₦airaland Forum

owobokiri:
They should allow this lady to do her job.
It is called Nigerias Senate and NOT Akpabios Senate..
Everyone of them was elected as a Senator. They are equals. That Akpabio was made the Senate President, is not enough reason for him to be acting like a School Principal.

Free that woman and allow her do the work her constituency elected her to do..
This level of ruthlessness under Akpabio and Tinubu has never been seen in Nigerias democratic history..
The Senate and this very executive are acting more tyrannical than Abacha and his Provincial Ruling Council.

Akpabio and Tinubu; Lay off this lady...

People like You is what they are referring. all sentiment and no logic.

Set piece f.c. na we be that


1_0 to the arsenal

Bubu4Sea:
Why not let those that want to be alone, be alone?
Why must u attach yourself to people you hate?
Why are you scared of them leaving?

Because nowhere in the world it happens like that. You fight for freedom..no country like to concede territory..it weakens them.

It's not about sentiment. But reality. Igbos a male culture they understand this more than you think.

Real age tie. No be one small girl weh go marry him papa age for.money come.online come de form victim.

They won't free nnamdi no matter what. he is a symbol of resistance towards national unity. He's another context all together.

Many of una de shout village people for natural event. Una no see the diabolical.person weh hit am no wait. Una no see the diabolical people weh instead of help am decide to rob him cash and phone join. False spirituality don spoil many people mentally.


Everything village people. Many of una na just fools with this village people talk I swear.

Women no send your papa. All those their principles na for you. The moment them see money all goes out the window.


Imagine knowing you are going in as fifth wife and still go in.

That's why I say don't envy them. Behind there bright post are darkness make up concealed truth

Na mumu man. You no set boundaries from the gate out. She de fear you when she enter your huz. Na you go begin allow her do rubbish like street girl. As soon as I see her de hang with those street boysz for pics and do vixen for music I say them de lash and and feed her drugs. This man no get handle on him women no be to rich. Na weak man weh use money take do everything.

Idiots them go use Nigeria save run go UK go de Yab Nigeria. no patriotism no respect. That's why I like wetin trump de do them for America.

Fake life .

Always attending parties like trying to force out the happiness. Drug yourself while at it. achohol kilichie gbogbue gbogbue ..

Happiness is free.

Corner f.c strikes again.

1_0 to the Arsenal.

The world is edging to towards peace. Unkrain and Russian are looking all the more like the only clowns in the room the more they resist .

Ashawo kobo.kobo.

After you don do give the community.

Moral of the story any kind of peace is better than wars .there are no good or nice guys in war. There is only the side you support

Fifa na just thieves. All na revenue.

Them just key into anxiety, anticipations and tension. to make money. Na so champion league get playoffs. Now. When you can just send top 16 teams up.

cococandy:
I don’t really care what you think of me 🙂.

I said it’s for their accountants and the judge to decide. That’s the fair approach. Who on earth am I to place value on what her contribution to the marriage was?

If they have 150 million dollars, then $100 million is unfair as that would be almost 70% of their assets.

But if he’s a billionaire, 100 million is only 10% of their worth. Is she worth only 10% after dedicating 3 decades to him? I don’t know.

Therefore………the only people qualified to assess and decide what’s fair for her to get are their accountants and an unbiased judge respectively. Let them run the numbers.

I hang my boot here. Good night 💤

He is not a billionaire. And no one deserves that much. Earn your respect By avoiding his money..I know men will.give you from their heart what is fair..that's how you keep your dignity and a deserve relationship with him. Any other thing you are enemies for life.

cococandy:
Let their accountants and the judge decide.

To think I almost call you fair. You were decisive up till this point calling it so bluntly. Suddenly its the judges call.

With money women you hardly honest.

cococandy:
That’s why you should vet your potential partner seriously. In the event of laziness or they refuse to get/stay employed and if contrary to what you guys previously agreed upon, then divorce is always an option.

The longer you stay married, the higher the chances that you’ll have to pay them alimony or a lump settlement. Sometimes if you divorce within a few years with no kids involved, you might not have to pay anything. Obviously it’s case by case. not a blanket judgment.

If you’re married for over 10 years , they’re entitled to everything including your retirement. Yes your retirement that you contributed to while married during the 10 years is considered family money as well. Marriage is a serious affair and people need to start treating it as such. Not everyone should get married.

So basically you saying only honest strong dedicated wife should get paid. I concur. 29yrs is fair time..I think she deserve compensation. But 100mil. I don't think that's fair. way too much.

cococandy:
Hypothetically yes. That’s how it should be. That’s why I encourage everyone never to depend on anyone. But in situations where one party is a stay at home parent. Or one earns significantly higher income, then the person with more means pays the support.

