep going after her, the family will see you as a weak person and the lady can take advantage of that and be messing around.

Spatta:
Truth sucks but can't be denied. trust me, she is flirting the adulterer loves her in that attire, you cant help a pretender when she ended up as your wife, A prostitute cannot do otherwise even if you tame her by religion or church dressing.

she is doing worse than the dressing, i warrant you
most women are bastards in the art of infidelity
be no deceived

streetsoldier1:
Life is too short to be living in bitterness and so long to crave for peace of mind, if after correcting and she still act stubborn, pls let her move to her parents house till she receives sense otherwise red card...... Not every woman is meant to stay married.

ihimiray:
nonsense

Smileatme:
Call her, sit her down and explain things to her again. Ask her why is is wearing such cloths. It might be she does not have self confidence ZX assure her of your love and let her know you prepare her in decent clothes. I wish you the best bro.

DMerciful:
You can see that your experience has made you sentimental. The Op said he repeatedly corrected her and after a little improvement she goes back. You need to understand there's a difference btw bf and husband. I myself do tell my wife few times to change her clothes while going out if I'm not comfortable with it, thank God my wife is quite respectful. A man said his wife wears clothes that are uncomfortably short, you a stranger is saying how short is short! Are you saying he doesn't know what he is saying. If a woman is not looking for market why the advertisement?