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kingel:
Thanks g

You are welcome.

This is skept.cu.s alternative on that thread.

Stay good.

kingel:
If you're 'better' there would be no need, removing equal opportunity since at the end of the day the outcome wouldn't be equal

Kingel, I had to drop this here.

Simp mods on nairaland kept deleting my response to your comment and suspending my account on the red pill thread. This is the third time. The cancel culture is real.

kingel:
Men ahead of me, I always seek to understand things and the behavior of women is part of it. Hypergamy is cruel and vicious, they always flock to high standing men(in my age group older men or rich boys), leaving none for us with raging hormones to quell.

Women seeking the best of males and selecting them for their genetic superiority, physical attributes, wealth and status is cruel and a unmost unfair from a male perspective but it's nature at play. It varies to different degrees in women but still the same motive. Accept this fact and use it to your advantage as a man.

kingel:
I've had some gfs but the entire process is just frustrating, date, talk (more like interview), always manage her insecurities. And the sex isn't just worth it at the end of mental tiredness. If I can avoid it all and still get some action. Hormones and the mind are clashing on it. I definitely don't want to go on another journey for another girl, the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. How did you guys overcome this? Masturbating and Prostitutes is a no no

The focus is to be on YOU. This means that your goals, happiness, family should be your topmost priority when dealing with women and also other aspects of your life. Overly worrying about their happiness and putting their goal above yours leave you is a great recipe for frustration and disappointments.

Not considering masturbation and paying hookers to get your steam off is a great idea, though not a easy one. In the end, it's beneficial because you eliminate the issues of STDs, wasteful-spending, mental/physical stress, masturbation addiction from your life.

I'll advice you to channel your steam into sport eisure/hobbies like body building, powerlifting, boxing, soccer etc. On the creative side, build a business of pursue an ambitious project. Over the, all these would help develop your mind, having control over your life and bring women around. With the women, you have to be very careful, though. As your status improves, they'll begin to flock around and you want the best. Not some damaged woman with issues.