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Celebrities / Re: Iyabo Ojo Shows Off Her Boyfriend, Paulo, As She Marks Her 45th Birthday (Pix) by sweetmelanin(f): 2:29pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
What a catch! Igbo men ehnn. It's like l have to go learn their language, I want one too 5 Likes |
Travel / Re: Japa Within Nigeria by sweetmelanin(f): 6:46am On Dec 12, 2022 |
If you're from the south, try Ibadan, Abeokuta, Rivers, Enugu or Calabar. If you are a northerner, please remain in the North. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Nigerians Abroad: Discouraging Others At Home Not To Migrate by sweetmelanin(f): 9:56am On Aug 29, 2022 |
ednut1: It's like your brain isn't functioning properly. |
Travel / Re: Nigerians Abroad: Discouraging Others At Home Not To Migrate by sweetmelanin(f): 9:13am On Aug 29, 2022 |
This is why I will never stop exposing fraudulent charlatans like Phrankleen who lives in the UK but speaks so condescendingly towards Nigerians who move abroad. Why not go back to Nigeria if you hate the West so much? Life is never meant to be lived in the same location.. since the beginning of time people have always migrated for a better life.. even the Bible is a testament to that. My only wish is that Nigerians would think broadly and expand their horizons.. consider other African, Caribbean or Latin nations as well, not just the West.. Even within Nigeria, people should be open to migrating inter state .. there are some seriously underrated locations within the country where people can live a simple, stress free life if you aren't so keen on big city living.. take Akwa Ibom for example.. it just seems so peaceful and beautiful.. even as a Yoruba lady, I'd so much love to visit there.. Ibadan is also lovely for families and retirees. A lot of people should consider the possibility that their furstration might be because they are trying to follow the crowd which may not suit their essence.. take living in Lagos for example... Lagos isn't for everyone, many people in Lagos right now should be in their villages trying to develop it to suit modern living.. instead they are trapped in the hustle and bustle of Lagos, living unfulfilled lives. I'll always encourage anyone who wishes to travel.. explore your options, do your research, explore within & outside Nigeria before making an informed decision on where you'd rather be. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Common Mistake To Avoid Before Travelling by sweetmelanin(f): 8:28am On Aug 29, 2022 |
If you have the luxury of already owning a home in Nigeria; Do not sell your house or land before moving abroad. You need a place to stay whenever you visit/holiday in Nigeria, else you'll have no choice but to stay with family members or waste money on hotels & short lets. You also need a property to return home to after retirement.. except you plan to grow old and die abroad. |
Travel / Re: Jakpa Advise: Think Critically by sweetmelanin(f): 9:16am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Munamoqel: And Nigeria isn't debt ridden? Ghana is one of the safest countries in Africa, you can move freely at night, travel to all regions without fear. Their police isn't brutal like those uniformed animals in Nigeria. Their schools and universities are decent, their cultural and moral values far better. They do not have fulanis looting their country dry, killing & kidnapping the locals while a fulani Nigerieen president is busy siphoning funds to Niger Republic. Ghana is better than Nigeria for the most part. 161 Likes 12 Shares |
Travel / Re: Jakpa Advise: Think Critically by sweetmelanin(f): 7:18am On Aug 10, 2022 |
A child who has never left his father's compound will think his father's own is the biggest. I'm saying this in the context of Africa because Nigerians have this superiority complex towards other African countries not knowing many of them have surpassed Nigeria in many ways e.g. security, education, way of life etc.. Countries like Ghana, Benin Republic, Rwanda, Kenya, South Africa, Gambia, Cape Verde etc.. the few Nigerians who go to these countries, go there and start displaying foolish arrogance like we are better than them.. like how do you flee your own country that has failed you, yet have the audacity to look down on your fellow Africans who are doing better? Instead of being humble and relocating to African, Latin American or Carribean countries that are safer & more economically prosperous, Nigerians will instead seperate from their families, sell their properties, take everything they've laboured for and go and submit it into the hands of the UK government only to get sent back to Nigeria empty handed with a useless degree. The Nigerians who are enjoying UK today are; - children (first generation) of those who settled here in the 80s/90s/early 2000s. - Medical professionals like doctors, nurses. - Students who come with a 'dependent' spouse who can work while the other studies. Most single students & every other category of immigrants will unfortunately fall into the carefully crafted scam - the UK immigration policy. 275 Likes 29 Shares |
Politics / Re: Police Inspector Resigns Over Unlawful Treatment Of Nnamdi Kanu (photos) by sweetmelanin(f): 3:32pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
The matter don pass referendum. Fulanis understand only one language. Violence & death. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Nyash Has Been Exposed by sweetmelanin(f): 3:30pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
Peter Obi don turn una investigative journalists. Giving mfs sleepless nights 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Hausa And Yoruba Clash In Ibadan. One Person Feared Dead by sweetmelanin(f): 3:28pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
ASAPFERG1: Ode leleyi sha |
Politics / Re: We Must Destroy This Country, Terrorist Who Fled Kuje Prison Boasts by sweetmelanin(f): 3:22pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
In a way, I like what these fulani idiots are doing. With their own hands they will divide this country. It's about time we go our separate ways. 40 Likes 4 Shares |
Travel / Re: Phrankleen: Nigerians Abroad Telling Others To Return Back Home by sweetmelanin(f): 3:22pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
