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Health / Re: 10 Wonderful Amazing Effects Of Coconut Oil by yorubadelta(f): 6:15am On Jul 07, 2015
Cutehector:
u neeed one?

Haha.. got some dear.. but ur post definitely taught me new things I could do with it smiley
Family / Re: My Brother Must Not Marry Her. by yorubadelta(f): 10:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
Hahahaha.. ur broda don chop efo riro tongue

She has him where she wants him mehn, so just leave the guy to his fate.. seems he's the type that doesn't mind being cuckold as long as he never finds out.

It's a sad world we live in.
Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 9:14pm On Jul 06, 2015
fm7070:
There is more to it than mete the eye.
Some married women are so boring and not romantic
They get relaxed and lose shape after giving birth to 2-4 children
This is not about age but packaging
When their husband warned them in soft tone, they always think he was joking
Not taking him so seriously
Sometimes, they are insensitive to the sexual needs of their husband
When they eventually allow sex, it is always missionary style and they will just lie down like a log of wood
leaving the man to just satisfy himself and even pretend as if sex is nothing to them whereas, they enjoyed it,
but did not make the man feels the excitement
One the other hand, mistress out there is ready to rock any style with you
she makes you feel you're a man and that sex is to be mutually enjoyed
she dance and twist for you during sex, giving you a real sense of action
she knows what to do to get you awake even up to six or seven rounds
Sucking your penis is not a big deal to them.
So, what are we talking about?
3 things are very important to men: Food, Sex and good character
If you can cook good food with good character but without good hot sex
men may cheat on you
If you can rock your man's world sexually and feed him well but with few bad character,
he may be managing you
Am talking from experience
A word is enough for the wise



Smh. Nawa for this comment sha

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Family / Re: 7 Amazing Things Sanitary Pads Are Used For.(PIC) by yorubadelta(f): 9:05pm On Jul 06, 2015
Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 8:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
KingTom:
May a spear be driven into my anus and come out of my mouth if I treat my wife with disdain because of one runs girl, may my testicles be bathed with hot dry danjarawa pepper if I try it, may lakaye use my blood to bathe if I try am. Nonsense!!!!!!! angry angry



Amen! cheesy
Family / Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by yorubadelta(f): 7:03pm On Jul 06, 2015
kay29000:


I wouldn't joke around with something as serious as me wanting to kill myself.

Well, in that case, if you are a Christian don't you know suicide is automatic hell fire? Which is far worse than whatever you maybe going through. Please take it easy o.. remember there's always someone else out there suffering a much worse situation than you. Focus on the positive things in your life.
Family / Re: Some Times I Think Of How Easy It Would Be To Just End It All by yorubadelta(f): 6:48pm On Jul 06, 2015
Not sure how serious this post is but if you are for real, pls I beg you .. don't do it. No situation is permanent ok. E go better smiley

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Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 6:42pm On Jul 06, 2015
FrancisTony:

Na so my post pain you reach? You sound bitter!.

Oya, smack your head on the wall or jump inside thirld main-land because I am not the cause of your predicaments. smiley


Lol. I watched this post get so many likes within seconds .. just like magic! tongue
alternate monikers?

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Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 6:06pm On Jul 06, 2015
edwife:
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gringringrin
Can't believe it got 15 likes....

Wow wow wow

So a man is a head and for- runner? So when it comes to a woman happiness,a man must be responsible?
Where is the equality here? embarassed embarassed

@BABE3 and crackhaus... cheesy


Granted a man has to carry his own share of blame in this situation. However, that poster threw me off when he said:

"a woman today that is happy or sad, or hurt or mad, it is a man that made her so and not another fellow woman."

Such a doltish statement.

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Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 5:53pm On Jul 06, 2015
crackhaus:

I don't usually go check on people's post history, but I was moved to check that posters' - he/she loves to type and tries very hard.

There were so many things wrong with the post and I just didn't want to deal with it, hence my GIF.... and to think the poster was trying hard to make sense made it even more embarrassing. gringrin



Lool. Well unfortunately this is Nairaland where people will 'like' anything they see on front page.

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Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 5:53pm On Jul 06, 2015
babygirlfl:


To answer your question, The man, the side chic and the society is to be blamed. The man because he is married and has to live with the decision he made to spend the rest of his life with his wife. The side chic because you should do unto others as you wish to be done to you. The society for tolerating both a cheating man and a side chic.

