Guys believe ladies at your own peril.
I'm talking about the girl that started the thread. Look at the screenshot. I'm only quoting you guys to see that the girl is active in a hookup thread. Check the screenshot.

Heathrow44:



are u stupid? associating me with an account I'm not part of, I'm Heathrow44 and i use only Heathrow44 no other account is registered under me, if u re an unfortunate being, don't drag me into ur mishap life okay!

I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about the girl that started the thread. Look at the screenshot. I'm only quoting you guys to see that the girl is active in a hookup thread. Learn how to read. Check the screenshot.

Wetin this one dey do for ashawo joint. Op say she get boyfriend, no be potential customers you dey find for ashawo joint so? Guys believe ladies at your own peril.

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Eyiwunmi33:

You are right. However, in case of consensual sex, what would make one to be so hasty as to not see or rule out the possibility of that?
Let's say you are informed of the existence of this condom, you should then be meticulous when you are about to have sex. Why the rush if not a rape?

What type of meticulousness are we talking about? The fact that rapists should be more calculative and bring in more men when he is coming the act? Or he should make sure she is properly drugged and check if such condom is intact before committing the act?
I don't see any need for such nonsense invention accept capitalism. People want to sell and make profit. It is not every type of invention that is needed. Why didn't they come up with smarter types of invention? What if rapist now decide to use a prosthetic? Of what use will that vagina with teeth be?

Rapists don't just commit their act, they premeditate on it and plan before the act. They should be kept away before such incidents can take place.

Eyiwunmi33:

The way you people rant about simping is pretty astonishing what's simping or siding with women in this issue?
Is it that you lack comprehensive skills or what? I clearly said some sort of defence. What does that tell you. Your teargas and whatnots might no be accessible or even portable in every situation. A combined use of pepper spray and this condom may be totally effective.

Funny enough he has already penetrated her, so she already raped, the only thing is that the condom clip his penis. That means he already had access to her vagina. What of the second man in a gang rape? Won't he remove it and proceed with the act?

Eyiwunmi33:

Tasers and pepper spray are not exclusionary of other people. They can also be used against people who are not malignant or have intent to rape. But that condom , once you were trapped in it everyone would know you were about to have non-consensual sex.

It is all about semantics, what if he didn't want to rape her? But she just wanted to punish him by wearing such and claiming it was rape? For your information, pepper sprays and tasers are carried by ladies all around in major cities especially where there taxis, like Uber and the rest. Do you hear of an ladies using pepper sprays and tasers indiscriminately? More so will a lady be comfortable wearing such throughout her life because she is afraid of getting raped any second? Tasers and pepper sprays, rubber 3D guns are more convenient and effective. Simp..

Eyiwunmi33:

If a rapist should back out because of this condom, the victim would legit have a sense of triumph. Albeit, in a relaxed and less tensed situation, the condom can be removed; but I think this condom offers some sort of defence.

In what way? What if it is a gang-rape? A device that can keep one or more a away is better, teargas, pepper sprays, tasers, 3D guns with rubber bullets are more effective.
I hope you're not a simp that want to quickly side with women in instead if looking at it objectively.

The problem is we have refused to accept the polygamous nature of humans. Are African ancestors were smarter than us and accepted that we were naturally polygamous. That is why they kept large families, but this generation want to eat their cake and have it. It is not possible. Reality and upbringing are not the same. A lion will become even if he is domesticated. Let's allow our men to have polygamous marriages, with everyone parents contributing to walfare, but we said no. No see the result. Nature knew this, that's is why she kept a woman peak in her 30s and allowed the men seed to flourish after into old age, because no matter how she moves around she will fade quickly and no one will want her again so she has to settle fast. Ladies allow men to keep more than one woman so that we can stop raising bastards. We are the providers. Instead of giving a man a bastard to raise and be with another man who has a wife, tell the original father to keep you has a second wife. Stop deceiving yourselves. No matter what anybody feelings are telling, data doesn't lie.

Why the marriage no go hang? See the sooner we stop lying to ourselves about the polygamous nature of men and accept reality if it, the better. The wife shouldn't feel bad if he has been performing his duties has a husband. Ladies should allow men express themselves truthfully about what men want so that their marriages can last longer. See 95% of men want a sidekick, this backed by scientific data. Nature, reality and your feelings are not the same. The ladies who exposed such are at fault. See what I'm saying everyday? We are decieving ourselves that men are naturally monogamous but the sex Industry and extramarital affairs keep blooming everyday. The day we stop lying to ourselves, that's is the day we will reach true compromise and accept the way reality and nature works. No matter how much, you cage a man in a monogamous marriage, he will either cheat or become a temperamental. You ladies keep complaining that men are not treating you right but are ready to understand that what really men want is that you be the main lady and have the legacy and all the benefits but allow us to be men and have sidekicks. That way you will always a loving a caring man who will be more affectionate. Men are polygamous, believe me, the reason that marriage was going well was because the man had those sidekicks. If not that woman who have an angry husband at home. I doubt he has ever been abused her.

