Romance / Re: What Happens When Two People Stay Together For Long In A Relationship by zyzxx(m): 11:35am On Apr 13 |
The older the wine... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: URGENT: Does Anyone Know How to Capture Lion? by zyzxx(m): 11:34am On Apr 13 |
Just remove your testicles and give it to them at first sight they will follow you home and also be loyal to you |
Romance / Re: What Do Women Really Want??? by zyzxx(m): 11:26am On Apr 13 |
Women themselves don't no what they want
But overrall, give them money 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by zyzxx(m): 9:51pm On Feb 18 |
Jesus you love me too much oo Too much oo Too much oo excess love o |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lets Discus Payrolls In Nigeria. What Is Your Monthly Salary? by zyzxx(m): 8:26pm On Jan 11 |
Tolzeal:
Hey buddy . Are you alright ? Long time and happy To see you again . Wow, Tolzeal, longest time my guy I am very fine, I am happy to hear from you too How is life? 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lets Discus Payrolls In Nigeria. What Is Your Monthly Salary? by zyzxx(m): 12:56pm On Jan 11 |
lisimmo: Monthly Salary : N860,000 (with bonus); N660,000 (without bonus).
Monthly Side Hustle: N0.00 - N500,000. Years of experience: 7
Qualifications: B.Sc & M.Sc (Electrical/Electronic)
Role: Senior software engineer
Industry: Information Tech
*I can't disclose company.
Seeing ppls Salary up there sent shivers down my spine.
As at 2014 I didn't have any job. I picked up software development downloaded several video tutorials online and I started working. I dedicated more than 11 hours daily to this. I would wake up 6 a.m. as if I was going to the office. Gradually improved and started building apps. Then in 2016 January I got my first job in Lagos as a junior Dev. My salary was 120k. I learnt very fast on the job and improved my skills.
Within a year, I got inside also that paid me 250k alongside my current job. I also got promoted on my current job so my salary became around 180 k.
Then in 2018 I got another job with another company that was paying me over 500k. I kept improving and I was receiving promotion till my salary hit what it currently is well I kept my side job.
But even with my current job plus side also I still believe in entrepreneurship, so I started up my own company but I'm still funding it to make it profitable. can you train someone sir? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Married Men, I Need Help! Your Marital Experience Is Needed. by zyzxx(m): 2:55pm On Oct 24, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: I won't lie, I married my wife so she could help in adjusting my then way of life. She's so spiritual and me? Na Nafdac Approved Fornicator Bro, I studied her for 7years + and I just knew that I needed someone like her in my life if not na express I dey. Glad I did and I will say that's the best decision I have made in my life. Almost 18years in marriage now
I pray yours too will be the same
hahah @ NAFDAC approved fornicator You are indeed blessed sir 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Men, I Need Help! Your Marital Experience Is Needed. by zyzxx(m): 2:54pm On Oct 24, 2023 |
Carcholce: Please if you are not married, I don’t need your comment. If you are a single father, don’t comment either, if you are a divorcee, please save your strength. Only a happily married man should comment.
I have a question to ask, and I need a very good answer,
What qualities madeou pick the woman you are married to?
Why I asked this question is, I used to think you must look out for your preferred qualities in a woman to qualify her for marriage.
Is it just the qualities or the impact those qualities are having on you?
I have been seeing a woman for some months now. I must confess that since I met her, the urge to fornicate has completely disappeared. I used to be a serial womanizer and fornicator. Everything is changing at a very fast rate and for the first time since I have been praying and fasting for changes in this regard, I am very much satisfied with my new found will power.
Is this one of the signs of the qualities a woman possesses or am I getting matured or etc etc?
But The idea of me getting matured is flawed because even married men young and old get married and still cheat with numerous women.
Sorry for the many questions! I just need answers to help me understand why I have started ignoring other women advances and sex invite. This is unlike me but don’t get it wrong, it’s my number one prayer being answered. If you are looking for your answer physically you won't get it There are some people that carries some grace of God that if you walk with them some addiction will dry off same way sickness can dry off thru healing So to a large extent you are enjoying grace from the woman you are with and don't take it for granted it is divine 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Love Her So Much Even If Her Past Is So Dirty by zyzxx(m): 10:15pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Sarcasm
Past can hunt Watch it 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Man Questions His Bae Request For 200k Just Three Days Into Their Relationship by zyzxx(m): 8:39pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Heaven is not made for some Ladies
Relationship= poverty alleviation scheme 1 Like |
Family / Re: After 9 Years Of Trying My Wife Finally Gave Birth by zyzxx(m): 8:21pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
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Food / Re: Remove Two Things From This Tray Of Food (pix) by zyzxx(m): 1:23pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
mariahAngel: I'll gladly take out the fufu, the soup, and the fries. Yeah, I'm not a glutton. 😌 who are you forming for |
Business / Re: If You Earn 2.5m Everymonth How Do You Invest? by zyzxx(m): 3:29pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
Hamachi:
Also, buy some $ as I have been doing that since $ went from #300 to $ since two years ago and I never regretted it.
