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CelebritiesKanye And Kim Kardashian West Are The Proud Parents Of A Baby Girl by abokisas(op): 7:44am On Jan 17, 2018
Famous couple, Kim Kardashian and Kanye West are the parents to a newborn baby girl, who was born through a surrogate.

The 37-year-old reality star announced the news on her website kimkardashianwest.com, where she sent the word out.

She wrote:

Kanye and I are happy to announce the arrival of our healthy, beautiful baby girl. We are incredibly grateful to our surrogate who made our dreams come true with the greatest gift one could give and to our wonderful doctors and nurses for their special care. North and Saint are especially thrilled to welcome their baby sister.

Love,

Kim Kardashian West

Source>> http://1604ent.co/kanye-kim-kardashian-west-proud-parents-baby-girl/

Celebrities8 Nigerian Celebrity Couples Who Stunned At Banky W & Adesua Traditional Wedding by abokisas(op):
The most-exciting traditional wedding of Adesua Etomi and Banky W took place yesterday November 19th and their families and friends, including celebrities turned up massively for the event.

Among the beautiful guests who attended their traditional wedding were top Nigerian Celebrity couples who stepped out together to grace the union.

Here are the photos:

source: http://1604ent.co/8-nigerian-celebrity-couples-stunned-banky-w-adesuas-traditional-wedding/

CelebritiesOmowunmi Akinnifesi Thinks It’s Better To Remain Single For This Reason by abokisas(op): 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2017
Former Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria, Omowunmi Akinnifesi, dropped an advice for ladies out there in new photo she shared on Instagram.

According to Omowunmi Akinnifesi, a Former Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria, she once said being single is a blessing and no lady should take it for granted.

She wrote;

“Better to be single than being in a relationship where you still feel very much alone…….I pray that loneliness in a relationship will never be your situation in Jesus name. Amen #God’sSpeed #ListenToGod #Godstimeisbest”

Source: http://1604ent.co/omowunmi-akinnifesi-thinks-better-remain-single-reason/

Jokes EtcHilarious Tweets As Nigeria's React To Masterkraft Dressing To #BAAD2017 by abokisas(op): 11:23am On Nov 20, 2017
Despite the huge celebrity turn-ups in different dope styles of the Wine native Aso-Ebi, ace Nigerian Producer, Masterkraft has been labeled the worst dresser at the event.

The producer was spotted in not more than 1 year styled top with a ripped black jean trousers while other entertainers were seen rocking different shades of Agbada and completely styled outfits.

Meanwhile, Nigerians wasted no time to call out Masterkraft while describing him typical “Igbo Boy” who wouldn’t spend much buying too much yards of Aso-Ebi for just one wedding.

See Reactions Below;

Source: http://1604ent.co/hilarious-tweets-nigerias-react-masterkraft-dressing-baad2017/

CrimeNigerians Lashes Prophet TB Joshua For Fake Prophesy (see Hilarious Tweets) by abokisas(op): 10:07am On Nov 09, 2016
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RomanceMen: Please Don’t Ever Consider Marrying These 10 Types Of Women by abokisas(op): 6:51pm On Oct 19, 2016
1. The Chatterbox
This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.


2. The Desperate Chick
This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal, watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.
3. The Overly-Critical Woman
Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.


4. The Bimbo
This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of 5. The High Maintenance Chick
If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.


6. The Clingy Girl
This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.
the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category,

Continue reading here>>>>> http://ngblizz.com/men-please-dont-ever-consider-marrying-these-10-types-of-women/3/
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CrimeWe No Go Gree!! 4 Month We Have Not Been Paid - Nnpc Super Mega Station Abuja by abokisas(op): 6:29pm On Sep 16, 2015
WE NO GO GREE!! 4 MONTH WE HAVE NOT BEEN PAID - NNPC SUPER MEGA STATION KATAMPE, ABUJA WORKERS CRY OUT

This is out of wickedness, I feel the pain when a friend who is working there as a graduate with four kids have not yet been paid a salary which is not even enough self, this is wickedness to the highest bidder, the pump attendant are even cool because if I was in there shoes I could have stole the whole money I sold for one day asap because is my sweat!! angry grin grin