The goal is never to punish anyone but to ensure that the divorce doesn’t cause undue hardship to the partner who earned less income. Especially if them earning less was as a decision to stay unemployed and support the other person’s career. It’s fair. Women pay it too.

Ok I see you talk in good fate encouragingly fairness and hard work independently. I respect that. But you do realize it's not one matrix of thought. Granted in agreed case for stay at home, for the woman.there should be settlement going forward on divorces. But it should not be crazy amount. She is not business incline to invest. Like you said she is a stay at home mum. development investment instinct takes time.. some amount are outrageousness and born out of greed not fairness. But that's a whole separate take.

Alternatively there are case of sought were the lady being ok married to rich man just refuse to work but engage in lazy spending and demand more to satisfy that urge when there is divorce...how do you contain that in fair accessment I

cococandy:
Joke of the century. Tell that to all the men who insist they don’t want a liability wife. They want a woman who brings in money and the men collect spousal support from their wives after divorce. Y’all keep lying to yourselves.

ah the misogynistic assumption that the man will always have more money.




Not someone else’s money. THEIR MONEY.
Anything he earns after the divorce or after the alimony payment period is over can rightfully be called his. But before then it’s theirs. Argue with your ancestors bro

Let's say hypothetical for clarity you and me are married. You doing your business and me mine and we cooperatively paying the bills. If we were to split Shouldn't you just go with your business money and me mine?

cococandy:
You don’t get it. The hypothetical business money that’s supposedly “hers” is also his and hers. That’s how it is in a marriage.

It goes both ways. If the business is yielding millions and he’s not making any money, he’s still entitled to half of the business.

Don’t be emotional pls.

There is no time your money interest us no time . That's money is too small to share. Am sure she still she still get hand out from him.every now so often. You not being honest. If you have your money stick with it. Why being interest in someone else money you no longer interested in.

What sleeping dogs


If you are suspicious of your wife then by all means clear your doubt. DNA does not accuse anyone. It's only asking a simple question.

cococandy:
Yen yen

Only if you are 100% the breadwinner and the woman doesn’t support you in any way shape or form. Like cooking or cleaning, bearing and raising the children, doing your laundry, fvcking you, providing companionship and emotional support.

If she was just a statue in the home, then of course you’re right. If she did any of the above, then it was a team effort and every member of the team deserves their share of the family money when the family splits apart. It’s simple logic.

family money kill you there. Na you work for am. Cleaning huz don turn Hussle. You no sleep for the huz or you no eat or I no give you pocket money or you no get your own business. Why you no turn yours to million so you split with me. You will get what you deserve and that's nothing. Child cones with me.

cococandy:
Yen yen

Only if you are 100% the breadwinner and the woman doesn’t support you in any way shape or form. Like cooking or cleaning, bearing and raising the children, doing your laundry, fvcking you, providing companionship and emotional support.

If she was just a statue in the home, then of course you’re right. If she did any of the above, then it was a team effort and every member of the team deserves their share of the family money when the family splits apart. It’s simple logic.

In this context I think akon will be maybe not 100 % bread winner but far far the greater percentage as am sure so many men around the world other why would you marry us in the first place. Love? .

Raising children involve payment of bills food health care and school fees. Who do you think account for that. Taking care of a child is looking after them. Who do you really think does that. I mean really does it?. Yes u won't have a huz to clean if there was no huz in the first place. You have a role yes. But some roles are far more demanding than others. You understand this in formal set up. But deny it in domestic ones. Yet you all long for a rich man. You won't get any long enough with this mentality. You will get what you deserve...a continuous endless search.

As far the fcking
..We do the good fvking not you. You take it. There us a difference. It's why you scream. Am on you you beneath me. See how it's ordered even with sex?

cococandy:
Because men gain more from the relationship. That’s why they don’t want it to end. Milking the life out of women.
Once a woman leaves them, they’ll jump onto the next one is a matter of weeks.
Can’t sustain themselves by themselves.

Does that answer your question?

We gain by you eating my food living rent free. Clothes medical and participating in sex while screaming the most?


I wish yo the best on your quest to free lies from truth.

In terms of inner virtues you not the most dedicated. In this case loyal.

Why is it that it is women that always file for this divorce. I hardly ever hear a divorce that is initiated by men..


The more I grow the more I realize everything about women ba na mouth. Even their love na mouth. As soon as you enter relationship with them you go realize say na you get all the sacrifice. Some men are asshole. But the majority of women are babies in relationships. You just exist to Carter to them. Relationship are for adult not babes.

All this na for caf and fifa to make more money for themselves. Imagine all this long ass process just to get to a competition you can be removed in first round. Rubbish.


Nigeria like to put themselves anyway in complicated state.

So you no fit poison banana give am?

Which wan be tire..na you wan tire.

No lie for the people head. Everyone weh wan enter go proclaim himslef messiah.. wait until them enter.