Finally, don't do any business that involves ELECTRICITY.
All the best pls, how can I buy dollar? |
Religion / Happy Birthday To General Oversea Of Gospel Faith Misson International (GOFAMINT by zyzxx(m): 11:12am On Jun 16, 2023 |
Happy Birthday to General Oversea of Gospel Faith Misson International (GOFAMINT)
The General Oversea of Gospel Faith Mission International Pastor (Dr.) Elijah Oludele Abina is celebrating his birthday today @ 88th
God Bless you MOG.
Old Age Looks Good on you sir.
cc Seun
OAM4 |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by zyzxx(m): 3:29pm On May 02, 2023 |
ayswagga5: 180k is that the last price sir? And how can you be contacted? |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by zyzxx(m): 12:48pm On May 02, 2023 |
Anyone with good generator with clearance price should pls mention me Thank you |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by zyzxx(m): 12:23pm On May 02, 2023 |
ayswagga5: Is there any person that can buy my house appliances here at once , im relocating I can’t till i find buyer for everything
Generator —- key start Fridge new one Mouka foam Dyning set
Good day sir, is the generator still available and how much is it? |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by zyzxx(m): 12:22pm On May 02, 2023 |
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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by zyzxx(m): 12:21pm On May 02, 2023 |
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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by zyzxx(m): 12:20pm On May 02, 2023 |
[quote author=ayswagga5 post=122878540][/quote]is the generator still available and how much is it? |
Romance / Re: How Did Your Last Relationship End And Who Was At Fault? by zyzxx(m): 9:10pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
sheriffindy: The sisi was a mutual friend, we were just friends for 2 years plus and I wasn't even interested in her and she knew. I knew she had a boyfriend which she confirmed..and all was cool.
Going forward, she chatted me up on Whatsapp one evening and was complaining that I'm harsh and not caring and ended up texting me "if I don't mind, I love you", so I was like let's try besides people were like that we fit each other. I also asked about her boyfriend which she told me that they don't communicate like that again (not that they broke up)...I was like ok oo.
But despite this girl opening up her feelings first to me, I noticed that I was still the one trying to correct her into showing affection and care towards me.
On Val's day..I bought stuffs for her but this girl never sent me a single val text till I complained later in the evening via WhatsApp of which she sent a val message...fine.
The next day..we took some pictures with her phone, as I was using her phone to transfer the pics to my WhatsApp..found out that she sent the message val message to another number..that her same ex she claimed they don't communicate well again. She later begged n I let it slide due to some circumstances that happened with a mutual friend of ours.
Long story short..she wanted to travel to sort out her school stuffs (according to her oo) kept saying that she is scared that I would break up with her once she travels..I supported her to go ahead to sort out her school stuffs that nothing like break up was on my mind.
She travelled..but later dropped at a friend's place instead of her parents (of which she didn't tell me initially). Told me she forgot her phone charger while travelling ( a charger I bought for her). Like in the 4 days she spent there..we hardly communicate, her reason being that her phone was down and she gives it to her female friend she's squatting with who hardly stays at home at spends most of her time at her boyfriend's house. This her friend in question, she never allowed me to talk with her or snap pics with her...when I asked her to buy a charger to keep our communication steady, she gave excuses that where it's sold is far and can't afford to trek such distance and moreover she has no cash with her and they don't accept transfers..like she was just saying it with such unseriousness...as usual in the next 5mins, she screenshoted a low battery image n was off again.
The next day .saw her online and was very angry with her and told her that I'm done with her and blocked her, I now used another Whatsapp number she didn't have to chat her up, with that I noticed she was online throughout that day. She later called me n begged me and I unblocked her...but already I've decided within me that she's another street naija girl pretending with an innocent face.
The next morning, she texted me that she's travelling to her parents place..asked her how come she's been online since with no battery issues, she said she has bought a charger, sent a screenshot of the charger, I noticed that the background of the place was different from where she stays. Also mind you, she never mentioned to me that she had plans of buying a charger yesterday.
She travelled to her parents place..gave her mum to speak with me briefly.
Now during our chats..she would be online but would hardly reply me even when she does..it's with short texts..asked her what's up, she said her dad is talking to her and she can't ignore him, I told her if u're busy with your dad why not tell me..she flared up that I'm angry and then said goodnight and went offline.
The next day,she apologized...but again I noticed that she will be online but whenever I come online and chat with her, she will reply me and then go offline again. One occasion, I got angry and told her that I knew all she has being doing and that she never told me how she got the charger, she cut the phone on me and that was all I needed, found out she blocked me on Whatsapp too which I blocked her as well.
Well,iv sent a text to her that she should not even try talking to me when she returns cos I might beat her Infront of her senior sister (the mutual friend) whom I've told that things are not ok between us and also that she was scared then cos she knew she was going to cheat on me once she travels and I would find out and break up with her.
I just wanted to be sure before calling it quits with her.
