many a times, people have wisdom and knowledge, but not many have understanding. Please edit the title of your post 'cos it's just so embarrassing not just to your mother but it also speak volumes of your own personality. may be before judging others, put yourself in their shoes. Life shouldn't be all about us. we cannot also have all that we desire, so if one way doesn't work try another means but let it not be at the expense of another person. that your mother promised you something doesn't mean she has the capacity to fulfill it.

many are mad, few are roaming

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author=mutter post=30774707]

MY ex husband- on June 5th it would be 20 years![/quote] thank goodness
he's now an EX, do you mean 20 years of being separated?

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author=mutter post=30762422]The first thing you need to know is that
you did not make this man in one year. He just got a job.

The second thing you need to realize is that his family may not be
pleased with you as you are from different tribes.

Try this advice and come back and give the testimony.
Stop controlling him, that does not bring anything.
Welcome him home, show that you are happy to see him, don`t ask him
where he went.
If you feel that you are special believe that no woman can match up to
you.
When he is at work call him or send him an SMS, tell him you can`t wait
for him to come home and.....(tell him something that will make him run
home to grab you in his hands).

This man is going out there to have some fun, so make the fun at home
more than the one outside and he will come back.

Show him love, kindness and respect and if he is a good man you will see
a visible change.

Please for God`s sake do not fight over a woman, not even with him, you
are above that. You can`t change it but at leas you can counter it with
dignity.

My ex even brought home girls ad I went through all phases but one day I
just decided to say nothing. It was almost as if he was rubbing it in
my face.
Once two girl came to the house, went straight to his room and lay down
on the bed, put on AC and TV. They went to the kitchen and took my food!
when my husband came back after we greeted and he sat down i told him
he had visitors. He dashed to the room and came out with them. You
should have seen their faces " Sorry Ma". I just told them they
should feel free.
You see my husband had brought them into the house while I was away
visiting m dad and had told them that his friend and the wife lived
there too. [/quote author]

madam, if you dont mind my asking, are you talking about about
ex-boyfriend, ex-husband or the current husband you are leaving with?
Please if this is your present husband, you both need to seek
professional counselling because this is a very unhealthy marriage and
if you both continue this way, the end might be what you and him will
live to regret. marriage should be enjoyed and not endured!

deworm, detoxify and then start feeding mostly on fruits and water until you get your appetite back.Also watch the kinds and methods of food you eat

^^^
she's happily married oh

eagleeye2:
Ladies are just saying "house girl
dirty", "smelly house girl", "stooping low" bla blah.
This.particular house girl is a distant relation and she will soon
secure admission.
Abeggi....... A saying goes thus, "no matter how a lady is, if you climb
her you will get to know that something sweet is inside of her"

A distant relation? the more reason you should have the instinct of
protecting her rather than jumping into bed together.what manner of men
are ye?

is the man a puppet that should be told what to do? what happens to landing the househelp a dirty slap and disgracing her in front of your wife before sendin her packing, i dont know which woman will hear this, and fold her hands watching, atleast if the househelp does not value her body, somebody should help her place a value on it.

i don't understand how a full grown man with a working brain, educated for that matter would stoop so low as to make out with a househelp, is it that bad?where do these women see such men, do men no longer have respect for themselves?na wa oh

keep deceiving yourselves with the 'ladies love bad guys' notion, don't go and work on your characters, manners and your words.maybe when you stop being picky and give others the chance to receive the love you crave for, you'll also find what you're searching for

Most handsome guys i know are empty vessels and most believe every girl should always be at their beck and call, and when this is not the case, they become very embittered . People should spend time developing the inner attitudes than relying on transient things like hansomeness. To me, being handsome is just the icing of the cake, who are you really? when you are relying on your looks, then you are sitting on a long thing!I don't even care if a guy is handsome or looks like a gorilla. Inner attitudes and qualities is what matters to most ladies and that's the reason you see very ugly men married to very beautiful ladies all because they know how to treat a lady. So stop relying on your looks, Look inwards!

JustBimbo:
Pls friends help Me. Am serious disturbed and not happy, can't go for lecture cos am week. Have an unprotected sex with a friend last 3weeks. I was feeling down n I opt in for urine test which I discovered am pregnant. Pls help... i need to finish school first. i am about three weeks pregnant and i need to know ALL the ways of getting rid of it before it's too late. please don't think badly of me. this is hurting me real badly but my boyfriend dosen't want a child right now either.

Walk into a good clinic or hospital. Tell the doctor you're pregnant and don't want to keep. He/she will give u options to terminate it. Choose whichever one suits you.
After this, close your two legs and stop being a fool

holatin:



what da Bleep..put ur hand inside ur pvssy, then put the finger in ur nose and laugh,it not possible, u can't laugh with d smell. secondly immediately after sex, smell there d stench of the heat could paralyze an elephant. maybe na dat smell dey draw us to them.
any way am #teampuusy

Guy, let your babe go for medical treatment. It's nothing to be ashamed of, instead of this fallacy you're stating. Let her also wash her womanliness and wipe it dry after urinating and pooing. A normal healthy womanliness is odourless, even if you bury your head in it

blakky97:


I doubt your last sentence. Check google

I'm a lady and understand perfectly what i'm saying. A normal womanliness should be odourless, and dry on normal days.The only time a lady should experience discharge is when she's sexualy aroused and during ovulation when there's a clear slippery mucus. Aside that, any other discharge is indicative of an underlying infection and no amount of personal hygiene can cure it. it may only mask the infection

DonCrust:


I love people like you... You know what you're saying.
A friend of mind had PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) since when she was a virgin. She got treated and it disappeared. A couple of months ago, the odour came back and she did a swab but the result of all the lab test showed that she's not infected but all the same, prescriptions were made by the doctors and she's almost 100% back to normal.

