Infact, I'm speechless. Like we all are being controlled like zombies tru our banks n FG is good at getting at us tru our banks via CBN. Very soon, FG will collabo with d World Powers n force us all to get d chip inserted in us tru our banks. God is watching.....
Even in relationship it is a deal breaker in addition to stealing for me. If you are my woman, and u do this two, or even one, Game over..
Reasons; 1. If she cheat, I am no longer enough for her. In fact if the new man is hitting her on center of gravity where e deh sweet her pass, I av automatically become an Impedance for her.
2. Due to me becoming an impedance, she can eliminate me easily,because she cooks my family meal.
3. I am likely going to commit murder, I knw what i can do. I really don't want anyone to awake the demon in me..
4. A lot of beauty and cool headed with brain ladies out there, so I really don't need to keep a time bomb(cheating wife) under my roof..
5. She will corrupt my kids, especially the females. Because mother goat weh deh chop yam, the pikin go copy am.
6. Its difficult for a woman to cheat, but ones she does, she has crossed..
Lastly, there are tendencies of a woman to bleep easily for material things, Just like we have the tendencies of a man to bleep just to release konji wit no strings attached.
And cheating is a choice.
Lol! So, guys gets hurt when their wives cheats on them too? So, it hurts right? If it's so painful to have a cheating wife, then no good woman deserves to be cheated upon. Guys repent o. Ladies, am i communicating?
I pray not to meet someone like you if you a lady cos you actually not balanced.. You can't be trusted or relied upon.. If you parting ways talk and not tomorrow you come up with stories of rape been why you left.
U so on point. Such people can be so dangerous. Silent killers.
DMPaulSr: Get in here romancelanders. Let's discuss. After i saw this video of a GF burning her BF's car, i want to ask, 'What's the worst thing your BF or GF did to you after a break up'. Did they break your things, burn your things, chase you out from their apartments or did worse.
Jesus! That lady should be arrested. That was too extreme on her part. Relationship is not by force. She could have just walked away n not this evil. I will never support this even though I'm a woman n i know some guys can be so bad. It's not worth it because she almost killed herself in d process. It's not worth it. It's better to walk away n let God fight for u
ProfAmaben: This closure is for the benefit of everyone. If the bridge collapses, they would start blaming government.
Yes we know but can't they use their senses? I doubt if they still have some remaining in their brain. Why didn't they do this during lockdown? Truly this government lacks wisdom
I like her regardless. She's a great person. And I don't mind her demands of not having children. It's something I can live with. If not, I wouldn't still be with her.
Smiles..... U talk like that because u ain't matured enough. A time comes in life when u will be begging God to give u children by d time u see your mates children. Nobody will tell u how important it is to have children in life. Wake up man n avoid d one that doesn't want children, it's possible she does not have a womb anymore. Remove d veil in your eyes n choose BTW d 2nd n 3rd
Shukusheka: But think of it, why would an old married man be going around looking for virgins to marry if he isn't a cultist?
He sure is. Shameless old pedophile n love of money has made Regina Daniel trade her life for dough. She's headed for express straight, just a matter of time
You know it's quite amazing the level of knowledge YouTube and Google holds. Do you know I prepared fried rice the other day through Google and YouTube?
Wow! That's nice. Utube is loaded with so much information. Pls Bluetooth mine when next u prepare such delicious meal o.......
Lol, u have married a traditional African man, were do girls meet all this type of people sef. Well just tell him u want to know all his finances. U should play same game with him, he wants to know everything about u,u too wants to know everything about him. U own him too.
Gbam, only on this condition, should a woman disclose her real salary.
Newboss: Don't disclose anything to him. You have a choice. It's your right.
This is how rape happens. This is the financial version of rape. We need to emphasize on consent in every aspect of life, not just sex.
