ubunja:
Women will not buy the cow if the milk is free.
SEXUAL VS NON SEXUAL NEEDS.
Women's needs are divided into two groups: non sexual needs and sexual needs.
Men's needs are also divided into two groups: non sexual needs and sexual needs.
Sexual needs are sex, cuddles, kisses, MouthAction, massages, sex pics, sexting, phone intimacy etc. Anything that is sexual.
Non Sexual needs are food, shelter, money, clothes etc. Anything that has nothing to do with sex.
Women date for non sexual needs.
Men date for sexual needs.
That is, women date FOR THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX: i.e a man's resources, money, time, energy, protection, skills, investments etc. If a woman already has these things by herself she will see no reason to date: "I make my own money I don't need a man"
Women don't see a relationship as a source of sex the way men do. Women ALWAYS get sex offered to them everywhere they go. They don't need a relationship to get it.
Meanwhile men date FOR SEX AND THOSE THINGS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH SEX. And a man who gets plenty of sex from plenty of women will see no reason to date, e.g a Player.
For men relationships are sexual. The loss of a relationship usually means the loss of sex.
Men and women do not date for the same reason: Women date for financial security. Men date for sexual security.
A woman dates to monopolize a man's finances and have exclusive access to his resources. A man dates to monopolize a woman's sexuality and have exclusive access to her body.
THE MILK.
If the milk is free the cow will not be bought.
Women's milk is anything that is sexual - sex, BJs, kisses, hugs, sex pics etc - their Sexuality. If women give their sexuality free to men, then men will not buy the cow. The cow is the woman. And buying the cow is marrying the woman. Since marriage is the One thing women want from men. Since marriage is the One thing that gives a woman access to all his resources, even after he dies.
Men's milk are the things a man can do for a woman OUTSIDE of sex. THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX : his time, energy, money etc. If a man gives these things free to women, then women will not buy the cow. The cow is the man. And buying the cow is giving the man sex.
In a marriage, you are a husband because you bring the Non Sexual Things.
And a woman is a wife because she brings the Sexual Things.
Hence a man who can no longer provide is replaced.
And a woman who is no longer sexually appealing is similarly replaced.
DADDY GOVERNMENT.
When the government provides women with money, assistance, protection etc - things that have NOTHING to do with sex - we say women are now married to the government.
The government is now their husband.
Because a husband is not a husband by bringing in sex but by bringing in things that have nothing to do with sex. A wife is the one who is a wife by bringing sex and things that have to do with sex.
A WOMAN'S MILK.
A woman's milk is her sexuality. And her sexuality are the things she does for a man she loves. Some of these things may not be strictly sexual, like cooking, washing and cleaning for him, but they're nonetheless intimate. A wife will be pissed if she finds some woman cooking for her husband or washing his clothes. Because it's as good as that woman is sleeping with him. Because no woman does those things for a man she's not intimate with.
Which is why if a man asks a female stranger to wash his clothes or cook for him she'll reply, "Am I your wife?"
And if he asks for sex, again she'll reply, "Am I your wife?"
Which is the same exact response to two different questions because household chores and sex fall under the same category of Wifey Duties. And Wifey Duties ARE the woman's milk.
If a woman gives a man this milk free, then the man will see no reason to marry her. Because already he has a wife without a wife.
BUT UNFORTUNATELY women give milk free to men.
Because of the way women's logic works.
When women date a man, they test his ability to provide by making him spend as a boyfriend. If he consistently provides at the boyfriend stage, women conclude, "There must be more money where that came from". And there usually is. Now, women take that same mentality, that same mindset, and apply it to sex.
Women feel they must do household chores for a boyfriend and especially sleep with him for him to see what they can do, for him to "sample the goods", to give him a taste of things to come, to show him what he can look forward to if he marries them. To show him "there's more where that came from".
But here's the problem; men NEVER view sex as a sample.
To men sex is a conquest. Always. As a woman, once a man tastes your pussy, he's NOT wondering how sweet it will be after he marries you. Or what he must do to wife it up. Instead he's wondering how your best friend tastes like, compared to you, since she has a bigger booty. He's wondering how your sister tastes like, since she's younger and fresher. You, he's done with you.
The only way a woman can give a man a foretaste or a sample of the goods, is in how she dresses. She dresses to feed his imagination. The glimpses he'll get of her thighs and breasts will show him there's more where that came from.
But it goes deeper than this.
If a man approaches a woman, it's because he's taken by what he sees and hears - her face, body and voice. All these are the woman's milk. And she must not freely give these away without compensation. Especially over the phone.
Phones have given men access to women's milk for free. And as a woman you'll have to severely limit your presence and availability over the phone and on Social Media. To guard your milk. This means:
No chatting with a man on WhatsApp or any chat app. Ever. If a man wants to talk to you he must call you - over the phone - not over WhatsApp or Skype. And even then you keep calls brief and push for him to come see you personally. If a man wants to talk to you for hours he must take you out on a date. Instead of spending on airtime he must spend on you directly on a date.