My advice: Tell your friend to seek medical attention ASAP and if you think its necessary, get in touch with me so that I could share her BBM or whatsapp contact with you.

Good luck to your friend.

Thank You

Just to debunk what a poster wrote above.It is never normal for a womanliness to smell. i mean never!
Once you start to notice any smell from mild to pungent,then something is definitely wrong in your vagina, cervix or any part of your reproductive organ and urgent test and treatment is required. Symptoms of Vaginal Infections include mild to pungent odour, discharges, abdominal and pelvic pains,womanly scratching, boils, blisters, pains/wounds while urinating and sometimes fever and mouth blisters/ulcers. I will advise that your friend goes to a good laboratory and conduct Urine MCS-HVS Test. She would be given the right antibiotics to treat her womanly odour. she should also carry out pelvic scan, hiv and hepatitis tests.
A normal womanliness is odourless, painless and dry

Buy her novels and magazines on a weekly basis to read.Nobody was born with the english language. We are all learners of the language

MichaelSokoto:

OP, nah diz kine babe we deh warn u about

i hope your brain is working. it's your type that will carry 5 thousand and send your children off to school to live off on other students, prostitute and hickjack student phones and laptop just to survive. A guy here was trying to advocate for couples having lesser children that they can cater for, another guy who wants to form james bond shut him up just to gather likes. You and I know there's big different between delusion and reality. A man births 10 children knowing fully well the condition of this country, just believing that his rich brother will cater for them. Issorait!
I only feel for these guys whenever i sight. you see a student who alternates only 3 pairs of shirts for a whole academic session, then you wonder if they have a family. Some even smell as there's not as much as a toothpaste. I'm sure the OP has tried managing this 10k and it has proved virtually impossible he had to ask for help. Tufia!

Chiamaka01:


And so? What if you're just looking for extra money to flex in school?

and so? what is wrong with him having extra money to flex in school?

lanxlot:
firstly, hw many babes do you have? how happy are those who have no babe, for they shall enjoy their pocket money. secondly, soup sleeping kwa? Well, learn how to wake up your soup. me, I don't mind if My own de doze sef. lol.

babe or no babe, 10k is just too small for a student to spend in a month!
@ OP,i understand not all fingers are equal, so if that is the best ur parent can afford, then pls manage it. You can start by selling recharge card in your hall of residence and your department. That way, you have a source of renewable resource to last you for a month. it aint easy but you'll sail through.You can also try yemiplus2 advice. All the best

Yes. Make sure you scrutinise that jamb brochure fastidiously. List out those courses that appeal to you according to your
1.Passion/Love
2.Talent(what you can do very well without supervision). This is because the university is supposed to nurture your talent so you can be the best in what you love and are good at. This way you become the best in your field of specialization and companies would rush to pay exorbitantly for your talent.
Don't let your deciding factor be monetary.Like you mentioned, if you are passionate about art courses then you could be looking at studying English Language, Communication and Language Arts, Mass Communication, Theatre Art,etc depending on your talent and passion. Also, make sure you choose the best universities that can help you nurture your talent. All the best

Congrat. Why don't you visit the university website and read what is expected of you. Your helpers are on the way

So, this is what you call brain teaser. Well, the answer is D. 32 or am i wrong?

Moreover, being in school gives you the opportunity of applying for undergraduate scholarships like shell, agip, total, etc. you are there wasting your time. why didnt you participate in the TEHN's scholarship program organized for your likes? infact, i pray you find what you're looking for

justphillips:
Please fellow Nairalanders, am about losing my provisional admission due to financial difficulty.
I left secondary school five years ago and couldn't proceed to the university even though i was offered admission. Please Nairalanders, i really don't want to loose this one. I lost my father when i was 9, my mom is not financially bouyant right now.
Please i'm calling on kind hearted Nairalanders to please help a brother...
Cc: fynestboi
Richiez
Olawalebabs
Suen
Berem
Aljharem

This is still what has been bothering me, what have you been doing wasting five years sitting at home and waiting for JAMB?Are there no people who atleast care for your future? what happens to getting a part-time job and collecting Distance Learning Form from one of the these universities. that way, you have the flexibility of studying and working at your convenience. Employers are even more willing to employ school cert than graduates.

Sometimes i wonder: who will you respect, a 3rd class graduate engineer who cannot even handle a plier or a 1st class English graduate who knows his onion. In fact, you kids need orientation!

jauntee02:
for now, no job at hand. But working to be a good web developer.

My dear, terminate that program as early as possible or better still, change department, start from a lower level and put in your best this time around. Don't say they didnt warn you. if you carry that 3rd class pali leave university, your name is as good as SORRY. The problem with us nigerians is that everybody wants to be a doctor, a lawyer, an engineer, a computer guru,etc instead of going for a course they have flairs for and can enjoy it. Don't be deceived oh

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freecocoa:
Duh! A christian can't part with virtue but is willing to die with the said virtue and go to hell? You see why I hate religion? Excuse me please.

LOL. it's funny sis. i wish someone could help me understand this.

callmespices:

That guy is just a sadist, imagine him changing his gender to "f" after I yab him sha
Am not even sure if he exist

babe, you were already blushing, so i had to let you know i'm a gal like you before you started tripping. Abeg, make i see road commot 4 here

callmespices:

That guy is just a sadist, imagine him changing his gender to "f" after I yab him sha
Am not even sure if he exist

Your customers are waiting, Oya, go sell your cheap wares to them. olodo!

callmespices:

I won't shoot u , I will just laugh at ur stupidity

who is stup-id? a guy beating his own mother or a lady who watches as an old woman is beaten to stupor, you figure! only to run here and display more of your stupidity. i would leave you to wallow in your joy of opening a thread, believing it gets you home page, fool!!!