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Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by Abrahamdgreat(m): 10:56am On Jun 03, 2020
This one that I yam seeing shipping upandan... Is it what I think it is cheesy grin
RomanceRe: HELP; my 12 yrs old Cousin Is Making Sexual Advances towards me by Abrahamdgreat(m): 10:26am On Jun 03, 2020
SirMichael1:
You didn't buy my data, neither my phone and so i damn well know i can air my opinions over yours especially if it's hogwash.

as i rightly said, a 12yrs is very oid enough to know the difference right and wrong, bad and good. Then again you said it is normal of him to explore an older lady because he is attaining puberty, then i assume you'd consider it normal if he plays with his mom or sisters that way, but he doesn't. If that doesn't tell you it isn't normal to him, then i don't know what will.

'he's a kid and one thing kids respond to is fear', yes, the fear of being beaten. 'spare the rod and spoil the child'

you know, your stance on this matter shows how much of a father you'll be. If you as a father will shrug it off and allow a rapist to keep growing unchecked in your home, then maybe you should leave fathering children as you'll be unfit and the child taken into custody of the government. Know when to use your mouth and know the importance of the rod. Cases like this where it will cause permanent damage to the boy, use the rod, then again and again. Don't be a weak father!
I'm certain u feel ur talking sense but ur not and for a very simple reason, the girl asking the question isn't the father she's a cousin... Do you know how the father will reacthuh Do you know if the the parents are already tired of the cousinhuh Etc

Go and read the question asked and read the answer I dropped and stop making me type over an argument that I don't even understand, I've given what's my own opinion of what the best thing she can do is, you give yours and stop derailing the thread pls.

P.S: You've been throwing several subtle (and plain) insults, if ur dad really is as strict as you've implied, shouldn't you know that that's bad manners?? undecided

P.S 2: I actually just read what u wrote now, u never born pikin and ur advicing me, very funny... Now let me educate u (I'll ignore ur insults)... If u refuse to advice him and u flog him, in the next 20 years who will go and flog him then, if u use only fear to threaten him, when he's old enough there's absolutely no reason for him not to continue doing it.

Now please leave my mention and continue with ur life bro
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RomanceRe: HELP; my 12 yrs old Cousin Is Making Sexual Advances towards me by Abrahamdgreat(m): 4:42am On Jun 03, 2020
SirMichael1:
Which kind stupid normal you dey yarn? What the hell is normal in a 12years old trying to caress an older lady. Kids are smart, trust me. You see that resistance he gives himself due to fear when trying to move further? That's fear and his conscience telling him it's wrong.

besides, why would you say a father will shrug it off because he's a boy? He's fvcking 12 for jove sake! Not my father, he'd never do that to me, his son. He'll never ruin my life because i'm a boy/a child. That point is where he should be beaten. These kids these days don't listen to calm approaaches anymore. That's how you'll be feeding a rapist until he becomes fullblown. Besides you're the type that would watch his kid rotten away and try to use the 'advice quip' to restore him.
Bro no start with me abeg... I'm guessing and hoping your not a rapist, so how are you now so certain about the traits they would show when they are 12. Last I heard they don't target older and stronger people so tell me why ur calling a 12 year old such a vile name

From the way ur sounding, "Not my father, he would never do that to me, his son" I'm guessing u mean ur dad would have wipped u.

We are not talking about you here, hence we don't know who the boy's parents are so don't give a one sided advice

My advice I meant to account for all the possible scenerious (you'd see that if u took your time to properly read it). From ur statement I can tell ur not a father (neither am I) so don't speak with 100% certainty about how to train a child.

Last but not least, I started undergoing puberty at the age of 10 (possibly 9 sef) so his hormones are of the roof and the movies / internet is not helping, what he needs now is a little candid advice not your father's whip

He is still a kid and one thing kids respond to is fear, put that in him and then talk to him, trust me it's stick with them. The title didn't read 12yr old boy and 6 yr old girl else my advice would be another.