And this is going to sound crazy, but NO PICS online whatsoever. No dirty pics. No clean pics. No pics whatsoever on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. And especially no profile pics on WhatsApp. A man must come see you to see your pretty face, not take out his phone and open your profile pic.
If you absolutely must post a pic, then choose a dull one. As counterproductive as that may sound. While most girls use filters to enhance their profile pics and they become hotter in pictures than in real life, you oppose them: You post mediocre pics but dazzle in person. That way men will look forward to hanging out with you in person.
Be unavailable EVERYWHERE except face to face. And you'll score more dates from men.
And the more men take you out on dates, the more they're forced to spend and the more they spend the more they get invested and the more they get invested the more they'll take you seriously. We talked about this on Pleasures Of The Cash.
And on dates don't allow a man to take selfies with you. To miss you he must have no pics of you. And when he misses you he must know that the only way to see you is to come see you. Not open his phone gallery.
This is how a woman guards her milk.
A MAN'S MILK.
Everything that a man does for, or gives to, his MALE FRIENDS (favours, money, time, connections, etc), these are called Non Sexual Attention and they are the same exact Non Sexual Attention a woman wants from a man.
These are the same exact things that fall under the category of "Husband Duties".
Husband Duties and Friend Duties are one and the same thing. They are a man's Non Sexual Attention. His Non Sexual Attention is the man's milk.
The difference between what a man does for his friends and what he does for his wife is a matter of degrees. Levels. He does the same for them, only in varying degrees.
If it always appears like your girlfriend or wife is always competing with your friends for your time, money, favours etc. IT IS BECAUSE REALLY YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE IS COMPETING WITH YOUR FRIENDS FOR YOUR TIME, MONEY, FAVOURS etc. All which are your Non Sexual Attention. Your Non Sexual Attention is the one thing you share with your guy friends. The one thing you share with women. That's why your girlfriend is always complaining about your friends. Because she's COMPETING with your friends.
The very things men share with each other are the same exact things women want from a boyfriend or a husband.
Men better learn to guard these things jealously. Because they are the only thing of value they have that women want.
Some guys last had sex months ago, because they're doing women favour after favour that women should have been paying for with sex. Some guys don't have girlfriends because girls have seen no point in dating them because the guys are doing boyfriend duties without being boyfriends.
No one is going to buy the cow if the milk is free. Not men. Not women.
YOUR SEXUAL ATTENTION IS TRASH.
As a man your Sexual Attention, of which your dick is central, is worthless garbage. It literally has no value to women. A woman can't marry you for sex. Because women are offered sex 24/7 365. Everywhere a woman goes, men want to fvck her. Why will she marry for something freely available to her?
YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION IS PURE GOLD.
While as a guy, your Sexual Attention is rubbish, your Non Sexual Attention, of which your money is central, is the diamond mine.
No matter you're the ugliest baboon in the hood or the fattest pig in the township, no matter you're blind, or in a wheelchair or you don't even have a dick; your Non Sexual Attention remains as precious as diamonds and rubies to women.
Because when a woman has heavy items to lift, and the ugliest baboon offers his help, she won't say no. When a girl is stranded far from home and the blackest ugliest man offers her transport fare back home, she won't say no. When the prettiest girl in class can't get her assignments done on time and the fattest unsightly boy in class offers to write them for her, she won't say no. When Ms Nigeria is being robbed and Nigeria's brokest man intervenes to save her, she will gladly welcome it.
All these things that these men are doing for these women are the men's Non Sexual Attention. It is the only thing of value men have to offer women. All because men are stronger, smarter and faster. This is the selling point of men. It is their treasure. Their milk.
And they need to guard it jealousy.
WOMEN'S NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Women's Non Sexual Attention - of which money is core - is worthless and has little value. That is why a woman can come into a marriage broke and empty-handed and a man be okay with it.
A woman's money and a man's dick have the same value: ZERO. Men don't date women for money, just like women don't date men for dick.
Meanwhile, A woman's pussy and a man's money also have the same value: IT'S PURE GOLD. Men date and marry for sex. Women date and marry for money.
"HEY! CAN YOU DO ME A FAVOUR?"
A woman, instead of asking for money from men, she can instead ask for favours. And because men don't mind doing things for women as long as those things don't cost money they'll do it for her. But what men don't realise is that a favour or a free service is really money in another form.
A man's time, a man's attention and a man's money are the same thing because they're equal and have the same value. Since Attention = looking, and looking = Time, and time = Money. Giving someone your attention is giving them your time and your time is really your money.
That is why in Red Pill philosophy money and attention are used interchangeably as the most valuable thing men have. And the sweetest thing in the universe for women.