Buhari must see this, I tot we are in the Era of Change, why working without been paid it hurt a lot, as a blogger if my monthly payout exceed the normal date I will be damn worried but never the less what your says on this peepz, read one of there pains via the link below

- See more at: http://www.talkofabuja.com/2015/09/we-no-go-gree-4-month-we-have-not-been.html?m=1#sthash.DdGT3shY.dpuf

EducationPublic Opinion ( Says Your Mind) by abokisas(op): 11:02am On Jul 26, 2015
this is an old poll
but lets share our opinions on it here today

dear men, would you wash your wife, lover or girlfriend undies?
(particularly when she’s menstruating)

dear women, would you allow your man to wash your undies

source: http://www.talkofabuja.com/2015/07/public-opinion-say-your-mind.html

LiteraturePublic Opinion (say Your Mind) by abokisas(op): 10:49am On Jul 26, 2015
this is an old poll
but lets share our opinions on it here today

dear men, would you wash your wife, lover or girlfriend undies?
(particularly when she’s menstruating)

dear women, would you allow your man to wash your undies

lol see amazing comment here: http://www.talkofabuja.com/2015/07/public-opinion-say-your-mind.html
RomanceLOL: Guys Dont Get Mad At Me On This by abokisas(op): 7:53am On Jul 26, 2015
5 SIGNS THAT HE'S A WOMANISER - RELATIONSHIP

Every woman wants to be the only one in her man’s life; they don’t want to be a number in his long list. No woman wants a womanizer in her life as womanizers are not interested in a long-term, committed relationship and all they care about is getting all the women they can get in their bedroom.
Below are 5 signs your man could be a womanizer

1. CAN’T STOP LOOKING AT OTHER WOMEN:
A womanizer can’t stop looking at other women even if they are with the prettiest woman in the world. They are always in the lookout for the next prey so there eyes are always working. If a man keeps staring at other women while he is with you, it’s a sign he could be a womanizer.

2. HIS PHONE IS OUT OF BOUNDS:
When you can’t be with your man’s phone for 5 seconds, it could be a sign he is a womanizer. A womanizer ensures his phone is always locked and out of reach. He locks his phone because he doesn’t want you to see the messages and pictures he exchanges with other girls. A womanizer won’t even let you play games in his phone because you could just see things he doesn’t want you to see. If your man gets annoyed every time you come close to his phone, he could just be a womanizer.

3. YOU WOULD RARELY HEAR HIM CALL YOUR NAME:
There is nothing wrong with your man calling you sweet names like ‘sweetheart’, ‘boo’, ‘honey’ etc but if he never calls your name then that could be a sign he is a womanizer. A womanizer would rarely call you by your name so he doesn’t mix your name up with that of some other girl and it’s easier for him instead of trying to get the names of all his girls in his head. So when was the last time you heard your man call you by your name?

4. NEVER FULFILS HIS PROMISE:
A womanizer is good at making promises but poor at fulfilling them. He wants you on his bed so he knows promising you the world could make you fall for him. So imagine a scenario where he makes promises to about 10 ladies, he is definitely going to find it difficult in keeping all promises.

5. TOO MANY COMPLIMENTS:
A womanizer knows women love compliments and they try to use that to get all the women they want. If your man gives you too many compliments, then you might need to watch out because the chances of them been insincere are high as all he is trying to do is just flatter you. Womanizers tend to give too many compliments as they believe it’s a secret weapon to get any woman.

So is your man a womanizer?

source: http://www.talkofabuja.com/2015/07/5-signs-that-hes-womaniser-relationship.html
Romance9 Ways On How To Get Over Someone You Were Deeply In Love With - Talkofabuja.com by abokisas(op): 7:27am On Jul 26, 2015
I have been reading through the comments on my previous post and I landed on a comment of my friend Hang Nguyen. She commented saying "I cannot do it." I asked her "why?" and she replied "It's so difficult to forget him, doctor. I want to give up..."
Well, in those few words of hers I felt her pain because I have been there so many times. So, since I have been getting a number of questions in my inbox from my other friends and fans also asking me how they can get over their lovers (now exes) I decided to write this article and share it to you all.
But before that, Hang Nguyen, sorry for all what you are going through my dear friend.. But all you should know you aren’t alone. Many people are going through the same.
With that being said let me start off straight away.
Getting over someone you once loved so much is never an easy thing. It takes time depending on one's feelings and the love they had for that person. Some people take months, years and others a life time. But getting over someone has to start with you.