Smoketight007:

Yes of cours, but think it's been treated through native medicine and full body massage

How long did he take before going for treatment? Is he responding to treatment? Has he ever seen a doctor? Which part of his body is paralysed?

Please answer each to I can give you proper diagnosis.

Tell us the full story madam. Untill we hear from both sides, this one na hearsay. There are three sides to the truth, your side, his side and the truth itself. You may have done something. Men control access to relationships, ladies control access to sex. Ladies no it is mostly what is between their legs that can keep him coming back for more that's why they use it has bargaining power. What If ladies gave it freely and easily, you think guys will give a damn about your wahala? The guy is your boyfriend not your husband. Can you tell us that you're dating only him? Are you not active on Instagram, Facebook, twitter, TikTok and whatever? If you're don't be you have emotionally ties to other guys who keep showing you unnecessary attention till you get to 30s and no longer see a man to marry you. See, even if you love him can you marry him? Why don't you go and ask him why he did that and come and tell us so we can advice both of you. In proper counseling practices, couples are always advised together. This is a faceless forum, we can not no all the games both of you are playing. Tell us the full story. We can't advise you based on a text message. What really happened? Did you make him jealous? Are you always online chatting with other guys? If you really love him, they stay with him and marry him if that is he wants to. A relationship is not made so you can breakup later, a relationship is made so you can fix it up. If you if think you can't, then enjoy your boyfriend in peace and stop disturbing us. Don't worry very soon you will meet alot of guys how there. Won't you break up with him if you find a better option? Afterall guys are mainly judged by their ability to provide. Once you see a better offer will you close your legs and stay with him to the end, till he becomes the man you want? Or you will find excuses to leave him? The reality is that only 1 out 100 first time boyfriend/girlfriend relationships leads to marriage. So if you're leaving him atleast do him a favour of telling him before you leave so he can move to the next one. Easy come, easy go.

Smoketight007:



The stroke started February and I think it happened right after the knew is HIV status, and he told me he has been over thinking long before going for the test

Till now, he hasn't gone for stroke treatment?

My question is why do you think you don't deserve better? Is she the best woman around? Do you think, she is telling you the whole truth? You have struggled to get to where you are today but instead of getting the standard thing done, you want a woman who has a kid from another man because of love. What is wrong in having a woman that has higher value? Do you think she is humble because she naturally is or because of the condition she finds herself in? Do you know her body counts and her past? What if the real truth later comes out tomorrow, can you bear it? What if for certain reasons she doesn't conceive again, can you accept that kid as your own and not look for and another woman?
My brother Love is not bigger than reality. Love is sweet and good but it is subject to reality. Love cannot exist without logic. Let both your heart and brain take the decision. You have not wronged her for wanting something different, if your sons and daughters all brought home single mothers and fathers later in life for marriage, can you bear it?
Mr. Man, why can't you go for something else. Women have a knack for judgement of character. The fact that she is poor judgement of character of who impregnated her, says alot . She is not emotionally intelligent. Do you want a woman with poor intuition to be the mother of your kids?
A man value judged by his ability to provide, a woman's value is judged by her level of chatisity. It may not be her fault but that doesn't men she has the same value has a woman who has no kid. Would she be with you if you if you had nothing? She is better of with someone else who has a kid. Your blood is not flowing through that child, but you will spend on the child as much as yours even when the father is alive.
Should every irresponsible man out there be impregnating women and abandoning them for 'simps' like you to come and recuse them?
Look at how dysfunctional African-Americans societies are today because people who bring kids to this world are not held accountable for their actions. She that woman is not doing you a favour by bringing such into your house. Wifing her means you're ready for what ever gabbage comes later.

Smoketight007:
Hi, I have male friend that lives with HIV and also got stroke right after that, can this guy get a normal life again nigga is worried and living I. Regrets,

When did this happen? How long did he wait before going for treatment?

Deepocean:


Alright sir.

