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PoliticsRe: Father Mbaka Alleges Plan To Kill Buhari by 4Qbitch: 10:45pm On Aug 21, 2016
Is this prophesy or common sense?

There are people who want to murder even the catholic pope.
PoliticsRe: PHOTONEWS: 35-year Old Nigerian Man Executed In Indonesia Buried Amidst TearS. by 4Qbitch: 10:34pm On Aug 21, 2016
So sad.

See d wealth in d compound.

Will d dead enjoy d money he made?
Car TalkRe: Car Made Of Wood Spotted In Bida Niger State (photo) by 4Qbitch: 10:15pm On Aug 21, 2016
Wood+Petrol+Engine Heat= Fire Risk

This design makes no engineering sense and should be urgently taken off our roads because it's a potential safety risk.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op):
sats:
Jada fire! Chai crazy girl, you are right about pinky ... masserati, angel eyes ... the list goes on
Boss, guess what i just remember - alexis texas? Chai! That girl na die

Lozllz
Jesus will surely deliver u.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op):
A report released by pornhub, a website for sexual contents, in 2014 showed that the number of pornographic views on its website rose from 63.2 billion video views in 2012 to 78.9 billion views in 2013, and that phones accounted for 45 per cent of these views, while desktop was 44 per cent and views on tablets rose by 20 per cent to account for its 11 per cent.

Thus, the website declared 2014 as the year porn went mobile, with Android users in the United States being the highest viewers, followed by Canada and the United Kingdom. Monday was found to be the most popular day peopled viewed the x-rated movies.

While one in three women in the US watch porn regularly, according to statistics, 70 per cent of men aged between 18 and 24 visit porn sites at least once a month. But that is not the crux of the matter; Nigeria, South Africa and Kenya have been found to be the three most anti-gay countries that watch gay porn the most, according to a study in 2013.

These countries were found to have the highest Google search for “gay sex pics” and “anal sex pics” with Kenya leading the chart. According to the ranking index, Kenya, had 100, South Africa 72, Nigeria 56, Pakistan 46 and United States 10, among others.



A study by some Germans has found that watching pornography could have a damaging effect on the brain and that more of it could re-wire the brain and alter its structure and functions. In fact, the study stressed that it could shrink part of the brain and reduce the ability of watchers to be sexually stimulated.

According to the study, published on medicaldaily, having sex and watching pornography cause dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for learning, reward, emotions and pleasure, to be released in the brain.

The researchers noted that the more porn a person watches, the more the dopamine that is released, which makes the brain to be desensitised to its effects, which could reduce their decision-making capabilities. Young people who watch porn frequently were also found to have reduced likelihood or tendencies to venture into risk-taking ventures.

The leader of the researchers, Simone Kühn, noted that men who view too much porn may become lazier than others and that their research provided strong evidence that pornography might harm the brain in some ways and change its size.

About 64 healthy German men, aged between 21 and 45, participated in the study. Kuhn and her colleagues asked the participants how frequent they were watching pornography. Their brains were studied with the aid of functional magnetic resonance imaging to see how the brain reacts to pornography.

According to Kuhn, their findings showed that those who watch pornography have smaller corpus striatum, a part of the basal ganglia of the brain, comprising the caudate and lentiform nuclei, and that the more pornography people watched, the lower the activity in the reward centres in their brains.

She said, “We found that the volume of the so-called striatum, a brain region that has been associated with reward processing and motivated behaviour, was smaller the more pornography consumption the participants reported.

“We also found that gray matter volume in the right caudate of the striatum was smaller among frequent porn viewers. Men who watched more porn also showed less activity in another area of the striatum, known as the left putamen, which lit up when exposed to sexual stimuli.

“These brain changes are similar to those seen in cocaine addicts, who develop abnormalities in areas, such as the nucleus accumbens and striatum, which are responsible for learning, memory, pleasure and reward.

“Moreover, we found that another brain region, which is also part of the striatum that is active when people see sexual stimuli, shows less activation the more pornography participants consumed.

“In essence, the connectivity between the brain’s striatum and prefrontal cortex worsened with increased consumption of pornography, suggesting poorer and impaired decision-making capability. Thus, frequent pornographic consumption would surely change how the brain works, and basically, everything that people do very frequently can shape their brain structure and function.”

The researchers further warned that people who are used to watching porn tend to first think of porn instead of the actual sexual experience anytime they have sexual desires, once their brain associates the feelings given by oxytocin, vasopressin and serotonin (often released during porn or sex) to pornography. The researchers had yet to ascertain the level of impact watching porn has on the brain.

A physiologist, Gary Wilson, said the addiction from pornography creates a constant need to feel that strong stimulation to watch it some more, thereby needing more dopamine, which could wear out the brain.

He added, “Sometimes, the brain gets worn out and halts the production of dopamine, which leaves the viewer in quest for more satisfaction with the inability to reach it. This can provoke the viewer to seek out more intense porn to get high. As a result, it can give a person a reason to watch more porn, which is why addictions are difficult to break.”

Commenting on the study, a neurologist, Dr. Emmanuel Olusola, said there were convincing evidences to show that pornography could have an effect on the brain.