First of all you have to accept it in your heart that the relationship didn't work out for a reason. Either it was your own making or theirs. But the point is it wasn't meant to be. When you understand that, then you have to get yourself together and move on because that's not the end of your life.

Secondly, you have to forgive them for whatever thing they did or said to you that hurt you. And you should also forgive yourself for being lied on, used, fooled, and for whatever bad thing you did to them.

Thirdly, you have to cut off the communication from them. Don’t contact them again (in case they call or text you, don’t rush to pick or reply them. And when you pick up or text back don’t give them much of your time), stop checking them out on the internet to know what’s new in their life (don’t delete or block them because you might need them with time for them to see how happy and strong you will be without them), and avoid those friends who bring rumors to you concerning them.

Fourth, don’t venture into those places you used to hang in with them until you are fully healed because they bring back the memories and that will refresh the wounds you are trying to heal.

Fifth, remove all the memory triggers. In this I mean all those things that remind you of them. The gifts, the photos, the text messages… Don’t burn them but just keep them out of your reach. When you keep them around you, they will always remind you of them.

Sixth, avoid being alone. Keep around trusted friends and family members. Have fun and enjoy your life with them.
Seventh, make yourself busy with something productive. It may be a career, or a hobby. This will save you from being a lone, reminiscing about everything and second guessing all what happened.

Eighth, work on yourself. In this I mean, eat a balance diet and perform some exercises, go to the gym… all this will make you look well and it will keep your body in shape.

Then lastly, but not the least pray about it. Tell God all your heart burdens. Share all your pain to Him and ask him to help you find some better and that you deserve.
I’m sure if you put all this into consideration you won’t remain the same. Just like I told you, I have been there many times but I did the same things and here I am now. I’m happy and life is going on very well. You too can get over them and you can be happy again.
Be strong & take care of yourself

hope this ya out
Blessings,

for more relationship problems
visit http://www.talkofabuja.com/search/label/Relationship%20%26%20Tips
CareerWhat's Wrong With My Salary? by abokisas(op): 8:09am On Jul 16, 2015
please what wrong with my salary grin grin

check here for lovely spices photo: http://www.talkofabuja.com/search/label/Funny%20pixs

Jokes EtcLamo!!! How Many Of Us Play This Game When We Were Little (photos) by abokisas(op): 12:33am On Jul 16, 2015
lol i remember i have to walk by every bar in search for canter grin grin angry shocked


source: http://www.talkofabuja.com/2015/07/lamo-how-many-of-us-play-this-game-when.html

CrimeFuel Scaricty: 3dead, Many Injury by abokisas(op): 5:19pm On May 27, 2015
Reporting Live from a tragic Car Accident… 3 dead and many injury at Dutse Bapukma today in a tragic car accident - See more at:
http://www.talkofabuja.com/fuel-scaricty-3-dead-and-many-injury/#sthash.v37JUiEu.dpuf

SportsWin Yourself Two Thousand Naira Cash Or Airtime by abokisas(op): 6:06pm On Apr 18, 2015
Win Yourself two thousand naira cash or Airtime

Predict and win
MAN U Vs CHELSEA
who wins?
Predict correct scoreline and the person that will score the winning goal

T&C
Everyone is welcome
You can only predict twice
Prediction ends 5mins into the match.
Lets go

drop your comment here: http://www.talkofabuja.com/predict-and-win-yourself-two-thousand-naira-cash-or-airtime/