However, blame never solves any problem. The part I know most people are always interested in is how to solve this problem that is fast becoming a menace to society. All the parties blamed have to be addressed but in my opinion, the man has a much higher percentage of work to do. Self control is very important. It is much easier for a man to make a decision not to cheat than for us to change the minds of all the side chics or society. The man is the single most powerful and effective person that can break the circle. You fight a side chic and another one rears her ugly head tomorrow. How many can you fight? Do side chics deserve to be punished? Absolutely yes but the person who should get the biggest punishment is the man. It is absolutely stupid for the wife to fight the side chic and then come home to play the dutiful and loving wife to the husband.

Babygirl, you get sense.. smiley

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Family / Re: 7-year-old Boy Killed By Bullet 'meant For His Dad' by yorubadelta(f): 5:07pm On Jul 06, 2015
Chai.. see fine boy. RIP dear cry
Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 4:45pm On Jul 06, 2015
Ewuro4:


EPIC

When I followed my friend to her hubbys side chicks' apartment and waited in the car (engine was running) for her while she beats her to stupor & take all the expensive stuff he got her grin (yes in the west) , all NL women went for my head and called me all sorts.

Single girls throwing themselves to married men because they can is resulted from sense of irresponsibility and lack of morals, and guess what ? Married women are now wiser and ready to Physically beat that into them and indict them for stealing.

Yes call them wandering dîcks , AGREED , but YOU won't be cut loose but also get what's coming to you in LARGE QUANTITY.

"B'th Better have my Money" cool








LMAO. I don laff tire.. hell hath no fury....

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Family / Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by yorubadelta(f): 4:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
tinuolababy:
Eeya

Lol.. is that all you can say? advice the guy na tongue
Family / Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by yorubadelta(f): 4:19pm On Jul 06, 2015
Unfortunate situation. Sorry dude but ur 28, if u can't get a job due to economic situation then find a business or something doing. Your parents can't respect you as a man when ur still under their roof..

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Family / Re: How Do I Change My Husband? by yorubadelta(f): 3:29pm On Jul 06, 2015
sylarsquins:


She got a job maam buh Jesus I don't know and dat aint my biz. Mayb u shud get a job and Jesus too, coz u need em both.


Why u so defensive dear? I thought u said this was a friend's situation.. but the way u've fired back makes it seem like it's yours. Calm down aii.. I meant no harm by my statement.

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Family / Re: 7 Amazing Things Sanitary Pads Are Used For.(PIC) by yorubadelta(f): 3:15pm On Jul 06, 2015
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Family / Re: How Do I Change My Husband? by yorubadelta(f): 3:07pm On Jul 06, 2015
sylarsquins:
A friend of mine needs advise on how to take charge of her man and here's her story....

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shocked Your friend is clearly a troublemaker always fighting with her in-laws. In addition to this, she also seeks to dominate her poor husband just because he won't defend her shenanigans?

She needs Jesus and a job.

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Romance / Re: Photos: Pastor Embarrased On Wedding Day By Ex_ Wives by yorubadelta(f): 1:38pm On Jul 06, 2015
Lol.. these #EndTime pastors sha.. why won't he cover his head in shame.. smh
Health / Re: 10 Wonderful Amazing Effects Of Coconut Oil by yorubadelta(f): 1:06pm On Jul 06, 2015
Removing eye makeup is the best one..
Thanx for this smiley
Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 12:52pm On Jul 06, 2015
bellong:


Is your husband treating a side chic better than you?


Lol.. I reject such for my future.

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NYSC / Re: In The Service Of Father Land. (A Corpers Detailed Camp Experience) by yorubadelta(f): 12:20pm On Jul 06, 2015
I'm so loving this write-up smiley
Family / Re: An Icon Majek Fashek's Wife Shares Touching Story, Sooo Touching by yorubadelta(f): 11:49am On Jul 06, 2015
His drug addiction and current sate might just be a physical manifestation of a spiritual attack...

There is a lady that used to tour with him back in the days, she hails from the same neighbourhood as Majek Fashek (can't remember her name now). This lady came to my church about 5 months ago to testify of how they recently discovered her CD from the 90s and her picture tied and buried in her father's compound which is why her music never saw the light of day. It is a possibility that Majek is suffering a similar attack which has now reduced him to this.

My heart breaks for Majek and his family cry

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Family / Re: Where Are The Real Women? Abi Dem No Dey? by yorubadelta(f): 11:36am On Jul 06, 2015
Ewuro4:


He'll always be adressed as 'Bruce Jenner' around here. He can't eat his cake and have it. 7 children , 2/3 divorces and countless sexcapades in Vegas et all, now decides to enjoy the other side because he can? That's what we call okanjuwa OLE olojushonpa ! angry He should gerrouuut of here.