But I won't agree with you that it was a typographical error because you have said exactly the same thing before in this particular thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/7145826/5-signs-attractive-penis-women#113182839

I copied and pasted. Edited it. Thanks

What of the fact, he can damage other parts of her body if this happens. Will they also teach the ladies self-defense? The better strategy is to give ladies things like teargas, pepper spray, and tasers. This condom is a joke, rapists will now wise up. If he has access to that place already even if he hasn't penetrated because of that kind of condom, you are already raped. Better to have something that can keep him at a distance.

You will likely meet them at Antiretrivoral clinics where you get your Anti-HIV drugs. I don't think anyone especially ladies will risk exposing their status. I'm a medic, fiirst counseling is that one shouldn't disclose their status especially in this harsh environment for safety concerns. If you find one, you should both go for counseling too.

Deepocean:

What gives me concern in your post is that you claimed to have researched whereas you did do any research.

From which research have you seen the population of women greater than that of men? Can you show me the source.

I wonder why people just say whatever comes to their hearing through popular theory that lack fundamental proof.

Because people always say women are populous than men whereas the reverse is the case. You too quickly joined in the common saying without checking the statistics you are quoting.

A simple Google search will help you not to join them in mass in propagating popular lies.

Thanks for the correction, It was a typographic error. It doesn't dissprove my point that the gender ratio is disproportionate.

It is not about discipline, it is about nature. There are different types of self discipline. Monogamy is not self discipline. Polygamy is not lack of morals either. It is all about sexuality, sexual preferences and orientation. A man who can climb the ladder of success and provide in this harsh environment is discipline enough. See numbers don't lie, you think because you are monogamous, everyman out there is like you? NO! Go and check the statistics online, there are more polygamous people in the world second with the fact that women are more than men. Why is that men with lots of wealth and fortune can keep a harem of women and not lose their marriages so easily, because the women understand the nature of men. Reality and your feelings are not the same. The thing is once you get married the infatuation will die off, it is only compromise, respect and tolerance that keeps it going. You think you will always be in cloud nine every day for the rest of your life? Or the sex will always be mind blowing? No. Thing is, middle and lower class can't afford this lifestyle because they don't have the finances to do so. Who do you think sponsor the lifestyles of all these girls you see around, it is guys like us. Ladies mature faster than men because they become sexually active earlier on so they understand the way life works. The monogamous ones about men and women are very few. The truth is coming out become of technology we have today. In the 1800s men kept large number of women because women needed men for survival and these women couldn't move around easily because means of transportation was very poor so they easily settled for the natural polygamous nature of men because men were more physically capable to go out and sort for means of survival. Today these women also depend on men for survival but are free to move around easily so we start denying the polygamous nature of men because we don't often see what goes on behind the scene. See it takes two to tango, meaning your idea of infidelity is equal on both sides. The earlier you understand the nature of things, the better. Polygamy has always been existing since the beginning of creation, it didn't start today. If you are angry about other people's sexual preferences and orientation, then I also have the right to be angry that you're monogamous. End of story.

It is not about discipline, it is about nature. There are different types of self discipline. Monogamy is not self discipline. Polygamy is not lack of morals either. It is all about sexuality, sexual preferences and orientation. A man who can climb the ladder of success and provide in this harsh environment is discipline enough. See numbers don't lie, you think because you are monogamous, everyman out there is like you? NO! Go and check the statistics online, there are more polygamous people in the world second with the fact that men are more than women. Why is that men with lots of wealth and fortune can keep a harem of women and not lose their marriages so easily, because the women understand the nature of men. Reality and your feelings are not the same. The thing is once you get married the infatuation will die off, it is only compromise, respect and tolerance that keeps it going. You think you will always be in cloud nine every day for the rest of your life? Or the sex will always be mind blowing? No. Thing is, middle and lower class can't afford this lifestyle because they don't have the finances to do so. Who do you think sponsor the lifestyles of all these girls you see around, it is guys like us. Ladies mature faster than men because they become sexually active earlier on so they understand the way life works. The monogamous ones about men and women are very few. The truth is coming out become of technology we have today. In the 1800s men kept large number of women because women needed men for survival and these women couldn't move around easily because means of transportation was very poor so they easily settled for the natural polygamous nature of men because men were more physically capable to go out and sort for means of survival. Today these women also depend on men for survival but are free to move around easily so we start denying the polygamous nature of men because we don't often see what goes on behind the scene. See it takes two to tango, meaning your idea of infidelity is equal on both sides. The earlier you understand the nature of things, the better. Polygamy has always been existing since the beginning of creation, it didn't start today. If you are angry about other people's sexual preferences and orientation, then I also have the right to be angry that you're monogamous. End of story.