RomanceIf You Gave Up On Love This Article Is For You by abokisas(op): 6:51pm On Apr 04, 2015
Today morning I received a phone call from a
sister & a Bestfriend of mine .
We talked about a number of things but one
thing that touched me so much was when she
said that “Pope, I gave up on love because
love hurts and it’s a waste of time.” I became
speechless for a moment. She asked me “Why
that weird silence?” I took a deep breath and I
told her that I was reminiscing about my love
affairs ever since I started the game of
dating. She added on “I no longer believe in
love because people are not trust worthy and
appreciative at all.”
Basing on her words and the tone of her voice
it came to my understanding that she had
been through bad relationships in her past
that gave her a negative thinking about love
and relationships.
Well, I think that’s normal because many
people have the same thinking depending on
what they have been through. But I don’t
think its love that hurts us, but loving the
wrong people in the right time. You know
when you have too much love for someone
sometimes you get blind to see the obvious
things. You resist your heart to accept the
truth that you are with a wrong person and
you are being played & used. You look at the
signs but you take them for granted. You
console yourself that maybe they will change
as time goes on but the more time you get to
be with them the more they show you their
true colors. Innocently you continue
unmasking your heart for them, you give
them all your love and care, you draw plans
for the future with them and by the time you
get to realize that you are wasting your time
and dealing with a wrong person, it’s already
late and you are so heart broken. Yeah, such
an instance has ever happened to me. So far
now two times in my life and I know how it
hurts.
All in all, be careful with your heart. Don’t
completely trust someone. Love with your
heart but don’t leave all your senses behind.
Use your brain. Observe the signs very well
and act open them. Don’t be in a relationship
because of the history you have between each
other, be in a relationship because it makes
you happy and feel loved. Stop settling for
less than what you deserve. If someone
doesn't treat you right, takes your love and
care for granted, you can walk away. I know
it’s not that simple like the way it sounds but
if it’s the only option left to save your heart
you got to get yourself together and do it.
Otherwise, if you happy in love with someone
thank God for that and cherish every moment
you spend together. Stick with each other and
do your best to make your relationship work
because it's very hard to find true love in this
world.
And if you are brokenhearted or single, just
know that's not the end of your life. You'll
heal and find someone better.
Blessings

always read my articles online via @talkofabuja or www.talkofabuja.com
CrimeShe Transformed To An Adult -65-yr Old Man Who Raped 11-yr Old Girl(photo) by abokisas(op): 11:22am On Apr 03, 2015
65-year-old Mr. Bola Kehinde, a fire extinguisher repairer, residing at Inalende area of Ibadan, Oyo State, was arrested for defiling an 11-year-old daughter of his neighbour (names withheld) on Friday, March 6, 2015.

The neighbour, one Mrs Comfort (surname withheld) had reported the criminal act at Mokola Police Station same day. The victim was said to have bled so much as the suspect used his finger and manhood during the act of defilement.

In an interview with Crime Reports, Mr Kehinde admitted that he committed the act he was accused of, but said he acted under the influence of alcohol, coupled with the fact that the girl looked like an adult when erotic feelings came over him.According to him,

“I live in the same house with the parents of the girl involved. She had always been a good girl because she used to run errands for me. She would fetch water for me, grind pepper or help me wash plates. Her older siblings used to do the same thing for me but she was more frequent with me than others.
http://www.talkofabuja.com/watch-this-man-and-woman-doing-it-in-public-in-broad-day-light/ shocked wink shocked
“That day, she fetched four kegs of water for me and I gave a N100 note to an elderly neighbour to help me give the girl. I later saw the woman and she said she forgot to deliver my message to the girl. She promised to give the girl immediately.

“Later, the girl came to my room to inform me that the neighbour had given her the money and I asked her to go and keep it. She asked of other chores that she could for me. Meanwhile, I had taken a bottle of gin that afternoon. I asked to buy fufu for me but she returned to say she could not get to buy.
“I was busy gathering fire extinguisher bottles while she sat on my bed. Suddenly, I saw that she turned into an adult in my sight. I called her name and she answered me. I asked again whether she was the one sitting down on the bed and she replied in the affirmative.
“I don’t know how I could explain it. I asked her to leave but she did not go. I stepped out and came back into my room. I still noticed that she looked like an adult to me. That was when the problem started. I became aroused. I removed her pants and started fingering her. She cried and told me it was hurting her. But I calmed her, asking her to relax.