You have as much right as any man called your husband. Independent finance is important for women as much as it is for men. Don't let the blackmail get to you. You have the same right to your finances as he does to his. You are not his subordinate
Exactly, very good points coming from a man. Op, d best thing to do now is to go to bank, open two seperate accounts, do not collect Atm for one n collect Atm for d other one. Next, transfer half of your salary every month to the new account without Atm. Anytime u need money, withdraw from that account into d one that has d Atm from d first account without atm. Use online banking to transfer. Never collect atm or use ussd on that account ok. Once u receive salary, always share into 2 n secure into d new account n use d remaining half for the both of u, since he has d atm. Give him d pin to that one n watch him closely, how he withdraws money n spend it, that way, u will know whether to completely close that account or not. As for d two new accounts, protect your new atm, u can keep it anywhere safe but far away from him because he has shown he can't be trusted. Men like that makes a woman's life miserable n Las Las, he will use your money on girlfriends outside. Be careful
BEST advise so far. OP's husband is a gold digger. He married her because she is a career lady earning big and not for love. Op, pls I beg u,NEVER RELEASE YOUR PIN TO HIM OR U REGRET IT. Any man who puts his eyes on his wife 's money is a gold digger. A woman is to earn her money to support her family willingly and Op has done that by refurbishing his flat for him. How else can a woman help her husband? And she is also paying some other bills too. So, d man should go n hustle for his own money. YOUR WIFE'S MONEY IS NOT YOURS MR GOLDDIGGER. SHE CAN ONLY USE PARR OF HER SALARY TO HELP PAY SOME BILLS IN D HOME, BUY THINGS FOR YOUR CHILDREN, BUY HER OWN PERSONAL THINGS N ALSO SEND SOME MONEY TO HER PARENTS WHO SPONSORED HER ALL TRU D UNIVERSITY. HER PARENTS THAT INVESTED SO MUCH ON HER, ONLY FOR U MR GOLD DIGGER TO COME FROM NOWHERE, PAY PEANUT AS BRIDE PRICE ONLY N SUDDENLY THINK U OWE HER. Yes, u may owe her by marriage but pls, remove your eyes from her money. Go and hustle as a man. What makes a real man is d responsibilities he shoulders not some ENTITILED MENTALITY KIND OF MEN WHO ARE LAZY. WHO ONLY THINKS D DICK DEY CARRY UNDER IS WHAT MAKES THEM A MAN, WHO ALSO THINKS THAT D ONLY WAY THEY WILL MAKE IT IN LIFE IS TO TARGET RICH CAREER LADIES TO MARRY WHICH HE DID BUT NOW DISAPPOINTED THAT THE REASON HE MARRIED U IS NO LONGER POSSIBLE. LAZY ENTITILED GUYS EVERYWHERE. LADIES, BEWARE OF USELESS ENTITILED MEN, ALL THEY WANT IS A WOMAN THAT WILL SHOULDER THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES, BLEEP FOR FREE AND STILL CHASE AFTER OTHER GIRLS WITH THEIR MUGU'S MONEY.
OP, pls do not keep quiet on this issue, it is very obvious now that he married u because of your career n money n he is disappointed because u are smart too. Pls. Involve your family members because even your parents that sacrificed all their money to train u tru school that made u who u are today are not after your money. A man comes from nowhere n suddenly feels like a king, he feels entitled. For him to even seize your Atm card n pin shows he is a complete gold digger n I'm sure he is not working or does not have a good job. Na their way be dat. Ladies, beware of Gold diggers n entitled guys. They r everywhere, infact they are so much here on nairaland, jobless lazy youths looking for ladies to scam all in d name of relationship. Ladies, watch how they will attack my post now. I know they will attack me n I don't give a damn! Lazy youths!
dalass: Your husband obviously married you for your buoyant financial status...
Gone are the days when men married women for love. Now no man wants liability but someone they can control with her finances (fat bank account)....
You demonstrated the extent of your worth by that refurbishment... Now, you can't hide it... Don't give him any pin no oh... And don't make him your next of kin... You married a gold digger...