falcon01:
Bruh let me tell you something, no body is perfect but some things you just can't look away. Personally I wouldn't want to be with her, I wouldn't be with her but since you forgave her after the first cheating (having sex with someone else) means you have no problem with that type of person. I'll advice you based on the type of person you are. The fact that you saw her telling guys she's in a serious relationship means she's either lying incase you read the text or she actually loves you, but its stùpid for her to send that video. Call her sit her down ask her what's her problem? Why does she do what she does? Is it for money? Is she a nymphomaniac? Is it a psychological issue? Can she control herself? Let it be some sort of agreement tell her you don't want to be with someone like that, can she change? Giver her one more chance, Tell her to cut off every guy she's with except for serious friend with no strings attached and family, desist from her degrading and disrespectful lifestyle. Make sure she agrees she's willing to change and tell her anything that happens due to her not changing is definitely her fault, then continue with her don't like nose into her, don't check what she does give her like 3 months then unexpectedly collect her phone and check. If you see anything bruh leave her and run she ain't never gonna change ever except if you are willing to stay with a good LovePeddler. Tell her to limit her social media activities, keep her occupied if she always have time. If it was I I'm throwing her out the moment u saw the first message by the guy but for you base in who you are give her one more chance. Make an agreement then put eyes on her don't be suspicious don't act suspicious don't check her phone just be free with her, after 2 to 3 months collect her phone check it. If chats are deleted, red flags, if she's still doing her stuff kick her out and run, never turn back.

Phew!! That was longer than I expected.

Only a simp will take back a woman who has cheated on him. See bros, the love can never be the same again. He is scared that he won't find another woman, there are better women out there. The issue is men refuse to exercise their options as they are polygamous in nature. Women have understood this that is why they cheat liberally, look it takes two to cheat. Why is it that we have more infidelity than loyalty going on in the world, because that is how the world works. If the OP was also exercising his option, he won't feel this bad. The lady loves him dearly that is why she cares for him but that doesn't mean she can't sleep outside. It is only fun. Love and loyalty are not the same thing, that is why we have polygamous and open marriages. You can love someone and still have other options. Guilt feelings have been attached to infidelity which is not supposed to be so. Man search deep down within you whether you won't have fun with other ladies from time to time but won't give your wife your all. Sex is not love, she is not emotionally attached to the man, she is only sexually attracted to him. She is emotionally attached to you, so she can't leave you. The issue is respect and reputation is more important for men than women. If you want a woman who will be sexually attracted to other men from time to time then continue with her but also do your thing. Believe me you can't catch her again. She is polygamous by nature if not, nothing on earth will make her do this. Either you accept the fact her loyalty will always be questionable an move along or you leave the relationship. The only thing is she will get it outside but you will always be there number one. Ladies mature faster than men because they become sexually active earlier and therefore understand the way life works.

As long as he is caring for you, then don't complain. The standard rating for men and women are not the same. Men are judged by their financial success, their status, their future and their personalities. Women are judged by their appearance, ability to bear children, their body counts, their past relationships and their submissiveness.
Men are polygamous by nature. After all there are more women than men in this world. A man is more happy and will live you more if you allow him keep other women. He will treat you better. 95% of men want this. You can check the statistics online, it is backed by scientific research.

Even if this may not be true. This is exactly what women do, open their legs for financial favours bit when the table is turned on them, they complain. There is no problem here. The problem is people don't want to accept reality the way it is. You can't eat your cake and have it. The only solution is women should also allow men cheat. Look the other way. Men are polygamous by nature. After all there are more women than men in this world. A man is more happy and will live you more if you allow him keep other women. He will treat you better. 95% of men want this. You can check the statistics online, it is backed by scientific research.

There is no problem here. The problem is people don't want to accept reality the way it is. You can't eat your cake and have it. The only solution is women should also allow men cheat. Look the other way. As long as he is caring for you, then don't complain. The standard rating for men and women are not the same. Men are judged by their financial success, their status, their future and their personalities. Women are judged by their appearance, ability to bear children, their body counts, their past relationships and their submissiveness.
Women and Men are not the same. Women peak at age 30, after that the attention they receive and their worth start plummetting very fast. The high value women in their 40s who are successful and single are always very lonely because men don't want them anymore.
Generally Men start really enjoying life in their 40s and can go for any woman, thing men will always go for a younger woman but will only settle for a submissive woman. High value men are always surrounded by women so they will always cheat, nothing wrong about this after all they can provide the lifestyle most women seek. Reputation is also important for men so if he catches you cheating don't expect him to forgive you because if he kicks you out, he can easily replace you. So just love him tbe way he is, because my men are polygamous by nature. After all there are more women than men in this world. A man is more happy and will live you more if you allow him keep other women. He will treat you better. 95% of men want this. You can check the statistics online, it is backed by scientific research.