“I later used my penis to penetrate her but I could not go all the way. I was stuck midway. Though she started crying, I had lost control of myself. By the time I decided to withdraw my manhood from her, I saw blood gushing out of her private part and I became scared.
“I tried to clean her up and told her that I would treat her but she refused to heed to my petting. As her mother came into the house, she called her daughter and she answered from my room. That was how her mother discovered what I did.”


The man revealed that he had had two wives, each of them at a different time, but they had left him. “The second one left six years ago. I have five children with her but they don’t live with me. They come on visits and go.
“I have a lady friend and she comes once in a while. I don’t usually have sex with women because of my job but what happened with the girl I defiled, I don’t know.”

He also admitted that he used to drink alcohol and smoke cigarette.

“The occurrence is beyond my imagination. I cry everyday because I have my own children and would not want such a thing to befall my daughter. I will not take such a thing from anyone. I admit that I have behaved irresponsibly but I plead for mercy,” the suspect said.

On what fate would befall the young girl who had lost her virginity, the suspect promised to take care of her if her parents would agree.
RomanceWhat Do Ladies Really Want?? by abokisas(op): 7:04pm On Apr 02, 2015
Some ladies make me wonder with what they
want when it comes to relationships!
Seriously you have got a guy who truly loves
you, he cares about you, he makes time for
you, he’s proud of you, he doesn't keep you a
secret because he shows you in his friends
and family members and they love you, he’s
there for you anytime you need him, he’s so
faithful to you, he doesn't have a lot but he
sacrifices the little he gets just to make you
happy, he calls & texts you messages all the
time, he stopped all his weird and crazy
behaviors because of you, he never wants to
make you sad, he admits his mistakes and
apologizes to you anytime he goes wrong, he
tolerates all your weird characters, he
respects you, he appreciates every little thing
you do for him, he always forgives you for all
the wrong things you do to him, he does
anything to make you feel like a real
complete woman and he gives you good sex,
but still you are not contented with his love &
care! You still look around searching for more
love & care!! You still have the audacity to
cheat on him. Seriously ladies why don’t you
be contented and appreciative? Why don’t you
get enough? WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT??
What is that big or small thing that makes you
leave the guys that truly love & care about
youhuh We really need to know. Tell us please.

read more relationship update via: http://www.talkofabuja.com/category/relationship-article/
PoliticsPresident Jonathan Writes To The North,reminds Them Of Pact With South-south Ni by abokisas(op): 7:25pm On Mar 27, 2015
My Dear Arewa Brothers and Sisters,

I write you today, as President and a firm believer in the value and significance of the strategic political alliance between the South-South geo-political zone and the three geo-political zones in the Northern part of our country. In my every act as President of Nigeria, I have been consistently driven by a total commitment to ensuring the nurturing of this age-old alliance in the larger interest of our dear nation’s enduring peace, stability, growth and development.

I do understand that my first duty to you, at this time, is to rid the entire North of the menace of Boko Haram and secure your lives and property. You and I know that nothing in Nigeria’s past prepared us for the unprecedented reign of unmitigated terror, mayhem, and destruction which these murderous terrorists have visited on parts of our country. The initial slowness in effectively responding to this threat was a result of both the asymmetrical nature of the war on terror and the need for us to properly equip our security agencies for the successful prosecution of the war.

Given the recent successes recorded by our armed forces, with your cooperation and patriotic support, the cooperation of our neighbors, as well as the laudable gallantry of the men and women of our security agencies, I am confident that, in the shortest possible time, the menace of Boko Haram would have been eliminated for good.

My brothers and sisters, your pain is my pain; while there is no way to replace life, we must find ways to soothe the pains of our fellow Nigerians and rebuild the lives of persons and communities affected by these brutal murderers. The painful case of our daughters abducted from Chibok continues to ache my heart. I assure you that I will not relent until these innocent girls are rescued and reunited with their families. While commending you for your prayers, I am confident that, with the help of Almighty Allah we will totally defeat and put to shame these evildoers and their collaborators.