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Family / Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 11:30am On Jul 06, 2015
5minsmadness:
The man has told you he is married, yet you still go after him.
Then tomorrow you marry and pray the same won't happen to you.
If the women had more dignity I'm themselves and refused spreading thier legs inspite of financial gains offered then there would be fewer mistresses.

In the end society is to blame. In our wisdom we have gone far from God and morality. Baby mamas are now celebrated and those who castigated them are accused of slut-shaming. They are admonished not to judge. And society continues to rot.

If we can retrace our steps and return to our high levels of morality and shun western curruption maybe we can pull ourselves out if this quagmire.



Couldn't agree more. However, these married men need to stop patronizing young girls for affairs. They should learn to be content in their marriage.. same applies for the ladies involved

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Family / Re: Confused! I Need Honest Advise. by yorubadelta(f): 11:22am On Jul 06, 2015
Relocate to the US where you can now legally marry your type. smh

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Romance / Re: Should She Stay Or Leave The Relationship? by yorubadelta(f): 11:19am On Jul 06, 2015
Aunty gwegwe, you are dating someone that admits to having a gf aside from you.. you are 30yrs old, 2 years and he ain't proposed, calls someone else "my wife"...

I got no words for you ma'am lipsrsealed
Family / Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 11:01am On Jul 06, 2015
Gone are the days when an average young lady anticipated being graced with the title of Mrs Somebody. Nowadays, there is a growing trend of young girls being proud to be dating a married man/sugar-daddy. Aside from the scandalous Toke/Maje/Anita saga, Former Governor in Nigeria reportedly beat up his wife recently in London because she confronted him for impregnating his mistress. This same man publicly displays his love for the young girl he has been dating since she was 18yrs of age.. He showers her with the finest things of life whilst treating his own wife with disdain.

In day to day life, so many women suffer in the hands of their husbands, you will see men spending all their earnings on women outside but refuse to pay their own children’s school fees. This is what I find so disheartening… Morality is so unpopular in our present day.

But.. who is to blame for this new shameless trend? The “seductive” young ladies or the men who have trained them to believe it is more rewarding to be a mistress.


Share your thoughts..

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Family / Re: Between My Parents, Siblings And I .. by yorubadelta(f): 9:46am On Jul 06, 2015
jaybeyblu:
Now I have made a decision t want to totally cut off from them, they are more harm than good and very toxic us. I thought all we change when we get married but I see how they are almost wrecking her home. Thank God for her type of inlaws. I read about narcissistic parents and my mother is an ideal candidate.and the only solution preferred is cutting off entirely. I don't want them to even be at my wedding and my sis mother inlaw is saying that they are my parents it is their right to be there, but they said they don't want and honestly I am through with them, because I know they want to use it to trap me especially trad wedding and my mom's friend was telling me how my mom keeps telling her how she would show especially me pepper, especially when I want to get married. I have had it up to here and I don't mind only doing court wedding and my husband to be would just fulfill all the things in the list for the village people and all that. And ignore that of my parents because I am tired.. I pray God gives me an understanding husband and inlaws,. As for my future kids. god would help us to become good parents, now I am aware of how a child can be damaged when their upbringing is terrible. So we deliberately try to be not like them.. We are very close as siblings and my siblings see me as their mom. And I thank God for that.. I have a niece now and I see how my sis loves her.. And I know she would be a good mother.. My own mother tormented me that I was a wicked child that she went through labour for 2 days. But my sister went through labour for 2 days also and she doesn't even remember because she is over joyed that she has a child. God help us all..(thanks all for your kind words) God bless you.



My dear, I really feel your pain, so many of us suffer abuse in the hands of our parents who, if you trace their childhoods, also suffered the same abuse from theirs. Such parents are psychologically disturbed and can't help but take out their traumatic past on innocent children. It's a vicious cycle that needs to be stopped.

May God reward you for all your suffering and I pray He heals your mind so that you also won't continue the evil trend into your own children's lives.

Take it easy and keep an healthy distance from them..

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Family / Re: How Do I Change My Husband? by yorubadelta(f): 9:28am On Jul 06, 2015
mployer:


Adichies feminism is meant to deceive naive women like you and increase her popularity, while she lives the opposite in reality.


FYI, she is happily married. Likewise Beyounce.

You can't be happily married with extreme feminist ideology. You can try it.



Except you have some other plans.



True talk.

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