A WOMAN IS NEVER A STRANGER.
Women are the weaker sex and they won't last one day if men dealt with them the way men deal with other men.
Men are hard on each other and don't do each other favours unless it's between friends. If you're a guy and the other man doesn't know you he will never give you a lift in his car, buy you a drink, pay your transport fare, fight for you, give you a place to sleep or buy you food. That only happens between men who are friends.
But here's the thing, when a man deals with a woman, a total stranger of a woman, a woman he has NEVER MET BEFORE whose name he doesn't even know and whom he'll never see again in this life, that man, by nature, deals with that woman the same exact way he deals with a long time friend who is a guy.
As long as he's dealing with men, A guy will only allow a close friend he has known for years to spend the night in his house. Yet a girl he met barely 10 mins ago he'll also allow her to spend a night at his house.
Even if she's a stranger, a woman is never a stranger to a man.
While Maxwell needs to be friends with Isaac to get favours from Isaac, Sandra here doesn't have to be someone Isaac knows to get the same favours. Isaac doesn't even have to know Sandra's name or where she's from. The fact that Sandra is a woman means that even if she's a stranger to Isaac, she automatically gets the same benefits from Isaac that Isaac reserves for guys he's been friends with for years. Sandra whom Isaac just met barely 5 mins ago will get the same level of favours that Maxwell has earned over many years of loyal friendship with Isaac.
Even if she's a stranger, a woman is never a stranger to a man.
A WOMAN WITH MANY MALE FRIENDS DOESN'T NEED A BOYFRIEND.
The best strategy for a woman to properly benefit from a guy, without giving the guy any sex whatsoever, is actually to ask to be his Friend.
To never make him her Boyfriend.
Men are raised to treat all women nice. That is what it is to be a gentleman. So even if a man is not in a relationship with a particular woman, he'll still treat her well. Now if a girl has many men regularly treating her well, that good treatment will add up to the treatment he could get from an official Boyfriend.
Which is to say, If a girl gets about, say 8 guys who give her platonic friendship benefits, if she combines all that help it will equal the help a romantic boyfriend will give her. Because what a woman needs from a lover are the same things she needs from a platonic friend. ---------> RESOURCES.
If a girl has enough guy friends he won't need a boyfriend. The more guys a girl has in her friendzone the less she needs to make any of them her boyfriend.
This is the reason why friendship with women is highly discouraged in Red Pill philosophy because it's like the woman is dating you but you're not dating the woman because she's receiving GF benefits from you but not performing GF duties on you.
Even if you're just helping a girl with a lift to work, that may seem insignificant to you, but if at the same time, another guy is helping her out with lunch money (something also insignificant to him), and another guy, living next door her, watches over her (something also insignificant to him), while three other guys help her out with her rent (something also insignificant to them), and the guy at the local store gives her free groceries (something also insignificant to him), at the end, combining all the help from all these men, A WOMAN WILL NOT NEED TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. She'll simply get a vibrator and live her life.
The Milk has been given to her free so she doesn't have to buy the cow.
A girl won't enter a relationship for what she's getting without a relationship. She's not dumb.
You and those other helpful men, by being gentlemen, have disqualified yourselves from being made a boyfriend.
A girl gains far more from 10 guys in her friendzone than she gains from 1 romantic boyfriend.
That's why friendship with men is so important for women. And that's why men must not be friends with women. Because to be a woman's friend is to be her boyfriend but without her being your girlfriend.
If every man everywhere became as selfish and as stingy with his time, money and favours the way every woman everywhere is selfish and stingy with her pussy, kisses and ass, society would reorder itself in record time. And especially women, having been left to navigate a dangerous world without the male protection and provisions that they take for granted, will be kinder, gentler and more respectful to men. Most importantly every woman will seek her own man to get protected and provided by and there won't be so many single lonely men.
But instead the opposite is happening...
Guys are going above and beyond the call of duty for girls they don't even know. Doing women favour after favour, paying bill after bill, satisfying need after need, of women. For what? To be thanked and made to feel like a "real man"! For validation. SMH.
As a result women are seeing no need to date. They're just hooking up with the few pretty boys for sex and that's it. The rest of what they need they can get without having to date.
If The Milk Is Free, the cow won't be bought. Women are not stupid.
THE FEMALE SOURCE CODE.
In the writeup The Female Source Code, we talked about how attention means so much to women that if a woman gets a lot of it from many men, it will cancel out her need for a man. And maybe some readers thought that was too farfetched a concept. Check out the first picture below and see a girl choose the attention of her Instagram followers over her relationship with her Boyfriend.
Here's the original tweet: https://mobile.twitter.com/theebryonnaab/status/1327690562108084224
Maybe guys will have something of an idea of what makes women tick at the most basic level.
Read The Female Source Code here: https://www.nairaland.com/5520258/ubunjas-miseducation-female-source-code
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