Lexusgs430: If he had read his own stars, perhaps he would've had better outcomes in life. |
Politics / Re: Hausa And Yoruba Clash In Ibadan. One Person Feared Dead by sweetmelanin(f): 3:19pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
Hausas , Fulanis and other northerners should realise their days are numbered in Yoruba land. Enough is enough. 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: "Beggars Everywhere" Ukrainian Lady Tells Her Story In Nigeria Visit by sweetmelanin(f): 1:57pm On Jul 23, 2022 |
RevolverOcelot: Of course, Nigeria is a safe, peaceful paradise. Travel to Zamfara at 3am if e sure for you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: The Extortion At Muritala Muhamed Airport Lagos. by sweetmelanin(f): 7:24am On Jul 23, 2022 |
This is one of many reasons why people would rather visit or relocate to other African countries than Nigeria. How is it that Nigeria is known globally for its music/entertainment, arts & numerous cultures, yet, the average traveller would never consider Nigeria as a tourist destination (which it should be). Nowadays it seems everyone, including African Americans (ADOS) are vibing to afrobeats and are beginning to embrace their heritage, yet when the desire to return to Africa comes, they'd rather relocate & invest in Ghana (even though most can trace their ancestry to Nigeria) - this alone is very telling. I'd say the exception to this rule are the celebrities who are paid millions to visit Nigeria and are guaranteed police & army escorts throughout their stay so they can navigate the deadly jungle with their lives & property still intact. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Phrankleen: Nigerians Abroad Telling Others To Return Back Home by sweetmelanin(f): 7:00am On Jul 23, 2022 |
Gerrard59: I had stayed away from Phrankleen's channel until recently deciding to entertain myself Seems he's now got a new hustle; African Spirituality, got a few of his followers to pay him for Ifa divination consultation, collected their money and hasn't delivered anything but excuses. Lol Claims to believe in Yoruba spirituality yet every other video is telling people to hate their parents and abandon them in old age. Isn't honouring one's parent an integral part of Yoruba culture? What a bitter, confused soul. For a long time he presented himself as a "property manager", selling people into a land ponzi scheme where they will never get allocated. Calling people idiots and slaves for staying abroad while he also sits abroad. Dude is a walking oxymoron. A desperate hustler and he ain't even sleek with it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Tinubu, South-West APC Governors Absent As Buhari Meets Party Stakeholders by sweetmelanin(f): 6:40am On Jul 23, 2022 |
APC. Northern Party. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: FG Considers Banning Okada Across The Country by sweetmelanin(f): 5:17pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Imagine foreign settlers kidnapping you, collecting millions from you to buy more weapons to continue to kidnap and terrorise you in your own land. Docile southerners. 5 Likes |
Travel / Phrankleen: Nigerians Abroad Telling Others To Return Back Home by sweetmelanin(f): 5:10pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
I watched this video recently and kept asking myself why people like Phrankleen (a YouTuber) who has lived a visibly unfavourable existence abroad for many years, will never make a genuine attempt to relocate back to Nigeria permanently, yet, will rather make repetitive videos trashing the West, insulting those who are still abroad making a decent living for themselves. I've also noticed that whenever people ask Phrankleen what he is still doing in the UK, rather than answer the question, he would result to vicious insults, endless rants and blocking. Why not be the example that you preach? afterall, there are YouTubers who made the move and are living their reality e.g. Sisi Yemmie, Iveoma, Bayo Adio, Sassy Funke etc.. Instead, Phrankleen would rather share potentially made up stories of others who claim to have made the move. It makes no sense how you can sit in the abroad that you hate, while having enough money to holiday back and forth from Nigeria, but yet refuse to get yourself a one-way ticket and move back home permanently. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_Q1okQUGaA 4 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Tinubu's Running Mate: El-Rufai, Shetimma Makes Final List by sweetmelanin(f): 7:06am On Jul 09, 2022 |
hiteelong: Continue praying for Nigeria. Continue praying for unity with the extremist North with porous borders where sahelians from Chad and Niger have Nigerian PVC and troop in and out to vote, thus keeping the destiny of over 200 million people in shackles. 54 Likes 7 Shares |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 4:25pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
babasolution: Even the whites we try to emulate cannot tolerate such foolhardy i.e. allowing another Ethnic group rule over you while syphoning your resources for thier own benefit, meanwhile bringing nothing to the table. This is why every European 'tribe' has it's own nation. Even the UK is four seperate countries in one. They fought wars to ensure each border is protected and no nation can leech off the next. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 4:17pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
ElSudani: Ask Google. |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 4:12pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Ofodirinwa: Truth is truth bro. That flag is a flop - yes, it is ugly. Very ugly. I can't convince you otherwise so please remain adamant in your failed agitation. |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 4:06pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