I am sure that you share with me the belief that, without the will of God in Whose Hands power resides, I would never have been your President nor will/ continue to be so in the future. Because Nigeria is today in desperate need of stability, I plead with you to join me in building on the foundation of the traditional affiance between us which has always served to keep Nigeria one strong, united and prosperous nation. My loyalty to my boss late President Yar’Adua and the greatness of the Arewa/South-South alliance under him is a well-known testimony to this tradition.

In the past four years, I have remained faithful to our old alliance especially in the appointments of your sons and daughters to high political offices. In addition, I have worked hard to reverse the over 30 years neglect of Agriculture in Northern Nigeria; address the challenge of Education through the establishment of dedicated Almajiri schools and the establishment of Universities in the nine Northern States that did not have Federal Universities; reduce the death rate of mothers and babies during birth, give loans to start-up businesses, restore abandoned irrigation and hydro-power projects, repair the bad roads and re-build the railway system which is the most viable access for your goods to the rest of Nigeria and the world.

With gratitude to God, I ask you for the chance to rebuild the North East, restore the economy and grains pyramids of Northern Nigeria so that these trains we just brought back can carry your bags of grains to Lagos, Port Harcourt and Onitsha. My vision and commitment is not to just move the grains but to also process our agro produce in the North of our country. It is impossible for me to achieve these great things if you do not support me and worse still if you refuse to work with me.

I urge you to disregard the politicians who abuse my person and cause hatred against my government by telling lies that I denied Arewa power and am arming Boko Haram. This government that I head means well for this country. I am committed to the development of the North. I am totally committed to the unity of this country. 2019 is just four years away and it is only with PDP that the vision of rotating power to the North can be guaranteed. I urge you to stand with PDP. I pray that you recall where we are coming from and how I became President in the first instance. Weigh what your younger generations under the PDP can offer you in the already approaching 2019. Only the PDP can offer a safe 2019 power shift to the North.

May God Almighty Bless you and may God continue to bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Goodluck Jonathan

Read More: http://www.talkofabuja.com/president-jonathan-writes-to-the-northreminds-them-of-pact-with-south-south-nigeria/
RomanceTop 5 Ways To Know If A Girl Likes You by abokisas(op): 4:49pm On Mar 22, 2015
The introduction of social media has made it less easy for most girls to focus on their relationship. Unlike in the olden days when loyalty was the bedrock of every relationship, they get distracted from different men asking for their attention.

1 Be bold and initiate a short chat. This will help you to learn those little things that will come in handy later because everyone loves knowing that someone actually listened to them and cared enough to remember the small details about them. Listen carefully and be attentive to the things she tells you so that you will have them for future reference. As you talk, notice if she gives you any signs, special words or hints.

All girls are different. Is she shy or outgoing? Does she act like this around other guys? Look at her body language. Leaning in, uncrossed legs, nervous voice, and dilated pupils (especially), are all signs she likes you.
Another sign is if she laughs at your boring, silly jokes. (Beware: Don’t use bad jokes as a test, or you’ll risk looking like a comedy dork.)
She may not be able to look you straight in the eye. She might smile and laugh a lot because she is worried about giving too much away.
Check for the smile. A girl that’s interested in you will usually immediately smile when you start a conversation with her. The smile may disappear quickly if she’s shy, but it’s hard to hide an unexpected strong emotion. If she’s not romantically interested, she’ll likely look at you inquisitively, but she won’t express any particular interest.

2 Watch for signs of flirting. If she’s flirting, she may be difficult to read. Gregarious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends. Uninitiated, this general interaction can sometimes be misconstrued as a crush, so know how she acts around other guys.


Be aware that some girls have no idea that they’re flirting. In this case, she probably likes you a great deal since her subconscious is letting her body language do the talking.
Most girls don’t like to be obvious. Girls fear rejection too.
If you fancy a girl, never make the mistake of “flirting around”. If she sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she will assume that she doesn’t mean anything to you and will stop trying.

3 Check for random hugs, reserved mostly for you. Hugs can be a very openly and permissible affectionate way of getting closer to you and touching you without it necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting. In turn, you can go along with it if you want, or just act busy like you’re late for an appointment and need to rush off.