Finally as your reading this, read and don't mention me, as others have dropped their opinion so have I, and hopefully so would you. Nobody is here to say things that will please you, so please dude leave my Mention alone
RomanceRe: HELP; my 12 yrs old Cousin Is Making Sexual Advances towards me by Abrahamdgreat(m): 9:29pm On Jun 02, 2020
tellsblinks:
please this is not me, a friend chatted me up and asked me what to do about this action
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during the lockdown after school closed I decided to go to my relative house to stay with them., considering the fact that going back home is about 14hours from my school and I usually go thier for holidays.


Of recent I noticed that the child of age 12years old is making advances towards, like he would cross his hands around my shoulders while watching film (not romance) and would feel his hands trying to go down my burst and could also feel fear in him...

yesterday night while we were watching movie in my room jokingly jokingly I felt his hands this time around crawling to my ass and also noticed he was scared!!

please what should I do? I do not want to shout for him or beat the hell out of him, as I have not really caught him in the act yet

what do I do?? I need advice, should I wait to catch him, then beat crase comot from him, or should I advice him now
I want to drop a very explanative story but I don't have the time or strength to type

First thing you ought to know is that he is a boy, so his parents (since he is a boy, it's dad's decision) will shrug it off (after warning him a bit) as normal (and it is normal).

Best thing you can do is find another film for u both to watch then when he tries it, insult him and scare the shit out of him and threaten to report him. Then send him off

Next day continue playing with him as if nothing happened, it's best u record it (since we no sabi d kind pikin way d boy b)

Remember just shout at him, what he is doing is 100% normal, almost every guy had that cousin they were attracted to when they were little... He will grow out of it

P.S: No Nigerian parents would like to hear that u recorded their 12 yr old son doing something shameful, so don't let them know or hear it unless something goes wrong (else Na u sabi ooh)
Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by Abrahamdgreat(m): 6:39pm On Jun 01, 2020
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Science/TechnologyRe: Who Want To Sell Instagram Account by Abrahamdgreat(m): 4:25pm On May 26, 2020
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RomanceRe: Mention That Nairaland Moniker You Would Love To Meet In Person by Abrahamdgreat(m): 7:41am On May 22, 2020
Would love to meet Abrahamdgreat... That dude is just so lovely wink
Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by Abrahamdgreat(m):
flimzydb:
Obviously u going crazy dude. How u come out to shamelessly make blatant lies is really ridiculous. I can see u such a notorious liar, it's a pity!
Bro, fun fact... Nobody here and I can say it with 100% certainty

Nobody is reading what ur writing, even the people ur insulting, they are glancing through it as fast as they can. Regardless of the opinion ur trying to pass through when ur d only one against a mob, ur indirectly or directly (mainly directly) turning urself to the bad guy.

I honestly don't even care about una quanta if no be say u de drop essays and them they quote ur long essays, this stuff don over long like this pls.

Before u insult me, remember I did not bring mikky into the conversation grin

Thanks

Edit: Just realized u made me drop a long one too cry ,I hate u bro cry cry
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Technology MarketRe: S8 Screen by Abrahamdgreat(m): 1:35pm On May 20, 2020
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Any android aint worth more than 50k to me, i don't care if its Samsung, one plus or 5plus whatever lol
I fixed mine last year January... 80k sir
AutosRe: Nissan L35 2002 Model ₦1.2M by Abrahamdgreat(op): 7:11am On May 20, 2020
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Technology MarketRe: S8 Screen by Abrahamdgreat(m): 5:02pm On May 19, 2020
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Technology MarketRe: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Abrahamdgreat(m): 6:56am On May 19, 2020
lavenderjade:
Forget naija IT ppl... Una cant do jack.. Oya claim dat item i post... grin
I just de laugh grin... But on a more serious note, he could've(before e told about it)
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PhonesRe: Be Mentored By Local Coding Giants by Abrahamdgreat(m): 8:51am On May 17, 2020
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Biko ooh... I'm a toddler, how would we go about the free session huh grin
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Leilael:
Please contact me if you are able to hack social media. This is for personal reasons not crime. Thank you
Hacking is not what most of you feel it is... It's not like in the movies and there is no guarantee you can hack every account with little resources (without costing u a Bleep load of money)
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