Gently but firmly talk to him so that he can have a foggy idea on what you earn. Not exact amount.. ...But if he doesn't hide anything from you, maybe you're the one with trust issues.... Maybe once bitten twice shy
Don't escalate the matter, use wisdom oh
BEST advise so far. OP's husband is a gold digger. He married her because she is a career lady earning big and not for love. Op, pls I beg u,NEVER RELEASE YOUR PIN TO HIM OR U REGRET IT. Any man who puts his eyes on his wife 's money is a gold digger. A woman is to earn her money to support her family willingly and Op has done that by refurbishing his flat for him. How else can a woman help her husband? And she is also paying some other bills too. So, d man should go n hustle for his own money. YOUR WIFE'S MONEY IS NOT YOURS MR GOLDDIGGER. SHE CAN ONLY USE PARR OF HER SALARY TO HELP PAY SOME BILLS IN D HOME, BUY THINGS FOR YOUR CHILDREN, BUY HER OWN PERSONAL THINGS N ALSO SEND SOME MONEY TO HER PARENTS WHO SPONSORED HER ALL TRU D UNIVERSITY. HER PARENTS THAT INVESTED SO MUCH ON HER, ONLY FOR U MR GOLD DIGGER TO COME FROM NOWHERE, PAY PEANUT AS BRIDE PRICE ONLY N SUDDENLY THINK U OWE HER. Yes, u may owe her by marriage but pls, remove your eyes from her money. Go and hustle as a man. What makes a real man is d responsibilities he shoulders not some ENTITILED MENTALITY KIND OF MEN WHO ARE LAZY. WHO ONLY THINKS D DICK DEY CARRY UNDER IS WHAT MAKES THEM A MAN, WHO ALSO THINKS THAT D ONLY WAY THEY WILL MAKE IT IN LIFE IS TO TARGET RICH CAREER LADIES TO MARRY WHICH HE DID BUT NOW DISAPPOINTED THAT THE REASON HE MARRIED U IS NO LONGER POSSIBLE. LAZY ENTITILED GUYS EVERYWHERE. LADIES, BEWARE OF USELESS ENTITILED MEN, ALL THEY WANT IS A WOMAN THAT WILL SHOULDER THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES, BLEEP FOR FREE AND STILL CHASE AFTER OTHER GIRLS WITH THEIR MUGU'S MONEY.
OP, pls do not keep quiet on this issue, it is very obvious now that he married u because of your career n money n he is disappointed because u are smart too. Pls. Involve your family members because even your parents that sacrificed all their money to train u tru school that made u who u are today are not after your money. A man comes from nowhere n suddenly feels like a king, he feels entitled. For him to even seize your Atm card n pin shows he is a complete gold digger n I'm sure he is not working or does not have a good job. Na their way be dat. Ladies, beware of Gold diggers n entitled guys. They r everywhere, infact they are so much here on nairaland, jobless lazy youths looking for ladies to scam all in d name of relationship. Ladies, watch how they will attack my post now. I know they will attack me n I don't give a damn! Lazy youths!
It is part of the responsibility of parents to protect their kids. In same climes, not doing so is a criminal offence. So if you do not have kids, you don't have a right to criticize a parent for doing their God- given duty. Your salary for teaching cannot pay for any child's life.
The same way, if any parent feels comfortable enough to expose their children to coronavirus (especially nursery/primary school age), it is also their choice.
I will never Trade my kids for stupid government and their stupid virus CV19
Exactly, government that has shown that we are on our own. I do not trust them one bit. My children ain't resuming school till September. To hell with 3rd term
I wrote someone to make him see reasons why government should open up schools..U came from no where charging like a mad cow that escaped from an abattoir and called me a hungry teacher when I am not.
Unsympathetic, wicked soul.
U people that wants to kill our children because u are missing your salaries , what do I call u? Selfish, Wicked souls....
I said " get off my mention pls". What part of my English did u not understand? Mad Cow