He said, “Prolonged and irresistible viewing of pornography definitely causes changes in the chemical, synaptic function and anatomy of neurons in the basic brain cells in certain parts of the brain, most especially the frontal lobe function.

“Basically, this addiction causes down function of brain cells like other forms of chemical addictions like alcohol, amphetamine and cocaine.”

Also, a psychologist, Prof. Oni Fagboungbe, agreed that watching pornography could affect the brain, and that it could change the conditioning of the brain.

He said, “It’s not the watching itself that would dull the brain, rather the conditioning. When somebody watches pornography over time, the person becomes engrossed and the reticular activating system in the brain would be conditioned to watch more of it at the expense of other things, which could make such people perform badly in other areas.”

He added that pornography could also make the watchers lose interest in the real sexual intercourse because they “tend to get satiated with watching it.”

[source: PUNCH website]
Christianity EtcRe: Surprised!? "More Churches, Less Factories" What You Need To Know. by 4Qbitch: 5:23pm On Aug 21, 2016
Too long.
RomanceRe: A Nairalander Shows Off Sexy Body And Assets... by 4Qbitch: 2:12pm On Aug 21, 2016
JESUSBOIY:
why are you so dumb ,why did you initially believe that the pack was mine? undecided undecided
Of all the days available to u to lie, y choose Sunday, a holy day?

U can't fool me.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Christians And Pastors/men Of God Disobey This Golden Rule Of Jesus ? by 4Qbitch:
I think hell fire is designed specifically for African Christians becos most of them r so daft.

How can we be so religious and our churches filled with multitudes, yet not even up to 0.0000000001 percent of us practice what Jesus instructed?

How can a pastor swim in luxury in a third world country where millions of children (including his congregation) cannot feed up to 2 times a day?

How can we ve billionaire pastors in Nigeria and white men would b d ones vaccinating our kids against polio, feeding our displaced brethren in the NE and giving scholarships?Meanwhile most of our churches build schools that poor members ve no access to attend... What's d point?
RomanceRe: A Nairalander Shows Off Sexy Body And Assets... by 4Qbitch: 12:47pm On Aug 21, 2016
Lastking147:
Pucci that's Jason derulo
Holy Moses! so JESUSBOIY cropped up Jason Derulo's stage pix and claimed he's the one?

Wonders shall never end in NL.

So pathetic and ridiculous.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 12:18pm On Aug 21, 2016
dickt:
Why not comment like a Christian that you claim to be? SMH
Why not stay off mentions that weren't meant for u? SMH.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 11:41am On Aug 21, 2016
Uniboy1:
Porn fuels masturbation (my buddies & i nicknamed it "sustaining"wink in my hood.
Mine's been about six yrs now (''sustaining" addiction''). been tryin to bring the whole thing to stop but all my efforts seemed not enough. aint giving up!!!
Don't giv up! The fact that porn is demonic is one reason strong enough to make you wanna quit. Each time u watch porn, u open up ur spirit to all sorts of demons. And u dnt wanna b playing ludo wif d devil.
CareerRe: Benue Female Barber, Sewe Kristina, Who Gives Men Clean Haircuts (Photos) by 4Qbitch:
unongu:
I introduce to you Krystal Barbers, run by the awesome Sewe Kristina Iornongu. She's an amazon excelling in a field that has been male-dominated.

Visit this Benue girl and get a haircut you will always be thankful for!

Address: Yina Junction, International Market Road, Makurdi, Benue State.

More reasons why Benue State is NOT all about Prostitution and HIV. Guys, please spare a word of commendation for Kristina. Happy Sunday to you all.
I think she'd get good patronage amongst primary & secondary school age female students.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 9:04am On Aug 21, 2016
sats:
No more porn and masturbation
God, you know
How did u manage to quit?
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 8:58am On Aug 21, 2016
Dumdum217:
Now I know you are just deceiving yourself.
I'm deceiving myself? And I've been able to stay off d demonic affliction of pornography for 9 long years? Hmmmm, please define "deceit".
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 8:42am On Aug 21, 2016
jclassiq:
Nigga see ur monicker. And see how u are attacking ppl. Are u sure u made a vow to God or to some other stuff, cuz nothing about seems godly.
Pally d subject of this thread is "quitting pornography" and I've humbly shared my experience. I don't knw wat u r looking 4 in my moniker (which is a personal login ID) or in my sense of deep humor, poetic sarcasm or how I talk generally (which has nothing to do wif d topic). Was there anywhere in my post I claimed to be a pastor or a saint?

Pls let's talk "quitting pornography". Abi if my moniker sounds somehow u won't quit? Ridiculous!
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 8:23am On Aug 21, 2016
smileysmiley:
what an irony! you got what you wanted sha... your moniker is too derogatory for someone preaching about such sensitive topic, you got the fp so you can swerve now and stop deceiving yourself
My sister there's nothing derogatory abt my personal ID. 4 (four) Q (alphabet) Bītch(there are a minimum of 4 different meanings of the word, I PERSONALLY know d one mine represents).