You are looking for excuse to sink yourself right? That lady wil damage you. There are some level of innocence that are not healthy, this is one of them. Talk to your leg and run. The lady will use your emotions and turn you to a beast and blame you for it. Run!!! Before she damaged you. My 2cent 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How True Is This About African Women? by zyzxx(m): 9:22am On Jan 12, 2023 |
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Sports / Re: Argentina vs France : Qatar 2022 FIFA World Cup Finals (4 - 2)pens On 18/12/22 by zyzxx(m): 4:51pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Numerouno94: God give this cup to Messi ND I promised to give my life to Christ. And you must o To Jesus Christ |
Romance / Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by zyzxx(m): 3:30pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Kipling: Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.
I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.
I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.
Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.
Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them. you need power of Jesus to break through, it is a spirit, battle it with prayer |
Religion / Re: Share Your Favourite Bible Quotes by zyzxx(m): 7:00pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Psalm 27 vs 4 |
Romance / Re: I Think I Made The Best Decision by zyzxx(m): 10:41pm On Mar 08, 2022 |
Jayzx:
Might you I am not begging for date, she has been a very close friend of mine since university days Be patient, she might be in a wrong relationship and it still in back and front. Sometimes we just have to be patient. If you truly love her give her time and keep doing your life. Moreover it is not do or die. Along the line you might meet the right person for you if she is not. And she never seized your license to approach another person So why the fuse. Pls let her have her time 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by zyzxx(m): 2:37pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles:
I always say respect the heart that cares for you. Do not take those who care for you for granted.
You will not care about everyone that will care about you, just as not everyone you care about will care about you. Just respect people’s feelings. Apt! Rightly said. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by zyzxx(m): 2:15pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles:
Whatever happened, she tried to reach out.
Do not do to someone who cares about you what you would not want someone you care about to do to you.
some people are "USERS" they reach out to you just to use you. Best way to protect your sanity is to avoid them. Nevertheless, I actually agree with you. There are some characters that make us humans. Finding pleasure in other people's pain is inhuman. He should have open up for conversation, the lady actually tried reaching out. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by zyzxx(m): 2:05pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles:
She was only unwise to have made herself too available to you. People like you usually lose good friends out of foolishness and pettiness. Emotion... You don't actually knows what transpired between them 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by zyzxx(m): 2:03pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
omoiyamayor: crazy thing is like our ladies are more aware of ghosting than guys, it’s like a trend, for me I see it as been cold which I make people close to me aware of, I don’t like being call drama king or a cry baby when I see wrongs and I try to speak out, i believe in speaking out or speaking up, if I don’t like a doctrine in Christianity I speak up, you can call me a rebel but well I guess I just made you see what you refused to see, my point is I am this guy that can do things on my own but if you render to help you are also welcome so I can be very cold when you push me to that angle of evaluating you and trust me I might even freeze you out when I see your true value I have always ignored all while long,
I believe in mutual respect and being on the same page makes it more healthier, not someone pretending to like me when you are not feeling me, be honest with yourself first, if you don’t want to be ghosted be mutual. I don’t even exchange contacts with people I don’t want to talk to and if we meet before we go too far I will see if you are my kind of person, if you are not I will avoid you to make you understand I’m not feeling you, keep family family, friends as friends, colleagues as colleagues, so that when you message me in middle of the night I can answer you in the morning and you won’t get it wrong or feel ghosted. Good afternoon, as beautiful as what you wrote, challenging everything you don't agree with is a little be questionable. Trust me, you can't see everything nor understand everything today. There are some things that you will later understand why things were done that way. So, to avoid too many errors due to our limitations of what we can see now. It better you over look many things and let them be. Peace. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by zyzxx(m): 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Brother, I really don't know what you are going through because I ain't you, but I can only imagine it.
Firstly, you need to work on your self esteem. You gotta work on your confidence. You have to accept your situation and then determine on working on it. Don't be let down by your problem. You are a graduate and I believe you have dreams to actualize, focus more on that. Life is a journey and you gotta prepare for the battles and distractions.
Secondly, you gotta work on your communication skills. Once you could have confidence, you wouldn't be ashamed of yourself no more. There are many materials online that could help you with your communication skills (YouTube inclusive). As regards your father, there are parent(s) like that and you're unfortunate to have one. You really shouldn't worry much. Work on getting your own apartment, it will make you feel more better and happier.
Thirdly, I wouldn't want you to blame any deity for anything. This type of mentality will make you not leave the same spot and it will make you become vulnerable to clerics that would extort and manipulate you.
Lastly, follow my suggestions if you feel they worth it. I wish you well, brother. it better you die in place of prayer than die with dippression. Prayer is very hopeful Pls pray, like pray till something happens There is grace for that I invoke divine intervention that birth divine healing on your tongue now in the name of Jesus amen 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: What's Your Plan B If Nobody Marries You? by zyzxx(m): 7:12pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
safarigirl: More and more, I grow wary of the male population. I do not think I will find anyone to marry me, or someone I will even be comfortable enough to marry.
Everytime I meet someone I think I can be comfortable with, the ugly head of genotype rises.
So, yeah, I might just find a sperm donor and give birth to a kid eventually, or adopt if I can. I'm making peace with the fact that marriage may never happen for me. too early to think like that |