ElSudani: Keep reaching. It is highly insulting to bring up an illegimate colonial British state created for the purpose of looting Zambian & Zimbabwean people of their diamond, as an example for Yoruba people seeking an independent nation. Again, Rhodesia was an illegal state - not a country and was never globally recognised. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 3:48pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Ofodirinwa: Fair enough - You can stubbornly insist on naming Yorubaland after a dead entity called Oduduwa and put that false idol on your ugly cult-looking flag. Then wonder why the agitation has flopped. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 3:36pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UrPapa: Such a child. You've pathetically tried to use IPOB as shaming language against Igbos but unfortunately, IPOB isn't globally recognised as a terrorist group despite Buhari's desperate & embarrasing pleas to the international community to proscribe them. .. but guess which organisations are globally recognised as terrorists? Boko Haram & Fulani Militia. This is why your terrorist Fulani government are rebranding them as Bandits. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 3:30pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
ElSudani: I asked you to name a country and you named an illegimately created, colonial sub-state which never gained recognition as a country? Laughable 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 3:14pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UrPapa: You lost me when you mentioned IPOB. The obsession with Igbos is real. Most Yorubas - except the radical Muslims (a small myopic minority) know that a Yoruba nation would be more prosperous than a united Nigeria. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 3:08pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
ElSudani: Indeed. Name one country in the world which is named after a dead person/ancestor or a diety ? Just name one. |
Politics / 7 Reasons Why Yoruba Nation Agitation Is Failing by sweetmelanin(f): 2:58pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
There are many reasons why self determination movements like Biafra, Niger Delta republic, Yoruba Nation etc are crumbling. However, I'll be raising some points around the Yoruba Nation movement. 1. Ignorance and poor knowledge of History. Yoruba History isn't taught in Nigerian schools and this very intentional. The result of this is evident in the very ignorant population. Many Yorubas aren't aware of their true heritage and have little to no knowledge on the vast and diverse reach of Yoruba heritage; most Yorubas do not know of the ancient Oyo Kingdom and do not know that Yorubaland and Yoruba people extends into Togo, Benin and beyond. The documentary Bigger than Africa (Netflix) highlights this beautifully. Many do not fully understand what Nigeria truly is, and the enslavement it represents. This lack of awareness breeds complacency in the general populous. 2. Unappealing to the Youths. The agitation for an independent Yoruba nation does not come off as a modernised, sophisticated movement and this automatically makes it unappealing to the modern-day Yoruba youth. The movement presents itself as one tailored for traditionalists, ifa practitioners and those wish to return the ancient Oyo ways of living. There is also a covert shunning of those who aren't fluent in the language, again, isolating a large percentage of young Yorubas who have grown up in Lagos or abroad and cannot speak the language. The lack of linguistic ability does not relegate the cultural heritage of the modern-day Yoruba and it is time to accept that we have evolved as a people. 3. Oduduwa - the problem around this. There's no nation in this world that has an idol / deity as it's identity. The Oduduwa icon which has been incorporated into the proposed national flag is not only unpleasant to look at, but is also a highly bizarre way of branding the movement. A nation named after an ancestor/deity (Oduduwa) can never stand. It's just not done anywhere, nations are often named after the language of the people i.e. Yorubaland or Yoruba Kingdom. 4. The hyper focus on Juju/ Yoruba Spirituality. This obessive, hyper focus on Yoruba Spiritually isolates a majority percent of Yorubas who do not believe or practice Ifa. Worse is the condescending and aggressive attitude of talking down on practitioners of Abrahamic religions which turns people off and sadly misrepresents the beauty and diversity of the multi-culturalism of Yoruba people. This approach is highly segregatist and portrays the movement as a Nation that would be strictly subjected to the practice of Ifa / yoruba spirituality, thus putting off a large majority of modern-day Yorubas of different faiths. While we must appreciate and acknowledge our heritage, there should be a clear distinction between understanding history and engaging in the diabolical practices of our ancestors which majority of Yorubas today refuse to return back to. 5. Poorly designed and conflicting flags. There are 2 conflicting flags which, must be acknowledged and are both poorly designed. This shows lack of organisation and reflects badly on the movement as a whole. 6. The Cult-like Caucus. Yoruba nation activists form many cults and caucuses within the movement - if you're in, you're in. If you're not, you're not. Friction and in-fighting amongst groups, rumours of misappropriation of funds, betrayal and lack of cordination has resulted in the formation of numerous groups and subgroups e.g. Ilana Omo Odua, Think Yoruba First, Yoruba Nation, Clubhouse & Twitter subgroups etc.. 7. Political Jobbers, Saboteurs and Lack of Genuine Agitators. Hidden motives and selfish political ambition have caused many to sabotage the movement. Yorubas (sorry to say) generally do not think of the bigger picture, the focus is on "what can I achieve today", "how can I make a name for myself". This lack of collectivism and short-sightedness around the next generations Yorubas to come after us, has hindered the movement in more ways than none. The upcoming 2023 elections has become a major distraction. Summary: The unitary system of Nigeria has proven itself to be a fraudulent business arrangement designed to exploit certain regions for the benefits of other unproductive regions. As thus, a return to regional system of governance or division along North & South might be the suitable solution to the complex, blood letting, quagmire called Nigeria.
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