₦airaland Forum

Hannysmilez:
You're the one who is silly as a product of your environment. It's illegal for a child under 16 to have to work to earn pay. That apart,psychology backs her up;she can't be punished,she still is a child
Just because it happened ty you don't make it right and you're a terrible parent if your kid only behaves himself coz he-s scared of getting his ass whooped. I can't believe you proudly typed how you threaten your kid

Silly girl. Empty brain.

Most nigerian youth are so stupid and lack independence. I started making my own money at 13. At 16 I was a Major consumables supplier with Intel PH. My father a retired foriegn officer didn't have to worry about my welfare from about age 14!
Today I 29. A lawyer business woman married with kids.
The exposure I had with working and earning my own money helped me achieve success faster that all my mates.

Wait untill u are 50 before u earn your own money.

By the way Google what age can i start working!

Nonsense. U know nothing about me and call me a bad parent. I guess ur mother did a horrible job with u!
Who knows u may still be going to her for pad at your age.

makizee:
Thinks small na, were you also a maid in your dads house, can't you see it goes beyond cooking...

I was not a maid in my dad's house. I worked for someone

yemaldo:
Kanu is free now but u guys are looking for ways to get him back to prison

I'm not a Kanu fan but why should this land anyone in prison??

Can't I name my animal whatever I wish?

gypsey:
Really? please which europe? I am sure no company will employ a minor in Europe, what happened to welfare? could you not claim welfare?

Individual employ too

Partnerbiz:
Owww.


See what i will do to them after wedding.

redsun:
Voluntary work to get pocket money is different from the kind of horrors these children are subjected to in nigeria. They are slaves to dysfuntional adults who thinks children are properties to used for their own selfish gains.

Yes sadly in some cases. But not all. Let's not be quick to generalise.

I was once an early teenage maid. This girl is pure evil. A product of her environment

Ayemileto:
Do those kids get beaten? please think like someone living in Nigeria

Yes! When my kids mess up I get in their asś!

Why does my son stay polite, do his chores and how work and take of his younger siblings when I'm not around??

Because he doesn't want me in that asś!

Believe I once worked as a maid when I returned back to Nigeria.... at the time it wasn't pleasant but I'm happy I had such exposure!

favourlove1:
d issue here is child labour. u wount pay a maid bt u want to hire d one u wount pay yet u over work. dnt expect a 14 yrs old to love u for beating her yet ur kids do same thin n she watches u let them b. wives stop being lazy!!!

I simply can't hire a 14yearold as a maid cos I'm not ready to train anyone. As for payment, house maids are paid. They don't work for free.

MasterRahl:
I don't get you please

Typo error.

I mentioned to say do house maids work for free??

agrovick:
Everything is wrong with it, she is a minor working as a maid. That we do it here in Nigeria doesn't make it right.

BTW, you were cooking for your dad not your employer; big difference

My son is 11. He is my employee. In Europe in my early teenage years I was an employee!

princeofpeace22:
Good you for die sef


Practicing child labour

Abeg close ur mouth if u have nothing reasonable to say. I've lived in Europe and USA kids as young as 11 work! They are thought from an early age the value of money and how hard it is to make money.

My 11year old son works for me as my lawn mower operator, what's wrong with that??

MasterRahl:
Too bad. Its a good thing he has withdrawn the case. This househelp thing should be phased out...unless you're placing him/her on pay.

Don't they work for free??

NwaObinkita:
Okay na
Disadvantages of child labour.


Why will a 14year old girl cook beans for you when your wife is at home?

Nigerians and twisted mentality.

What is wrong with a 14year old cooking beans? I started cooking for my dad at 12

Evil child... God forbid

Op do what ever makes you happy so long as it's not bad. If he does not like it let him divorce u.

Stop looking for his validation cos u simple won't get it. If u want to learn a skill just inform him, don't seek his money or approval.

In this day and age who wants to be a house wife??

He doesn't want u to have financial freedom nor does he want u to look good so that what ever bullshit he brings u will swallow... God forbid evil

So men are just born to frustrate their wives.

Wow

emmykingsok:
seriously, I still can't understand what a married woman will be discussing with her ex. marriages these days, I don't know. bro she's your wife and you need to talk things over with her. marriage is all about communication, so don't allow an outsider to destroy your marriage. forget about the guy the guy, sit your wife down and talk things over with her. also make every effort to to work on yourself too

Isn't it obvious that it's the op action that drove her back to communication with her ex

I'd love to hear the woman's side.

MICHEALADEX:
I won't say anything but am sure you understand

Alleged adultery is not a crime. Murder is.

Airforce1:
Your wife is not loyal

Is he loyal??

Atheists everywhere

May God help you guys to know the truth

*smh... runs out of thread*

Headlesschicken:
How can i be married n still be having such
issues bout an ex,its obvious dat yuh wife doesn't v much respect 4u,sit her down n talk some sense into her,n stop all those yuh nasty behavior of staring @women's ass,n wen yuh done talking 2her call dat her ex on phone n warn dt nigga seriously, or u can still keep mute n watch yuh family fall apart, ryt b4 yah eyes...

Best response

Oladimejyy:
Why is it that you female hate your fellow female*sigh*

Jealousy

OMG so sorry op. May God heal ur broken heart. You'll find love again

Africa

Obviously number 2

Nigerians are foolish. Where are those who do jungle justice??

MedicalSamwise:
I'm talking biologically not spiritually

Whether biology or spiritual.

It is God that creates and gives children. No man has control over what chromosome he has in his sperm

MedicalSamwise:
SOME LOWLIFE PEOPLE WILL INSULT HIS WIFE FOR GIVEN BIRTH TO FEMALES ONLY WHEREAS ITS THE MAN'S DOING

My

It's not the man's doing. It's God's grace

My governor fall my hand! Way give such a thief and terrorist an award?

It doesn't make sense. This has nothing to do with being mature. The idiot simply does not deserve it!

Error in judgment.

proudafrogal:
YAYWEH is a misogynist just like Allah

Jehovah is NOT a misogynist. It is insecure men like toks that try make Him look that way.

Toks is a misogynist.... cursed be the day he came out from a WOMAN!

MarieSucre:
I know there will be a fool like this in every Linda Ikeji thread that will talking like they know the road to her area in Lagos talk more of her bedroom.

You probably lack employment, maybe she can employ you as her abunna sniffer so you can come on nairaland and be opening thread on the different smells. At least, you will get paid for hating not this jobless ten kobo one you're doing here.

The boys on nl hate Linda cos of her success..