4 Take notice if she “accidentally” bumps into you more often than what you’d consider the usual. This ploy is ancient and tried and true, as it’s a way of touching you subtly and sizing up how responsive (and perhaps even how well toned) you are. If she finds excuses to touch you a lot, then you’re probably on the right track. Act casual when she bumps into you and say “no worries” or something similar. As for touching your arm and hair in a casual but rather meaningful way, there’s really no need to say anything; just lap it up graciously.

Not all girls will feel comfortable reaching out using touch. In this case, don’t assume that she doesn’t like you because she doesn’t try to touch you. She may be too nervous to touch you yet. Don’t be shy––break the touch barrier yourself.
She may also find other reasons to touch you, such as by lightly hitting you about the head, or soft punching to the body. These “one-of-the-mates” moves can be a thinly disguised way of getting closer to you without it being too evident to your friends and hers.

5 Observe the way in which she looks at you. If she likes you, she will tend to either hold her gaze on you for a long time or pull away immediately the moment your eyes make contact with hers. Either of these responses could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it often means she is nervous or not ready to reveal her true intentions yet, but she still likes you. And if she holds the stare, and you believe you see responsiveness or even love in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move. Of course, some girls might just be staring or winding you up, so don’t think she loves you and wants to get in touch with the real, inner you. Use the context to discern the motive.
If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction.

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Romance7 Funny Things Guys Do After A Breakup by abokisas(op): 4:32pm On Mar 22, 2015
Men also feel terrible after a bad breakup even though we act all stoics and put up a James Bond appearance after a bad breakup —deep down we feel terrible too and do some funny stuffs that would make us laugh years later. A study even found that men are more emotional than women, just that men are better at hiding their emotions. Put a smile on your face as I bring you seven funny things guys do after a breakup.



1 TELL HIS FRIENDS HE’S OKAY…WHEN HE ISN’T

It’s quite okay for a lady to cry and even cry when she’s with her friends, but it’s never okay for a man to cry and even to cry in front of his friends and it’s even more embarrassing to cry about a lady—it’s probably more like a guy code thing; because of this mentality guys try to act calm and assure their pals that they are doing good when deep down they are probably crying a river.



2 STARE AT HER PICTURES

Most guys still stare at the pictures of an ex after a bad breakup; you wouldn’t know he’s doing that; he wouldn’t let you see him. The funny thing about it is the mixed emotions that come with the picture and he may end up tearing the pic into pieces but he would still rather have his lady back.



3 FIGHT WITHIN HIMSELF NOT TO CALL HER BACK

This one is a surety that guys do after a breakup and this goes on to test how strong emotionally he really is. This emotion usually comes up probably a week after a breakup; he might get tempted to call her back and another mind within tells him it’s a dumb move; so many guys would give in and call her back while many would also resist the urge to, but the funny thing is the urge must come.




4 ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME

The usual time men come up with this statement is probably after a bad breakup —she wasn’t the same when he was dating her and definitely before he started dating, but just after the breakup she’s just like the rest. We really are a funny bunch.



5 FIND A FRIEND IN ALCOHOL

You want to know when a guy loves alcohol the most? It’s probably after a breakup; even guys who don’t take lcohol or who take very little alcohol sees the fun in alcohol just after that breakup. Alcohol just seems to be that friend indeed at such times.



6 STALK ON FACEBOOK

Almost everyone stalk on their ex on Facebook and guys aren’t left out. A study has even goneon to find that over 70 percent of people actually check their ex out on Facebook and I actually agree with this. Most blokes check their ex out on Facebook and still admire them when they see a new picture of them, even though we pretend not to.



7 TRIES TO IMPRESS OR MAKE HER JEALOUS

Many guys do different things just to get their lady’s attention after a breakup; some show off with a new girl and just hopes it touches a nerve in her. The funny part is he isn’t getting that new girl because he actually likes her; he’s only using her to get back at his ex and make her miss him.

I’m quite sure must fellas have done one or more of these things after a bad breakup.

Come on guys, what have you done after a breakup?


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