Besides, leaving d main subject to talk abt my ID is like rushing into a burning house to look for a jerry can of petrol. Be focused.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 3:01am On Aug 21, 2016
[quote author=biuti post=48664495][/quote]Oops. Wondering y sha.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 2:58am On Aug 21, 2016
biuti:
Of course yes, devil is working greatly through this people and many people see it as just fun.
It's a spiritual bondage.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 2:40am On Aug 21, 2016
biuti:
Nothing would be wrong until you're possessed with evil spirits.
U know wat? I even suspect that some porn content on d internet originates from d spirit realm. And people don't know wat dey get themselves into wen they watch them.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 2:37am On Aug 21, 2016
biuti:
Yes, i understand but sometimes one doesn't have to be too blunt to them to make them absorb what one is trying to pass across.
Thanks and God bless you too.
Thanx all d same. So tell me, y ain't u sleeping? It's late o.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 2:03am On Aug 21, 2016
Boyooosa:
Smoking nkor? did u remember to quit that too? Alcohol? carry women... Then leave hustling for us now, u dont need money!
I didn't come off as a saint remember. And Rome was not built in a day. Everything takes d grace of God and our decision and determination to be a better person.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op):
[quote author=biuti post=48664150][/quote]Some folks (trolls) deliberately come here to sell mischief (u knw how NL is) so pls don't mistake my being blunt to dem for insult. Every force must meet an equal and opposite reaction.

God bless u.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op):
Niyinficient:
For real? U said this to someone who jst air his opinion?

Guy,forget shi.t! U still do porn cos wit ur responses to comment here....You are surely a self-servicer
Here comes our Chief Judge...
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 1:02am On Aug 21, 2016
greggng:
Anyways you just stopped watching porns but you still masturbate. This second one is hard to break
Nope bruv, never did masturbate. Disgusting.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op):
echodrum:
Africa and linking God to any little thing. God do not have interest in what u do with your dck and Vaseline. It is your mind that is playing trick on you.
Where was masturbation mentioned in my post? Leaving d main subject to talk abt my ID is like rushing into a burning house to look for a jerry can of petrol. Be focused.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 10:44pm On Aug 20, 2016
Fidelismaria:
Trash


Mumu op


I wonder who asked u how u quit

U quit ooo u no quit ooo

Aint nairaland fuvkin business
So y r u here Mr Antagonist?
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 10:36pm On Aug 20, 2016
frubben:
U should take heed. Because he made a valid point.
Ok.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 10:33pm On Aug 20, 2016
BlindAngel:
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My God, this is just me.
I have vowed to God several times that if i ever masturbate again then let God take my life or let me sleep that day and never see the next day, then with in 3 - 6days max am back at it again, i always crave for dirty and most intresting oily bf and at the same time my body is already boiling with the urge to masturbate. That nothing will stop me from doing it, its either i do it in the bathroom or in the ceiling. Most expecially in the ceiling, because i have the most and best privacy there. No soul will know that am at home, i will masturbate and after i cum, then the intresting bf i was watching looks irritating to me and i will mark all and delete with so much anger in my heart that i will cursed my s@elf severally but with in a day - 2 - 3days am at it again, downloading again with full urge to masturbate with, the highest i have vowed and gone without masturbating is two weeks maximum, i have prayed, vowed, cursed my self writting many notes like the side effects, dis-advantages and consequesces of doing it and vowed never to masturbate again but with in some days am at it again.
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Please use this links to help yourself, although it did't help me but just try may be it can for you.
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max max max max max max max

http://www.christian-courtship.com/side-effects-of-masturbation.html
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http://www.howtostopmasturbation.com/page-1-testimony.html
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http://www.naturalhealthprotocol.com/masturbation--dr-lawrence-wilson.html
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http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/171060/
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https://sureshjonna.in/tag/disadvantages-of-masturbating-masturbation-why-masturbation-is-bad-how-to-overcome-masturbation-masturbation-addiction/
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http://www.homeoint.org/site/ahmad/masturbation.htm

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seriously dis is a strong case o. Were u not scared that God could curse u for breaking d vows?

Try to find other means to release ur energy such as other vocations or hubby. Even games ain't bad to vent out d urge. It's a real struggle n it's worst wen u add masturbation to it (was lucky I didn't graduate into masturbation).

If u fear God, He would help u destroy d desires.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 10:23pm On Aug 20, 2016
femi4:
I see you going back soon
Hello! 9 years ain't 9 months or 9 weeks or even 9 days ok?

The 1st year was a struggle but gradually d desire obliterated. And today porn disgusts me.

I fear my Creator and that's y I can't break my vows.
RomanceRe: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch(op): 10:17pm On Aug 20, 2016
brostheo:
Op your annotations are not substantial enough, you didn't give us tips on how to quite porn.Rather you came up with your God and paper blah blah blah alibi.Do we all believe in God,and does that affect our modern day life.You know how many bad habits I don write down and i never stop?



and why should we stop porn sef,na crime abi he day kill?
It's a pity some of u don't believe in God. But it's d respect I have for my creator that made me respect my vows to Him. But more importantly was my DECISION to quit.

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