Soulflai:
why calling me an idiot on issue I can't control?That she cheat with me her ex is my fault.I am not saying I will not disolve the marriage anytime soon but I need time and money before doing that
People like you make matters worst.Any way thanks for your input

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Why una dey attack d guy....? Not his fault that Buhari & APC failed Nigerians. You wey no vote PMB how much u dey buy fuel?

ASUU strike no reach ur side cox u didn't vote APC. make una dey apply common sense abeg.

PHIPEX:
See a whole Lagos top govt official insulting a presidential candidate with ease. The next they tell you how Obi supporters bully them yet they are the first to draw insult and blood.

What difference does it make that out of almost 100 govt universities in the country, only 7 are open and of course that includes Anambra state university?

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Mandesz:
If an armed robber, typical 419er is made a Lagos state govr he'll build reasonable projects.
Lagos is the 2nd most unlivable city in the world but these nuisances will come and hail Tinubu.

Fuckingmallam45:

To annihilate the club beyond redemption. But it looks like they guy has been successful already. Mission is about to be completed.

billyadam:


Will you keep quiet. Someone curse you make good thing no locate you ni. The school he finished from is an international standard school with good antecedence, google is your assistant. Bad mouthing the poor boy. You know he do WAEC and JAMB for the same school. ..Mofo chasing clout.

Mkbaba:
Either miracle center or he did it with his head....the results really make sense �����

EMXTAN1:
Omoh!!! This kid right here is the next Peter Obi in making... ! Such brilliance... I pray APC and PDP don't happen to him... Greater heights my dear! Congratulations!!!!

kay1one:


Please take a second to google for Parkinson's disease and dementia...

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Vulturereloaded:
Lol. They forget that the oil money that was used to create and sustain lagos, comes from BOVI'S region.

Name 1 yoruba billionaire that made money outside oil in Nigeria.

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care4you:
Hmmm Igbos and fake news!

Afonjas and their wack musicians....

Which way naijiriya?

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SenatePresdo:
Some people get mind oh.

Anytime I encounter police on the Road, I technically see them as armed Robbers.

I would do whatever they ask me to, even if they steal my phone, I will leave it for them.

A police officer once threatened to beat the hell out of me if I don't admit that I'm a yahoo boy, simply because he checked my phone and couldn't see anything that would implicate me.

I can't argue with armed robbers oh, so that someone's pictures won't grace the front page of Nairaland.

DamnnNiggarr:



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Enkidu70:
How this Davido never carry HIV na im dey confuse me, because apparently e no dey use condom at all

Abi the thing dey fear money ni?

Lastborn0074:
Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.

Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.

My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.

Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.

I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.

Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks.

Stargangz:
Agbi omo Ikale ooo! Nobody does it better!! Ilutitun Amaka!!! Ikale Amaka!!!! Ondo Amaka!!!!! Oduduwa Amaka!!!!!!

Trust22:
If 80 Nigerians are in India.... 50 are into drugs....

EKONGKING:
Ha ha ,
Igbos
their drug and ego driven stupidity.

izuch:
Nigerians representing everywhere they go