There is no problem here. The problem is people don't want to accept reality the way it is. You can't eat your cake and have it. The only solution is women should also allow men cheat. Look the other way. As long as he is caring for you, then don't complain. The standard rating for men and women are not the same. Men are judged by their financial success, their status, their future and their personalities. Women are judged by their appearance, ability to bear children, their body counts, their past relationships and their submissiveness.
Women and Men are not the same. Women peak at age 30, after that the attention they receive and their worth start plummetting very fast. The high value women in their 40s who are successful and single are always very lonely because men don't want them anymore.
Generally Men start really enjoying life in their 40s and can go for any woman, thing men will always go for a younger woman but will only settle for a submissive woman. High value men are always surrounded by women so they will always cheat, nothing wrong about this after all they can provide the lifestyle most women seek. Reputation is also important for men so if he catches you cheating don't expect him to forgive you because if he kicks you out, he can easily replace you. So just love him tbe way he is, because my men are polygamous by nature. After all there are more women than men in this world. A man is more happy and will live you more if you allow him keep other women. He will treat you better. 95% of men want this. You can check the statistics online, it is backed by scientific research.

There is no problem here. The problem is people don't want to accept reality the way it is. You can't eat your cake and have it. The only solution is women should also allow men cheat. Look the other way. As long as he is caring for you, then don't complain. The standard rating for men and women are not the same. Men are judged by their financial success, their status, their future and their personalities. Women are judged by their appearance, ability to bear children, their body counts, their past relationships and their submissiveness.
Women and Men are not the same. Women peak at age 30, after that the attention they receive and their worth start plummetting very fast. The high value women in their 40s who are successful and single are always very lonely because men don't want them anymore.
Generally Men start really enjoying life in their 40s and can go for any woman, thing men will always go for a younger woman but will only settle for a submissive woman. High value men are always surrounded by women so they will always cheat, nothing wrong about this after all they can provide the lifestyle most women seek. Reputation is also important for men so if he catches you cheating don't expect him to forgive you because if he kicks you out, he can easily replace you. So just love him tbe way he is, because my men are polygamous by nature. After all there are more women than men in this world. A man is more happy and will live you more if you allow him keep other women. He will treat you better. 95% of men want this. You can check the statistics online, it is backed by scientific research.

The only solution is women should also allow men cheat. Look the other way. As long as he is caring for you, then don't complain. The standard rating for men and women are not the same. Men are judged by their financial success, their status, their future and their personalities. Women are judged by their appearance, ability to bear children, their body counts, their past relationships and their submissiveness.
Women and Men are not the same. Women peak at age 30, after that the attention they receive and their worth start plummetting very fast. The high value women in their 40s who are successful and single are always very lonely because men don't want them anymore.
Generally Men start really enjoying life in their 40s and can go for any woman, thing is men will always go for a younger woman who is submissive. High value men are always surrounded by women so they will always cheat, nothing wrong about this after all they can provide the lifestyle most women seek. Reputation is also important for men so if he catches you cheating don't expect him to forgive you because if he kicks you out, he can easily replace you. So just love him the way he is, because my men are polygamous by nature. A man is more happy and will live you more if you allow him keep other women. He will treat you better. 95% of men want this. You can check the statistics online, it is backed by scientific research.

There is no problem here. The problem is people don't want to accept reality the way it is. You can't eat your cake and have it. The only solution is women should also allow men cheat. Look the other way. As long as he is caring for you, then don't complain. The standard rating for men and women are not the same. Men are judged by their financial success, their status, their future and their personalities. Women are judged by their appearance, ability to bear children, their body counts, their past relationships and their submissiveness.
Women and Men are not the same. Women peak at age 30, after that the attention they receive and their worth start plummetting very fast. The high value women in their 40s who are successful and single are always very lonely because men don't want them anymore.
Generally Men start really enjoying life in their 40s and can go for any woman, thing men will always go for a younger woman but will only settle for a submissive woman. High value men are always surrounded by women so they will always cheat, nothing wrong about this after all they can provide the lifestyle most women seek. Reputation is also important for men so if he catches you cheating don't expect him to forgive you because if he kicks you out, he can easily replace you. So just love him tbe way he is, because my men are polygamous by nature. After all there are more women than men in this world. A man is more happy and will live you more if you allow him keep other women. He will treat you better. 95% of men want this. You can check the statistics online, it is backed by scientific research.

Only Lagos. It seems there are only two states in this country, Lagos and the rest of the country.